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gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 06:36 AM

she broke up with me 2 weeks ago with the reason she wants to make new expiriences...

so far so good. i always feared that this day would come and i accepted it as far as i could.

her goal was it to stay friends with me.

now i browse some local-party pictures and guess what ?

i found her posing with the guy who always was keen on her (even during i was with her,,, on valentines day he sent her a rose with the words he loves her and wants to be with her.)

she told me about this and said she has no contact with him.

i was on a good way to forget her in a positive way and stay friends with her and now...
makes me wonder about her being so cold and without a care for me...

everything i ever believed in collapsed.
2 years of trust and love down the drain ? makes me feel like i wasted those 2 years...

i even fought with me best friend because of her...

now go on and flame the shit out of me for taking a woman over a friend and shit...

what should bother me now

Violetta · 04-16-2006, 06:40 AM

those women can be shit sometimes. Things will be better, and you will meet a kick ass nice cute girl... just be patient

the Shemp · 04-16-2006, 06:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

she broke up with me 2 weeks ago with the reason she wants to make new expiriences...

so far so good. i always feared that this day would come and i accepted it as far as i could.

her goal was it to stay friends with me.

now i browse some local-party pictures and guess what ?

i found her posing with the guy who always was keen on her (even during i was with her,,, on valentines day he sent her a rose with the words he loves her and wants to be with her.)

she told me about this and said she has no contact with him.

i was on a good way to forget her in a positive way and stay friends with her and now...
makes me wonder about her being so cold and without a care for me...

everything i ever believed in collapsed.
2 years of trust and love down the drain ? makes me feel like i wasted those 2 years...

i even fought with me best friend because of her...

now go on and flame the shit out of me for taking a woman over a friend and shit...

what should bother me now

i suggest the French Foreign Legion...

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 06:46 AM

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Originally Posted by the Shemp

i suggest the French Foreign Legion...

no way...

revenge will be mine.

payback's a bitch

Vitasoy · 04-16-2006, 06:49 AM

Sorry to hear man. Love hurts. Atleast theres some happy moments right?

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Vitasoy

Sorry to hear man. Love hurts. Atleast theres some happy moments right?

what should i care about the happy moments man ?
to think back to them, how i loved her and loved this moments and to realize it was all for nothing ?

ssp · 04-16-2006, 06:50 AM

Sleep with her mother!

the Shemp · 04-16-2006, 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

no way...

revenge will be mine.

payback's a bitch

they have cool uniforms, bro

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by the Shemp

they have cool uniforms, bro

i hate violence....

does this make me gay ?

Mutt · 04-16-2006, 06:55 AM

women are cold - time you learned this - they cheat - the ones who cry they've been cheated on 99% of the time have already cheated with another guy.

move on to the next - and if you are ever stupid enough to get married - pre-nup.

KRL · 04-16-2006, 06:57 AM

2 years? Imagine whats its like when you've been with someone for over a decade and have a kid together.

Count your blessings if you find one who will actually fulfill her vow of the "till death do us part" line.

Sorry to hear. Love is brutal on the heart.

Best thing to do is to be thankful at least you found out what she's all about relatively soon in the game.

Move on and don't look back. Everything happens for a reason. And your next love is out there looking for you already. Focus on that hunt, to keep your mind off the one that burnt.

DWB · 04-16-2006, 06:59 AM

women = dirt bags

choose ladyboys.

Sucks to hear man. Relationships are tough and humans in general are pretty wacked. Hard to find a good woman, the same it is for them to find a good man. Pick up and keep moving forward.

darksoul · 04-16-2006, 07:00 AM

thanks for telling us dude.
Everybody cares! Welcome to your gfy family.

