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notabook 04-06-2007 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211616)
Actually fucking men in the ass WAS illegal in most of the USA until 2003 so your counter-argument is weak. Technically most homosexuals in the United States should be convicted of that crime.

It was illegal in many parts of America for blacks and whites to get married. Humanity grew up a little ? as they did when they revoked such an archaic biblical sodomy law. We still have quite a bit of growing up to do.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211616)
Actually fucking men in the ass WAS illegal in most of the USA until 2003 so your counter-argument is weak. Technically most homosexuals in the United States should be convicted of that crime.

Women voting, blacks having rights, and freedom of speech were all illegal at one time in this country.

You would also be a criminal yourself if you've ever received blowjob in your life.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211632)
Women voting, blacks having rights, and freedom of speech were all illegal at one time in this country. You would also be a criminal yourself if you've ever received blowjob in your life.

Dude look your counter-argument to my pedophilia-homosexual-necrophilia connection was that two of those were involving illegal acts, I replied that up until 2003 so was homosexuality and all you can do is come back and talk about other old laws? So by YOUR comparison eventually pedophilia and necrophilia would be acceptable? You make no fucking sense.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by notabook (Post 12211629)
It was illegal in many parts of America for blacks and whites to get married. Humanity grew up a little ? as they did when they revoked such an archaic biblical sodomy law. We still have quite a bit of growing up to do.

What laws you gonna get rid of next? Shall we grow up and realize that fucking dead people is cool too? Get fucking real dude. Homosexual acts WERE illegal for a long time.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:20 PM

Oh and in response to BoyAlleys thread
http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=721628
I suggest we celebrate homosexual soldier got murdered day on July 6th!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barry_Winchell
Woohoo so much fun!

notabook 04-06-2007 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211648)
What laws you gonna get rid of next? Shall we grow up and realize that fucking dead people is cool too? Get fucking real dude. Homosexual acts WERE illegal for a long time.

Receiving a blowjob also constituted as "sodomy" and was illegal in many states for a LONG time. Did that make it right to make it illegal?

Splum 04-06-2007 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by notabook (Post 12211661)
Receiving a blowjob also constituted as "sodomy" and was illegal in many states for a LONG time. Did that make it right to make it illegal?

Lol your question is funny, I am not talking about right and wrong I am talking about what the laws were. All sexual deviancies will be a moral call by society as a whole.

notabook 04-06-2007 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211697)
Lol your question is funny, I am not talking about right and wrong I am talking about what the laws were. All sexual deviancies will be a moral call by society as a whole.

Exactly right, and time and time again it is shown how the ?moral call? can hurt so many innocent people until such judgments are overturned by society itself, many times by the minority (judges/judicial decisions). Two gays of consensual age fucking each other doesn?t hurt anyone, just as a black man and white woman getting married hurt no one. There is a reason that such stupid archaic laws have been and are being repealed ? they have no logical reasoning behind them and only serve to disparage the minority. As odd as it sounds, these small steps show that humanity isn?t completely fucked in the head and can actually change over time.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by notabook (Post 12211708)
Exactly right, and time and time again it is shown how the “moral call” can hurt so many innocent people until such judgments are overturned by society itself, many times by the minority (judges/judicial decisions). Two gays of consensual age fucking each other doesn’t hurt anyone, just as a black man and white woman getting married hurt no one. There is a reason that such stupid archaic laws have been and are being repealed – they have no logical reasoning behind them and only serve to disparage the minority. As odd as it sounds, these small steps show that humanity isn’t completely fucked in the head and can actually change over time.

Fucking a dead person doesnt hurt anyone? Fucking animals doesnt hurt anyone?

notabook 04-06-2007 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211711)
Fucking a dead person doesnt hurt anyone? Fucking animals doesnt hurt anyone?

