How do you deal with an idiot father? - GoFuckYourself.com

FredIsMe · 01-25-2006, 07:15 PM

I have a father who is a prick to his family, but not his friends. He does nothing but watch tv and bitch at my mother. Sometimes I just want to punch him in the face, but as I dont want to destroy my family.

Any of you ever go through a similar situation?

artman · 01-25-2006, 07:18 PM

burn down his trailer?

FredIsMe · 01-25-2006, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by artman

burn down his trailer?

No but I might burn his 68 Shelby GT-350

Fresh · 01-25-2006, 07:19 PM

im not an expert or anything, but i suggest calling him out on it. Catch him on a day where hes in a decent mood, sit him down and say ask him why he treats your mom like he does. ask him why hes cool to his friends but not his family. Dont be aggresive about it, ask him like you would ask a normal question.

good luck man.

MandyBlake · 01-25-2006, 07:20 PM

how old are you?
do you still live with your parents?

FredIsMe · 01-25-2006, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Dave Guru

im not an expert or anything, but i suggest calling him out on it. Catch him on a day where hes in a decent mood, sit him down and say ask him why he treats your mom like he does. ask him why hes cool to his friends but not his family. Dont be aggresive about it, ask him like you would ask a normal question.

good luck man.

Great advice. Thanks Guru

FredIsMe · 01-25-2006, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MandyBlake

how old are you?
do you still live with your parents?

Yes, I'm a student and rent out the lower floor.

I'm 20

2HousePlague · 01-25-2006, 07:22 PM

I was that close to starting a thread called "How do I deal with an Idiot Son?" -- but I decided not to. Does that help?

2hp

FredIsMe · 01-25-2006, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by 2HousePlague

I was that close to starting a thread called "How do I deal with an Idiot Son?" -- but I decided not to. Does that help?

2hp

I'll go with #2, thanks 2hp

LiveDose · 01-25-2006, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by FredIsMe

Yes, I'm a student and rent out the lower floor.

I'm 20

Move out.

EdgeXXX · 01-25-2006, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by FredIsMe

No but I might burn his 68 Shelby GT-350

Noooooooooo!!!!!!!!

Sell it to me instead, that would really show him

Doctor Dre · 01-25-2006, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Dave Guru

im not an expert or anything, but i suggest calling him out on it. Catch him on a day where hes in a decent mood, sit him down and say ask him why he treats your mom like he does. ask him why hes cool to his friends but not his family. Dont be aggresive about it, ask him like you would ask a normal question.

good luck man.

That's the way I would handle it too

Spunky · 01-25-2006, 07:30 PM

I just moved out..he was a fucking goof

FredIsMe · 01-25-2006, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

Move out.

As soon as I get accepted to med school

PixeLs · 01-25-2006, 10:19 PM

Why can't you just talk things out first?

comeplay · 01-25-2006, 11:00 PM

I would suggest a mid-calf sock and an 8ball inside it, that should change his outlook on life

RRRED · 01-25-2006, 11:17 PM

Set your mother up with a hot date... and make good money so that you can help her get outta there if she happens to be staying cuz there's no way she can make it on her own.

LexiLexxx · 01-25-2006, 11:22 PM

I would call him out too, when your alone.
I have never been one to sit back and watch a bunch of BS!

I think it has something to do with being the first grandchild.

Persignup Dustin · 01-25-2006, 11:48 PM

take his ass out back...

iwantchixx · 01-25-2006, 11:52 PM

tell your mother to smarten up and maybe he wouldnt bitch at her all day.

Just kidding.

Tell him like it is. Stand up to him and tell him how things are going to be from now on or his rectum will meet the top lace of your boots.

MetaMan · 01-25-2006, 11:54 PM

take a big dump in the livingroom and tell him "IT'S YOUR TURN TO PUT UP WITH MY SHIT".

tristan_D · 01-26-2006, 12:03 AM

it sucks that we don't get to choose our relatives.

Kassidy · 01-26-2006, 02:08 AM

Have you asked your mom why she puts up with it? Some people are really happy in fucked up relationships like that though. I always thought that my grandparents HATED each other but when he died, my grandma was devastated and lost without him.

tahiti · 01-26-2006, 02:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FredIsMe

I have a father who is a prick to his family, but not his friends. He does nothing but watch tv and bitch at my mother. Sometimes I just want to punch him in the face, but as I dont want to destroy my family.

