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woj · 01-29-2006, 09:47 AM

50 husbands who have a fat wife..........

Peaches · 01-29-2006, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Lord Nelson

DoctorrDre is right.

Also, if we're talking about fat women, then their fatness is a big (so to speak) part of who they are - it isn't just "what they look like". Being obese - like 5' 5" and 150 - shows they have no willpower and no self-respect. Why would any man want to be with such a woman?

5'5" 150 pounds is actually considered "normal", albeit on the high end. It's not even overweight, let alone obese.

Peaches · 01-29-2006, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss

This thread is hilarious. So all the guys expect "their women" to stay in tip top shape, look like a teen porstar and run around in sexy lingerie...and then jump into bed, give the big guy a massage and a blowjob and let him drift off to sleep. I think I got things about right haven't I?

Well, that is really nice...now how about if the "big guy" stops being big! I want a six pack guys, and not one ouce of fat on your sexy body! I want a full head of hair, that never has a hair out of place. I never want to see 5 o'clock shadow, running around in an old t-shirt and jogging pants and you better bring home BIG money because I will be too busy working out at the gym, getting my hair done, my nails, my pedicure, my botox treatments and going to my psychiatrist trying to figure out why I am still with a man that is so friggen shallow. Oh..I also need a nanny, a housekeeper, a personal masseuse...and I need a boy toy..cause man..your dick just isn't big enough and you haven't got a clue on how to please a woman.

LadyMischief · 01-29-2006, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by mayon

I personally dont like obese lady especially to those who dont show the will to burn those fats nor have calorie intake control.

some ladies out there are pure lazy

Funny, it's not a gender-specific phenomenon.. The same can be said about many men, too.

BlackCrayon · 01-29-2006, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss

This thread is hilarious. So all the guys expect "their women" to stay in tip top shape, look like a teen porstar and run around in sexy lingerie...and then jump into bed, give the big guy a massage and a blowjob and let him drift off to sleep. I think I got things about right haven't I?

Well, that is really nice...now how about if the "big guy" stops being big! I want a six pack guys, and not one ouce of fat on your sexy body! I want a full head of hair, that never has a hair out of place. I never want to see 5 o'clock shadow, running around in an old t-shirt and jogging pants and you better bring home BIG money because I will be too busy working out at the gym, getting my hair done, my nails, my pedicure, my botox treatments and going to my psychiatrist trying to figure out why I am still with a man that is so friggen shallow. Oh..I also need a nanny, a housekeeper, a personal masseuse...and I need a boy toy..cause man..your dick just isn't big enough and you haven't got a clue on how to please a woman.

get real, no one is demanding perfection. just for women to give a shit. its just a preferance of mine that i don't want my girl to weight more than me. i dont think that is being shallow. if the guy doesn't help out if she is busy and only insults her thinking it will motivate, then he is just as much to blame. im not married but i think it would be sad if i found myself no longer attracted to my wife because she gained 100 pounds but i still loved her to death and wanted to be with her for the rest of my life regardless but feeling helpless to help her loose it if she isn't willing to do anything about it or freaks out and yells at you when you bring it up. none of us are perfect, lots of men are assholes but lots of women also use that as an excuse.

Pornwolf · 01-29-2006, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by chase

And, for the record, I like you too, PW.

Aww shucks... thanks Chase.

Let's be real about this, people in the US are a bit bigger than average. Obesity is oficially a problem here in the states. I could post literally thousands of links of clinical studies to prove what I am saying. I'll just post one big linkinstead.

This says to me, people need to stop making excuses and do something about it. The bottom line here is there is no excuse for obesity in otherwise healthy individuals. None. This goes for men and women. None of that mental stuff is an excuse that you can really use. You know the old saying, it's all in your head! heh heh

Ladies, one more thing, just don't exercise your ass away. Let it be known that Pornwolf loves a Bangbros sized round ass with proportionately a tiny waist!

LadyMischief · 01-29-2006, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Pornwolf

Aww shucks... thanks Chase.

Let's be real about this, people in the US are a bit bigger than average. Obesity is oficially a problem here in the states. I could post literally thousands of links of clinical studies to prove what I am saying. I'll just post one big linkinstead.

This says to me, people need to stop making excuses and do something about it. The bottom line here is there is no excuse for obesity in otherwise healthy individuals. None. This goes for men and women. None of that mental stuff is an excuse that you can really use. You know the old saying, it's all in your head! heh heh

Ladies, one more thing, just don't exercise your ass away. Let it be known that Pornwolf loves a Bangbros sized round ass with proportionately a tiny waist!

I agree 100%... men AND women need to stop makign excuses, and support each other to make a change...

I like you too, big guy ;)

wyldblyss · 01-29-2006, 10:32 AM

You don't get it. The vast majority of men are overweight too, but in soceity, that is perfectly acceptable. Men who say "i love my wife but I'm not attracted to her anymore because she gained 50 lbs" is bullshit...especially when they guy saying it has probably gained a good 60lbs himself and is losing his hair. Most of the guys on this board have no clue what love is and can't distinguish between pure lust and love.

