What makes a girl hit on a guy? - GoFuckYourself.com

TheFLY · 06-02-2002, 06:25 PM

To me this is a curious question...

Is it all looks, attitude, mojo...????

Some guys DEFINITELY get hit on and they don't even have to try --

leave out the phermone jokes -- this is a serious inquiry...

I got hit on today (she was really obvious) --

I'm just wondering what you all think is the determining factor that makes girls hit on guys...

Pete · 06-02-2002, 06:30 PM

the Bulge

Naughty · 06-02-2002, 06:30 PM

Charm, looks and ... booze.

redshift · 06-02-2002, 06:31 PM

Money

Naughty · 06-02-2002, 06:32 PM

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Originally posted by redshift
Money

hehe, how could I forget that one. The #1 reason by far.

Pathfinder · 06-02-2002, 06:35 PM

About the same reasons you hit on girls; attraction.

Shooter · 06-02-2002, 06:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pathfinder
About the same reasons you hit on girls; attraction.

Which is a distant 2nd to money

HeadPimp · 06-02-2002, 06:40 PM

It is like a four way balancing act between your charm, looks and money and her desperation. If you are deficient in one or more of those, you have to make it up in the others. If you are like me you pretty much just hunt for the desperate ones...

adorons · 06-02-2002, 06:42 PM

Looks are important very important when your under 25 but it's really all about attitude

You see, All women have ESP

They can sense if your getting laid, happy and making money.
If they sense that, they will hit on you, because it is their motivational imperative to use their female power to disrupt that situation. It will not matter what you look like. As long as you have the first three.

If they sense you are a loser, they will avoid you. Even if you are handsome.

mike503 · 06-02-2002, 06:44 PM

if you don't show interest, they'll hit on you. typical reverse psychology shit.

phogirl69 · 06-02-2002, 06:46 PM

NOTHING. I NEVER bother to give guys ANY attention.... I don't give a damn how much bling bling they got,
it doesn't impress me.

If they want to get to know me, they better talk to ME first.

TheFLY · 06-02-2002, 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by redshift
Money

BUT YOU CAN'T JUST SAY "MONEY" -- you have to be more explicit -- how does she KNOW that you have money??? Please describe how SHE KNOWs you have money... these are the kind of details that I think we should investigate...

miss^behaving · 06-02-2002, 06:50 PM

He's got to have a cute butt, good looks and great sense of humor. Money is not important...cause it's love that makes the world go round

40,000+ expired names daily plus a TON more.

wannabeapornstar · 06-02-2002, 06:51 PM

get Lambo, believe me she'll notice it

Sinnister · 06-02-2002, 06:51 PM

Pete, were you alone or did you have another girl on your side ?

TheFLY · 06-02-2002, 06:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69
NOTHING. I NEVER bother to give guys ANY attention.... I don't give a damn how much bling bling they got,
it doesn't impress me.

If they want to get to know me, they better talk to ME first.

Yeah I think a lot of girls are like that -- until now maybe 95% of the "dates" that I've had -- it's always me to make the first move...

BUT A LOT OF GIRLS *will* gravitate to certain guys -- these guys never need to make the approach -- and girls know this... I've heard it! They say, "That's the kind of guy that gets hit on so often he never needs to even hit on a girl like me..." -- so she makes the decision that she is "good enough" -- and that needs to make the first move...

Brown Bear · 06-02-2002, 06:53 PM

Here is what I think:

1. Must be good looking. It helps if you look like Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise or Josh Hartnett.

2. Must have confidence. Girls love confident guys. If they see you standing in the corner like a frightened little bunny, you aint gonna get any pussy.

3. Must be fun to be around. Tell jokes. Lead the conversation. Have some charm (helps if you're Irish).

michaelw · 06-02-2002, 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Brown Bear
Here is what I think:
2. Must have confidence. Girls love confident guys. If they see you standing in the corner like a frightened little bunny, you aint gonna get any pussy.

