Your post make perfect sense Twig... "Its not that I think about all the porn I saw that day, its just that I have been seeing it."
Once the wife realizes that it's the sex that you want "From Her" and not from the ones you see online all day then you're IN so to speak. It is the constant DESIRE to have sex with your spouse/partner that keeps the sexual relationship alive and thriving.
My wife works with about 80 other women and you know they talk
She tells me that she gets more than any other women she works with cause most guys lose interest after they are married for a while... NOT ME!
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