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BlackCrayon 10-19-2007 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260213)
She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

Yeah, its a bad idea. As much as its driving you crazy, this usually just pushes girls away even further. I know, i've done it. For whatever reason acting like you don't give a shit seems to drive them nuts. Is she much younger than you? Does she have a lot of single friends? She could be just thinking the grass is greener on the other side but might change her mind, though probably not a good idea to take her back if her reason for breaking up is a 2 year relationship is "too long".

Beaver Bob 10-19-2007 04:04 PM

no dude, of course you want to talk to her. thats what sucks about it. believe me dude i been there. no good can come of it tho. if she wants you back she will come to you. otherwise its best to just move on.

Ditosta 10-19-2007 04:07 PM

That sux dude! but SofiaRain sends her love!
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Persius 10-19-2007 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260213)
She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.


This is bullshit ... if she really wanted to be with you she wouldnt want to be single. My buddy just had a serious 2 yr relationship end bcuz the girl wanted to "figure herself out" too much pressure on a relationship.. etc etc bullshit the other day i saw her with this guy all over him... Fuck em....

1. change your phone number
2. delete her outta of there
3. do not contact her
4. Go have sex with as many girls as u can thats how youll get over it.

Listen to baddog he knows what hes talking about. :thumbsup

BigDeanEvans 10-19-2007 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260169)
Not much of a "clubber" myself, she is the one who goes to all the clubs like bunaglo eight and what not

dont you have to be 21 to get in there? how old are you?

boneprone 10-19-2007 04:09 PM

I fucked her.

baddog 10-19-2007 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260213)
She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long.

Sounds like she is pretty smart. Now, follow my advice and you can be smart like her.

Herb Kornfield 10-19-2007 04:10 PM

Time to focus on you and what the next step is in YOUR life.

My advice - Get together with some good friends and tear the city up tonight :thumbsup

tony286 10-19-2007 04:17 PM

I have to say the having sex is a good way to heal. One of my breakups, she said we are done. In two weeks I fucked 10 different girls on telepersonals lol, old ,young, fat ,skinny black and white. It gave me the confidence to go forward and really forget about her. The first break up I stood home and all I did was think about it.

Jim_Gunn 10-19-2007 04:35 PM

Concentrate on making money, reconnect with your single pals and and get yourself some fresh pussy. Problem solved.

xNetworx 10-19-2007 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260010)
Anyone have any advice for me to get over the breakup? I've had a relationship nearly this long and i have usually been the one ending the relationship..

Lets see a photo of you. I will be able to give you better advice based on that. Shallow, but true.

KBoogie 10-19-2007 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn (Post 13260430)
Concentrate on making money, reconnect with your single pals and and get yourself some fresh pussy. Problem solved.


What he said!

Mr Pheer 10-19-2007 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260043)
thanks for the support guys.. man it really sucks being at this end of a breakup. the worst part is i still want to be with her knowing she doesnt want to be with me..

get over that wanting to be with her shit, right now

after that you'll be fine, trust me

SCtyger 10-19-2007 04:48 PM

best way to get over old p8ssy is with new p8ssy.

themachinelavene 10-19-2007 04:56 PM

shit happens dude get over it

Fap 10-19-2007 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by themachinelavene (Post 13260521)
shit happens dude get over it

i appreciate the heart to heart we just had

jakethedog 10-19-2007 05:11 PM

2 options ..

option 1: sit around all day sulking .. cry a bit .. look at all the stuff you have to remind her of here again .. sulk .. post on a public forum what a panty waste you are ..jerk off to your phone pix of her .. sulk some more .. do all of this repeatedly for weeks... all the way calling and whining about how much you love her .. yada yada ..

option 2: go have a shower .. beat off to your fav smut you hid from her ..do some proper primping ..the shit you probably forgot to do the last year of your relationship ... call your buddies tell them your free to go out and do what ever the fuck you actually feel like doing ... it's Friday night .. go out have some fun...stay away from whores .. they will only fuck you up more at this point .. go do some of the shit you did before you got wrapped up in this whole mess called a relationship ..

didn't mean to sound bitter .. but i am sure there is more to it if she just wanted to be single .. usually a new guy .. so move the fuck on

HEAT 10-19-2007 05:19 PM

welcome to life.
having a someone hurt you reminds you that you're alive. It also makes you revel in the better ones that will come along.

you're young man.
work harder, make more money, exercise, dress up, enjoy your single life.
and you will find better one. I promise. :)

Brother Bilo 10-19-2007 05:21 PM

You could always just go gay. Seems to work out for teh boyalley. Maybe you guys should hook up for the weekend.

bDok 10-19-2007 05:29 PM

become attached to nothing in life that you can't walk away from in 30 seconds if you spot the "Heat" around the corner.