I thought it was the other way around

TheFLY · 06-02-2002, 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by adorons
Looks are important very important when your under 25 but it's really all about attitude

You see, All women have ESP

They can sense if your getting laid, happy and making money.
If they sense that, they will hit on you, because it is their motivational imperative to use their female power to disrupt that situation. It will not matter what you look like. As long as you have the first three.

If they sense you are a loser, they will avoid you. Even if you are handsome.

MAN I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT! There are other powers at work -- and 90% of it is not conscious... I would give some examples but nobody would believe me...

There are so many vague signals that we aren't even aware of... Just think of how you feel after a really good fuck -- you're walking down the street like a totally different person... Can anyone tell that I just had the best fuck of my life? Sure they can!

BTW Sinnister -- no I was totally alone. And I figured maybe she was trying to make more sales but after I had already paid is when she really started talking away -- I hardly had to say anything and I'm getting her life story... Even wierder is I tell her I'm going to a wedding and she says she wants to plan her wedding -- so is she engaged or what the fuck? I didn't ask because I don't give a shit! Haha.

SNOW · 06-02-2002, 07:05 PM

Mystery..Get's them all the time.. And you gotta smell good..Eye contact.

phogirl69 · 06-02-2002, 07:32 PM

Ok, fine then. "Those type of guys that I would gravitate towards" have to be :

1.) Good looking. This is common sense. Most people will agree that "good looking" equals, tall, dark, sharp symmetrical features, clear skin, and good body with muscle tone. These are the basics of what a decent looking guy is all about. Well, that's my definition of good looking anyways.

You can't just be "average" either, but there has to be something really "outstanding" or "catching" about you. You either have it or you don't. If you are ugly guy....well... no amount of money is gonna make you good looking, so it doesn't matter how much bling bling you have, You'll just be an ugly dude with a lot of bling bling. Tough luck. Personally, I will totally ignore an ugly dude talking to me, let alone initiate some conversation with one!!!

2.) You have to have charisma and be confident. Know the right things to say at the right time.

3.)A good sense of humour is also important. I love guys who are funny sarcastic smart asses and can make me laugh. If you can make me laugh, you are probably already halfway there.

4.)Be well groomed and dressed. There's nothing worse with a guy that wears pants that are loose fitting at the top but the pant legs go IN at the bottom! Or guys that wear pointy shoes!!
Or guys with dirty fingernails!! You think I am going to let a guy with dirty hands come near me?

5.)I personally gravitate towards more intelligent guys, I HATE guys who are uneducated, have bad grammar, don't know how to add 2+2, etc...
I just want to smack them in the face

6.) A lot of girls (not me though) will like a guy more if he makes $$$ It's easy to spot if a guy makes loot by the brand names of his clothes, his car etc...

FlyingIguana · 06-02-2002, 07:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TheFLY

BUT YOU CAN'T JUST SAY "MONEY" -- you have to be more explicit -- how does she KNOW that you have money??? Please describe how SHE KNOWs you have money... these are the kind of details that I think we should investigate...

when she see's you driving your F50, she'll know...

missypee · 06-02-2002, 07:40 PM

Its in his shoes. If they are stylish then you know he's a keeper. For me I'm usually drawn to the tallest and best looking men.

ACTUALLY - its all about P & A baby...

cosis · 06-02-2002, 07:41 PM

just be yourself for christ sakes, if they dont like you for you than fuck em

michaelw · 06-02-2002, 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cosis
just be yourself for christ sakes, if they dont like you for you than fuck em

exactly

Mike D · 06-02-2002, 07:55 PM

Ruffies

Pipecrew · 06-02-2002, 07:59 PM

All women are chimps........

Sly_RJ · 06-02-2002, 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pipecrew
All women are chimps........

They like bananas?

lilbitch · 06-02-2002, 08:16 PM

Dunno about the rest of you ladies....but my mind is my most erogenous zone!

If a guy cant carry on an intelligent conversations with me, for more than a few minutes, then there's absolutely no point in even persuing it any farther...

assneck · 06-02-2002, 08:19 PM

its all in the pheremones

phogirl69 · 06-02-2002, 08:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pipecrew
All women are chimps........

