When is it right to leave the girl you've been with for 5 years?
 

Dumb mind want to know :(

Definitely not around the holidays.

When you start asking the following question...


:2 cents:

When you come home early and catch her doing ass to mouth with some black guy.

Wait another 5... then it'll be the right time.

if you're feeling this way then do it as soon as possible instead of waiting around.. Its gonna hurt no matter when you do it so just get it over with.

Don't leave her. Have her leave you. Let her "catch" you with a South American ladyboy. She'll be out the door in a hurry.

Just keep asking yourself the same question, be an asshole long enough to her and she will leave you ... Makes it much simpler.

Akwardly enough, the sex that was bad then becomes good and you want to hook up with her again after your good bye fuck

Life is weird

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once you've thought about leaving, you've already left.

Life is way too short Jump ship today and move on to the next one

I think that's the fairest answer.. :(

this topic struck a little too close to home for me this morning, except we are talking 12 years here, not 5... rough and confusing times, so any actual input would actually be welcome at this end too..

:(

:2 cents:

When she finally agrees to sex but unveils a dick in her pants.

Here's my wisdom.

If you're a part of a long relationship and you don't like where it's going, or don't feel right, why are you slaving over this decision yourself?

If you care at all about fairness, you should be discussing your feelings with your partner. Hint: they might even feel the same things you're feeling! You're not exactly invisible, and whose better at reading your body language than your partner?

The problem is that you've come so far with your thoughts on your own, traveling along the journey by your damned self. Of course you feel apart from your partner, you started walking in the other direction a while ago and didn't even give them a heads up.

Do yourself and your partner a favour and talk to them about how you feel. If it's going to get fixed, it will have to be fixed together anyways.

I agree. Talking is the best thing to do in a situation like this.

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When it's over.it's over

Some pretty good points here. I've always wondered how people can stay in relationships they aren't happy in for a long time without the other person realizing it. It must be exhausting to have to keep up the act all the time.

Probably about 4 1/2 years ago. :)

5 years ago

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anytime before you got kids with them

very well said.

who cares about the goddamn holidays?

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh No matter how long you have been together its time to cut out!

5 years usually

Is it ok if I watch a few times first before I leave? :1orglaugh

Stay another 5 and see.

I like big butts.

After Christmas, that way she gets you an awesome present. Don't get her one, tho. She'll get pissed off enough to leave after that. Either that or just take that shit and run.

I knew after 1 it wasn't right... it took me another 9 wasted years to end it.

End it. Right now. There's NEVER a right time.

They will say "but Christmas".... "but my dog died"... "but blah blah"

Do it today.