When is it right to leave the girl you've been with for 5 years? - GoFuckYourself.com

who · 12-22-2007, 03:41 PM

Dumb mind want to know

bushwacker · 12-22-2007, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by who

Dumb mind want to know

Definitely not around the holidays.

Barefootsies · 12-22-2007, 03:42 PM

When you start asking the following question...

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Originally Posted by who

When is it right to leave the girl you've been with for 5 years?

L-Pink · 12-22-2007, 03:43 PM

When you come home early and catch her doing ass to mouth with some black guy.

StuartD · 12-22-2007, 03:48 PM

Wait another 5... then it'll be the right time.

Mr Pheer · 12-22-2007, 03:54 PM

if you're feeling this way then do it as soon as possible instead of waiting around.. Its gonna hurt no matter when you do it so just get it over with.

Drake · 12-22-2007, 03:55 PM

Don't leave her. Have her leave you. Let her "catch" you with a South American ladyboy. She'll be out the door in a hurry.

rml1608 · 12-22-2007, 03:56 PM

Just keep asking yourself the same question, be an asshole long enough to her and she will leave you ... Makes it much simpler.

Akwardly enough, the sex that was bad then becomes good and you want to hook up with her again after your good bye fuck

Life is weird

baddog · 12-22-2007, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

When you start asking the following question...

Iron Fist · 12-22-2007, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike33

Don't leave her. Have her leave you. Let her "catch" you with a South American ladyboy. She'll be out the door in a hurry.

Socks · 12-22-2007, 04:18 PM

once you've thought about leaving, you've already left.

F-U-Jimmy · 12-22-2007, 04:20 PM

Life is way too short Jump ship today and move on to the next one

who · 12-22-2007, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

if you're feeling this way then do it as soon as possible instead of waiting around.. Its gonna hurt no matter when you do it so just get it over with.

I think that's the fairest answer..

chupacabra · 12-22-2007, 04:22 PM

this topic struck a little too close to home for me this morning, except we are talking 12 years here, not 5... rough and confusing times, so any actual input would actually be welcome at this end too..

Vick! · 12-22-2007, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Socks

once you've thought about leaving, you've already left.

testpie · 12-22-2007, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by who

When is it right to leave the girl you've been with for 5 years?

When she finally agrees to sex but unveils a dick in her pants.

Socks · 12-22-2007, 04:30 PM

Here's my wisdom.

If you're a part of a long relationship and you don't like where it's going, or don't feel right, why are you slaving over this decision yourself?

If you care at all about fairness, you should be discussing your feelings with your partner. Hint: they might even feel the same things you're feeling! You're not exactly invisible, and whose better at reading your body language than your partner?

The problem is that you've come so far with your thoughts on your own, traveling along the journey by your damned self. Of course you feel apart from your partner, you started walking in the other direction a while ago and didn't even give them a heads up.

Do yourself and your partner a favour and talk to them about how you feel. If it's going to get fixed, it will have to be fixed together anyways.

DaddyHalbucks · 12-22-2007, 08:05 PM

I agree. Talking is the best thing to do in a situation like this.

munki · 12-22-2007, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Socks

Here's my wisdom.

If you're a part of a long relationship and you don't like where it's going, or don't feel right, why are you slaving over this decision yourself?

If you care at all about fairness, you should be discussing your feelings with your partner. Hint: they might even feel the same things you're feeling! You're not exactly invisible, and whose better at reading your body language than your partner?

The problem is that you've come so far with your thoughts on your own, traveling along the journey by your damned self. Of course you feel apart from your partner, you started walking in the other direction a while ago and didn't even give them a heads up.

Do yourself and your partner a favour and talk to them about how you feel. If it's going to get fixed, it will have to be fixed together anyways.

Spunky · 12-22-2007, 08:11 PM

When it's over.it's over

Ayla_SquareTurtle · 12-22-2007, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Socks

Here's my wisdom.

If you're a part of a long relationship and you don't like where it's going, or don't feel right, why are you slaving over this decision yourself?

If you care at all about fairness, you should be discussing your feelings with your partner. Hint: they might even feel the same things you're feeling! You're not exactly invisible, and whose better at reading your body language than your partner?

The problem is that you've come so far with your thoughts on your own, traveling along the journey by your damned self. Of course you feel apart from your partner, you started walking in the other direction a while ago and didn't even give them a heads up.

Do yourself and your partner a favour and talk to them about how you feel. If it's going to get fixed, it will have to be fixed together anyways.

Some pretty good points here. I've always wondered how people can stay in relationships they aren't happy in for a long time without the other person realizing it. It must be exhausting to have to keep up the act all the time.

tiger · 12-22-2007, 08:47 PM

Probably about 4 1/2 years ago.

collegeboobies · 12-22-2007, 08:49 PM

5 years ago

selena · 12-22-2007, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Socks

once you've thought about leaving, you've already left.

MarkMan · 12-22-2007, 10:08 PM

anytime before you got kids with them

tony286 · 12-22-2007, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

if you're feeling this way then do it as soon as possible instead of waiting around.. Its gonna hurt no matter when you do it so just get it over with.

very well said.

nico-t · 12-22-2007, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by bushwacker

Definitely not around the holidays.

who cares about the goddamn holidays?

Horny Dude · 12-23-2007, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

When you come home early and catch her doing ass to mouth with some black guy.

No matter how long you have been together its time to cut out!

Sebastian Sands · 12-23-2007, 12:43 AM

5 years usually

sortie · 12-23-2007, 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

When you come home early and catch her doing ass to mouth with some black guy.

Is it ok if I watch a few times first before I leave?

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 12-23-2007, 12:49 AM

Stay another 5 and see.

BLUE RIBBON · 12-23-2007, 12:54 AM

I like big butts.

Bojangles · 12-23-2007, 12:55 AM

After Christmas, that way she gets you an awesome present. Don't get her one, tho. She'll get pissed off enough to leave after that. Either that or just take that shit and run.

cheekycherry · 12-23-2007, 01:39 AM

I knew after 1 it wasn't right... it took me another 9 wasted years to end it.

End it. Right now. There's NEVER a right time.

They will say "but Christmas".... "but my dog died"... "but blah blah"

Do it today.

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Socks Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: Toronto Posts: 8,475	Here's my wisdom. If you're a part of a long relationship and you don't like where it's going, or don't feel right, why are you slaving over this decision yourself? If you care at all about fairness, you should be discussing your feelings with your partner. Hint: they might even feel the same things you're feeling! You're not exactly invisible, and whose better at reading your body language than your partner? The problem is that you've come so far with your thoughts on your own, traveling along the journey by your damned self. Of course you feel apart from your partner, you started walking in the other direction a while ago and didn't even give them a heads up. Do yourself and your partner a favour and talk to them about how you feel. If it's going to get fixed, it will have to be fixed together anyways.

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Bojangles Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 5,419	After Christmas, that way she gets you an awesome present. Don't get her one, tho. She'll get pissed off enough to leave after that. Either that or just take that shit and run.

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cheekycherry Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: N/A Posts: 1,703	I knew after 1 it wasn't right... it took me another 9 wasted years to end it. End it. Right now. There's NEVER a right time. They will say "but Christmas".... "but my dog died"... "but blah blah" Do it today.