Why do some people spend so much time on OTHER PEOPLES biz......

[Juicy D. Links]

and whine n bitch all the time , why dont you just mind your own business and worry about your own livelihood?


Any insight on this?

[BoyAlley]

hrmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

In the world I come from, we call them "Drama Queens".

Not sure if you str8 folk have a similar term...

[Juicy D. Links]

Originally Posted by BoyAlley

hrmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

In the world I come from, we call them "Drama Queens".

Not sure if you str8 folk have a similar term...

hehee twink

[kernelpanic]

Originally Posted by BoyAlley

hrmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

In the world I come from, we call them "Drama Queens".

Not sure if you str8 folk have a similar term...

I think "attention whore" works.

[urb]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

and whine n bitch all the time , why dont you just mind your own business and worry about your own livelihood?
Any insight on this?

So what has that got to do with you?

[Doctor Dre]

Because there are public messageboards. Some people think because they interact and hang out at the same place as other people that they are in their league, and that they can critisize them . It's funny how a guy making 30k a year always talk shit on the guys making millions.

Same things goes for celebrities. People talk so much shit on them, but in the end, who's broke and jealous ?

[jimthefiend]

congrats to the winners

[StuartD]

I've said it before and I'll say it again...

for some people, it's way easier to dig and search and put in tons of effort into bringing someone else down, rather than to work hard to reach that same level themselves.

Put it this way, if someone is an 8 out of 10, and you're only a 4.... people would prefer to dig for dirt and try to bring them down to a 4 as well, rather than work hard to make themselves an 8.

If you can do as well as someone else, you'll feel as successful as them... but if you can't do that, then bring them down to your level to feel as successful as them.

[Juicy D. Links]

Originally Posted by urb

So what has that got to do with you?

Read the post , refer to a dictionary if you have issues with English......if you need further help give me call ill explain to you and have translator for you also

[tASSy]

where were you last night? *snicker*

[EroticySteve]

When you're driving it's okay to glance in your rearview mirror to see if it's okay to change lanes. However, you must keep your eyes on the road and keep driving forward. The second you take your eyes off of the road you'll crash.

[seeric]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

and whine n bitch all the time , why dont you just mind your own business and worry about your own livelihood?


Any insight on this?

its called "haterism"

if you're good at what you do, people will hate you for it and try to find ways to keep you from doing it. for some its bitching. for others its talking shit to people to try to discredit you.

most people who do that suffer from F.E.A.R.

False Evidence Appearing Real:

meaning they wont try the things it takes to go over the top and be successful becuz they are afraid to fail at them. so, instead, they spend the time bitching and whining to achieve emotional comfort which is normally short lived.

[newbreed]

Understatement of the year...

[Barefootsies]

It's the old addage, "Crabs in a barrel".

[jjjay]

Originally Posted by Doctor Dre

Because there are public messageboards. Some people think because they interact and hang out at the same place as other people that they are in their league, and that they can critisize them . It's funny how a guy making 30k a year always talk shit on the guys making millions.

Same things goes for celebrities. People talk so much shit on them, but in the end, who's broke and jealous ?

word

really successful people don't spend their lives crying on message boards

[reginaldo]

they get bored with themselves... and your business is cooler than mine anyway

[eroswebmaster]

Originally Posted by jjjay

word

really successful people don't spend their lives crying on message boards

LOL apparently you don't hang around GFY much.

[GlydeGirl]

People can easily see through the bullshit that these losers like to propagate all over the boards... it's kinda like back in highschool when there were those few kids at the back of the class who made complete jerks of themselves to get attention rather than do the work it takes to achieve true success.

Ho Hum!

[dissipate]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

and whine n bitch all the time , why dont you just mind your own business and worry about your own livelihood?


Any insight on this?

we should just discuss trannies all day

[swedguy]

Sometimes other peoples business with other peoples "business" interferes your own business.

[jjjay]

Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

LOL apparently you don't hang around GFY much.

i still think I'm right - mildly successful people bitch all the time. people running successful companies and making millions don't have the time to bitch here, and why would they?

true successes don't bitch here every day because they've got better more profitable ways to use their time

that said, something about the adult industry does seem to bring the whiny bitch out in every one. you don't get this on mainstream forums except from total losers

[jjjay]

Originally Posted by swedguy

Sometimes other peoples business with other peoples "business" interferes your own business.

but whining about it on a board wastes your time and makes no difference

for example 12clicks has many, many haters, but he says himself that nothing said on a board has ever impacted his business

[eroswebmaster]

*DISCLAIMER*
This post is not intended for anyone, is directed at no one ONLY DIRECTED AT THE TOPIC
*END DISCLAIMER*

"haterism", and "jealousy" aside. Sometimes when people call someone out it is just what it is, calling someone out.

If what people are saying about you does not apply, then shake the dust off your feet so to speak and move on. The more you deny it, or argue with it the more it looks as if you think it does apply to you.