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darksoul

thanks for telling us dude.
Everybody cares! Welcome to your gfy family.

is it still freezing in Kolozsvar ???

oh i forgot

your lada will handle the cold temperature

darksoul · 04-16-2006, 07:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

is it still freezing in Kolozsvar ???

oh i forgot

your lada will handle the cold temperature

buhahaha
when you got nothing to say try to insult someone based on his location
next its grammar

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by darksoul

buhahaha
when you got nothing to say try to insult someone based on his location
next its grammar

ok dickhead let's play a question-answer game

why did you click my thread ?

darksoul · 04-16-2006, 07:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

ok dickhead let's play a question-answer game

why did you click my thread ?

because you're so fucking cool

Trax · 04-16-2006, 07:15 AM

shit like that happens all the time
and ive had it even worse than that lol
will take some time to get over but after that everythings fine

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 07:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darksoul

because you're so fucking cool

ok who is the one asnwering shit now ?

Manowar · 04-16-2006, 07:18 AM

forget that ho dude

get yourself a new beauty to ride

preferably one with an AMG badge on it ;)

JMM · 04-16-2006, 07:20 AM

I've always wanted to do this.......

"This thread is worthless without pics"

Wilbo · 04-16-2006, 07:21 AM

There's only one logical thing for you to do now.........stalk her. Show up everywhere she is. At the gym, at her job, her favorite watering hole. Always profess your love for her as loudly as possible so you both get thrown out of where ever you are. Then when you're both standing outside you can woo her with your manly charms. LMK how this works out for you and don't forget to invite me to the wedding.

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 07:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wilbo

There's only one logical thing for you to do now.........stalk her. Show up everywhere she is. At the gym, at her job, her favorite watering hole. Always profess your love for her as loudly as possible so you both get thrown out of where ever you are. Then when you're both standing outside you can woo her with your manly charms. LMK how this works out for you and don't forget to invite me to the wedding.

bad idea

but i can give you "maximum anal" like you propose in your sig

Shocking · 04-16-2006, 07:23 AM

you need to make her suffer what she did to you. and violence is not the best way, the best way to do it is this.
Get your self some nice flowers and a can of bears. go to that guy place tell him you're sad but not mad whit him and get him drunk.
when you find out his drunk fuck him all over and video tape it. send the video to her and that's it! you'll move on.
the worst think that can happend is her calling you to have a treesome with her and the guy

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 07:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shocking

you need to make her suffer what she did to you. and violence is not the best way, the best way to do it is this.
Get your self some nice flowers and a can of bears. go to that guy place tell him you're sad but not mad whit him and get him drunk.
when you find out his drunk fuck him all over and video tape it. send the video to her and that's it! you'll move on.
the worst think that can happend is her calling you to have a treesome with her and the guy

you really honor your nickname

Pornopat · 04-16-2006, 07:25 AM

Sorry to hear that bro.
You will need time to heal and then you will know not to love cold women.
Keep strong.

Manowar · 04-16-2006, 07:32 AM

you know you want it

strobi · 04-16-2006, 07:32 AM

I bet they were "just friends".

Oh well, this will probably the best thing that can happen to you. Been there done that, 6 years, and one day, bam, same story. Couldn't been happier ever since!

strobi · 04-16-2006, 07:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Manowar

you know you want it

Now that's hot!! Nice rims.

TheEnforcer · 04-16-2006, 07:42 AM

Hey man.. sorry to hear. One bit of advice if I could. Don't let it effect your business. When my wife and I split up several years back it totally came out of nowhere and devastated me. Cost me A LOT biz wise because I just didn't give a shit about much of anything for a very long time. Don't let that happen to you man. Throw yourself into work if at all possible.

mrthumbs · 04-16-2006, 07:52 AM

a woman is emotion driven thus you can NEVER trust her. And the ones you can have serious selfasteem issues, are stupid OR boring.

detoxed · 04-16-2006, 07:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

she broke up with me 2 weeks ago with the reason she wants to make new expiriences...

so far so good. i always feared that this day would come and i accepted it as far as i could.

her goal was it to stay friends with me.

now i browse some local-party pictures and guess what ?

