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Babagirls · 12-05-2005, 07:18 PM

is this cheating? or insecurity?

lets say, your girl is over at her guy friends house, and she rubs his back (bare skin) who just happens to be her ex fuck buddy.....cheating or not??

*Disclaimer: we are fully aware that only 1 out of 100 gfy'ers actually have experieced having a girlfriend, just a hypothetical question.

this outta be good

Loadie · 12-05-2005, 07:20 PM

I'd say insecurity

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:20 PM

Turn your cam on... lets get nasty baby

seeric · 12-05-2005, 07:20 PM

LOL. if your girl is over at his house, then it's your own damn fault and she might as well go all the way cuz she isn't coming back.

NickPapageorgio · 12-05-2005, 07:21 PM

I've been thinking of that picture I took lately.

I miss it.

Sly · 12-05-2005, 07:21 PM

I gave a guy friend a handjob once. My girlfriend didn't consider it cheating, so a back rub is definitely not.

pussyluver · 12-05-2005, 07:21 PM

One thing leds to another they say. Switch the situation and what do you think?

Why not bring current b/f along and he can watch. If you'd be conforatable doing something in front of him, then its hard to call it cheating.

Babagirls · 12-05-2005, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

I've been thinking of that picture I took lately.

I miss it.

of my tits at Internext?

Babagirls · 12-05-2005, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ice

Turn your cam on... lets get nasty baby

shhhhhhhhhh the boyfriend is up, yo!

BradM · 12-05-2005, 07:23 PM

I've never had a girlfriend so I guess I can't really say.

NickPapageorgio · 12-05-2005, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Babagirls

of my tits at Internext?

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

I gave a guy friend a handjob once. My girlfriend didn't consider it cheating, so a back rub is definitely not.

best handjob I ever got Sly

Sosa · 12-05-2005, 07:23 PM

I'd be pissed

Babagirls · 12-05-2005, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Ice

best handjob I ever got Sly

Bluewire Ross · 12-05-2005, 07:24 PM

No, it's not cheating!

beemk · 12-05-2005, 07:26 PM

cheating is something you do that you wouldnt do when your significant other is around, so yes i would consider it cheating.

artman · 12-05-2005, 07:26 PM

the girl is a slut

beemk · 12-05-2005, 07:27 PM

if you get caught that is, because its only cheating if you get caught

Elli · 12-05-2005, 07:28 PM

It all depends on what you've agreed on in your relationship. If the boyfriend is jealous because he doesn't trust you or the other guy, then that needs to be dealt with.

AmeliaG · 12-05-2005, 07:29 PM

Not unless she gives him a reacharound.

phogirl69 · 12-05-2005, 07:29 PM

its cheating, what are u doing rub an ex back if you're happy with your significant other? You shouldnt be hanging there in the first place, its kinda disrespectful.

Fresh · 12-05-2005, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by A1R3K

LOL. if your girl is over at his house, then it's your own damn fault and she might as well go all the way cuz she isn't coming back.

agreed!!

Babagirls · 12-05-2005, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

if you get caught that is, because its only cheating if you get caught

no comment.

Spunky · 12-05-2005, 07:31 PM

Yea right next comes rubbing his knob..the lady is a tramp

NickPapageorgio · 12-05-2005, 07:32 PM

Here's an addition to this question.

Can cheating be mental? No physical contact. Being mentally interested in someone else while you are currently in a relationship. From the school of thought of: If your mind is with someone else, you are already there.

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Here's an addition to this question.

Can cheating be mental? No physical contact. Being mentally interested in someone else while you are currently in a relationship. From the school of thought of: If your mind is with someone else, you are already there.

Yes I think it can be. If you are thinking about someone else and would rather be there, then wtf are you still doing here?

Babagirls · 12-05-2005, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Here's an addition to this question.

Can cheating be mental? No physical contact. Being mentally interested in someone else while you are currently in a relationship. From the school of thought of: If your mind is with someone else, you are already there.

absoultly.
great example, phone sex.

i call it 'mind fucking'.

Sly · 12-05-2005, 07:36 PM

So who wants to cyber?

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

So who wants to cyber?

pick me........ pick meeeeeeeeeeeeeee

NickPapageorgio · 12-05-2005, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Ice

pick me........ pick meeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Fuck that...pick me Sly. I make promises.

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Fuck that...pick me Sly. I make promises.

Sly · 12-05-2005, 07:39 PM

Who has a tighter asshole?

NickPapageorgio · 12-05-2005, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Who has a tighter asshole?

Tight is a relative term. Tight with a cock inside? Tight with a fist buried deep? You got to be specific mang.

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Tight is a relative term. Tight with a cock inside? Tight with a fist buried deep? You got to be specific mang.

NickPapageorgio · 12-05-2005, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Ice

Don't hide what's inside...

Shooting_Maniac1 · 12-05-2005, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Babagirls

*Disclaimer: we are fully aware that only 1 out of 100 gfy'ers actually have experieced having a girlfriend, just a hypothetical question.

Hell, 89% of your standard gfy'er have not even figured out how to rub one out yet.

But yeah, its cheating and if not, she is crazy dumb to put herself in that position. He shes rubbing his bare back, chances are very high shes riding him bareback also.