HOWEVER don't live your life with blinders on telling yourself that the only reason someone points out a flaw whether you believe it or not that it's only "haterism, or "jealousy."

Sometimes, the emperor wears no clothes and people just don't like to hear that. Not just the emperor, but his followers as well. And what sets these people off are that if they come to realise the emperor wears no clothes, then it says something about who they are by following this person and commending him for his fine choice of invisible gowns and cloaks that day.

Success whether real or not does not equal a good person. There are plenty of rich, succesful bad people in this world and plenty of good flat ass broke unsuccesful people in this world.

I guess it alll boils down to what you define as success. Me, it's not about how much money you've accumulated, but what obstacles you've overcome in your life to accumulate the things that matter. Respect, friends, etc.

I respect the bag boy with down syndrom who works at Albertsons, more than I respect some guy who has been able to accumulate a million dollars.

[EdgeXXX]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

and whine n bitch all the time , why dont you just mind your own business and worry about your own livelihood?


Any insight on this?

Usually it's a jealousy issue

[EdgeXXX]

Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

Success whether real or not does not equal a good person. There are plenty of rich, succesful bad people in this world and plenty of good flat ass broke unsuccesful people in this world.

I guess it alll boils down to what you define as success. Me, it's not about how much money you've accumulated, but what obstacles you've overcome in your life to accumulate the things that matter. Respect, friends, etc.

I respect the bag boy with down syndrom who works at Albertsons, more than I respect some guy who has been able to accumulate a million dollars.

[Sly]

What I don't understand is why various people feel the need to share every aspect of their life with GFY and then get all bent out of shape when GFY decides to pry into that persons "business". I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing anyone in this thread, but I see this ALL too often.

Look people, if you want the skeletons to stay in your closet, then shut the fucking closet door.

[Brujah]

Is this about the Fusker + Fleshlight thread ?
https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/568087-fleshlight-accepts-fusker-sites.html

If so, I'll respond.

I'd say it's because they don't want "trusted" sponsors supporting Fusker sites which steal your own webmasters/affiliates bandwidth, while competing with them for the sales. Fuskers steal content from content providers, sponsors, to promote OTHER sponsors. Fuskers can bring a server down in some cases. This isn't "other peoples" biz, as it directly impacts the people complaining about it too.

[TDF]

Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

*DISCLAIMER*
This post is not intended for anyone, is directed at no one ONLY DIRECTED AT THE TOPIC
*END DISCLAIMER*

"haterism", and "jealousy" aside. Sometimes when people call someone out it is just what it is, calling someone out.

If what people are saying about you does not apply, then shake the dust off your feet so to speak and move on. The more you deny it, or argue with it the more it looks as if you think it does apply to you.

HOWEVER don't live your life with blinders on telling yourself that the only reason someone points out a flaw whether you believe it or not that it's only "haterism, or "jealousy."

Sometimes, the emperor wears no clothes and people just don't like to hear that. Not just the emperor, but his followers as well. And what sets these people off are that if they come to realise the emperor wears no clothes, then it says something about who they are by following this person and commending him for his fine choice of invisible gowns and cloaks that day.

Success whether real or not does not equal a good person. There are plenty of rich, succesful bad people in this world and plenty of good flat ass broke unsuccesful people in this world.

I guess it alll boils down to what you define as success. Me, it's not about how much money you've accumulated, but what obstacles you've overcome in your life to accumulate the things that matter. Respect, friends, etc.

I respect the bag boy with down syndrom who works at Albertsons, more than I respect some guy who has been able to accumulate a million dollars.

chuchhhh

[swedguy]

Originally Posted by jjjay

but whining about it on a board wastes your time and makes no difference

for example 12clicks has many, many haters, but he says himself that nothing said on a board has ever impacted his business

I think "whining" here is not really meant just as "whining". It's more like "No one should give a fuck who we do business with, legit or not".

[Brujah]

Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

I guess it alll boils down to what you define as success. Me, it's not about how much money you've accumulated, but what obstacles you've overcome in your life to accumulate the things that matter. Respect, friends, etc.

I respect the bag boy with down syndrom who works at Albertsons, more than I respect some guy who has been able to accumulate a million dollars.

Nice post, reminded me of the Mexican Fisherman.

[jjjay]

Originally Posted by Sly

What I don't understand is why various people feel the need to share every aspect of their life with GFY and then get all bent out of shape when GFY decides to pry into that persons "business". I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing anyone in this thread, but I see this ALL too often.

Look people, if you want the skeletons to stay in your closet, then shut the fucking closet door.

i agree. i don't understand why people would share their lives on a public forum full of strangers

what really confuses me is when people talk about members of their family dying for example. really not the place imho

[polish_aristocrat]

Originally Posted by jjjay

what really confuses me is when people talk about members of their family dying for example. really not the place imho

if you dont have lots of friends, you share such things here, since you feel the need to share it with someone, i'd say

[eroswebmaster]

Originally Posted by Brujah

Nice post, reminded me of the Mexican Fisherman.

haha great story man thanks for sharing that's going to a bunch of friends.