Any of you ever go through a similar situation?

please him

and tell him your gay

Jennyfer · 01-26-2006, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Dave Guru

im not an expert or anything, but i suggest calling him out on it. Catch him on a day where hes in a decent mood, sit him down and say ask him why he treats your mom like he does. ask him why hes cool to his friends but not his family. Dont be aggresive about it, ask him like you would ask a normal question.

good luck man.

Excellent advice.

WME · 01-26-2006, 03:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dave Guru

im not an expert or anything, but i suggest calling him out on it. Catch him on a day where hes in a decent mood, sit him down and say ask him why he treats your mom like he does. ask him why hes cool to his friends but not his family. Dont be aggresive about it, ask him like you would ask a normal question.

good luck man.

its very hard to raise a kid, but its harder to raise a parent.

Sam Granger · 01-26-2006, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by FredIsMe

No but I might burn his 68 Shelby GT-350

If you'd do that I would be forced to castrate you ;)

GatorB · 01-26-2006, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by FredIsMe

How do you deal with an idiot father?

Don't know, ask Jenna and Barbara.

PimpDaddyPants · 01-26-2006, 03:50 PM

Post a pic of this idiot father

we will photochop it and put on shirt to send to you

who · 01-26-2006, 03:52 PM

Lets give this dude some serious advice.

I recommend you punch him in the head and establish your dominance over the family. You are making bread right? Help your mom out, support her, and supplant yourself as the dominant male in the house.

DaddyHalbucks · 01-26-2006, 04:01 PM

Try talking about it rationally and respectfully.

If that doesn't work, try silence. Break off the relationship for a while.

VicD · 01-26-2006, 04:39 PM

Talk it over, make no fight, keep it cool, don't give up to easily
If that's not gonna help and he's really an idiot, move on, find your own place and live!

2HousePlague · 01-27-2006, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by FredIsMe

I'll go with #2, thanks 2hp

2hp

phogirl69 · 01-27-2006, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

make good money so that you can help her get outta there if she happens to be staying cuz there's no way she can make it on her own.

Some women make more money than their spouses and can easily make it on their own and don't need financial assistance from anyone at all. Not all women are dependent on their husbands, some make a lot more than their husbands. Just cause she's a woman doesn't mean she can't make it on her own.

phogirl69 · 01-27-2006, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by who

Lets give this dude some serious advice.

I recommend you punch him in the head and establish your dominance over the family. You are making bread right? Help your mom out, support her, and supplant yourself as the dominant male in the house.

Dominant male of the house

This is not the 1950's anymore.

Manowar · 01-27-2006, 07:50 AM

fuck his ass

Belekaip · 01-27-2006, 07:50 AM

big probelem. iam lucky i don't have it...
but u coult talk with your father eye to eye.
thats what i do if i were u

Tom_PM · 01-27-2006, 07:53 AM

Familiarity breeds contempt.

Thats why when a family has guests over, they're on their "best behavior", right? Think about it.

Tell him he should try to make friends with his family, because sometimes he acts like a complete ass.

EroticySteve · 01-27-2006, 07:58 AM

You can't win with family at times. There are underlying problems that need to be dealt with. Talking about it may help, but it may make it worse. Everyone needs to speak with an objective person as the moderator. Family therapy isn't a horrible thing, and it may just help the entire situation.

I didn't have an unhappy childhood at all but like all families we had our trials and tribulations. In fact though I'd say my childhood was very happy and completely normal, still though In retrospect a family therapist may have not been a bad idea at certain times.

GFX Wiz · 01-27-2006, 08:01 AM

I moved across the country and changed my last name so I could never be tied to him again. But he's also not married to my mother anymore.

andr · 01-27-2006, 08:02 AM

it's a really big problem..you need to talk about it with ur father, maybe it will help?

sfera · 01-27-2006, 08:03 AM

just stay away from the guy, move on and have your own life, its what i did

FredIsMe · 01-27-2006, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by PimpDaddyPants

Post a pic of this idiot father

we will photochop it and put on shirt to send to you

Lol that's ok

FredIsMe · 01-27-2006, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by sfera

just stay away from the guy, move on and have your own life, its what i did

I will, I just want to get my degree from University and then get the hell out.

2HousePlague · 05-15-2006, 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by PR_Tom

Familiarity breeds contempt.

Thats why when a family has guests over, they're on their "best behavior", right? Think about it.

Tell him he should try to make friends with his family, because sometimes he acts like a complete ass.

Good advice.

2hp

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE · 05-15-2006, 01:12 AM

lay his ass out and tell him to either be nice to the family or get his ass kicked... straight up

reynold · 05-15-2006, 01:33 AM

buy him a real doll if he is not sexually satisfied with your mom.

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