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If you really want to teach her a lesson I'll tell you honestly how. You may not like what I tell you, and it may be hard on the ego, but it works. It really, truly does.
First of all, the worst thing you can do is to get revenge on her. The reason? That "punishment" will help her feel better about her guilt.
Here's what you do instead:
Try to get her to come over to your house. Whatever it takes, get her there alone, just the two of you. Throughout the course of the time you're together, do NOT raise your voice at her. You are a broken man. She has broken you. Ask her why. Tell her how you felt about her. And above all, cry your fucking eyes out. Don't even wipe the snot off your nose. Let it run. Make a mess of yourself right in front of her. Let the pain inside come out in huge body-wrenching sobs. Let her see what she's done to you. No need to be fake about it, you really feel this way inside even if your male ego says otherwise. You're in pain and you're deeply wounded. Make her see what she's done.
Unless she is a heartless bitch, she'll forever remember this. She'll feel like shit about it. Up to this point she may never have realized how much harm she can inflict on another person with her infidelity. Now she'll know.
Seriously. I know this works. From experience. It's even more effective if you're normally an egotistical asshole. It's such a huge change in the norm that they see they've taken everything from you and it really really hits them hard. She'll think twice before cheating again.
Your ego may not be able to handle this. Mine can. I've studied a lot of psychology and I really believe that making people see the damage their actions cause is always more effective than erasing their guilt by being angry or seeking revenge against them.
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