Umm no, not true. I never got cheated on, but I have been what I consider "betrayed".

What I meant was that if given the choice they would rather watch something than work. They however much rather just surf around on the internet instead of selling it. That's what I meant.

Also, one more thing, I feel like I MORE than lend a hand to this person. This is a fully GROWN adult who has the nerve to dare ask me for a monthly ALLOWANCE on top of me paying their bills!! Don't you feel that goes beyond "just helping" someone??

Another thing I didn't mention is that this person is very resentful of me because I send money to my mother each month (even though we aren't that close). They feel that since I give my mother, I should give THEM money too, because they should be the #1 person in my life. They are very jealous of the fact that I give MORE money to my mother than I do to them. They are also mad because I never told them that I gave money to my mother. The reason why I didn't is because it is 100% MY money and I didn't feel like I needed to ask permission on how to spend my own money.

During Thanksgiving me and my significant other planned to go to Vegas. I spent over 1k on both our tickets and hotel, and my significant other asked me for "spending money" in Vegas. I refused, and just because of that this person decided not to go with me on the day of the flight and drove there with their brother instead, leaving me to fly in on my own. I was so angry that I didn't even want to fly in and lost the airfare plus hotel because it was non-refundable and too late to cancel.

So you can't say I don't help this person, I help them ALL the time.

I refused the allowance because it made me feel TOO MUCH taken advantage of, but I still put up with a lot of stuff.

send her over to me. i'll straighten the bitch out. :pimp

are you gay?

run like the motherfucking wind, dude.

he's probably going to use the money to fuck a whore.

The hd drive is still for sale. I don't have anyone to call for me though to pretend to be the buyer and set up a meeting so I can meet them up. I don't know how to do it because this person tends not to not pick up calls from anon numbers on the caller id, and if you are calling from a different area code than 714 or 949 then this person would know you're not a legit buyer. Or perhaps I could try and dialing from my number as an anonymous caller and just hope this person picks up. I need someone to talk for me though, obviously I can't because my voice would be recognized.

omg.....

Read and read again....

Ummm ok. I am flattered you used your first post on me. Your nickname means refers to some type of depression : http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-md04.html

Did you chose this nickname just to make this post?

I am flattered you googled my name.

Does your first name happen to start with the letter "W"?

maybe, maybe not, maybe fuck yourself

Why are you so angry? Did I do something to you?

you help them yet they steal from you? only a fucked up person would do that. ditch 'em

you mother gave birth to you, you are here because of your mother. a person who is jealous of their partners mother is once again a fucked up person. ditch 'em.

ya think?! they are fucked up... ditch 'em

trust is one basis of a good relationship, if there is no trust there i don't think the relationship would work out...


:2 cents:

maybe they are your significant other... :Oh crap

I was just joking, I guess you didn't see The Departed

no way! get rid of them!

any lazy piece of crap could say that. either this person is the biggest wimp in the world or should be on disablity.

oh. well you seem very worried about being cheated on. i remember you posting about how all guys fuck hookers, ect. well personally i don't know any guy who has ever fucked a hooker. you have a very skewed view of guys for whatever reason. i could say that all women cheat and are always looking for the next best things and post thousands of examples but it doesn't make it true.

That's not necessarily true. My wif and I have amazing sex, yet I am an very avid pornophile. :D

Yeah, that's definately a dangerous mindset to have. I could easily say that all women are backstabbing, abusive bitches because my first one was just that and I was too stupid to leave her...doesn't mean it's true about all women.

What happened was that I used Spooftel to change my voice and called this person and pretended to want to buy it. We met up in a public place just right now and this person said I was crazy really loud and yelled it out loud so everyone can hear it. And was yelling that I was stalking them. They had the hard drive with them too and it was covered in a jacket but I knew what it was. They also went inside Jamba Juice (where we met) and yelled out loud : " (Insert My name here) is crazy!! xxxx is stalking me!!!"

They totally denied and said it was their hard drive and didn't know what I was talking about. And went off their way and I drove back.

well you gotta admit, you are pretty damn crazy.

Am I really :(

yes i would forgive her as she was packing her shit to get out of my house lol

i would forgive..loll

I can´t believe this thread is still on the first page

So, hopefully this helps you to make a firm decision? :)

I think you should call her cell phone and ask her about buying the two harddrives. Obviously she is going to realize she is busted, so get in her face with it. Be sure to humiliate her for being the crackwhore she is. She'll probably cry and apologize, then dig for pity. Slap her around and put her ass to the curb. Alternately you can ride out the bullshit apologies, get your dick sucked, fuck her in the ass for good measures, then promptylu put her to the curb. Either way, she should wind up sitting in the same gutter she smokes rocks in. I don't deal with people who cheat my trust and fuck me around, neither should you, or anyone else for that matter. People like this will ride your pity as long as they can.

150 thieves...

bah, i failed to read the whole post before replying, she is crazy... just call the fuzz, it's a dirty move on some levels, but when someone fucks with you and they are at legal fault i say it's all good...

Yes, I stated in my post above I already did this just a few hours ago. I disguised my voice with Spooftel, we met up. They said the hard drive was theirs and they didn't know what I was talking about. They yelled LOUD in public that I was crazy, and stalking them. They yelled LOUD, like the whole store and street could hear it, everyone in the parking lot etc

The proof I have is a receipt from Newegg and a screenshot of the ad they posted on Craigslist with both showing the EXACT same hard drive down to the MODEL NUMBER. It still won't be good enough because the person can still LIE and say that we both bought it and that it's not stolen.

They even just told someone else that they tried to give it back to me, which they didn't. They are a compulsive liar. No matter what proof I have this person will think of some lie and make it seem like I'm wrong!!!

Yeah it kind of does, but this person has done much worse things to me before and I didn't leave back then either.

I think I'm very needy and no matter how badly I get treated it's hard for me to leave because then I'll worry about who the person is seeing, if their dating someone new, if they are out partying and meeting new people and then I'll just get really depressed and anxious inside, I have a lot of anxiety.

I don't know why I'm like this, I was never abused physically or sexually when I was younger. My parents fought a lot and divorced but I never saw my parents hitting each other... I don't know why I'm so dysfunctional even though nothing terrible happened to me in my childhood.

bausch do you have ICQ?

Yea... I'll be ok though, I don't need mental help counseling on icq :( I would feel kind of weird. Thanks though...

I have a feeling you would tell me to leave the person etc, which I already know from reading this board and which I should, so I guess it does help me make a firm decision.

the whole he/she, him/her, his/hers thing in this thread makes me LOL.

Trust is not something you can let go of. This girl can't care about you too much if she is not only stealing, but lying to you as well. Its up to you to decide if you should forgive her or not. But i'm sure everyone will advise you to NOT !!!

You seem to have your heart in the right place, helping her out by paying some of her bills. That alone is a sign of loyalty on your behalf. I think you could find someone better, someone you can trust and not write threads about how she is stealing from you.....

Wish you luck with this man

Thread should have ended right there at post nine.

And why does the original poster keep calling his girlfriend "them"? :upsidedow

every time someone steels from me I see it as a lesson - I don't get uset - i just move on - a guy clipped my car last night we were both doing about 60mph - i lost my drivers mirror - close call - no problem - i lived through a head on once - you lost a few things - wise up - move on with a great life - my ex lives in my old house with i don't know who half the time - but i'm a lot happier than she is...

you got a lot of friends