i found her posing with the guy who always was keen on her (even during i was with her,,, on valentines day he sent her a rose with the words he loves her and wants to be with her.)

she told me about this and said she has no contact with him.

i was on a good way to forget her in a positive way and stay friends with her and now...
makes me wonder about her being so cold and without a care for me...

everything i ever believed in collapsed.
2 years of trust and love down the drain ? makes me feel like i wasted those 2 years...

i even fought with me best friend because of her...

now go on and flame the shit out of me for taking a woman over a friend and shit...

what should bother me now

stop trying to be her friend, it doesnt work, when its over its over stay away for 6 months at least.

Theo · 04-16-2006, 07:56 AM

"everywhere i go see the same hoes"

RogerV · 04-16-2006, 07:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

what should i care about the happy moments man ?
to think back to them, how i loved her and loved this moments and to realize it was all for nothing ?

I'm sure she loved you the same at one time but people change and want to experience new things thats part of life.
Nothings Forever and lifes great if you just fuck all the girls you want and not let one tie you down.

Either way I have a saying

You don't lose your girl just your turn..

suesheboy · 04-16-2006, 08:01 AM

Post her nude pix and we will all feel better

Cory W · 04-16-2006, 08:04 AM

Most women cheat and or move on to the next best thing whenever opportunity arises. However the general consensus is that men do this.

I have had considerably more guy friends go through this crap than I have had girlfriends go through it. And I have been through it many times.

Don't talk to her anymore. Change your scenary. Take a class, learn something new...if you can, take a little excursion for yourself, a vacation....

Hope things work out.

Shocking · 04-16-2006, 08:21 AM

now seriously. you need to move on sometime you bealive that things can be fix. you will tell us that you will never forget her. but if she came over to you you will!
don't do that ro she'll cheat on you over and over again.
don't even try to get involved with someone else 'cause is not going to be a good idea. keep your self busy. you own biz is the best way.
and the money you can get out of that hard work you can use it to have fun in shows with us your GFY buddies

gecko · 04-16-2006, 08:46 AM

That is why I don't believe in long term relationships

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 09:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WEG Cory

Most women cheat and or move on to the next best thing whenever opportunity arises. However the general consensus is that men do this.

I have had considerably more guy friends go through this crap than I have had girlfriends go through it. And I have been through it many times.

Don't talk to her anymore. Change your scenary. Take a class, learn something new...if you can, take a little excursion for yourself, a vacation....

Hope things work out.

i will move to another city in a few months...

really looking forward to it

wdsguy · 04-16-2006, 09:29 AM

bros before hoes.

rip raster · 04-16-2006, 09:30 AM

if you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen....either that or eat out

Donny · 04-16-2006, 09:55 AM

If you really want to teach her a lesson I'll tell you honestly how. You may not like what I tell you, and it may be hard on the ego, but it works. It really, truly does.

First of all, the worst thing you can do is to get revenge on her. The reason? That "punishment" will help her feel better about her guilt.

Here's what you do instead:

Try to get her to come over to your house. Whatever it takes, get her there alone, just the two of you. Throughout the course of the time you're together, do NOT raise your voice at her. You are a broken man. She has broken you. Ask her why. Tell her how you felt about her. And above all, cry your fucking eyes out. Don't even wipe the snot off your nose. Let it run. Make a mess of yourself right in front of her. Let the pain inside come out in huge body-wrenching sobs. Let her see what she's done to you. No need to be fake about it, you really feel this way inside even if your male ego says otherwise. You're in pain and you're deeply wounded. Make her see what she's done.

Unless she is a heartless bitch, she'll forever remember this. She'll feel like shit about it. Up to this point she may never have realized how much harm she can inflict on another person with her infidelity. Now she'll know.

Seriously. I know this works. From experience. It's even more effective if you're normally an egotistical asshole. It's such a huge change in the norm that they see they've taken everything from you and it really really hits them hard. She'll think twice before cheating again.

