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CaptainHowdy 04-06-2007 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by teenytricia (Post 12208852)
well they say its hereditary ...

ROFL :1orglaugh !! Where did you read it ??

stickyfingerz 04-06-2007 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 12208698)
Nah, he makes a better homo than Chio does a pirate, so I believe he is gay.

CHIO IS a Pirate. I have personally climbed his mast, and raised his sails! AHOY MATTE!

baddog 04-06-2007 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by kermey (Post 12209408)
"Nurture" is not what the Scientist involved in those studies concluded. What they actually concluded is that nurture cannot be the cause of this as it only works when the older brothers are of the same mother. With older step brothers, we dont see these results.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main...26/ixnews.html

Seeing as how most men in England are gay, can that really be considered a credible source?

baddog 04-06-2007 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by stickyfingerz (Post 12209439)
CHIO IS a Pirate. I have personally climbed his mast, and raised his sails! AHOY MATTE!

Then BA must be gay.

wizhard 04-06-2007 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 12209455)
Seeing as how most men in England are gay, can that really be considered a credible source?

LOL, yes we are quite a happy bunch in the UK :thumbsup

Mainly because we so glad not to be American :winkwink:

baddog 04-06-2007 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by wizhard (Post 12209474)
LOL, yes we are quite a happy bunch in the UK :thumbsup

Mainly because we so glad not to be American :winkwink:

Am glad you finally got over that whole Tea Tax thing.

TroubleTonya 04-06-2007 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by stickyfingerz (Post 12209439)
CHIO IS a Pirate. I have personally climbed his mast, and raised his sails! AHOY MATTE!

dirty slut! :) hehehe:thumbsup

wizhard 04-06-2007 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 12209476)
Am glad you finally got over that whole Tea Tax thing.


LOL, yeup - mess about with an Englishman's tea or our right to drink warm beer and we get real ugly :)

Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE 04-06-2007 01:28 PM

It has been scientificly proven that people are born with there sexual orintation...

Scootermuze 04-06-2007 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by SteppenWolf (Post 12209311)
Studies performed over the last several decades have found that gay men tend to have a greater number of older male siblings than do straight men. In a recent analysis of data from 14 studies involving 10,000 individuals, a group led by Ray Blanchard, a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, determined that a large number of older brothers is a significant predictor of male homosexuality [24][25].


Where is this study does it mention abuse?

Splum 04-06-2007 03:06 PM

50 abused homos

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Originally Posted by Jon Clark (Post 12209735)
It has been scientificly proven that people are born with there sexual orintation...

#1 Please for the love of all that is decent use Firefox with spell checking enabled
#2 :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

BusterBunny 04-06-2007 03:06 PM

51.........

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12208679)
#1 BoyAlley probably isnt really homosexual its a board personality
#2 Most homosexuals would never admit the fact that you are probably right
:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Well there are a ton of animals that have been documented as homosexuals. From fleas to sheep to giraffes. Were they all abused sexually as baby sheep? So to claim that nurture is the cause of it, you'd have to provide evidence supporting it across all the species of animals that exhibit homosexual behaivor.

As for how they procreate, there are a number of theories. In some animal groups, it's suggested that they are not as aggressive as heterosexuals, thus providing a longer lifespan. And being homosexual doesn't mean that you only have sex with men, there are tons of married men with children who are homosexual. Just ask Ted Haggard.

notabook 04-06-2007 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by porno jew (Post 12209351)
most fags have been. abuse at a young age tends to mutate the genetics.

You can't mutate genes through acts of abuse :disgust

Splum 04-06-2007 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12210419)
So to claim that nurture is the cause of it, you'd have to provide evidence supporting it across all the species of animals that exhibit homosexual behaivor.

#1 We are talking about human homosexuality not animal homosexuality.
#2 I never said it was nurture, I just said it isnt natural
#3 Sure there may be a gene at birth, but that gene isnt common.
#4 Even if homosexuality isnt lifestyle/chosen/nurtured it certainly is unnatural.

mortenb 04-06-2007 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Scootermuze (Post 12210149)
Where is this study does it mention abuse?

I was wondering about that too.. I sounds like that excerpt is saying that having older brothers is the cause of men becomming gay - like some reversed oedipus complex thing..

notabook 04-06-2007 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by mortenb (Post 12210522)
I was wondering about that too.. I sounds like that excerpt is saying that having older brothers is the cause of men becomming gay - like some reversed oedipus complex thing..

