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RogerV · 11-11-2005, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

Look, you're girlfriend is testing you... if you fail this one, she'll walk all over you!

She wants to see if she can let bullshit happen right under your nose and how long you'll put up with it. Once she knows she has you under her thumb, she'll start playing lots more silly games like this.

Make her choose between you and him -- now and for good! Tell her that as a guy, you can tell when someone's sniffing around trying to steal your woman! That's exactly what he's doing, and that's exactly what her encouragement (by responding to him) tells him and YOU!

This is one of the first signs of a potential cheater -- if she gets away with this now, she'll be fucking somebody else soon enough!

Believe me... I used to pull the same shit... and it worked every time!

Go on the offensive, don't back down... be a big meanie about this issue! If you don't show her who's top dog, she'll start shopping for one!

I totally agree keep the pimp hand strong...

dont make her choose but act like you dont give a fuck and let her know she is replaceable
dont be a dick about it be a pimp be nice and really dont care or show weakness

lazycash · 11-11-2005, 02:07 AM

If you don't get to a point where you are completely confident that he is out of her life and there is no contact, then you're always gonna be worried after you and her have an argument that she'll go running to him. Then emotional support from the ex always seems to end up being sexual support.

JFK · 11-11-2005, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Pipecrew

Sorry man, you might be fucked.

You might be her rebound relationship from that, she most likely still has feelings for this guy, if he broke up with her, there is even a stronger chance he gets her back.. I'd say keep a close eye.

there is something to what you are saying

blazin · 11-11-2005, 02:34 AM

You need to tell him to back the fuck off.

adultchica · 11-11-2005, 02:35 AM

I agree with MaskTvMaura on this one.

Relationships suck sometimes huh.

Good luck.

grumpy · 11-11-2005, 02:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Scott McD

He keeps texting, and calling her, asking her to take him back.

They broke up about and year ago, and i've been with her since. She keeps telling me she'd never take him back, and wouldn't leave me.

I believe her, but he is seriously pissing me off.

He doesn't stay anywhere close to me, so i never really get to see him at all. I don't even know where he stays exactly, and she won't tell me.
What would you do ? What actions would you take ?

Should i just leave it be, and tell her to ignore him untill he gets the message, or do i try take it further, and deal with it myself ??

feeling insecure????

reed_4 · 11-11-2005, 03:56 AM

Trusting your gf alone and ignoring her ex will not fix the problem. You guys should talk and settle things up. Don't let that situation bother you and your gf. Tell that bastard to fuck off and find some one else.

Marshal · 11-11-2005, 05:13 AM

hey, listen up, GFY is bad place to disccuss about your intimate problems... better talk to some friend and definitely find his phone number! :D

Basic_man · 11-11-2005, 05:41 AM

Punch the guy right in the face, then he'll probably leave her alone..

Herb Kornfield · 11-11-2005, 06:47 AM

I'd tell her not to contact back at all if its really over........ each time she replies, he's getting his wish, to reach her...

Get him an AFF membership, then he can get all the tang he wants and he'll love you forever for hooking him up with strange.

Renny · 11-11-2005, 06:56 AM

hire a private eye to follow her for 2 weeks..take pictures.. you'll get your answer.

Quagmire · 11-11-2005, 06:57 AM

Even her replying to his text messages is the contact and connection he's looking for. he wants to keep himself fresh in her mind, whether it be good or bad. Its like a mindfuck to screw up her current relationship. Obviously it can cause some strain between you and her if he's calling all the time and won't fuck off.

She needs to get with the program and block his number, avoid his calls and not respond to his text messages. If she has no interest in the guy then she will have to realize that his contact is nothing but bad for her current life and relationship. He's trying to fuck it up.

Marcus Aurelius · 11-11-2005, 08:33 AM

A shovel, a 9mm, a car with a big trunk, and a 40 acre field.....Problem solved.

Seriously though if she is allowing his "pursuit" to continue without making an effort to stop it completely then I would definitely keep my eye on her. Sounds a little fishy if she is allowing it to continue after a year.

Screaming · 11-11-2005, 09:45 AM

Dont know if I would go for that.

WebairGerard · 11-11-2005, 09:48 AM

tell her to make a final statement to him and ask that he not contact her anymore and to respect her wishes/new life. If after that he continues, change #, contact authorities and maybe even order of protection.

EroticySteve · 11-11-2005, 09:54 AM

If she hasn't put her foot down and given him an ultimatum she probably can't be trusted.

You can't control how she feels and you don't know how desperate or crazy this guy is.

She'll go where her heart tells her to go, not much you can do about that.

Ace-wtf · 11-11-2005, 09:55 AM

dDOS him

MrJackMeHoff · 11-11-2005, 10:11 AM

Man guys are pussies anymore.. What ever happend to the dominant male in a relationship.. My girl would never let this shit happen she knows shed be answering to me about it, and no man would dare. Buck up pussy..