Your ego may not be able to handle this. Mine can. I've studied a lot of psychology and I really believe that making people see the damage their actions cause is always more effective than erasing their guilt by being angry or seeking revenge against them.

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 10:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donny

If you really want to teach her a lesson I'll tell you honestly how. You may not like what I tell you, and it may be hard on the ego, but it works. It really, truly does.

First of all, the worst thing you can do is to get revenge on her. The reason? That "punishment" will help her feel better about her guilt.

Here's what you do instead:

Try to get her to come over to your house. Whatever it takes, get her there alone, just the two of you. Throughout the course of the time you're together, do NOT raise your voice at her. You are a broken man. She has broken you. Ask her why. Tell her how you felt about her. And above all, cry your fucking eyes out. Don't even wipe the snot off your nose. Let it run. Make a mess of yourself right in front of her. Let the pain inside come out in huge body-wrenching sobs. Let her see what she's done to you. No need to be fake about it, you really feel this way inside even if your male ego says otherwise. You're in pain and you're deeply wounded. Make her see what she's done.

Unless she is a heartless bitch, she'll forever remember this. She'll feel like shit about it. Up to this point she may never have realized how much harm she can inflict on another person with her infidelity. Now she'll know.

Seriously. I know this works. From experience. It's even more effective if you're normally an egotistical asshole. It's such a huge change in the norm that they see they've taken everything from you and it really really hits them hard. She'll think twice before cheating again.

Your ego may not be able to handle this. Mine can. I've studied a lot of psychology and I really believe that making people see the damage their actions cause is always more effective than erasing their guilt by being angry or seeking revenge against them.

first of all thanks for your reply and the thoughts you made for me...

but.

i really KNOW she knows how i fell about her from dozen times i prove it to her.
and i won't run after her if she chooses another man.

she left my game and plays another one.

hard for me but i will deal with it.

i made my plan and there is no revenge in it.

plain ignorance is the word.
she will notice what she lost one day

Donny · 04-16-2006, 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

first of all thanks for your reply and the thoughts you made for me...

but.

i really KNOW she knows how i fell about her from dozen times i prove it to her.
and i won't run after her if she chooses another man.

she left my game and plays another one.

hard for me but i will deal with it.

i made my plan and there is no revenge in it.

plain ignorance is the word.
she will notice what she lost one day

It's not running after her to do that. It's teaching her the consequences of her actions. It's a very valuable lesson. In the long run, it would actually be doing her a lesson. She'd be a better person because of it, as she'd realize how much harm she can do to another human. If she's a decent person at all, she'll hate her actions and will try to never repeat them again. Continue with your plans to move. Don't try to get her back. Just make her realize what she's done. Seeing, with her own eyes, how much she's broken you is really the very most effective lesson possible.

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donny

It's not running after her to do that. It's teaching her the consequences of her actions. It's a very valuable lesson. In the long run, it would actually be doing her a lesson. She'd be a better person because of it, as she'd realize how much harm she can do to another human. If she's a decent person at all, she'll hate her actions and will try to never repeat them again. Continue with your plans to move. Don't try to get her back. Just make her realize what she's done. Seeing, with her own eyes, how much she's broken you is really the very most effective lesson possible.

i think she already knows what she has done and will be missing.
but atm here "freedom" and singlelife may help her forget it.
but in her sad days there will be alot of ME in her head

Donny · 04-16-2006, 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gangbangjoe

i think she already knows what she has done and will be missing.
but atm here "freedom" and singlelife may help her forget it.
but in her sad days there will be alot of ME in her head

I'm sure she knows. But she would more fully comprehend. Believe me. Humans are visual. It would hit home much much MUCH harder to see with her own eyes how tore up you are over this. I've done it this way a few times and know from experience how effective it is.