No. They believe it has to do something with how the female body changes after giving birth to a male, and how during the pregnancy future male offspring are affected by extra hormones that the mother's body produces.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210517)
#1 We are talking about human homosexuality not animal homosexuality.
#2 I never said it was nurture, I just said it isnt natural
#3 Sure there may be a gene at birth, but that gene isnt common.
#4 Even if homosexuality isnt lifestyle/chosen/nurtured it certainly is unnatural.

#1 We are animals. I really don't feel like regurgitating 6th grade Biology class to you, but I'm sure you can pull up some information on this.

#2 Well it's occured since the beginning of mankind. You can find homosexuality in Egyptian, Greek, and other ancient cultures. So in your mind it may be unnatural, but it is a naturally occurring presence throughout the history of mankind.

#3 Define common? Recent surveys have put the number of homosexuals between 2-5% of the population. They've also found between 10-15% of the population has had same sex attractions. So sure it's uncommon in a sense, just as type-O blood, being left handed, and having red hair is uncommon.

#4 This depends on your theory of natural. How can one describe their sexual attractions as natural or unnatural. Is it natural to want to screw fat chicks? Or have a fetish to be tied up in a dungeon and spanked? I think everyone has their buttons that turn them on sexually. To call one natural and another unnatural is difficult.

bl4h 04-06-2007 04:33 PM

I believe youre born with a flaw that leads to homosexuality.

Splum 04-06-2007 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12210612)
#2 Well it's occured since the beginning of mankind. You can find homosexuality in Egyptian, Greek, and other ancient cultures. So in your mind it may be unnatural, but it is a naturally occurring presence throughout the history of mankind.

#3 Define common? Recent surveys have put the number of homosexuals between 2-5% of the population. They've also found between 10-15% of the population has had same sex attractions. So sure it's uncommon in a sense, just as type-O blood, being left handed, and having red hair is uncommon.

#4 This depends on your theory of natural. How can one describe their sexual attractions as natural or unnatural. Is it natural to want to screw fat chicks? Or have a fetish to be tied up in a dungeon and spanked? I think everyone has their buttons that turn them on sexually. To call one natural and another unnatural is difficult.

First you equate homosexuality with being "red haired" or "having type O blood" and on the next point you equate it to being an "attraction" or "fetish". That just completely blew away your argument. :1orglaugh

An attraction/fetish is not something you are born with, while being red haired or having type O blood is. Next thing you know you will be saying that murderers are naturally born.

Retardation is uncommon in births as well. Shall we put it on the same level as homosexuality? Fact is lots of these "abnormalities" have negative impacts on the persons life.

Homosexuality is abnormal and serves no proven scientific or natural purpose, PERIOD.

That being said I dont care who is or isnt homosexual or who is or isnt retarded, for instance I know you are retarded and I dont hold it against you.

uno 04-06-2007 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210517)
#1 We are talking about human homosexuality not animal homosexuality.
#2 I never said it was nurture, I just said it isnt natural
#3 Sure there may be a gene at birth, but that gene isnt common.
#4 Even if homosexuality isnt lifestyle/chosen/nurtured it certainly is unnatural.

I may be mistaken, but if something occurs in nature, doesn't that, by definition, make it natural?

nat·u·ral /ˈnętʃərəl, ˈnętʃrəl/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[nach-er-uhl, nach-ruhl] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
?adjective 1. existing in or formed by nature (opposed to artificial): a natural bridge.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/natural

Pleasurepays 04-06-2007 04:53 PM

in the "nature vs. nurture" argument, its totally absurd to say "it can't be a learned behavior, or the result of sexual/mental abuse or other causes outside of genetics"

ANYONE trying to say its 100% one way or the other is 100% afraid to explore the issue honestly... and lets be honest, there are many more reasons for a gay person to believe/proclaim its natural than not.

:2 cents:

Splum 04-06-2007 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by uno (Post 12210696)
I may be mistaken, but if something occurs in nature, doesn't that, by definition, make it natural?

Sure if you want to play word games but you cant argue the fact that homosexuality is preternatural, deviant and abnormal. :)

Would you like your ownage in paper or plastic?

uno 04-06-2007 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210709)
Sure if you want to play word games but you cant argue the fact that homosexuality is preternatural, deviant and abnormal. :)

Would you like your ownage in paper or plastic?

It's not playing a word game, that is the definition of the term.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210658)
First you equate homosexuality with being "red haired" or "having type O blood" and on the next point you equate it to being an "attraction" or "fetish". That just completely blew away your argument. :1orglaugh

An attraction/fetish is not something you are born with, while being red haired or having type O blood is. Next thing you know you will be saying that murderers are naturally born.