A dead person cannot consent. An animal cannot consent. Two gay people can. :thumbsup

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211642)
Dude look your counter-argument to my pedophilia-homosexual-necrophilia connection was that two of those were involving illegal acts, I replied that up until 2003 so was homosexuality and all you can do is come back and talk about other old laws? So by YOUR comparison eventually pedophilia and necrophilia would be acceptable? You make no fucking sense.

Sodomy caused no harm to anyone on this planet. Necrophilia and Pedophilia do. I stated that this country has had a lot of ass backwards laws in its past, including the sodomy one. I don't think you can classify sexual assault of a minor and fucking a corpse as the same thing as two consenting adults pleasuring each other in the form they want to.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by notabook (Post 12211717)
A dead person cannot consent. An animal cannot consent. Two gay people can. :thumbsup

So should consent is the basis of legality?

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211648)
Homosexual acts WERE illegal for a long time.

Sodomy is not a strictly homosexual act. It involves oral and anal sex. In fact, it also includes masturbation.

So you are in the adult industry, and want masturbation to be made illegal? Wow.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211724)
Sodomy caused no harm to anyone on this planet. Necrophilia and Pedophilia do. I stated that this country has had a lot of ass backwards laws in its past, including the sodomy one. I don't think you can classify sexual assault of a minor and fucking a corpse as the same thing as two consenting adults pleasuring each other in the form they want to.

Again laws are subjective based on the moral vibe of society as a whole, I wont go into history but even necrophilia was acceptable in some societies.

Lets get back to the issue, you said "hormones" cause homosexuality, so do they cause other things such as pedophilia? Also I would like you to give me a scientific source for your theory if thats not too much trouble.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211731)
Sodomy is not a strictly homosexual act. It involves oral and anal sex. In fact, it also includes masturbation. So you are in the adult industry, and want masturbation to be made illegal? Wow.

Ok you need to stop putting words in my mouth. NEVER in this ENTIRE thread did I say that it should be illegal. This is the second time youve done this, it really is quite perplexing that you are reading into my "motives" for this argument.

notabook 04-06-2007 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211727)
So should consent is the basis of legality?

When it comes to sex, of course. There are other considerations (such as harmful intent) but consent is the primary concern when it comes to sex. For example, a man who consensually allows another man to cut off his penis then eat it in an act of cannibalism would not be lawful even if both adults consented for obvious reasons. For the vast majority of cases though, adults of legal age of any sexual orientation can legally fuck each other because they can consent.

Splum 04-06-2007 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by notabook (Post 12211747)
When it comes to sex, of course. There are other considerations (such as harmful intent) but consent is the primary concern when it comes to sex. For example, a man who consensually allows another man to cut off his penis then eat it in an act of cannibalism would not be lawful even if both adults consented for obvious reasons.

Lol ok so consent isnt really the basis its just one guideline, you dont see where this is going? :)

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211733)
Again laws are subjective based on the moral vibe of society as a whole, I wont go into history but even necrophilia was acceptable in some societies.

Lets get back to the issue, you said "hormones" cause homosexuality, so do they cause other things such as pedophilia? Also I would like you to give me a scientific source for your theory if thats not too much trouble.

Hormones cause sexual arousal. I don't have my high school Biology book handy, but running a search for peptide hormones should provide you a plethora of results to research. It's the same stuff that major pharmaceutical companies are using in erectile dysfunction and sexual arousal disorder. I thought the debate on what causes sexual arousal in humans was closed a long time ago in the scientific community?

tony286 04-06-2007 09:56 PM

why do you waste your time going back and forth with him.If you dont hit the ball back he will go away.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211736)
Ok you need to stop putting words in my mouth. NEVER in this ENTIRE thread did I say that it should be illegal. This is the second time youve done this, it really is quite perplexing that you are reading into my "motives" for this argument.