Anyway, good luck. Life will go on. It'll just be very painful for it to do so for awhile.

p1mpdogg · 04-16-2006, 10:10 AM

i saved money going with gieco

gangbangjoe · 04-16-2006, 10:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donny

I'm sure she knows. But she would more fully comprehend. Believe me. Humans are visual. It would hit home much much MUCH harder to see with her own eyes how tore up you are over this. I've done it this way a few times and know from experience how effective it is.

Anyway, good luck. Life will go on. It'll just be very painful for it to do so for awhile.

thanks donny for your words.
much appreciatet....

@p1mpdogg: wtf is gieco ?

could you explain to me ?

L-Pink · 04-16-2006, 10:24 AM

I am convinced women's brains are like harddrives ...... They have the ability to wipe/delete and move on without a clue or care ......

stevo · 04-16-2006, 10:26 AM

She probably cheated on you for weeks. Most girls dont leave their boyfriends and "get some space" or try "new experiences" unless they're allready involved with someone else. Take her back and she'll just do it again once she finds someone else that interests her. Give her a few months and she'll be crawling back to you, then you can get your revenge by laughing in her face...

04-16-2006, 06:36 AM	#1
gangbangjoe Ronin Join Date: May 2004 Location: Live by the code Die by the code Posts: 17,693	great... after 2 years of relationship with the woman i loved everything collapsed she broke up with me 2 weeks ago with the reason she wants to make new expiriences... so far so good. i always feared that this day would come and i accepted it as far as i could. her goal was it to stay friends with me. now i browse some local-party pictures and guess what ? i found her posing with the guy who always was keen on her (even during i was with her,,, on valentines day he sent her a rose with the words he loves her and wants to be with her.) she told me about this and said she has no contact with him. i was on a good way to forget her in a positive way and stay friends with her and now... makes me wonder about her being so cold and without a care for me... everything i ever believed in collapsed. 2 years of trust and love down the drain ? makes me feel like i wasted those 2 years... i even fought with me best friend because of her... now go on and flame the shit out of me for taking a woman over a friend and shit... what should bother me now __________________ NichePay - $30 on all trials - Killer Ratios .................................................. Female Ejaculation - Hairy - Shemale Puffy Nipples - Huge Clits - And More! ..................................................

04-16-2006, 06:40 AM	#2
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04-16-2006, 06:49 AM	#5
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04-16-2006, 06:55 AM	#10
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04-16-2006, 06:57 AM	#11
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04-16-2006, 06:50 AM	#7
ssp Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 7,990	Sleep with her mother!

04-16-2006, 06:59 AM	#12
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	women = dirt bags choose ladyboys. Sucks to hear man. Relationships are tough and humans in general are pretty wacked. Hard to find a good woman, the same it is for them to find a good man. Pick up and keep moving forward.

04-16-2006, 07:00 AM	#13
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04-16-2006, 07:15 AM	#18
Trax [----------------------] Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 14,486	shit like that happens all the time and ive had it even worse than that lol will take some time to get over but after that everythings fine

04-16-2006, 07:18 AM	#20
Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	forget that ho dude get yourself a new beauty to ride preferably one with an AMG badge on it ;)

04-16-2006, 07:20 AM	#21
JMM Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 1,755	I've always wanted to do this....... "This thread is worthless without pics"

04-16-2006, 07:21 AM	#22
Wilbo Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Baltimore Posts: 2,082	There's only one logical thing for you to do now.........stalk her. Show up everywhere she is. At the gym, at her job, her favorite watering hole. Always profess your love for her as loudly as possible so you both get thrown out of where ever you are. Then when you're both standing outside you can woo her with your manly charms. LMK how this works out for you and don't forget to invite me to the wedding.