Retardation is uncommon in births as well. Shall we put it on the same level as homosexuality? Fact is lots of these "abnormalities" have negative impacts on the persons life.

Homosexuality is abnormal and serves no proven scientific or natural purpose, PERIOD.

That being said I dont care who is or isnt homosexual or who is or isnt retarded, for instance I know you are retarded and I dont hold it against you.

So you are saying that if you grew up in the same household as BoyAlley, you would be getting fucked in the ass nightly? That you're one different person in your life away from performing fellatio on men?

SteppenWolf 04-06-2007 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210658)
First you equate homosexuality with being "red haired" or "having type O blood" and on the next point you equate it to being an "attraction" or "fetish". That just completely blew away your argument. :1orglaugh

An attraction/fetish is not something you are born with, while being red haired or having type O blood is. Next thing you know you will be saying that murderers are naturally born.

Retardation is uncommon in births as well. Shall we put it on the same level as homosexuality? Fact is lots of these "abnormalities" have negative impacts on the persons life.

Homosexuality is abnormal and serves no proven scientific or natural purpose, PERIOD.

That being said I dont care who is or isnt homosexual or who is or isnt retarded, for instance I know you are retarded and I dont hold it against you.

Well said :thumbsup

Pleasurepays 04-06-2007 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12210612)
#2 Well it's occured since the beginning of mankind. You can find homosexuality in Egyptian, Greek, and other ancient cultures. So in your mind it may be unnatural, but it is a naturally occurring presence throughout the history of mankind

what BS. you can't say "naturally occuring" to explain its origins. that it existed doesn't explain why. you can only correctly state that it "has occured" - it can also be proven that it was more socially acceptable, and in some cultures even encouraged (in military for example), which can be offered as an explanation of instances homosexuality in different cultures.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210658)
First you equate homosexuality with being "red haired" or "having type O blood" and on the next point you equate it to being an "attraction" or "fetish". That just completely blew away your argument. :1orglaugh .

I didn't say it was the same as having red hair or type O blood. I said those things were uncommon, but are close to the same percentage of people who are homosexual. You stated that homosexuality was uncommon, I'm saying that they are as common as the things I listed.

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12210658)
An attraction/fetish is not something you are born with, while being red haired or having type O blood is. Next thing you know you will be saying that murderers are naturally born.

It's not? Are you saying that everyone is born the same exact way and that everything in society impacts it? That we are all born with the same taste buds and are not born with a pre-dispositioned liking toward certain tastes? That our brains are all the same and none of us have a genetic makeup that makes us prone to fight, be emotional, or any other charecteristic? That if you switched places with BoyAlley growing up, you'd be homosexual and he'd be spewing Republican talking points on a porn message board?

I don't think murderers are natually born, but I do think that their genetic makeup plays a role. I think homosexuality along with every other behaivoral quirk is a product of both your genetic makeup AND your environment.

But you feel it's based on nature which is fine. But with that thought, you'd have to believe that everyone could be changed. That a child molester can be rehabilitated, that a violent man can be peaceful, that everyone's wants and desires are strictly based on what others around them do.

The problem with your arguement when pertaining to homosexuality is you have no reason for why it occurs. You say it's nurture not nature, yet you can't find any natural coorelation in society. Homosexuals are rich, poor, black, white, have good parents, bad parents, and on and on. They've been around since before Christ. So if you believe homosexuality is nurture not nature, please tell us what causes it since no one on this planet has found any coorelation in society that causes it on a grand scale.

SteppenWolf 04-06-2007 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211079)
The problem with your arguement when pertaining to homosexuality is you have no reason for why it occurs. You say it's nurture not nature, yet you can't find any natural coorelation in society. Homosexuals are rich, poor, black, white, have good parents, bad parents, and on and on. They've been around since before Christ. So if you believe homosexuality is nurture not nature, please tell us what causes it since no one on this planet has found any coorelation in society that causes it on a grand scale.

Thats only the outer shell... dig deeper and you will find similar characteristics: being abused as a child, having older brothers, etc.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by SteppenWolf (Post 12211114)
Thats only the outer shell... dig deeper and you will find similar characteristics: being abused as a child, having older brothers, etc.

I believe that being abused as a child can cause sexual confusion. But are you saying that every homosexual species on the planet is the product of being sexually abused or being the youngest child?