Sexual attraction to the person you love is SO much more than how much they weigh, how many stretch marks they have or how big their breasts are. It is also about a lot more than how far back the hairline is, how big the beer gut is and how big their cock is.

Sexual attraction to someone you love is being able to see the soul from within...it is about that high you get having sex when two sould become one..where you are able to be who you are with all of your faults and love every fiber of that persons being.

I give and demand unconditional love. I don't care how much weight the husband gains, how far back the hairline recedes...I don't care if he gets in an accident and loses his leg...or has "erectile difficulties" when he gets older. I'm here for the long run baby and I make my husband feel like he is the sexiest damn thing that ever walked this earth....because to me he IS and always will be. The outer shell means shit....oh hell....we all look like a fucking can of worms eventually....we all end up looking old and wrinkled and saggy. Don't base your love on appearances...because they don't last. Everything works both ways.....you get a woman that looks like teen pornstar and acts like one....then you are going to get one shallow chick that spends most of her day primping herself and demanding everything be done for her. She will be so self centered that you are the last person on her mind and if you start to go down hill, make less money or are hurt in an accident...man...she is out of there. Do you really want that? I know I don't.

chase · 01-29-2006, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Pornwolf

Aww shucks... thanks Chase.

Let's be real about this, people in the US are a bit bigger than average. Obesity is oficially a problem here in the states. I could post literally thousands of links of clinical studies to prove what I am saying. I'll just post one big linkinstead.

This says to me, people need to stop making excuses and do something about it. The bottom line here is there is no excuse for obesity in otherwise healthy individuals. None. This goes for men and women. None of that mental stuff is an excuse that you can really use. You know the old saying, it's all in your head! heh heh

Ladies, one more thing, just don't exercise your ass away. Let it be known that Pornwolf loves a Bangbros sized round ass with proportionately a tiny waist!

I'm not saying it's a good excuse...that's what I mean by the chicken and egg debate not mattering one bit. (is mattering a word? lmao)

What I mean is that there are pro-active ways we can ALL be more healthy ourselves, and inspire the same in our partners..complaining about it doesn't really do anything but add to the root of the problem.

And I don't think I could ever get rid of this bubble butt, no matter how crackhead skinny I got, lol.

Donny · 01-29-2006, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Lord Nelson

LOL, its also too fucking funny how EVERY fat person blames it on a bad medical condition. I have NEVER heard a single fat person admiting that he simply ate too fucking much and was a lazy bastard.

Then I guess you've never read one of my posts on the matter. I'm fat because I like to eat. A LOT. And I like to sit in front of my computer. A LOT.

But you see, someday I'll decide that it's important for me to lose weight. Then I'll cut my portions, do some jogging, and drop the lbs.

And you, my friend, will still be ugly. But you can't run for that and I doubt you can afford plastic surgery.

Donny · 01-29-2006, 10:42 AM

In fact, I think I'll start today by walking to McDonald's for my daily 2-Sausage McMuffins with egg... instead of driving.

Pornwolf · 01-29-2006, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief

I agree 100%... men AND women need to stop makign excuses, and support each other to make a change...

I like you too, big guy ;)

Awww... Thanks LadyMischief!

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wyldblyss, the comment you made is true from your standpoint but men are hardwired differently.

That soul stuff is great but at the end of the day we are a visual lot that responds a bit better to a tight tummy than a soul connection. If a man tells you different he is lying. It is true. How you look is more important to us than you understand.

Why do you think so many men trade in their old wife for a new trophy wife when they have the means? The old wife knows what he likes, knows how to play the family, handle the kids and she knows where all the bodies are buried. You can't ask for more than that.

Yet and still, the guy goes for the young hot thing. It's true in almost every case for wealthy men. Sure, it's a little shallow, but again, we are wired that way.

Take care of yourself and don't take it for granted that your man is happy when you (both) are not in the best shape you can be.

Lord Nelson · 01-29-2006, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny

And you, my friend, will still be ugly. But you can't run for that and I doubt you can afford plastic surgery.

Does insulting me make you feel better about yourself?

Its okay to cry

Lord Nelson · 01-29-2006, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Donny

Then I guess you've never read one of my posts on the matter. I'm fat because I like to eat. A LOT. And I like to sit in front of my computer. A LOT.

But you see, someday I'll decide that it's important for me to lose weight. Then I'll cut my portions, do some jogging, and drop the lbs.

when you do, it will already be too late.

here, let me break the myth on how fat people die:

fat people are under the impression that somehow they will die a sudden painless death, but at a younger age.

nothing is further from the truth. fat people SUFFER.

they get arthritis at 30.
they get diabetes at 40.
they are on dailysis at 45.
they have heart failure at 50.
they get their legs amputated at 55.
they have a stroke at 60.
they are in a nursing home until age 65 when they develop pneumonia and die.

this is the fat person/brian saville future - over half of his life spent in terrible health, diabled, in a nursing home, and suffering. all while being a tremendous burden to his family.

ariel sharon is also a good example of this. if he survives- and the doctors think he will- he will spend the next 10 years as a disabled mess in a nursing home.

fit people live in good health up until their fatal event.