BlackCrayon · 12-05-2005, 07:42 PM

very mean in my opinion. how could the guy not wonder what might go on? massages are often very erotic. i know i get hard ons sometimes when i get them. especially it wa someone she fucked in the past? very disrespectful.

Ice · 12-05-2005, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Don't hide what's inside...

:food-smil

seeric · 12-05-2005, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

if you get caught that is, because its only cheating if you get caught

or in the same area code.

Honez · 12-05-2005, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by beemk

cheating is something you do that you wouldnt do when your significant other is around, so yes i would consider it cheating.

Bingo.

But, I will add to that if you would rub the bare back of your ex fuck buddy in front of your boyfriend and he is comfortable with it, then you have no worries. Otherwise, you two need to communicate. Nothing fucks a relationship up faster than the lack of that one little word.

reynold · 12-05-2005, 08:21 PM

I would offer my hands to that guy and if he resist I'll just break his nose and leave the fuckers..

kaori · 12-05-2005, 08:26 PM

yup.. cheating is what I'd call it...

uno · 12-05-2005, 08:33 PM

It's not cheating but it could easily lead there. I guess I would consider it cheating if my gf was drunk. ;)

xfalmp · 12-05-2005, 08:33 PM

In your given scenario, I'd say yes.
I know I'd not like it myself.

Baal · 12-05-2005, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Here's an addition to this question.

Can cheating be mental? No physical contact. Being mentally interested in someone else while you are currently in a relationship. From the school of thought of: If your mind is with someone else, you are already there.

I believe it can be. I have no problem with a girl I'm in a relationship with hitting on or being hit on by some random guy. But if it's "with intention" (intention on actually hooking up), then thats not cool. But if it's just for flattery or self-esteem, then no problem.

ANY actions "with intention" of cheating is is cheating to me. Otherwise, it's harmless. You have to trust your mate, but you also have to know your mate's true intentions.

reed_4 · 12-05-2005, 08:48 PM

For me it is both cheating and being insecure. If you had a good relationship with your gf she will not do that and if you are a good bf you won't do the same too.

Major (Tom) · 12-05-2005, 10:12 PM

not cheating.. but i'd keep an eye on it.

Heres one for ya... I used to know this girl who had a boyfriend. She wouldnt do anything with me as far as sex, touching, kissing etc, but I used to nut on her face like twice a week. Is she cheating? or no.

Duke

J-$ · 12-06-2005, 05:52 AM

It's not cheating, but it does not change the fact that I would "ditch the bitch" onto her head. But it's not cheating

blazin · 12-06-2005, 06:06 AM

I'd ditch the hoe.... and yes... that's what she is.

If your woman got up to shit like that then she has no respect for you.. period.

who · 12-06-2005, 06:08 AM

omg! I dunno man..

12-05-2005, 07:18 PM	#1
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12-05-2005, 07:20 PM	#2
Loadie Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 651	I'd say insecurity

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seeric .......... Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: .......... Posts: 41,917	LOL. if your girl is over at his house, then it's your own damn fault and she might as well go all the way cuz she isn't coming back.

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pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	One thing leds to another they say. Switch the situation and what do you think? Why not bring current b/f along and he can watch. If you'd be conforatable doing something in front of him, then its hard to call it cheating.

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BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	I've never had a girlfriend so I guess I can't really say.

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12-05-2005, 07:29 PM	#21
phogirl69 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,330	its cheating, what are u doing rub an ex back if you're happy with your significant other? You shouldnt be hanging there in the first place, its kinda disrespectful.

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12-05-2005, 07:32 PM	#25
NickPapageorgio Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: NC Posts: 8,323	Here's an addition to this question. Can cheating be mental? No physical contact. Being mentally interested in someone else while you are currently in a relationship. From the school of thought of: If your mind is with someone else, you are already there. __________________

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BlackCrayon Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Ottawa Posts: 19,631	very mean in my opinion. how could the guy not wonder what might go on? massages are often very erotic. i know i get hard ons sometimes when i get them. especially it wa someone she fucked in the past? very disrespectful. __________________ you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

12-05-2005, 08:21 PM	#41
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12-05-2005, 08:26 PM	#42
kaori Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Montreal Posts: 1,569	yup.. cheating is what I'd call it...

12-05-2005, 08:33 PM	#43
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12-05-2005, 08:48 PM	#46
reed_4 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 9,640	For me it is both cheating and being insecure. If you had a good relationship with your gf she will not do that and if you are a good bf you won't do the same too. __________________

12-05-2005, 10:12 PM	#47
Major (Tom) Boomer Woffen Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Null Posts: 30,597	not cheating.. but i'd keep an eye on it. Heres one for ya... I used to know this girl who had a boyfriend. She wouldnt do anything with me as far as sex, touching, kissing etc, but I used to nut on her face like twice a week. Is she cheating? or no. Duke __________________ My mother said, to get things done You'd better not mess with Major Tom

12-06-2005, 05:52 AM	#48
J-$ Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 2,090	It's not cheating, but it does not change the fact that I would "ditch the bitch" onto her head. But it's not cheating __________________

12-06-2005, 06:06 AM	#49
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12-06-2005, 06:08 AM	#50
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