All men are DOGS.
Never trust a man.

"nuff said.

FlyingIguana · 06-02-2002, 08:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69

All men are DOGS.
Never trust a man.

"nuff said.

u can trust me, i'm an iguana

lilbitch · 06-02-2002, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69

All men are DOGS.
Never trust a man.

"nuff said.

And above all...learn how to fix your own damned car...cuz ya will wait forever for a man to do it, then ya gotta do it yourself anyhow, cuz they probably screwed it up!

lagwagon · 06-02-2002, 08:50 PM

EVERYONE LOVES TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES.... get a girl to start talking about herself and make sure of the eye contact. keep her talking and she will love you for it. soon she will get more comfortable and if you are lucky she will hit on you, or at least give you a chance maybe.

getting someone to talk about themselves is the key and remember their name. this can be used in everyday life and it works great. i have done it many times. people will see me again and i say hi "Blah" and they cannot remember my name and now they feel like maybe they should have paid more attention to me since i went all that way just to remember an easy name.

phogirl69 · 06-02-2002, 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lilbitch

And above all...learn how to fix your own damned car...cuz ya will wait forever for a man to do it, then ya gotta do it yourself anyhow, cuz they probably screwed it up!

So true, so true. I almost died when I had to install my car battery myself. Turns out I put it in backwards

The only things guys are good for are; fixing cars, opening doors, opening jars, lifting heavy things. O'h yea, and free food!

WTF? · 06-02-2002, 09:02 PM

People, you are trying to answer the oldest question of all. If there was a real answer, than we'll all be getting some.

The mind of a woman is beyond our understanding. No two woman are alike, so just be yourself, and if that doesn't work.... than GO FUCK YOURSELF.

Sly_RJ · 06-02-2002, 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69

So true, so true. I almost died when I had to install my car battery myself. Turns out I put it in backwards The only things guys are good for are; fixing cars, opening doors, opening jars, lifting heavy things. O'h yea, and free food!

I just fell over laughing.

Morgan · 06-02-2002, 09:08 PM

Duh.... Tell her your a KINGS fan and maybe she'll feel sorry for you. And if that dont work, just go to COWTOWN yourself... .all the chicks there are fat, ugly and easy to hook!!!!

SNOW · 06-02-2002, 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by WTF?

The mind of a woman is beyond our understanding. No two woman are alike, so just be yourself.

So damm true man Cheers..

kenny · 06-02-2002, 09:15 PM

It all comes down to natural selection money, power, strength, attitude, looks, whatever they need to fill their void, so it varies for every person

lilbitch · 06-02-2002, 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69

So true, so true. I almost died when I had to install my car battery myself. Turns out I put it in backwards The only things guys are good for are; fixing cars, opening doors, opening jars, lifting heavy things. O'h yea, and free food!

Oh, honey...dunno where ya been livin in OC...but I'd like to find a guy that is actually good at ANY of those things, other than "lifting heavy things"....cuz I have yet to meet any here in LA County that does any of that stuff! Hook me up! lol!!

Fixing Cars - I have the "honda from hell" and I know her intimately...she still runs because its me that turns the wrenches when need be....my fully stocked tool box will attest to that.

Opening Doors - Ya mean chivelry ISNT dead in OC??

Opening Jars - Bash it with a butterknife, run it under some hot water...guarantee ya the bitch will open.

Free Food - Taco Bell or Jack in the Box does not constitute real food! lol!

Dont get me wrong here, guys...cuz I'm faaar from man-bashing! I know that there are some out there that are actually "keepers"...I just have yet to find one! So, in the meantime, I've had to learn to be totally independant and self-sufficient....but it gives me character, and makes me totally unique! I'm like nobody ya have ever met!

Sly_RJ · 06-02-2002, 09:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lilbitch

I'm like nobody ya have ever met!

No doubt.

lilbitch · 06-02-2002, 09:45 PM

you just pipe down, sly....
and btw...you followin me or somethin?? roflmao!!