Alex · 01-29-2006, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by chase

My husband got bald..maybe I should have put something in our marriage license about that. Silly, huh? So is this discussion. You don't want to fuck a fat girl...then don't. But lay off the people who do, for chrissakes. And, regardless is you understand it, lots of guys do, and if you'd like, I can show you hundreds of emails to prove it.

You do realize that hair loss is genetic while weight gain is entirely the persons fault. Simple concept: burn more calories than you consume.

I know tons of girls that are a little fat/chubby mainly because they had a faster metabolism when they were younger and just kept eating as they used to as they got older and gained weight. The difference with them is they realize that it is their fault that they gained the weight and now they have to be more active and excersize to get back to a healthy state.

Its not about all about looks. If you know that playing Russian Roulette can kill you, you dont do it. Running through a free way can kill you, so you dont do it. But gaining a ton of excess fat can lead to the same outcome, so why do it?

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-29-2006, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Raven

One more thing before I call this quits....the ONLY way this worked for me was forcing my entire household to change their ways, so I could change mine.

That meant no more junk food, no more soda, no more anything that was not on my nutrition program.

I would like to know how you did that.. cause I live in a house full of guys that have high metabolisms and eat garbage. I have argued and screamed and tried to explain that "I want to get back down to my previous weight"..many a times.

They throw a fit cause they think they cant have chocolate everyday and they do eat junk food everyday...I even offered to go live by myself.. they werent having that dammit..who would take care of them..they surely cant take care of themselves.

This summer I am getting rid of everyone for 8 weeks except hubby. I told him he is on his own..I am determined to lose this 25 lbs that I have been carrying for 9 years. the fucked up thing is.. I am highly active, I hike and snowboard and have great endurance, I just cant seem to get the metabolism to stay working . I am looking forward to this long needed break...plus a trip around the wonderland trail this summer will get rid of at least 10 lbs...woot

congrats on your weight loss Raven

Pornwolf · 01-29-2006, 11:03 AM

That's a pretty disturbing yet very possible breakdown Lord Nelson.

Alex · 01-29-2006, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief

Apparently you ARE as stupid as you come off.

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/74/89446
http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH...339/23671.html
http://www.clevelandclinic.org/flori...ric/causes.htm
http://obesitysurgery-info.com/obesityreasons.htm

Apparently all the medical professionals are full of shit too, right?

Some of those diseases:
Hypothyroidism: In which your metabolism slows down.
*That doesnt cause weight gain, its knowing that you have a slow metabolism and then still eating nine pizzas and watching T.V.

Or from another link.
Causes of Obesity:
Genetic influences (However, you still maintain most of the control when it comes to your weight, unless you have one of some rare genetic diseases that make it almost impossible to avoid obesity.
*Food intake and eating disorders
*Lifestyle
*Drugs
All factors controlled by you.

Most of those articles say the same thing, that in the end you still have full control over your weight.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-29-2006, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

5'5" 150 pounds is actually considered "normal", albeit on the high end. It's not even overweight, let alone obese.

no shit..this dude has some serious issues..

wasnt marilyn Monroe about 145 lbs

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-29-2006, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Alex

You do realize that hair loss is genetic

You do realize that its genetic for women to have a higher percentage of body fat, slower metabolisms, and we also give birth which we have to gain some sort of weight to have a healthy baby. I mean damn, if you expect women to jump through hoops and defy genetics..then at least have the decency to go buy hair plugs

chase · 01-29-2006, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Alex

You do realize that hair loss is genetic while weight gain is entirely the persons fault. Simple concept: burn more calories than you consume.

I know tons of girls that are a little fat/chubby mainly because they had a faster metabolism when they were younger and just kept eating as they used to as they got older and gained weight. The difference with them is they realize that it is their fault that they gained the weight and now they have to be more active and excersize to get back to a healthy state.

Its not about all about looks. If you know that playing Russian Roulette can kill you, you dont do it. Running through a free way can kill you, so you dont do it. But gaining a ton of excess fat can lead to the same outcome, so why do it?

Of course I do. I would hope that one thing you've garnered from my posts over the last two years, other than the fact that I'm a fat girl, (haha, yeah, I can laugh at myself. that's why people still love me even though I am so horrendous to look at. *grin*), is that I am a fairly intelligent woman.