Perhaps someone logged into your account and wrote the following:

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211736)
Technically most homosexuals in the United States should be convicted of that crime.


notabook 04-06-2007 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211751)
Lol ok so consent isnt really the basis its just one guideline, you dont see where this is going? :)

Consent is the primary guideline and it should always be. But you can't have it being an end-all-be-all thing. If a chick and I consented to cut off each others arms while fucking, we couldn't do that lawfully because of harmful intent. The fucking, sure. Sliced off limbs, nada. Two gays consenting to sex is lawful because there is no harmful intent. Both people (or multiple people if you are into that sorta thing) can consent to have sex, and since there is no harmful intent there is no logical reason to deny them. At this point you can only really fall back onto a crutch of religious morality since there is no logical reason to prevent two consenting adults, regardless of sexual orientation, from having sex.

Gaybucks 04-06-2007 09:59 PM

At the risk of taking the thread back on topic:

The issue of sexual abuse and its correlation with sexuality is a complex one, and it's one I've actually spent some time studying (i.e., looking at clinical studies and references in the psychological literature)

Homosexuality (in the sense of sexual *orientation*) is genetically based and therefore hardwired, and pretty much no one except the Christian wingnuts disputes this any more. There's some pretty strong evidence for a biological basis.

HOWEVER, there is also a class of people with a sexual *preference* that may have been altered as a result of abuse they suffered. This can apply to both men and women, and comprises a very small percentage of the population who is attracted to same-sex relationships. However, most of the people that fall into this category have other issues that prevent them from having healthy sexual relationships of *any* type (same or opposite sex), which are secondary issues that appear to be caused by the abuse they suffered.

In other words, nearly all gays and lesbians are hardwired to be that way, but a small percentage of people may find themselves uncomfortable in relationships with the opposite sex as a result of abuse they suffered, but these people are not so much attracted to the same sex as they are repelled by the opposite sex as a result of the abuse.

Hardwired homosexuals cannot be made heterosexual any more than hardwired heterosexuals can be made homosexual.

Those of you who are straight guys, ask yourself if you think you could get therapy and learn to enjoy sucking dick and taking it up the ass from a guy. My guess is probably not. It's exactly the same for probably 99% of gay men and lesbians.

Splum 04-06-2007 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211772)
Perhaps someone logged into your account and wrote the following:

I said technically they should be convicted based on the law, I didnt say I personally condone that law idiot.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211813)
I said technically they should be convicted based on the law, I didnt say I personally condone that law idiot.

Your post was made after someone pointed out that sodomy was legal. Try again. :error

Splum 04-06-2007 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Gaybucks (Post 12211782)
Homosexuality (in the sense of sexual *orientation*) is genetically based and therefore hardwired, and pretty much no one except the Christian wingnuts disputes this any more. There's some pretty strong evidence for a biological basis.

I sure would like to see "hard" scientific *proof* of this, and dont get excited because I used the word "hard".

notabook 04-06-2007 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Gaybucks (Post 12211782)
At the risk of taking the thread back on topic:

The issue of sexual abuse and its correlation with sexuality is a complex one, and it's one I've actually spent some time studying (i.e., looking at clinical studies and references in the psychological literature)

Homosexuality (in the sense of sexual *orientation*) is genetically based and therefore hardwired, and pretty much no one except the Christian wingnuts disputes this any more. There's some pretty strong evidence for a biological basis.

HOWEVER, there is also a class of people with a sexual *preference* that may have been altered as a result of abuse they suffered. This can apply to both men and women, and comprises a very small percentage of the population who is attracted to same-sex relationships. However, most of the people that fall into this category have other issues that prevent them from having healthy sexual relationships of *any* type (same or opposite sex), which are secondary issues that appear to be caused by the abuse they suffered.

In other words, nearly all gays and lesbians are hardwired to be that way, but a small percentage of people may find themselves uncomfortable in relationships with the opposite sex as a result of abuse they suffered, but these people are not so much attracted to the same sex as they are repelled by the opposite sex as a result of the abuse.

Hardwired homosexuals cannot be made heterosexual any more than hardwired heterosexuals can be made homosexual.