04-16-2006, 07:23 AM	#24
Shocking Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Panama Posts: 523	you need to make her suffer what she did to you. and violence is not the best way, the best way to do it is this. Get your self some nice flowers and a can of bears. go to that guy place tell him you're sad but not mad whit him and get him drunk. when you find out his drunk fuck him all over and video tape it. send the video to her and that's it! you'll move on. the worst think that can happend is her calling you to have a treesome with her and the guy

04-16-2006, 07:25 AM	#26
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04-16-2006, 07:32 AM	#27
Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	you know you want it

04-16-2006, 07:32 AM	#28
strobi Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Belgium Posts: 7,383	I bet they were "just friends". Oh well, this will probably the best thing that can happen to you. Been there done that, 6 years, and one day, bam, same story. Couldn't been happier ever since!

04-16-2006, 07:42 AM	#30
TheEnforcer Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 2,855	Hey man.. sorry to hear. One bit of advice if I could. Don't let it effect your business. When my wife and I split up several years back it totally came out of nowhere and devastated me. Cost me A LOT biz wise because I just didn't give a shit about much of anything for a very long time. Don't let that happen to you man. Throw yourself into work if at all possible.

04-16-2006, 07:52 AM	#31
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04-16-2006, 07:56 AM	#33
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04-16-2006, 08:21 AM	#37
Shocking Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Panama Posts: 523	now seriously. you need to move on sometime you bealive that things can be fix. you will tell us that you will never forget her. but if she came over to you you will! don't do that ro she'll cheat on you over and over again. don't even try to get involved with someone else 'cause is not going to be a good idea. keep your self busy. you own biz is the best way. and the money you can get out of that hard work you can use it to have fun in shows with us your GFY buddies

04-16-2006, 08:46 AM	#38
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04-16-2006, 09:29 AM	#40
wdsguy Ryde or Die Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: California-Shanghai Posts: 19,568	bros before hoes.

04-16-2006, 09:30 AM	#41
rip raster Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Everville Posts: 2,851	if you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen....either that or eat out

04-16-2006, 09:55 AM	#42
Donny As you wish... Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 13,754	If you really want to teach her a lesson I'll tell you honestly how. You may not like what I tell you, and it may be hard on the ego, but it works. It really, truly does. First of all, the worst thing you can do is to get revenge on her. The reason? That "punishment" will help her feel better about her guilt. Here's what you do instead: Try to get her to come over to your house. Whatever it takes, get her there alone, just the two of you. Throughout the course of the time you're together, do NOT raise your voice at her. You are a broken man. She has broken you. Ask her why. Tell her how you felt about her. And above all, cry your fucking eyes out. Don't even wipe the snot off your nose. Let it run. Make a mess of yourself right in front of her. Let the pain inside come out in huge body-wrenching sobs. Let her see what she's done to you. No need to be fake about it, you really feel this way inside even if your male ego says otherwise. You're in pain and you're deeply wounded. Make her see what she's done. Unless she is a heartless bitch, she'll forever remember this. She'll feel like shit about it. Up to this point she may never have realized how much harm she can inflict on another person with her infidelity. Now she'll know. Seriously. I know this works. From experience. It's even more effective if you're normally an egotistical asshole. It's such a huge change in the norm that they see they've taken everything from you and it really really hits them hard. She'll think twice before cheating again. Your ego may not be able to handle this. Mine can. I've studied a lot of psychology and I really believe that making people see the damage their actions cause is always more effective than erasing their guilt by being angry or seeking revenge against them.

04-16-2006, 10:10 AM	#47
p1mpdogg Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 16,714	i saved money going with gieco __________________ A fast fortune is easy to earn! Just go with a winner!

04-16-2006, 10:24 AM	#49
L-Pink working on my tan Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Florida/Kentucky Posts: 39,151	I am convinced women's brains are like harddrives ...... They have the ability to wipe/delete and move on without a clue or care ......

04-16-2006, 10:26 AM	#50
stevo Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Orlando, Florida Posts: 2,051	She probably cheated on you for weeks. Most girls dont leave their boyfriends and "get some space" or try "new experiences" unless they're allready involved with someone else. Take her back and she'll just do it again once she finds someone else that interests her. Give her a few months and she'll be crawling back to you, then you can get your revenge by laughing in her face...