Sometimes I wonder what people are thinking......

Regardless of my own personal opinion, I agree with what Batt had to say about the matter. That is how to view it :thumbsup

Evidently a lot of people as her post seems to suggest.

Your a hypocritcal sack of shit. i understand perfectly.

I've been around alot longer than the board opening up in 2001, and seen idiots come and go.

You won't disappoint me.

I'm sorry for her loss but I'm not going to donate squat! All those years in the adult poirn biz and she has nothing. How stupid!

dude this is the internet

Once a whore always a whore. She sold her arse for money and is now selling her dead husband for money.

man

I dont know what it is about some people in this industry.....
but to post something like that, after this women just lost her husband & kids Dad.

Heres a photo of them:
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a73...daddylumpy.jpg

You shouldnt help them out because HE didnt have LIFE INSURANCE?

Who GIVES A FLYING FUCK?

Sounds like he was loving father and it appears to me like that little girl LOVED HER DADDY.....

Sad.

- Matt

ahhh downed by a photo

So all the models on adultlabel are whores as well?

http://www.reviewjournal.com/

Nothing about it in the local paper, jeep rollovers, no mentions of Don Lemmon. If his name didn't make the paper, the accident would have.

On a side note, this guy looks like a hustler to me with that pulled back hair and shit. Don't know him.. just saying..

I now retract that statement

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=621033

this thread is hard to read, some real harsh views here

Asia does love the *good life*, but that has nothing to do with her husband's death. She has a very large fan base. She enjoys their attention. They send her gifts all the time. They have been there for her for many years.

She is strong. She is a hard worker. She is in a state of panic at this time. Give her a break. It looks like she traded in her flashy corvette for babies and a new life.

Why would she lie about her husband's death? She is upfront about her life. Don Lemmon died in a car crash, and I don't care what bullshit you did or didn't find in the local Nevada papers. Asia has more credibility in her little finger than you skeptics have in your entire porn lives.

We don't even know for sure that it's her posting in that blog. Have you talked to her?

Dig, since when have you become an expert on husbands of porn stars? All reports say that Don Lemmon was a good guy, not a flaky asshole like the majority in porn. I think of him as her savior.

They were in love. They had a wonderful marriage. Those are Asia's words. I hope to God your girlfriend loves you one per cent as much as Asia loved Don. Until Asia says otherwise, I will accept her word that Don was a perfect husband and father.

I think Las Vegas is turning you into another skeptic idiot.

Listen: some chick comes out of nowhere begging for money, a chick who supposedly is a 'star' who's surely made a mint during her career. The husband who supposedly died has web sites hawking diet supplements and every other hustler product, he looks like Rico Suave, and there's nothing - NOTHING - in the local paper about his death, or about ANY accident happening ANYWHERE in the area. When there's a fatal accident here, it makes the papers.

If you're going to ask for money, you need to be ready to provide some proof that you need it. All I've seen so far is the request, and the circumstances are fishy as hell. I wouldn't send her money based on what I've seen so far, and I don't see why anyone would. The likelihood that you're being taken is just a little too high for comfort.

I have no problem helping out someone in distress, but if you want my time and money you have to show me that it's not being wasted, and that most definitely hasn't been done.

Dig, I have been in touch with Asia many times since the mid 90's when she first put up her websites. I have never known her to be a flake, She lived near you in the valley for a few years. She is very private, and without her makeup, she looks like a little girl. She volunteered her time at a Valley Animal Shelter. She has a big heart. She has worked her ass off and saved her money for years. I was hoping she was a millionaire by now. She starved herself so you and the guys would find her sexy enough to buy her videos.

I have never known anyone in the industry to doubt her credibility. She left porn to have a family. AVN and other sites called the coroner's office and verified Don Lemmon's death. Asia is upsetting people with her requests for donations. She drove a beautiful Corvette the last time her car was mentioned. For all I know, her money is invested so she cannot touch it immediately. She is too smart not to have saved money. She loved investing.

I had an Asia banner on my babe.net for years. She thanked me. I didn't get a cent nor did I want anything. I admired her spunk and intelligence, and I thought she was stunning, so I sent her traffic. Not all of us give a damn about getting *a cut* of everyone's hide.