BlackCrayon · 11-12-2005, 03:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaskTVMaura

Look, you're girlfriend is testing you... if you fail this one, she'll walk all over you!

She wants to see if she can let bullshit happen right under your nose and how long you'll put up with it. Once she knows she has you under her thumb, she'll start playing lots more silly games like this.

Make her choose between you and him -- now and for good! Tell her that as a guy, you can tell when someone's sniffing around trying to steal your woman! That's exactly what he's doing, and that's exactly what her encouragement (by responding to him) tells him and YOU!

This is one of the first signs of a potential cheater -- if she gets away with this now, she'll be fucking somebody else soon enough!

Believe me... I used to pull the same shit... and it worked every time!

Go on the offensive, don't back down... be a big meanie about this issue! If you don't show her who's top dog, she'll start shopping for one!

almost sounds like a parent/child relationship

Amnesic · 11-12-2005, 03:51 PM

call the police for harasment

pocketkangaroo · 11-12-2005, 03:54 PM

This shouldn't be an issue if she doesn't have interest in him. Just tell her if she doesn't want him to be stern and tell him to fuck off. If he keeps harrasing her tell her to tell him she will go to the police. I just don't see why someone bugging you would ever be a problem. Is it that hard not to respond, answer, or have any affiliation with the guy?

hydro · 11-12-2005, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace-imlive

dDOS him

lmao or you can try to "boot" him if your in a yahoo chat room

tucker · 11-12-2005, 05:12 PM

She is driving the bus therefore she can truly squash it if she wants to. Problem is most girls like the drama and the idea of men fighting over them. Dont buy into it and get yourself in a position that will cost you more.

Thumbler · 11-12-2005, 05:28 PM

She shouldn't be answering his messages, if she ignored him he would probably go away.

Give him a Glasgae kiss

Pornwolf · 11-12-2005, 05:40 PM

I agree with the guys above, don't seem shaken by this. Tell her to cut out the replies and make sure you keep your pimp hand strong.

Jaytown · 11-12-2005, 05:50 PM

Detoxed is right dude! If a chick wants to put an end to something bad enough, they can she could block his text and calls perminately, get on her schedule harder, youll find that a night or two out of the week her ass is planted in his bed.

depraveddollars converstions as INSANE as 1:35 on a regular basis. TRAILER TRASH BABY!!!

MetaMan · 11-12-2005, 06:03 PM

you need to tell your fucking bitch to deal with it, give her a swift assfucking if she steps out of line.

she is obviously being a scandelous hoe if she is even picking up the phone or even acting like the other guy is around.

you need to lay that pimp hand down, make her realise you are the only one and cannot be walked on, bitches are dum, u can either play it soft or hard,

play it all soft at first be like:

"o baby you should only be with me, i love you"

then act like a fucking asshole to her the next day, shit like this just fucks with girls minds and you will have her on fucking lock.

my girls ex tried to talk to her for a lil but he stopped calling because he knows i will beat his face in, little fag. I AM LOCO ESSAY.

dont let these losers walk all over you, you are the man, you are invincible!

2Pac · 11-12-2005, 06:36 PM

PIMP CLASS IN SESSION

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Originally Posted by Scott McD

He keeps texting, and calling her, asking her to take him back. They broke up about and year ago, and i've been with her since. She keeps telling me she'd never take him back, and wouldn't leave me.

She still has feelings for him.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott McD

He doesn't stay anywhere close to me, so i never really get to see him at all. I don't even know where he stays exactly, and she won't tell me.

You wanna fight him ? It will make you like a loser and insecure.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott McD

What would you do ? What actions would you take ?

To women DRAMA is like watching a SPORTS to men, they must have drama to make them feel they are in ' LALA land ' ... that's why you see them watching all these boring shows and chick-flicks movies.

When I get a new girl, I am always the 1st to create DRAMA ... why ? so I can end it on my own terms ... Women need DRAMA once in a while.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott McD

Should i just leave it be, and tell her to ignore him untill he gets the message, or do i try take it further, and deal with it myself ??

What you need to do is stop listening to the inexperienced and insecure fools here. You need to make friends with him ? What ? Yes, FRIENDS ! I had the same shit happened to me in a club, the guy wouldn't leave my girl alone after they broke up ... what did I do ? I told him to sit beside me and I bought him a beer we had a friendly conversation about work, sports, etc.

1) He doesn't see you as a challenge
2) It will make him feel stupid
3) She sees you as a PIMP
4) It will make you look and feel like a PIMP

PIMP CLASS DISMISSED

Wiggles · 11-12-2005, 07:56 PM

my wifes ex was like that too a bit, he quit when i got her pregnant, started bawling on the phone and she quit talking to him.

Scott McD · 11-12-2005, 07:58 PM

She has since told him to stop calling or messaging her altogether, so we'll see what happens...

