I do not believe that I have ever mentioned work, and pretty sure the only one that others have said "Listen to baddog he knows what hes talking about."

I gave you good advice, the same as I would my own son, and here you are, on GFY on a Friday night. :helpme

yeah.. i went out for a few hours..
then decided to be alone a bit.. ill be out tomorrow though no question about it

How did that work out for you?

Well hanging out with my friends was nice it distracted me.. and being alone just let me think and start thinking positively about this.

So, NYC is the "city that never sleeps" I heard. You have to go to work in the morning or something?

The city might not sleep but i do

pussy :)

Getting laid and keeping yourself busy is the best you can do man.

I think now is the time to plow through as much pussy as you can.

Update: She called me to ask how i was doing i didnt really respond much. Then before hanging up she said she loved me. WTF is that shit..

Note: she called my house phone, and i was on the only phone without caller ID

best way to get over one girl is to get under another.

Now she is playing games, next call say never call me again and hang up. Fuck her.

posted naked pics of her here..send her the link...if she comes back to you she will love you forever...if she doenst atleast we get to see her tits :)

heh im not that vindictive.. plus she is starting modeling and as much as i hate her i dont want to ruin that for her

Either she is playing games, or she realized after a night of partying that it makes more sense to have you there to foot the bill. Paying for your own drinks and cab rides suck when you are used to getting them for free.

Do not be suckered in. My earlier advice if "wait until you are 25" still holds true. Whether you want to admit it or not, she did you a favor, now move on.

BTW, you can block her number on your land line. Contact your phone company if you don't know how.

Im starting to think that now.. i should wait and i would be saving myself a ton of money, no more purchasing coach bags or expensive jewelry..

I should slap you with a trout for having done so already.

Congrats from Me and my british friend

This is it.. QFT. Girls are not that complicated...they only make it complicated so they don't hurt your feelings. But they wanna fuck someone new and thats cool.... go find someone yourself and have a good time.

She's trying not to feel guilty for fucking that other guy.... "I love you" is an easy out.

go find someone else! :thumbsup

Gfy is probably not the best place for advice...seems most people think the meaning of life is fucking as many women as you can.

I Agree :2 cents:

yeah im starting to realize this now..

been there, don't that... work and focus on yourself.

SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE :thumbsup

drink beer and get laid and find a better one

not a bad plan..
we have so many mutual friends and they all ask about her and i now and what happened, very annoying

Its times like this that make you a man, yeah its hard but you just gotta sack up and deal with it. You'll be better for it, less naive. Like others have said no contact - if she calls you again hangup.

Also not sure of your past experience, but for me every girl I've been with has been better than the last - in other words, the next one will make it all worthwhile. Hang in there.

Don't lose faith, another good looking girl will show up ...

i decided im not going to talk to her and im going to move on

I will believe it when I see it.

dont really know how you will see it.. but ill keep you updated

work... keep yourself busy... and, when you're ready, pick up a one-nighter, and you'll be feeling better that next morning.

I will see it when you post that you are back together and had a great time in Cancun.

I assure you wont be seeing that.. you have my word if anything does happen i will tell you. even though it wont.
I already got my bud to replace her to cancun, and best of all he will pay for his spot, so it was like i never bought her the ticket/hotel at all! just need to work on room arrangements :Oh crap

I had nearly the same story, now 5 month has passed and i feel much better. So you need time.
P.S. But I still love her (i mean my ex girlfriend)

Keep the one bed, you will be horny by then.

are you confusing me for boyalley?

hey, good luck. I'm sorry you have to go through this but one day you'll wake up and realize she did you a favor! :)

Two week vacation in Philippines or Thailand may cure what ails you. Have some fun. Don't "hate" her. Thank her for the good times and move on.