Those of you who are straight guys, ask yourself if you think you could get therapy and learn to enjoy sucking dick and taking it up the ass from a guy. My guess is probably not. It's exactly the same for probably 99% of gay men and lesbians.


You know what man? FUCK YOU. I was just about to bust out the Chewbacca defense, you've ruined EVERYTHING you fucking faggot :mad:

Splum 04-06-2007 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211825)
Your post was made after someone pointed out that sodomy was legal. Try again. :error

I should have used the words "SHOULD HAVE BEEN" instead of "SHOULD BE" that is the only difference.

Splum 04-06-2007 10:13 PM

Just for public record, I dont hate homosexuals or homosexuality, matter of fact some of my favorite musical artists are faggots. :thumbsup

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211868)
I should have used the words "SHOULD HAVE BEEN" instead of "SHOULD BE" that is the only difference.

Ok, so you felt people should have been convicted of sodomy back in the day? That everytime you received a blowjob you'd be given a ticket?

Technically you thought it was still legal as your earlier post points out. So you are telling me that you entered into the porn industry all the while believing that people should be convicted of masturbating in their own homes? Do you see how crazy that is? It would be like selling cookies and being for the conviction of people who eat them.

Splum 04-06-2007 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211906)
Ok, so you felt people should have been convicted of sodomy back in the day? That everytime you received a blowjob you'd be given a ticket?

Technically you thought it was still legal as your earlier post points out. So you are telling me that you entered into the porn industry all the while believing that people should be convicted of masturbating in their own homes? Do you see how crazy that is? It would be like selling cookies and being for the conviction of people who eat them.

Dude look "SHOULD" does not reflect my personal opinion, I am saying SHOULD as in a matter of the fact of the LAW. Just like a shoplifter who gets away with shoplifting should have been caught and punished, do I care? no. does the law care? yes. Get it straight.

Like I said before I like faggots dude I think they are funny.

Splum 04-06-2007 10:28 PM

BoyAlley doesnt want to play good cop bad cop anymore?

basschick 04-07-2007 12:06 AM

what scientific community would that be? it sure wasn't in my psych classes nor anywhere else respectable... i have heard it from oldschoolers who also believe that women all wish they had a penis and can't be fulfilled without children. but those days are over - have you heard? it's the 2000's now...

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Originally Posted by SteppenWolf (Post 12208632)
Almost a certain fact inside the scientific community is that homosexual
behavior start to build up after an abuse as a child.


mlove 04-07-2007 12:18 AM

I'm 75% gay and I wasn't abused by anyone.

Centurion 04-07-2007 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by SteppenWolf (Post 12209311)
Im going to bother to reply you first... i dont know what you mean by wannabes. I already am... oh, I see your point now, im sorry, i have less than 1000 posts, i must be broke then.

And regarding scientific evidence, let me start by building the nurture case with this:

Studies performed over the last several decades have found that gay men tend to have a greater number of older male siblings than do straight men. In a recent analysis of data from 14 studies involving 10,000 individuals, a group led by Ray Blanchard, a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, determined that a large number of older brothers is a significant predictor of male homosexuality [24][25].



First off..CONGRATS..wow..you found something on the internet (I guess, no actual link is listed) to "support" your arguments. Geez..I've got links proving Elvis works at a dairy queen in Milwaukee!

But, WHAT the heck does the above study have to do with gay men are the ones suffering the most physical abuse? It has NOTHING to do with your original statement at all. Do you even REMEMBER what point you're trying to make! LOL!!! :1orglaugh

mlove 04-07-2007 01:12 AM

I was an only child.

Centurion 04-07-2007 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211137)
Its NOT nurture, while genetics may have some slight disposition to be more feminine, etc the cause of Homosexuality is CHOICE. There are no homosexual infants.

The louder one "yells" the less they really have to say, and in your case, this really reverberates with your conclusion that people choose to be gay.
Amazing..so many people posing as experts on the human psyche when they can't even keep their own life straight (no pun intended).

