Originally Posted by Socks

Here's my wisdom.

If you're a part of a long relationship and you don't like where it's going, or don't feel right, why are you slaving over this decision yourself?

If you care at all about fairness, you should be discussing your feelings with your partner. Hint: they might even feel the same things you're feeling! You're not exactly invisible, and whose better at reading your body language than your partner?

The problem is that you've come so far with your thoughts on your own, traveling along the journey by your damned self. Of course you feel apart from your partner, you started walking in the other direction a while ago and didn't even give them a heads up.

Do yourself and your partner a favour and talk to them about how you feel. If it's going to get fixed, it will have to be fixed together anyways.