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Twig · 02-22-2008, 03:10 PM

I guess this could work for married female webmasters, but Im mainly asking the men. How does your work affect your sex life with your counter part?
Is it different from when you first started working as an adult webmaster?

When I first started my wife wouldnt touch me haha. Took a couple days, but she realized I was wanting her, and not some fantasy porn star shit on my screen. Now its back to when we first got together. I spend half the day looking at porn, so Im horny as fuck so were always going at it now. Its not that I think about all the porn I saw that day, its just that I have been seeing it. Does that make sense?
Anyhow, just curious how it worked out for everyone else.

Sosa · 02-22-2008, 03:30 PM

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Twig · 02-22-2008, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Sosa

go jerk off

done.

OMG Jim · 02-22-2008, 03:40 PM

Your post make perfect sense Twig... "Its not that I think about all the porn I saw that day, its just that I have been seeing it."

Once the wife realizes that it's the sex that you want "From Her" and not from the ones you see online all day then you're IN so to speak. It is the constant DESIRE to have sex with your spouse/partner that keeps the sexual relationship alive and thriving.

My wife works with about 80 other women and you know they talk

She tells me that she gets more than any other women she works with cause most guys lose interest after they are married for a while... NOT ME!

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Miss Munki · 02-22-2008, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Twig

Its not that I think about all the porn I saw that day, its just that I have been seeing it. Does that make sense?

Yes, that does make sense. I'm usually focused on whatever I'm working on with the content, but by the end of the day that constant exposure often leaves me feeling kinda worked up. Since I'm already revved, it usually leads to the times when I jump him in the shower, kitchen, stairs, couch, office...

It's gotten hotter since we started working together, but it's always been pretty fucking hot

.

Violetta · 02-22-2008, 03:57 PM

my gf isnt a big fan of my work..

Kelli58 · 02-22-2008, 04:05 PM

As a female, 12 years into the business, I think it's sort of have a positive and a negative influence on me. In some ways it is great because I'm more open minded about sexual things but in other ways it is bad simply because I'm used to using words like penis, cock and big tits in every day work related vernacular, but obviously in the real world those kind of words aren't acceptable and I honestly have to be very careful about what I say when outside of work.

As far as my relationship goes, I think my husband loves the fact that I look at hot naked girls all day long and probably turns him on. :P He probably even more enjoys the fact that when we are having sex I always seem to have some fun new sex toy to pull out.

D Ghost · 02-22-2008, 04:30 PM

My g/f wasn't a big fan at first, now she learned to accept. Yeah as long as you show you are interested in your partner, they will understand

jakethedog · 02-22-2008, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

Yes, that does make sense. I'm usually focused on whatever I'm working on with the content, but by the end of the day that constant exposure often leaves me feeling kinda worked up. Since I'm already revved, it usually leads to the times when I jump him in the shower, kitchen, stairs, couch, office...

It's gotten hotter since we started working together, but it's always been pretty fucking hot

.

Time for a name change there missy .. "Munki's naughty girl" .. LOL .. good thing he is quick .. or by the sounds of it .. he wouldn't get any work done ..
*just teasin Munk*

Hell House Vic · 02-22-2008, 05:08 PM

My wife got me the job originally, by sending me a link to the want ad.

It's sort of embarassing sometimes for her... because we have a VERY wide range of friends. So sometimes it's a bit awkward when conversation turns to employment. And women are usually sensitive about that.

As for sex... there's always "how can you like me so much when you see all those hot women all day long."

my honest reply is: "honey, they are FUCKING GROSS. think about it for a second."

It's great for our sex life overall. I really didn't need any outside stimulus to be constantly ready, willing, eager and able - - - but it has an effect on her. I think it makes her horny just knowing what i do.

polish_aristocrat · 02-22-2008, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sosa

3.30 pm

go jerk off

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Originally Posted by Twig

3.33 pm

done.

that was fast !

nathan_madness · 02-22-2008, 05:37 PM

Hey,
Get her involved. My wife will sit there and categorise the content for me then load it up. As for the lovin after a day of porn all I have to say is damn!

Kevin Marx · 02-22-2008, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by nathan_madness

Hey,
Get her involved. My wife will sit there and categorise the content for me then load it up. As for the lovin after a day of porn all I have to say is damn!

Nathan... love the answer.

My wife shoots about 15% of our content, but she's also my photo editor/selector. She gets first crack at all the sets to rate them and then I go through them afterwards. I may change the opinion of about 5% of her choices.

She reviews all my videos, she selects probably 25% of the girls that I shoot with.

Most importantly, she realizes it's just a job..... but then again, she does love the fact that I get to take out my sexual tensions on her! LOL

Twig · 02-22-2008, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Kelli58

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As far as my relationship goes, I think my husband loves the fact that I look at hot naked girls all day long and probably turns him on. :P He probably even more enjoys the fact that when we are having sex I always seem to have some fun new sex toy to pull out.

haha, my wife needs to start working in the biz then!