As for the youngest child, I'm pretty sure there are a lot of scientists who believe it has something to do with the mother and what happens to her after each male child she gives birth to. The reason why the youngest children are often less aggressive, intelligent, and other things.

Splum 04-06-2007 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211079)
I didn't say it was the same as having red hair or type O blood. I said those things were uncommon, but are close to the same percentage of people who are homosexual. You stated that homosexuality was uncommon, I'm saying that they are as common as the things I listed.

Wait did you just say homosexuality is as common as those other uncommon things? :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211079)
You say it's nurture not nature, yet you can't find any natural coorelation in society. Homosexuals are rich, poor, black, white, have good parents, bad parents, and on and on. They've been around since before Christ. So if you believe homosexuality is nurture not nature, please tell us what causes it since no one on this planet has found any coorelation in society that causes it on a grand scale.

I told you this above pay attention but here it is again: I never said it was nurture please stop trying to put words into my mouth to fit your argument.

Its NOT nurture, while genetics may have some slight disposition to be more feminine, etc the cause of Homosexuality is CHOICE. There are no homosexual infants.

Pleasurepays 04-06-2007 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211137)
its NOT nurture, while genetics may have some slight disposition to be more feminine, etc the cause of Homosexuality is CHOICE. There are no homosexual infants

how do you know there are no homosexual infants? sexuality is not even part of an infants life. to be a homosexual, you have to have sexual attraction.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211137)
Its NOT nurture, while genetics may have some slight disposition to be more feminine, etc the cause of Homosexuality is CHOICE. There are no homosexual infants.

I would hope there are no homosexual infants. Just as there are no heterosexual infants. Infants don't have any sex drive. You've heard of puberty, right?

CunningStunt 04-06-2007 07:06 PM

fake nic.

Splum 04-06-2007 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211156)
I would hope there are no homosexual infants. Just as there are no heterosexual infants. Infants don't have any sex drive. You've heard of puberty, right?

Oh yes there are heterosexual infants, they are born either male or female and their natural "equipment" is used to procreate with the opposite sex. Heterosexuals are sexually oriented to persons of the opposite sex.
:1orglaugh

Splum 04-06-2007 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays (Post 12211142)
how do you know there are no homosexual infants? sexuality is not even part of an infants life. to be a homosexual, you have to have sexual attraction.

I just answered the question above. :)
You are either born with a dick or a pussy, those organs have specific natural functions, the primary reason of the difference between the two is for procreation purposes. WHEN those organs are used/full functional/etc is not the issue they are MADE(hardwired) for the purpose of procreation.

pocketkangaroo 04-06-2007 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211177)
Oh yes there are heterosexual infants, they are born either male or female and their natural "equipment" is used to procreate with the opposite sex. Heterosexuals are sexually oriented to persons of the opposite sex.
:1orglaugh

Seriously, pick up a biology book today. Infants have absolutely no sexual drive whatsoever.

But your theory would contradict your earlier stance that sexuality is a "choice". Infants can't make a choice.

Pleasurepays 04-06-2007 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Splum (Post 12211192)
I just answered the question above. :)
You are either born with a dick or a pussy, those organs have specific natural functions, the primary reason of the difference between the two is for procreation purposes. WHEN those organs are used/full functional/etc is not the issue they are MADE(hardwired) for the purpose of procreation.

you are confusing physical traits with pyschological traits. "homosexuality" requires sexual attraction. an infant is not capable of sexual attraction no matter what sex organ they have... so your argument not only has no merit, it is factually wrong.

Splum 04-06-2007 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo (Post 12211210)
Seriously, pick up a biology book today. Infants have absolutely no sexual drive whatsoever. But your theory would contradict your earlier stance that sexuality is a "choice". Infants can't make a choice.

HOMOsexuality is choice because it is not what the body is hardwired/designed for. Play semantics with the words all you want, but a male child is born with organs that are specifically used to procreate with females. That male child has a CHOICE to become a homosexual later on or follow his intended natural design.

Splum 04-06-2007 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays (Post 12211249)
you are confusing physical traits with pyschological traits. "homosexuality" requires sexual attraction. an infant is not capable of sexual attraction no matter what sex organ they have... so your argument not only has no merit, it is factually wrong.

No Im not, heterosexuals are born with physical manifestations of their intended sexuality, a penis is different from a vagina because it is made to naturally procreate with a vagina. A penis has nothing to do with "pyschological traits".

I realize the word "heterosexual" has various meanings but there is no other word to describe the difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals. I could use the word "NORMAL" but that would be insensitive.


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