I was just trying to make a point, which you apparently missed. But that's ok. We all have our opinions here, and I'm here more to express mine than try to change yours.

iwantchixx · 01-29-2006, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief

Well this is all about perspective, too.. If he's a loving husband with half a personality, why wouldn't he say "Sweetheart, I think you have a weight problem, let's work on it together". It's pretty easy to stand on the sidelines and hurl insults, but it's harder to make a stand for someone you claim to love and help them through a difficult time. THAT in my mind shows more character than sitting around calling people pigs.

If a man loves his wife, shouldn't he be willing to speak up and help her get her health back?

Holy shit, good way to get castrated!!!

Ever watched a man even remotely mention his girl's weight?

Ack. WWIII

iwantchixx · 01-29-2006, 11:43 AM

That's why you marry a larger girl guys, cause later on, she'll eventually lose it and it's all uphill!

Naw.. I don't really care about weight, so long as it;s not too much and not a health issue.

Downtime · 01-29-2006, 11:43 AM

i call it laziness.

Donny · 01-29-2006, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Lord Nelson

Does insulting me make you feel better about yourself?

Its okay to cry

You do realize I was using a very old, tired joke, right? I'm sure you've read the bumper sticker somewhere:

"So I'm fat. You're ugly. I can diet."

Donny · 01-29-2006, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Lord Nelson

when you do, it will already be too late.

here, let me break the myth on how fat people die:

fat people are under the impression that somehow they will die a sudden painless death, but at a younger age.

nothing is further from the truth. fat people SUFFER.

they get arthritis at 30.
they get diabetes at 40.
they are on dailysis at 45.
they have heart failure at 50.
they get their legs amputated at 55.
they have a stroke at 60.
they are in a nursing home until age 65 when they develop pneumonia and die.

this is the fat person/brian saville future - over half of his life spent in terrible health, diabled, in a nursing home, and suffering. all while being a tremendous burden to his family.

ariel sharon is also a good example of this. if he survives- and the doctors think he will- he will spend the next 10 years as a disabled mess in a nursing home.

fit people live in good health up until their fatal event.

Over generalization there buddy. My grandmother was huge and had no health problems until she was in her 70's, when cancer took her life. My dad is about the same size as me and has had no health problems. I have no health problems and I'm in my 30s. Where is that arthritis you speak of?

Nah, I'm fine. I could probably out run you for distance on a treadmill, too. Me and that treadmill can go for ages.

Babagirls · 01-29-2006, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Pornwolf

It's a problem. It should be written into all mariage papers that the wife has to keep a certain bodyfat percentage as long as the husband fills his provider duties.

i hope your joking

my man has gained like 50 lbs over the past 7 years we've been together, and i still love him and wanna be with him, more than ever!

now, if he gained 200 lbs and he was so fat taht he couldnt wipe his own ass after a shit, THEN its time to talk about either goin to Weight Watchers and the gym or divorce.

but people (male and female) tend to gain weight more each year, their metabolisms slow down, becomes much much more difficult to lose weight, its called life.

Violetta · 01-29-2006, 11:56 AM

it goes both ways. I started working out last month! Already feel better

candyflip · 01-29-2006, 12:01 PM

It's the monthly troll thread involving people being fat.

If it doesn't effect you, then why bother wasting your time obsessing over it?

And as for you girls, you girls should know these threads and their intent a little better by now and just let them drop to the second page. If you need some love and attention, just come see me

wyldblyss · 01-29-2006, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Pornwolf

Awww... Thanks LadyMischief!

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wyldblyss, the comment you made is true from your standpoint but men are hardwired differently.

That soul stuff is great but at the end of the day we are a visual lot that responds a bit better to a tight tummy than a soul connection. If a man tells you different he is lying. It is true. How you look is more important to us than you understand.

Why do you think so many men trade in their old wife for a new trophy wife when they have the means? The old wife knows what he likes, knows how to play the family, handle the kids and she knows where all the bodies are buried. You can't ask for more than that.

Yet and still, the guy goes for the young hot thing. It's true in almost every case for wealthy men. Sure, it's a little shallow, but again, we are wired that way.

Take care of yourself and don't take it for granted that your man is happy when you (both) are not in the best shape you can be.

Most men trade in the wife because they have their own security/ego issues and they think that having a sweet young thing on their arm makes them younger or better. I am so glad that I am not married to anyone like you....being your wife would be a terrible burden...knowing that my life with you is based on how I looked....the metabolism of women after age 30 really shows down...menopause just makes it that much harder. With you we would go out to a lovely restaurant...and while you enjoyed a delicous meal, I would eat a 1/2 side salad with no dressing because gaining weight means you would leave me and my children would be fatherless. I would be at the gym all the time because you only love the outward me....every time you looked at another woman I would worry if you are going to dump me or just fuck around with her on the side.