Dig, you are known for giving young beautiful women a helping hand. If Asia says she needs help, then she needs help. She is pregnant. She has a one-year-old daughter. She is alone in Utah. She doesn't know anyone there. She is grief stricken. She wants to curl up and go to sleep and wake up with her daughter and husband by her side. This is a nightmare, and I want to give her a big hug and tell her everything will be alright. But it won't be alright...not ever. She lost the love of her life. Nothing will bring him back. Asia will have to be as strong as she can be to get through this hell. She will have to tell her daughter and the son she is carrying about their daddy.

I'm so glad she took so many pictures of her family. That is all the children will have.

Now, cough up some PayPal money for her, Dig. If your girlfriend is no longer in your life, introduce yourself to Asia when all the hoopla has died down.

Regarding the comments on her Bulletin page...if that isn't Asia writing those words, then I am the biggest fool on this planet. I have been reading her posts for ten years. You can't duplicate Asia's style.

good point

ignorance is spreading

In my 10 years in the adult business, Ive heard and seen porn girls do some weird shit.....but I know of NO PERSON IN THE ADULT INDUSTRY WHO WOULD STOOP AS LOW AS MAKING UP A FAKE DEATH STORY ABOUT HER HUSBAND AND FATHER TO HER KIDS JUST TO MAKE SOME EXTRA CASH.

GROW THE FUCK UP
and stop abusing Asia and her kid.

For real dude.

as sickening as some of the comments in this thread are, not to mention the obvious lack of class of the OP, i've at least garnered a nice list of people to never do business w/ in the industry. quite a bunch of fucking keyboard warrior kids showing their true colors w/ some of this self-righteous accusatory bullshit.

i hope some of these people find themselves on the other side of the mirror someday, karma is indeed a bitch.

ps: theres no doubt in my mind about Don's death, i saw it mentioned in a bodybuilding/steroid/health forum yesterday so all the would-be Sherlocks should go back to their Halo games before they show their ass too much more in public. punks get a kick out of kicking a wounded woman, pussies to the one..

:2 cents: :2 cents:

Once you've been in this business you'll realize that there are no depths that some people won't sink to. For chump change, usually.

That being said, Jace posted that the coroner confirmed the guy's death, so I guess I buy it. I'll send a little something.

This is the real Dig.:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

I guess im a bit heartless at times, but if it good cause id throw her a few bucks. But I wouldnt mind knowing what she was doing to support her children ect while she was making loot, maybe that would help make a donation or two

Please. A FATAL car accident makes the news SOMEWHERE. Supposedly it happened near Vegas. There are 4 Vegas news stations that have websites and NONE have this accident. They have OTHER accidents not this one. Neither do any local online Vegas newspapers. Even if Don Lemmon is a fake name a accidnet witha 37 year old male would have made the papers. besides once the local news stations found out he was married to a porn star, that in of itself would make the news. Lastly his own website doesn't mention his death. http://www.donlemmon.com/index.html

Also Asia doesn't need donations. She shouldn't anyways.

lol
yeah you're right Sherlock....Asia Carreras husband is NOT dead and it's all a big PR stunt so she can suck a few dollars outta people.

:321GFY

since this thread is still going i might as well put a sig spot :)

Everything she has mentioned on her site is the truth. Take a look at this: http://www.buylemmon.com/

I have no problem with donations...I just genuinely wanna know what the hell happened to the money from the HUNDREDS of videos she's done over the years

I didn't say he wasn't dead dumbfuck. Post where I said that? All I said is that it is strange that a fatal accident involving a semi-famous person married to another semi-famous person doesn't not make the news ANYWHERE. If he is dead then it should be VERY VERY easy to provide a LINK to such facts. ALL fatal car accidents HAVE to be reported. AllI am asking for is a LINK.

It is just getting weirder.

"06/13 - There will not be a funeral or services for Don. I am having him cremated and his ashes sent to me."

Hmmm. I guess they haven't had time to post that on his main website yet.