Twig · 02-22-2008, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by nathan_madness

Hey,
Get her involved. My wife will sit there and categorise the content for me then load it up. As for the lovin after a day of porn all I have to say is damn!

I try to, but I think its still too early for her.

DigitalDruid · 02-22-2008, 10:54 PM

I shoot my stuff and the Mrs. Hates it. But to be honest after the first few months hearing my bitching about Flakey models and how they work she understands more now this is a real job mentally and porn = Cash and thats it. We have been able to move passed the T&A all day and still keep the T&A at night.

Spunky · 02-22-2008, 11:04 PM

Once a month is a blessing

munki · 02-22-2008, 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Munki's Girl

Yes, that does make sense. I'm usually focused on whatever I'm working on with the content, but by the end of the day that constant exposure often leaves me feeling kinda worked up. Since I'm already revved, it usually leads to the times when I jump him in the shower, kitchen, stairs, couch, office...

It's gotten hotter since we started working together, but it's always been pretty fucking hot

.

I love my job...

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Originally Posted by jakethedog

Time for a name change there missy .. "Munki's naughty girl" .. LOL .. good thing he is quick .. or by the sounds of it .. he wouldn't get any work done ..
*just teasin Munk*

tony286 · 02-22-2008, 11:14 PM

Maybe its because Ive been shooting now for almost 8yrs. Shooting and working with porn is just that work doesnt do it for me. I cant watch porn anymore and I used to love it ,now I tear it apart. lol My wife and I have been swingers for 9yrs married for 8, it always been a separate thing for me.
Maybe its working in some form of adult for over 22 yrs a naked body is so what to me.

SpeakEasy · 02-23-2008, 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

Once a month is a blessing

As an old timer in the biz I have to agree....it's sad but true..

Twig · 02-23-2008, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by tony404

Maybe its because Ive been shooting now for almost 8yrs. Shooting and working with porn is just that work doesnt do it for me. I cant watch porn anymore and I used to love it ,now I tear it apart. lol My wife and I have been swingers for 9yrs married for 8, it always been a separate thing for me.
Maybe its working in some form of adult for over 22 yrs a naked body is so what to me.

Im scared of that day :X

lbc213 · 02-23-2008, 07:24 AM

Porn does not do it for me anymore really. It has to be something really special (like vikki vette :p) to get me going. When I first started doing this I couldn't make a gallery without stopping for a five knuckle shuffle.

Twig · 02-23-2008, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by lbc213

Porn does not do it for me anymore really. It has to be something really special (like vikki vette :p) to get me going. When I first started doing this I couldn't make a gallery without stopping for a five knuckle shuffle.

Im slowly working away from that mode lol.

CumSlutKylie · 02-23-2008, 07:48 AM

If this sheds any light on the subject posted - YEY! We are a couple, my idea right from the start, I dont have a jealous bone in my body. I had to actually push him into it more or less ;-) just something to think about ;-)

LiveDose · 02-23-2008, 08:47 AM

Very interesting answers in this thread.

Twig · 02-23-2008, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by CumSlutKylie

If this sheds any light on the subject posted - YEY! We are a couple, my idea right from the start, I dont have a jealous bone in my body. I had to actually push him into it more or less ;-) just something to think about ;-)

kylie, might want to fix the link in your sig.

Twig · 02-23-2008, 01:53 PM

anybody else?

02-22-2008, 03:10 PM	#1
Twig Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: ICQ - 703894 Posts: 1,949	Hey Married Folk... Got a Question! I guess this could work for married female webmasters, but Im mainly asking the men. How does your work affect your sex life with your counter part? Is it different from when you first started working as an adult webmaster? When I first started my wife wouldnt touch me haha. Took a couple days, but she realized I was wanting her, and not some fantasy porn star shit on my screen. Now its back to when we first got together. I spend half the day looking at porn, so Im horny as fuck so were always going at it now. Its not that I think about all the porn I saw that day, its just that I have been seeing it. Does that make sense? Anyhow, just curious how it worked out for everyone else. __________________

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Kelli58 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 2,129	As a female, 12 years into the business, I think it's sort of have a positive and a negative influence on me. In some ways it is great because I'm more open minded about sexual things but in other ways it is bad simply because I'm used to using words like penis, cock and big tits in every day work related vernacular, but obviously in the real world those kind of words aren't acceptable and I honestly have to be very careful about what I say when outside of work. As far as my relationship goes, I think my husband loves the fact that I look at hot naked girls all day long and probably turns him on. :P He probably even more enjoys the fact that when we are having sex I always seem to have some fun new sex toy to pull out.

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