God forbid the breasts start to sag....I would have to go to the plastic surgeon to have an uplift every 5 years..starting at age 30.....the stretch marks after the kids...back to the surgeon for a tummy tuck and stretch mark removal. The laugh lines I get from laughing at the cute things are children do will be handled by botox in the early stages...after that I would have to get the eyes done....then the partial face lift...then the full face lifts....all the while wondering...is this going to be the year I don't look young enough and get traded in? My life with you would be like walking on eggshells...always wondering if I was good enough for you.....constant worry about my weight and the sagging and everything else...never enjoying life.

As for your words of wisdom about men being "hotwired" that way, that is just an excuse you use for being shallow. Your advice to "take care of yourself" because once I get old or out of shape or something...my husband will walk out on me for another woman...well......you don't know me

My husband is 16 years my junior and my breasts were saggy and I had wrinkles and stretch marks before I ever met him. We have been married almost 8 years and life is very good. We make a great team, we love each other for who we are. We encourage each other to be the very best we can be, but our love is not dependent upon that.

Good luck...and please...take care of your finances....those sweet young things go through money really fast...and the older you get, the more money you will need to keep the young ones happy. Don't forget....don't live with any of them.....they will get a good percentage of your money when you toss them aside for the newest model...and you can only do that so many times before you just don't have enough money to buy the girl of your dreams.

Babagirls · 01-29-2006, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss

Most men trade in the wife because they have their own security/ego issues and they think that having a sweet young thing on their arm makes them younger or better. I am so glad that I am not married to anyone like you....being your wife would be a terrible burden...knowing that my life with you is based on how I looked....the metabolism of women after age 30 really shows down...menopause just makes it that much harder. With you we would go out to a lovely restaurant...and while you enjoyed a delicous meal, I would eat a 1/2 side salad with no dressing because gaining weight means you would leave me and my children would be fatherless. I would be at the gym all the time because you only love the outward me....every time you looked at another woman I would worry if you are going to dump me or just fuck around with her on the side.

God forbid the breasts start to sag....I would have to go to the plastic surgeon to have an uplift every 5 years..starting at age 30.....the stretch marks after the kids...back to the surgeon for a tummy tuck and stretch mark removal. The laugh lines I get from laughing at the cute things are children do will be handled by botox in the early stages...after that I would have to get the eyes done....then the partial face lift...then the full face lifts....all the while wondering...is this going to be the year I don't look young enough and get traded in? My life with you would be like walking on eggshells...always wondering if I was good enough for you.....constant worry about my weight and the sagging and everything else...never enjoying life.

As for your words of wisdom about men being "hotwired" that way, that is just an excuse you use for being shallow. Your advice to "take care of yourself" because once I get old or out of shape or something...my husband will walk out on me for another woman...well......you don't know me

My husband is 16 years my junior and my breasts were saggy and I had wrinkles and stretch marks before I ever met him. We have been married almost 8 years and life is very good. We make a great team, we love each other for who we are. We encourage each other to be the very best we can be, but our love is not dependent upon that.

Good luck...and please...take care of your finances....those sweet young things go through money really fast...and the older you get, the more money you will need to keep the young ones happy. Don't forget....don't live with any of them.....they will get a good percentage of your money when you toss them aside for the newest model...and you can only do that so many times before you just don't have enough money to buy the girl of your dreams.

best post i've seen on gfy this year so far

Raven · 01-29-2006, 12:21 PM

Betty. I told my family I would die and I was dead nuts serious. I didn't scream or shout. I just told both my honey and my mother in law that this was it for me. I gave no choice to any of them. If they wanted something that was not nutritional, they were free to go to the store and buy it and eat it before they got home. When Mom wants candy, she keeps it in her room. If she wants junk, it has to be out of sight. Same with Tev. Fortunately, for me, he saw my progress and now is in the same program, trainer and all. We cardio together and train at the same gym. Mom's the only one here to complain and, well, she's not allowed. I AM the Alpha female here. So, with Tev on my side and in agreement...

Tony404..I agree with you. I am thankful, every day, that Tev is as supportive as he is. He does whatever he can to help me achieve my goals, as I do with him. That is part of the definition of a successful relationship, I believe.

Fat people are under scrutiny and they are discriminated against. Since I am a woman, I can only speak from my experience...and, when I was lean and slim, I was treated differently than when I was obese. Now that I am more lean and trim again, the treatment, once again, has changed. It may have to do with my perception of me; but, I also believe there is an element of perceived opinions from others....fat people are looked at as lazy and unmotivated, sloppy and uncaring....that, if we gave a shit, we wouldn't look that way.

While men, too, have trouble, I am reminded of a Russian saying, that loosely translated, means: "A man without a belly is not a man"...and, it goes toward the notion that men who have bellies have enough money and resources to feed their families well.

kernelpanic · 01-29-2006, 12:27 PM

Just to play devil's advocate - if a man approaches a woman he sees, or vice versa, because they are physically attractive, and that person later loses their good looks, it certainly does destroy much of what the relationship was founded on.

