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So who wants to get married and have kids?
Been thinking about this latly since I turned 30.
Is it really worth throwing away your freedom and crazy single life for? |
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My advice is that if you're debating on whether to "throw your single life away" you shouldn't.
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Yes. I have a 7 year old girl, and she's the most important thing in my life.
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Do what ever your tarrot cards read
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#5 |
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I want to get married but I don't ever want kids. I don't want to give birth, I don't think I can endure it and I'm afraid of a c-section. I am one of those wussies that would probably chose an elective c-section (like Britney and Posh Spice did) with me totally put asleep (I'd rather get cut than have to push it out), but even that doesn't seem too appealing.
I also really don't like kids too much, I'd rather be "free". |
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Chaze, if you're 30 and are still considering putting the wild crazy single and obviously low class and insignificant life, over a family, then you have some serious problems.
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Well I have to agree with sickkittens if you have to question weather or not it is worth it you haven't found the right person.
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Turning 33 in 2 days. Married two kids big ass mortgage suv, whole nine yards. Love it. Wouldnt change it for anything. Did the single thing for 26 or 27 years. Its only fun for awhile. Then it starts to just feel empty, and there is a void that no amount of pussy or dope, or money, or alcohol can fill.
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Yea but that's the problem with most of the douchebags in the adult industry. They think living the single life is the shit, and they do it til they're 40, or hell even later. I highly doubt they enjoy it for that long, unless they're ignorant. But if you want to live a meaningless life like most people in the adult industry, to each his own.
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I wouldn't mind settling down, its not like my single life is all that great
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Well I'm getting married in June, within a few years I'm sure we will have a kid since that is what we have talked about.
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well i am 42 and really driving towards that whole ethos. tried it earlier and it didn't take, but i am all kinds of ready now.
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It's not in the cards for me..Girlfriends only
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I'll sum it up in one sentence for you.
Getting married and raising children will be the absolute most rewarding, yet absolute most challenging, experience of your entire life. ![]()
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I'm 37, married for 12 years, and have a 5 year old. Nothing has provided me with more fun or entertainment. It's a blast.
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I want to get married and have kids in few years . now i am still not ready to change my life this way .
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I'd rather be on my boat.
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I've known plenty of guys that got married in their 20s and then 20 years later they are wondering if they missed something. They find themselves in a bar wondering "What would it be like to be with a girl like that?". I KNOW what it would be like. I haven't missed anything, I've been around the block so many times that I know every crack in the sidewalk, and now I'm completely and utterly ready, in every aspect of my life, to be a devoted husband and father. It's silly to be so judgemental of other people's lives or the schedules by which they live them. Just because people don't live their lives exactly the way YOU do does not make them "meaningless" ![]()
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rock out! i don't think theres a woman on earth that can put up with me. ROFL
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I want to have kids, I don't want to get married
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I wasn't critisizing marriage or telling you what point in your life you have to get married. I was critisizing the losers in the adult industry who think the single and crazy life is a meaningful one..
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I'd love to be married with kids. Hard as hell to find a good girl to marry though!
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i'm definitely interested in getting married. kids? never. in general i can't stand them.
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At least some of you have your heads in the right place..
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it is my plan yes, but i am "only" 25, so it will have to wait a year or two (or four) lol
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I don't mind getting married at 50, and I don't even mind not getting married at all. I guess I am not the marrying type. But there is something about siring a son that excites me
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I'm 31 years old, I've been with my wife for a little over 15 years now, married for 5 and a half of those. We have 3 children, 4, 8, and 13. I've only fucked 2 women in my life, my wife and my girlfriend of 3 years before her.
I know that I didn't have any chances to play the field, but I wouldn't want it any other way. I love having a family. I can go out to the bar with the guys and not have to worry about trying to pick someone up, I get to come home to my beautiful wife. The nice thing is that we've stoped at 3 children, so when the last one turns 18, I'll be 45 years old and will be able to enjoy my middle aged years and the grand children. It's kinda funny because I have a couple of friends that would love to have a family of their own, one is 24 and one is 32, but things just never click for them. |
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I guess that it all depends on your situation. If you're with a woman that you feel that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with, by all means marry her, but definately don't rush into things and also try to live with her for a while before you propose because some people can date fine, but once they live together, they can't get along. I had a cousin that got married before moving in together because it was "morally right", but it ended up being a nightmare.
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Definitly worth
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I have a to admit this girl is amazing, I didn't want a girlfriend a week ago and know I'm thinking about family life. Crazy
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I have had relationships which were so great, until the moment I got asked about marriage. Marriage ruins everything for me
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GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
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I am no where close to setting down.
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one of ultimate dreams is to settle down, marry and live forever with the woman i love. we'll make a one, big, happy family. i hope to be father to a twin/s someday.
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I have 5 kids from 21 yrs old to 11 months old.
Been married 3 times since 84 Having kids is great , but the being married part sucked. |
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think it does worth it... u just need to find the perfect person for it! as far as i'm concerned i want to get married and have kids but not just yet...
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doing both changes the dynamics drastically.
since you seem to like your single life (like some of us do and there's nothing wrong with that), then i think you have answered your own question. i think everyone who meets someone of a different level thinks the same way at first. remember, it's lust before love and if you can get past the lust, and deal with the fact that your relationship will level out, then you may have a chance, but..... |
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I completely agree with Michael, to each his own. No one can really pass judgement on how other people decide to live their lives. Jeremy and I talked to michael alot about it in CR and I not only respect him for how he did it but want to go about it the same way. I have alot of friends getting married now in their mid/early twenties, and they're really happy so more power to them, but i personally want to live my life without any regrets at all, especially about getting experience with women. I wanna 'sow my oats', experience everything i can, and then when eventually settle down with a strong, confident beautiful woman who has also experienced everything and isnt ever going to long for anything but me. I met Michael's wife and partied with them both. she's a GREAT girl and i wish them the best!
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I’m still alive barley.
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I'm 33 now, was married in 95 we had one child in 96 then another in 99 in 2001 was divorced *thank god* I got custody of both my boys, It has been very hard to say the least at raising two kids by myself BUT I WOULD NEVER ever trade it in for anything! I love my kids they are my life/friend they are the reason I breath! I love being single with no bags attached to my ass, I like having no girl friend, I love being alone sort of speak! Women are too much of a pain in the ass, and if I was a women I would think the same about men! I do think at times about what it would be like to have another women in my life, then I wake the fuck up and remember how it was to have a women in my life!!!
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O.K. so now I'm wondering if I should do a pre-numpt if I go for it.
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