:thumbsup

frostyimpressions 10-19-2007 05:34 PM

A train full of goths would definately ruin my day. Just let time heal wounds. And think of all the time and money you are saving now that that bitch is not in your life anymore.

shekinah 10-19-2007 06:06 PM

Forget about her man, it's hard but it's the best thing to do... Thanks goodness your girl break up with you face to face.. Not every girl does that:thumbsup

Jarmusch 10-19-2007 06:17 PM

Get into some real heavy drinking and it'll soon go away.

Brother Bilo 10-19-2007 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by shekinah (Post 13260906)
Forget about her man, it's hard but it's the best thing to do... Thanks goodness your girl break up with you face to face.. Not every girl does that:thumbsup

Ya, I got it over text one time. It actually worked out pretty good, because I laughed more that she did it over text then I focused on getting dumped.

Dumb bitch.:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Herb Kornfield 10-19-2007 06:22 PM

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0TLA_f7S0cw



classic

georgeyw 10-19-2007 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260213)
She told me she just wanted to be single because shes been in a relationship for so long. I confirmed with people that she wasnt interested in any other guys, that was my first thought. But i need more closure and i want to see her in person again so she can explain to me better. But i know this is probably a bad idea.

You're never ever going to get the closure you think you need. I know it's hard and feels impossible, but just stay away from her completely.

There is absolutely nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better. It just takes time to get over these things. It's natural to feel upset and miss someone who you have spent so much time with and more importantly loved.

So don't contact her, don't make snide comments to friends about her, just get on with your life. Maybe make some changes in your life such as eat better, get fit what ever. Just keep your mind busy with friends and in a few months you will find that you feel a whole lot better.

Spunky 10-19-2007 06:32 PM

Jump on that horse and ride again..plenty of fish in the sea

dig420 10-19-2007 07:45 PM

banthis, it happens to all of us at least once, and it makes you a better human being in the long run for having gone thru it. Just keep reminding yourself that it gets better with time.

Also, the best cure for the old woman is a new woman, so if you can summon up the energy get out there and find yourself one :)

dig420 10-19-2007 07:48 PM

and if u got any xanax, take one. Or two :)

Fap 10-19-2007 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by georgeyw (Post 13261043)
You're never ever going to get the closure you think you need. I know it's hard and feels impossible, but just stay away from her completely.

There is absolutely nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better. It just takes time to get over these things. It's natural to feel upset and miss someone who you have spent so much time with and more importantly loved.

So don't contact her, don't make snide comments to friends about her, just get on with your life. Maybe make some changes in your life such as eat better, get fit what ever. Just keep your mind busy with friends and in a few months you will find that you feel a whole lot better.

That makes a lot of sense.. i'll try my best to follow your advice

Grapesoda 10-19-2007 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by u-Bob (Post 13260027)
work, work, work.

that would be my suggestion, then buy some quality pussy with the money. and then more work work work... more quality pussy... etc

BannerAnt 10-19-2007 09:23 PM

as shitty as it is to say and hear...time, that's the only thing that will help. Hard breakups are a bitch.

Lamis 10-19-2007 09:26 PM

work work work...

Grapesoda 10-19-2007 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by banthis (Post 13260257)
the sad part is which i know i will lose some respect right now for saying this.. i still want to talk to her i want her in my life because she played such a big role.

But i know i have to resist, i dont want to send her the message im okw ith what she did

you just want her back because she dumped you... no other reason. move on with your life, you don't need somebody to hold your hand and tell you everything is gonna be okay... you need to make some money. girls come and go. that's the whole truth of the deal. it's not 1740 anymore where you only see 3-4 girls in your whole fucking life. wish her well, wish for her everything that you wish for yourself. great sex, great job, great family and friends and move on. here's the biggie!!!! are you ready!!!! REJECTION IS PROTECTION. always remember that one. -bmb

Fap 10-19-2007 10:23 PM

everyone keeps saying work.. that is the last thing i want to do

Phoenix 10-19-2007 10:25 PM

work and forget her

party hard on halloween...and erase her from your phone erase her email address


etc etc

VeriSexy 10-19-2007 10:33 PM

Time to bang any many chicks you passed up on before

LiveDose 10-19-2007 10:36 PM

Fuck fuck fuck... and hit the titty bars.

Let your good friends know asap and they should take care of you.

Good luck man this will pass...

gecko 10-19-2007 10:48 PM

Time to go play the field

Fap 10-19-2007 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose (Post 13261647)
Let your good friends know asap and they should take care of you.

Thats whats going on now


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