Peaches · 01-29-2006, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss

Most men trade in the wife because they have their own security/ego issues and they think that having a sweet young thing on their arm makes them younger or better. I am so glad that I am not married to anyone like you....being your wife would be a terrible burden...knowing that my life with you is based on how I looked....the metabolism of women after age 30 really shows down...menopause just makes it that much harder. With you we would go out to a lovely restaurant...and while you enjoyed a delicous meal, I would eat a 1/2 side salad with no dressing because gaining weight means you would leave me and my children would be fatherless. I would be at the gym all the time because you only love the outward me....every time you looked at another woman I would worry if you are going to dump me or just fuck around with her on the side.

God forbid the breasts start to sag....I would have to go to the plastic surgeon to have an uplift every 5 years..starting at age 30.....the stretch marks after the kids...back to the surgeon for a tummy tuck and stretch mark removal. The laugh lines I get from laughing at the cute things are children do will be handled by botox in the early stages...after that I would have to get the eyes done....then the partial face lift...then the full face lifts....all the while wondering...is this going to be the year I don't look young enough and get traded in? My life with you would be like walking on eggshells...always wondering if I was good enough for you.....constant worry about my weight and the sagging and everything else...never enjoying life.

As for your words of wisdom about men being "hotwired" that way, that is just an excuse you use for being shallow. Your advice to "take care of yourself" because once I get old or out of shape or something...my husband will walk out on me for another woman...well......you don't know me

My husband is 16 years my junior and my breasts were saggy and I had wrinkles and stretch marks before I ever met him. We have been married almost 8 years and life is very good. We make a great team, we love each other for who we are. We encourage each other to be the very best we can be, but our love is not dependent upon that.

Good luck...and please...take care of your finances....those sweet young things go through money really fast...and the older you get, the more money you will need to keep the young ones happy. Don't forget....don't live with any of them.....they will get a good percentage of your money when you toss them aside for the newest model...and you can only do that so many times before you just don't have enough money to buy the girl of your dreams.

Have I mentioned recently how much I love you?

And before you idiots start thinking/saying she must have married an ugly dude, her husband is quite the hottie!!

Peaches · 01-29-2006, 12:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kernelpanic

Just to play devil's advocate - if a man approaches a woman he sees, or vice versa, because they are physically attractive, and that person later loses their good looks, it certainly does destroy much of what the relationship was founded on.

Approaching is one thing - this thread is about husbands and wives. If you're marrying someone just because you're physically attracted to them then you have some serious problems ahead in life

I remember the story about the woman who was gorgeous and burned severely in the 9/11 fire. Her husband was by her side and continues to be there. Focusing on looks is what 16 year olds do, not mature adults.

wyldblyss · 01-29-2006, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Peaches

Have I mentioned recently how much I love you?

And before you idiots start thinking/saying she must have married an ugly dude, her husband is quite the hottie!!

Awww I love you too Peaches...and yes, hubby is a hottie..he has turned a few heads in his time.

Snake Doctor · 01-29-2006, 12:54 PM

I like to watch BBW porn.

Does that mean my wife is too skinny?

Snake Doctor · 01-29-2006, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peaches

Focusing on looks is what 16 year olds do, not mature adults.

Peaches, this is GFY honey. Most of these idiots are 16 years old

Peaches · 01-29-2006, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Lenny2

Peaches, this is GFY honey. Most of these idiots are 16 years old

Good point

Sadly though, there are a lot of much older men who share the same views. Then they can't figure out why all the chicks they go out with are psychos, the girls cheat on them, they can't find someone who cares about them and not their money, blah, blah, blah

kernelpanic · 01-29-2006, 01:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lenny2

Peaches, this is GFY honey. Most of these idiots are 16 years old

Good point

Raven · 01-29-2006, 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peaches

Approaching is one thing - this thread is about husbands and wives. If you're marrying someone just because you're physically attracted to them then you have some serious problems ahead in life

I remember the story about the woman who was gorgeous and burned severely in the 9/11 fire. Her husband was by her side and continues to be there. Focusing on looks is what 16 year olds do, not mature adults.

What's that old line?

When the plumbing wears out, you'd best be friends. Real good friends.

Jennyfer · 01-29-2006, 01:50 PM

Pretty good Raven, keep it up

calibra · 01-29-2006, 01:50 PM

What's the difference between a girlfriend and a wife? - Thirty pounds!

toddler · 01-29-2006, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Lord Nelson

What a crock of shit.
You gain weight when your body gets more callories than it spends.
If you eat reasonable and work out you will never be fat.

I wish nofx were around to wish you dead, but since you seem to be the epitome of stupid: do youself a favor and die.

You quite clearly don't know what you are talking about.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-29-2006, 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Raven

What's that old line?

When the plumbing wears out, you'd best be friends. Real good friends.

hmmmm I thought it was "till death do us part ..now die motherfucker"..oops..I got carried away

Lord Nelson · 01-29-2006, 01:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by toddler

I wish nofx were around to wish you dead, but since you seem to be the epitome of stupid: do youself a favor and die.