And most of all, I love straight non-experts telling gay men & women why they are the way they are. Absolutely hysterical!

cooless 04-07-2007 01:19 AM

strange....

Centurion 04-07-2007 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211616)
Actually fucking men in the ass WAS illegal in most of the USA until 2003 so your counter-argument is weak. Technically most homosexuals in the United States should be convicted of that crime.


What parallel universe do you come from?
You can't make one valid scientific arguement to back your statements.
You can't make one logical arguement to back your statements.

And you sure as hell can't use FACTS ("fucking men in the ass was was illegal in most of the USA until 2003..""...BZZZZZZZZ...WRONGO!!) to back up your statement.


Dude..you've just fucked yourself in the ass with all the inane shit you posted! :thumbsup

Bossman 04-07-2007 01:31 AM

Womb environment 'makes men gay'
 
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Womb environment 'makes men gay'

A man's sexual orientation may be determined by conditions in the womb, according to a study.
Previous research had revealed the more older brothers a boy has, the more likely he is to be gay, but the reason for this phenomenon was unknown.

But a Canadian study has shown that the effect is most likely due to biological rather than social factors.

The research is published in the journal of the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

Professor Anthony Bogaert from Brock University in Ontario, Canada, studied 944 heterosexual and homosexual men with either "biological" brothers, in this case those who share the same mother, or "non-biological" brothers, that is, adopted, step or half siblings.

He found the link between the number of older brothers and homosexuality only existed when the siblings shared the same mother.

The amount of time the individual spent being raised with older brothers did not affect their sexual orientation.

'Maternal memory'

Writing in the journal, Professor Bogaert said: "If rearing or social factors associated with older male siblings underlies the fraternal birth-order effect [the link between the number of older brothers and male homosexuality], then the number of non-biological older brothers should predict men's sexual orientation, but they do not.

"These results support a prenatal origin to sexual orientation development in men."

He suggests the effect is probably the result of a "maternal memory" in the womb for male births.

A woman's body may see a male foetus as "foreign", he says, prompting an immune reaction which may grow progressively stronger with each male child.

The antibodies created may affect the developing male brain.

In an accompanying article, scientists from Michigan State University said: "These data strengthen the notion that the common denominator between biological brothers, the mother, provides a prenatal environment that fosters homosexuality in her younger sons."

"But the question of mechanism remains."

Andy Forrest, a spokesman for gay rights group Stonewall, commenting on this and other studies, said: "Increasingly, credible evidence appears to indicate that being gay is genetically determined rather than being a so-called lifestyle choice.

"It adds further weight to the argument that lesbian and gay people should be treated equally in society and not discriminated against for something that's just as inherent as skin colour."
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/5120004.stm

Best theory I have read :)

LadyMischief 04-07-2007 05:44 AM

I don't believe attraction is a choice. I don't believe being gay is a choice. I have known and been close friends with far too many gay men and women over the years to believe otherwise. Some of them I watched trying desperately to fit themselves into heterosexual molds all the while dying inside. Once those people were honest with themselves about feeling things they couldn't help, they were fine. This society puts way too much guilt and pressure on people who believe they may have homosexual attractions, and it makes them afraid to admit it to themselves. It's a lot of fear and a lot of pressure and it's' sad to say that it HAS to take a lot of courage simply because of the stigma many people attach to homosexuality.. But I ask this.. if homosexuality is an aberration of nature, why do we see it rampant in nature the world over? Many many animal species have homosexual relationships and some even form homosexual pair bonds.. it's been scientifically documented time and again.

When you break it down, on an elemental level, we share exactly the same DNA as every other living thing in the world. The structure of DNA has not changed in 4 billion years. It's only the change in sequence that makes us different from a wolf or another animal that expresses homosexual tendancies. We are animals too, we are part of mother nature. Why should we be the exceptions when our very existance is dictated by the same rules and building blocks?


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