Why is that weird? I didn't have a funeral for my son. There was an honor guard service that was more for my Dad (who was in the USAF). I didn't care so much about my Dad, there would have been no service. My son was also cremated.

It's not the cremation, she's not even wanting to go see the body first? She wants the ashes "sent" to her? What like though UPS or FedEX? Sorry that's just strange thing to do if you love someone.

please? lol, please leave your scythe at the door... i guess you've solved the mystery, Don Lemmon faked his own death to pump iron w/ jim morrison and tupac on a remote african island as they prepare for their grab at world domination... i think your putting a little too much stock in the media to build your worldview..

Time and time again you prove yourself to be one of the biggest retards on this board.

No you didnt say he wasnt dead per se....your just trying to drum up some big suspicion that for some reason he MIGHT NOT BE DEAD..* IMPLYING* and pointing out premises to support this...

and *STATING* (not implying) SHE DOESNT NEED DONATIONS (how did you come up with that conclusion genius?)

I've fucking had dinner with Bud Lee ....(her Ex)..a pioneer in the Porn Industry ...hes out there helping Asia and her family right now ...and you fucking dumbassess sit here behind your sigs and say seriously HOSTILE, ABUSIVE SHIT

GO WORK OUT YOUR OWN DADDY ISSUES SOMEWHERE ELSE

I agree with Confucy.
A lot of you should be ashamed of yourself.

doesnt someone have to identify the body, there are papers to be signed not something you can do over a phone I would think.

David Foote said his daughter was killed.

Ive never heard of him
I just googled "David Foote" and came up with ZERO that relates to anything in this thread

????

I didn't want to see my son's body and I didn't. I would suspect her husband's not in great physical shape and she wants to remember him like he was the last time she saw him. I wouldn't even enter the funeral home and we didn't have the service there.

She said her ex-husband and a friend went there - I'm sure they can identify the body if needed. No one in my family had to identify my son's body. He was in his room (Asia's husband was in his car) and had his dog tags on him (Asia's husband had his wallet with ID).

They cremated my son here in GA, but there were some hoops we had to jump through to get that to happen. Originally he was going to have to be cremated in Hawaii (long story).

There are SO many different scenarios about what's going on that we can all sit around and guess about, but why?

I seriously doubt she?s that piss poor to beg for paypal donations. His business is still operating thus generating some revenue. They had nice cars, house, most likely some money invested in stocks. You?ve got to be dumb as a rock if you don?t plan ahead of time.

Very nice gesture. Babies are expensive.

This thread is staggering

Thank you, Peaches and MicroChick (confucy?) for being on Asia's side, and relieving some of these lackwits of their ignorance. She needs all the support she can get during such a horrible and surreal time.

While I cannot fault others (and dig especially) for being wary of pleas for money that are potentially scams, that sort of thing is so far outside the realm of anything Asia (or Don) would ever do that it's just fucking painful for me to see anyone even entertain the notion. I would trust her more than some of my own kin in every way that's important.

Those bulletins are coming straight from her broken heart, and I don't see anything unusual about her interacting with the community she's most comfortable in and makes up her extended support system - her fans in cyberspace. Let the woman grieve the way she needs to for fuck's sake and leave her in peace.

I've barely got two nickels to rub together at the moment, but as a friend I'd at least send flowers... I'd rather paypal over the cash, which will be infinitely more useful to her at the moment.

God, I hope she never sees some of the downright awful things that were said here, and that her children never come across these archives one day.

Haters :321GFY

I can understand people being skeptical since scams have been done this way before. I can also people making the choice to not send money.

What I can't understand is the lack of compassion for great woman and her children.

Maybe they invested a bunch of money in a new business that would have paid off in a couple of years but leaves them strapped right now. Maybe they had a big loss in some other areas. Maybe they were trying to provide for their children. Bad shit happens to good people all the time.

At this point I don't know what happened but that's no reason to hate her, hate my own situation or any thing else.

I wish her all the best and I haven't decided to send money or not yet.

Its the right thing to do.

Making judgement calls ... the mindless name calling and everyone saying shoulda, coulda, woulda... isnt.

asking for donations? that would be my LAST thing to do .. :Oh crap