You quite clearly don't know what you are talking about.

"You gain weight when your body gets more callories than it spends."

What part of this statement is false?

Looks like youre the one thinking with your ass. Dumbfuck.

toddler · 01-29-2006, 02:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lord Nelson

"You gain weight when your body gets more callories than it spends."

What part of this statement is false?

Looks like youre the one thinking with your ass. Dumbfuck.

Do you understand things like thyroid diseases? While what you say is true, some people have diseases that cause massive inbalances in hormones that make it virtually imposssible to lose weight.

bigdog · 01-29-2006, 02:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Peaches

Good point

Sadly though, there are a lot of much older men who share the same views. Then they can't figure out why all the chicks they go out with are psychos, the girls cheat on them, they can't find someone who cares about them and not their money, blah, blah, blah

What's sad is that that these 35+ year old rich webmasters think those 18-21 year old girls would still be with them if they were poor. Pay girlfriends that is the new thing.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-29-2006, 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigdog

What's sad is that that these 35+ year old rich webmasters think those 18-21 year old girls would still be with them if they were poor. Pay girlfriends that is the new thing.

Pornwolf · 01-29-2006, 02:14 PM

wyldblyss, great post. True love is the grand prize of the grand prizes and it sounds like you have found it. Good for you.

I specifically said exercise. Nothing more, nothing less. What I put in, I expect in return. That's all. If two people can't live a healthy lifestyle together than they shouldn't be together. If that kind of thing scares you then so be it. McDonalds needs great customers like you. I hear there's a new Gourmet McChicken on the way.

Now, about the trophy wife taker being shallow, I already said that. nothing new there. There's no point to argue.

Were you trying to imply it doesn't happen? Of course you weren't. You know it does. Fortunately it doesn't happen all the time but looking at the divorce stats there's about a 40-50% chance a couple will get divorced. It's definitely not always about finding the younger hotter wife but sometimes it is. I was simply giving one of the reasons it does.

16 years, that's a helluva gap. You have a special man. I'm pretty sure that even though you were older when you two hooked up, you were still very sexy and definitely pleasing to his eye... correct? You don't think he would like you to stay as sexy as possible for as long as possible?

No? You must have a man from a different planet if you think he doesn't care about your appearance at all.

We all have different tastes but when we see something we like it's nice if it stays that way to some degree or at least makes an effort to look good to us. I've heard the women in this thread complain repeatedly that men go bald, we get spare tires end etc. Just like we have things we don't like to see happen to your body, there are some things you don't like to see happen to us. The only thing about that is we are a bit more visual than you so it impacts us a bit more. But the bottom line is we can fight some of it (except baldness unless you like the Trump look). If it's possible why not do it?

Wouldn't the women here like it if we kept a six pack until we were 50? It's possible so why not do it? Not that you would love us any less emotionally if we don't, but the sex would definitely be better if we had that six pack and a strong lower back. Right?

Now just flip that in reverse and put yourself in the man's shoes. What would you want? Yep, exactly.

I still say take care of yourself wyldblyss. Even though you think your man doesn't care about your appearance. If it helps keep the fires burning even hotter why are you faulting me for that?

01-29-2006, 09:47 AM	#51
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01-29-2006, 10:32 AM	#58
wyldblyss Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: The Buck Starts Here Posts: 5,779	You don't get it. The vast majority of men are overweight too, but in soceity, that is perfectly acceptable. Men who say "i love my wife but I'm not attracted to her anymore because she gained 50 lbs" is bullshit...especially when they guy saying it has probably gained a good 60lbs himself and is losing his hair. Most of the guys on this board have no clue what love is and can't distinguish between pure lust and love. Sexual attraction to the person you love is SO much more than how much they weigh, how many stretch marks they have or how big their breasts are. It is also about a lot more than how far back the hairline is, how big the beer gut is and how big their cock is. Sexual attraction to someone you love is being able to see the soul from within...it is about that high you get having sex when two sould become one..where you are able to be who you are with all of your faults and love every fiber of that persons being. I give and demand unconditional love. I don't care how much weight the husband gains, how far back the hairline recedes...I don't care if he gets in an accident and loses his leg...or has "erectile difficulties" when he gets older. I'm here for the long run baby and I make my husband feel like he is the sexiest damn thing that ever walked this earth....because to me he IS and always will be. The outer shell means shit....oh hell....we all look like a fucking can of worms eventually....we all end up looking old and wrinkled and saggy. Don't base your love on appearances...because they don't last. Everything works both ways.....you get a woman that looks like teen pornstar and acts like one....then you are going to get one shallow chick that spends most of her day primping herself and demanding everything be done for her. She will be so self centered that you are the last person on her mind and if you start to go down hill, make less money or are hurt in an accident...man...she is out of there. Do you really want that? I know I don't. Last edited by wyldblyss; 01-29-2006 at 10:34 AM..