Sly_RJ · 06-02-2002, 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lilbitch
you just pipe down, sly....
and btw...you followin me or somethin?? roflmao!!

I've been known to stalk, just ask Cheshire!

lilbitch · 06-02-2002, 09:59 PM

you too, huh??

meRx · 06-03-2002, 12:51 AM

Rule #1
Smell like fucken fresh soap or laundry
Rule #2
Ask for anal

Brown Bear · 06-03-2002, 01:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by meRx
Rule #1
Smell like fucken fresh soap or laundry
Rule #2
Ask for anal

Rule #3

Always cum in her mouth

Jamie · 06-03-2002, 01:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69
NOTHING. I NEVER bother to give guys ANY attention.... I don't give a damn how much bling bling they got,
it doesn't impress me.

If they want to get to know me, they better talk to ME first.

18 year old opinions don't count.

Women who are 23+ know what they want and take what they want.

phogirl69 · 06-03-2002, 02:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jamie

18 year old opinions don't count.

Women who are 23+ know what they want and take what they want.

Haaaaaa.... I just turned 24 on May 3. There's nothing that annoys me more than people who ASSUME things about otheres...and wrongly too, might I add.

My best friend is turning 25, and she would NEVER hit on a guy either. She doesn't even talk to them when they talk to her....just like me... So what does age have to do with anything?

Milton · 06-03-2002, 03:22 AM

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06-02-2002, 06:42 PM	#9
adorons Registered User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Queens, NY Posts: 26	Looks are important very important when your under 25 but it's really all about attitude You see, All women have ESP They can sense if your getting laid, happy and making money. If they sense that, they will hit on you, because it is their motivational imperative to use their female power to disrupt that situation. It will not matter what you look like. As long as you have the first three. If they sense you are a loser, they will avoid you. Even if you are handsome. __________________ We pay per click, per impression, or per sale. http://www.enigmasoftwaregroup.com/affiliates.shtml

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mike503 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: oregon. Posts: 2,243	if you don't show interest, they'll hit on you. typical reverse psychology shit. __________________ php/mysql guru. hosting, coding, all that jazz.

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Brown Bear Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 4,982	Here is what I think: 1. Must be good looking. It helps if you look like Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise or Josh Hartnett. 2. Must have confidence. Girls love confident guys. If they see you standing in the corner like a frightened little bunny, you aint gonna get any pussy. 3. Must be fun to be around. Tell jokes. Lead the conversation. Have some charm (helps if you're Irish). __________________ Surrender all your independent thinking and Click Here for re-programming.

06-02-2002, 06:25 PM	#1
TheFLY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: http://www.thefly.net/ --- Quit your job and live off steady traffic. Posts: 11,856	What makes a girl hit on a guy? To me this is a curious question... Is it all looks, attitude, mojo...???? Some guys DEFINITELY get hit on and they don't even have to try -- leave out the phermone jokes -- this is a serious inquiry... I got hit on today (she was really obvious) -- I'm just wondering what you all think is the determining factor that makes girls hit on guys...

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Pete Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Mr. Rogers Neighborhood Posts: 6,617	the Bulge __________________ Evoke Electronics

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Naughty Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Utopia Posts: 6,482	Charm, looks and ... booze.

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redshift Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: anus fuckin' yo mama Posts: 1,044	Money

06-02-2002, 06:35 PM	#6
Pathfinder theking of trailer parks Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Tehachapi, California Posts: 2,277	About the same reasons you hit on girls; attraction.

06-02-2002, 06:40 PM	#8
HeadPimp Bad Mo-Fo Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Seattle, WA Posts: 2,772	It is like a four way balancing act between your charm, looks and money and her desperation. If you are deficient in one or more of those, you have to make it up in the others. If you are like me you pretty much just hunt for the desperate ones...

06-02-2002, 06:46 PM	#11
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	NOTHING. I NEVER bother to give guys ANY attention.... I don't give a damn how much bling bling they got, it doesn't impress me. If they want to get to know me, they better talk to ME first.