[BlackCrayon]

yeah, like most said usually its jealousy but sometimes its warrented, for example that guy who made people sign up to his sponsors to get access to his site. and when people see fleshlights for sale on torrent sites with 100's of full site rips and such, people tend to see it as supporting content theft.

[jayeff]

Unless you are talking strictly personal stuff, there is no such thing as other people's business. Everything else, if it doesn't affect someone directly, affects them indirectly.

No-one enjoys criticism, but it's a heck of a lot more useful than being told how wonderful you are. You don't need praise, because even if it is sincere, by definition you are already doing what your fans want. The things people don't like are the things which are costing you money.

Anyone who is near as smart as some of the "gurus" in this thread seem to think they are, should have the confidence and ability to judge negative comments on their merit, not on their source or the motive behind them.

[dunefield]

Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

*DISCLAIMER*
This post is not intended for anyone, is directed at no one ONLY DIRECTED AT THE TOPIC
*END DISCLAIMER*

I respect the bag boy with down syndrom who works at Albertsons, more than I respect some guy who has been able to accumulate a million dollars.

Ditto... Pretty much sums it up right there...

[EroticySteve]

Who needs friends with the Internet?

[KRL]

Good post JD!

[Juicy D. Links]

Originally Posted by A1R3K

its called "haterism"

if you're good at what you do, people will hate you for it and try to find ways to keep you from doing it. for some its bitching. for others its talking shit to people to try to discredit you.

most people who do that suffer from F.E.A.R.

False Evidence Appearing Real:

meaning they wont try the things it takes to go over the top and be successful becuz they are afraid to fail at them. so, instead, they spend the time bitching and whining to achieve emotional comfort which is normally short lived.

[Juicy D. Links]

Originally Posted by KRL

Good post JD!

ehhehehee 2 many nosy fucks here bro , if they spent as much time on other shit then worrying about others business god knows what they can achieve

[Juicy D. Links]

Originally Posted by Brujah

Is this about the Fusker + Fleshlight thread ?
https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/568087-fleshlight-accepts-fusker-sites.html

If so, I'll respond.

I'd say it's because they don't want "trusted" sponsors supporting Fusker sites which steal your own webmasters/affiliates bandwidth, while competing with them for the sales. Fuskers steal content from content providers, sponsors, to promote OTHER sponsors. Fuskers can bring a server down in some cases. This isn't "other peoples" biz, as it directly impacts the people complaining about it too.

not about that tbh i could really care less about that post. Sponsors take traffic from evrywhere , the Raw Alex guy is attention seeker in making that thread. See the site now more sponsors on there hehehe but only FL is at fault tsk tsk to people like that

[Juicy D. Links]

Originally Posted by tASSy

where were you last night? *snicker*

playing with my dildos

[swedguy]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

ehhehehee 2 many nosy fucks here bro , if they spent as much time on other shit then worrying about others business god knows what they can achieve

Fusker sites live off being illegal (coypright theft). Just like warez and CP sites.

If sponsors wouldn't support Fusker sites, not very many would be around. Which would mean that webmasters could spend their bandwidth on more useful things, like making more money.
Not all webmasters are protected against them either. So those webmasters could spend their time on more useful things, like making more money.

Since Fleshlight accept bandwidth and copyright thieving sites. Do you also accept warez and CP sites? Illegal as illegal, right? Where do you draw the line?

[jjjay]

Originally Posted by swedguy

Fusker sites live off being illegal (coypright theft). Just like warez and CP sites.

If sponsors wouldn't support Fusker sites, not very many would be around. Which would mean that webmasters could spend their bandwidth on more useful things, like making more money.
Not all webmasters are protected against them either. So those webmasters could spend their time on more useful things, like making more money.

Since Fleshlight accept bandwidth and copyright thieving sites. Do you also accept warez and CP sites? Illegal as illegal, right? Where do you draw the line?

there's very different levels to illegal of course. a punch in the face and stab in the face are both illegal, but quite different...

[jonesy]

tattoos are SEXY

[swedguy]

Originally Posted by jjjay

there's very different levels to illegal of course. a punch in the face and stab in the face are both illegal, but quite different...

Illegal is illegal no matter how you look at it. There's on different levels of penalties.

[jjjay]

Originally Posted by swedguy

Illegal is illegal no matter how you look at it. There's on different levels of penalties.

i bet you download mp3's you big time criminal

[urb]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

Read the post , refer to a dictionary if you have issues with English......if you need further help give me call ill explain to you and have translator for you also

I am English. And you misunderstood my post completely.

[swedguy]

Originally Posted by jjjay

i bet you download mp3's you big time criminal

I do and I know that it's illegal. But I don't steal money from my fellow business associates.

[12clicks]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

why dont you just mind your own business and worry about your own livelihood?

because most here do not have livelihoods to worry about.