01-29-2006, 11:03 AM	#67
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01-29-2006, 11:43 AM	#74
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01-29-2006, 11:56 AM	#78
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01-29-2006, 10:42 AM	#61
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01-29-2006, 11:43 AM	#73
iwantchixx Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: The Boonies Posts: 12,860	That's why you marry a larger girl guys, cause later on, she'll eventually lose it and it's all uphill! Naw.. I don't really care about weight, so long as it;s not too much and not a health issue.

01-29-2006, 12:01 PM	#79
candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,064	It's the monthly troll thread involving people being fat. If it doesn't effect you, then why bother wasting your time obsessing over it? And as for you girls, you girls should know these threads and their intent a little better by now and just let them drop to the second page. If you need some love and attention, just come see me __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me

01-29-2006, 12:21 PM	#82
Raven Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 6,874	Betty. I told my family I would die and I was dead nuts serious. I didn't scream or shout. I just told both my honey and my mother in law that this was it for me. I gave no choice to any of them. If they wanted something that was not nutritional, they were free to go to the store and buy it and eat it before they got home. When Mom wants candy, she keeps it in her room. If she wants junk, it has to be out of sight. Same with Tev. Fortunately, for me, he saw my progress and now is in the same program, trainer and all. We cardio together and train at the same gym. Mom's the only one here to complain and, well, she's not allowed. I AM the Alpha female here. So, with Tev on my side and in agreement... Tony404..I agree with you. I am thankful, every day, that Tev is as supportive as he is. He does whatever he can to help me achieve my goals, as I do with him. That is part of the definition of a successful relationship, I believe. Fat people are under scrutiny and they are discriminated against. Since I am a woman, I can only speak from my experience...and, when I was lean and slim, I was treated differently than when I was obese. Now that I am more lean and trim again, the treatment, once again, has changed. It may have to do with my perception of me; but, I also believe there is an element of perceived opinions from others....fat people are looked at as lazy and unmotivated, sloppy and uncaring....that, if we gave a shit, we wouldn't look that way. While men, too, have trouble, I am reminded of a Russian saying, that loosely translated, means: "A man without a belly is not a man"...and, it goes toward the notion that men who have bellies have enough money and resources to feed their families well. __________________ Raven ~RETIRED~

01-29-2006, 12:27 PM	#83
kernelpanic Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 2,961	Just to play devil's advocate - if a man approaches a woman he sees, or vice versa, because they are physically attractive, and that person later loses their good looks, it certainly does destroy much of what the relationship was founded on. __________________ ZangoCash - Turn Your Traffic Into Ca$h. $.40 Per Install - No Tier

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Snake Doctor I'm Lenny2 Bitch Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: On top of my soapbox Posts: 13,449	I like to watch BBW porn. Does that mean my wife is too skinny?

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01-29-2006, 02:14 PM	#100
Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	wyldblyss, great post. True love is the grand prize of the grand prizes and it sounds like you have found it. Good for you. I specifically said exercise. Nothing more, nothing less. What I put in, I expect in return. That's all. If two people can't live a healthy lifestyle together than they shouldn't be together. If that kind of thing scares you then so be it. McDonalds needs great customers like you. I hear there's a new Gourmet McChicken on the way. Now, about the trophy wife taker being shallow, I already said that. nothing new there. There's no point to argue. Were you trying to imply it doesn't happen? Of course you weren't. You know it does. Fortunately it doesn't happen all the time but looking at the divorce stats there's about a 40-50% chance a couple will get divorced. It's definitely not always about finding the younger hotter wife but sometimes it is. I was simply giving one of the reasons it does. 16 years, that's a helluva gap. You have a special man. I'm pretty sure that even though you were older when you two hooked up, you were still very sexy and definitely pleasing to his eye... correct? You don't think he would like you to stay as sexy as possible for as long as possible? No? You must have a man from a different planet if you think he doesn't care about your appearance at all. We all have different tastes but when we see something we like it's nice if it stays that way to some degree or at least makes an effort to look good to us. I've heard the women in this thread complain repeatedly that men go bald, we get spare tires end etc. Just like we have things we don't like to see happen to your body, there are some things you don't like to see happen to us. The only thing about that is we are a bit more visual than you so it impacts us a bit more. But the bottom line is we can fight some of it (except baldness unless you like the Trump look). If it's possible why not do it? Wouldn't the women here like it if we kept a six pack until we were 50? It's possible so why not do it? Not that you would love us any less emotionally if we don't, but the sex would definitely be better if we had that six pack and a strong lower back. Right? Now just flip that in reverse and put yourself in the man's shoes. What would you want? Yep, exactly. I still say take care of yourself wyldblyss. Even though you think your man doesn't care about your appearance. If it helps keep the fires burning even hotter why are you faulting me for that? __________________ I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade... Webair, bitches. Last edited by Pornwolf; 01-29-2006 at 02:16 PM..