06-02-2002, 06:51 PM	#15
Sinnister Registered User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 23	Pete, were you alone or did you have another girl on your side ?

06-02-2002, 07:05 PM	#20
SNOW Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 3,963	Mystery..Get's them all the time.. And you gotta smell good..Eye contact.

06-02-2002, 07:32 PM	#21
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	Ok, fine then. "Those type of guys that I would gravitate towards" have to be : 1.) Good looking. This is common sense. Most people will agree that "good looking" equals, tall, dark, sharp symmetrical features, clear skin, and good body with muscle tone. These are the basics of what a decent looking guy is all about. Well, that's my definition of good looking anyways. You can't just be "average" either, but there has to be something really "outstanding" or "catching" about you. You either have it or you don't. If you are ugly guy....well... no amount of money is gonna make you good looking, so it doesn't matter how much bling bling you have, You'll just be an ugly dude with a lot of bling bling. Tough luck. Personally, I will totally ignore an ugly dude talking to me, let alone initiate some conversation with one!!! 2.) You have to have charisma and be confident. Know the right things to say at the right time. 3.)A good sense of humour is also important. I love guys who are funny sarcastic smart asses and can make me laugh. If you can make me laugh, you are probably already halfway there. 4.)Be well groomed and dressed. There's nothing worse with a guy that wears pants that are loose fitting at the top but the pant legs go IN at the bottom! Or guys that wear pointy shoes!! Or guys with dirty fingernails!! You think I am going to let a guy with dirty hands come near me? 5.)I personally gravitate towards more intelligent guys, I HATE guys who are uneducated, have bad grammar, don't know how to add 2+2, etc... I just want to smack them in the face 6.) A lot of girls (not me though) will like a guy more if he makes $$$ It's easy to spot if a guy makes loot by the brand names of his clothes, his car etc...

06-02-2002, 07:40 PM	#23
missypee Registered User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 25	Its in his shoes. If they are stylish then you know he's a keeper. For me I'm usually drawn to the tallest and best looking men. ACTUALLY - its all about P & A baby... Last edited by missypee; 06-02-2002 at 07:42 PM..

06-02-2002, 07:41 PM	#24
cosis Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Beach Posts: 5,281	just be yourself for christ sakes, if they dont like you for you than fuck em

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Pipecrew Master of Gfy.com Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 14,887	All women are chimps........

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lilbitch Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Southern California Posts: 122	Dunno about the rest of you ladies....but my mind is my most erogenous zone! If a guy cant carry on an intelligent conversations with me, for more than a few minutes, then there's absolutely no point in even persuing it any farther... __________________ Oxeo Rocks...Just ask 'em! ?&%@!

06-02-2002, 08:19 PM	#30
assneck Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: seattle, wa Posts: 220	its all in the pheremones

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lagwagon Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: az Posts: 8,464	EVERYONE LOVES TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES.... get a girl to start talking about herself and make sure of the eye contact. keep her talking and she will love you for it. soon she will get more comfortable and if you are lucky she will hit on you, or at least give you a chance maybe. getting someone to talk about themselves is the key and remember their name. this can be used in everyday life and it works great. i have done it many times. people will see me again and i say hi "Blah" and they cannot remember my name and now they feel like maybe they should have paid more attention to me since i went all that way just to remember an easy name. __________________ FTVGirls - FTVMilfs - DanielleFTV

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WTF? Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 264	People, you are trying to answer the oldest question of all. If there was a real answer, than we'll all be getting some. The mind of a woman is beyond our understanding. No two woman are alike, so just be yourself, and if that doesn't work.... than GO FUCK YOURSELF. __________________ ..

06-02-2002, 09:08 PM	#38
Morgan Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Location: Corona Del Mar, CA Posts: 10,520	Duh.... Tell her your a KINGS fan and maybe she'll feel sorry for you. And if that dont work, just go to COWTOWN yourself... .all the chicks there are fat, ugly and easy to hook!!!!

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