11-11-2005, 02:34 AM	#54
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11-11-2005, 02:35 AM	#55
adultchica Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: usa Posts: 5,141	I agree with MaskTvMaura on this one. Relationships suck sometimes huh. Good luck. __________________

11-11-2005, 03:56 AM	#57
reed_4 Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 9,640	Trusting your gf alone and ignoring her ex will not fix the problem. You guys should talk and settle things up. Don't let that situation bother you and your gf. Tell that bastard to fuck off and find some one else. __________________

11-11-2005, 05:13 AM	#58
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lazycash Troll Patrol Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Local Socal Posts: 15,214	If you don't get to a point where you are completely confident that he is out of her life and there is no contact, then you're always gonna be worried after you and her have an argument that she'll go running to him. Then emotional support from the ex always seems to end up being sexual support.

11-11-2005, 06:47 AM	#60
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	I'd tell her not to contact back at all if its really over........ each time she replies, he's getting his wish, to reach her... Get him an AFF membership, then he can get all the tang he wants and he'll love you forever for hooking him up with strange.

11-11-2005, 06:56 AM	#61
Renny Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 130	hire a private eye to follow her for 2 weeks..take pictures.. you'll get your answer.

11-11-2005, 06:57 AM	#62
Quagmire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Stinkin' up your bathroom Posts: 6,490	Even her replying to his text messages is the contact and connection he's looking for. he wants to keep himself fresh in her mind, whether it be good or bad. Its like a mindfuck to screw up her current relationship. Obviously it can cause some strain between you and her if he's calling all the time and won't fuck off. She needs to get with the program and block his number, avoid his calls and not respond to his text messages. If she has no interest in the guy then she will have to realize that his contact is nothing but bad for her current life and relationship. He's trying to fuck it up. __________________

11-11-2005, 08:33 AM	#63
Marcus Aurelius No Refunds Issued. Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 14,809	A shovel, a 9mm, a car with a big trunk, and a 40 acre field.....Problem solved. Seriously though if she is allowing his "pursuit" to continue without making an effort to stop it completely then I would definitely keep my eye on her. Sounds a little fishy if she is allowing it to continue after a year.

11-11-2005, 09:45 AM	#64
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WebairGerard Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 8,113	tell her to make a final statement to him and ask that he not contact her anymore and to respect her wishes/new life. If after that he continues, change #, contact authorities and maybe even order of protection. __________________

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EroticySteve Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: The Sunshine State Posts: 4,365	If she hasn't put her foot down and given him an ultimatum she probably can't be trusted. You can't control how she feels and you don't know how desperate or crazy this guy is. She'll go where her heart tells her to go, not much you can do about that. __________________ You deserve to make more money. I'll help you do that. Our affiliates earn up to $3/email or $107/sale email steve <at> eroticy.com - icq 290153464

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11-12-2005, 03:51 PM	#70
Amnesic Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Qc, Canada Posts: 1,305	call the police for harasment

11-12-2005, 03:54 PM	#71
pocketkangaroo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 8,452	This shouldn't be an issue if she doesn't have interest in him. Just tell her if she doesn't want him to be stern and tell him to fuck off. If he keeps harrasing her tell her to tell him she will go to the police. I just don't see why someone bugging you would ever be a problem. Is it that hard not to respond, answer, or have any affiliation with the guy?

11-12-2005, 05:12 PM	#73
tucker Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: LA Posts: 584	She is driving the bus therefore she can truly squash it if she wants to. Problem is most girls like the drama and the idea of men fighting over them. Dont buy into it and get yourself in a position that will cost you more.

11-12-2005, 05:28 PM	#74
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Pornwolf Drunk and Unruly Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Hollywood Posts: 22,712	I agree with the guys above, don't seem shaken by this. Tell her to cut out the replies and make sure you keep your pimp hand strong. __________________ I've trusted my sites to them for over a decade... Webair, bitches.

11-12-2005, 05:50 PM	#76
Jaytown Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,056	Detoxed is right dude! If a chick wants to put an end to something bad enough, they can she could block his text and calls perminately, get on her schedule harder, youll find that a night or two out of the week her ass is planted in his bed. depraveddollars converstions as INSANE as 1:35 on a regular basis. TRAILER TRASH BABY!!! Last edited by Jaytown; 11-12-2005 at 05:52 PM..

11-12-2005, 06:03 PM	#77
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	you need to tell your fucking bitch to deal with it, give her a swift assfucking if she steps out of line. she is obviously being a scandelous hoe if she is even picking up the phone or even acting like the other guy is around. you need to lay that pimp hand down, make her realise you are the only one and cannot be walked on, bitches are dum, u can either play it soft or hard, play it all soft at first be like: "o baby you should only be with me, i love you" then act like a fucking asshole to her the next day, shit like this just fucks with girls minds and you will have her on fucking lock. my girls ex tried to talk to her for a lil but he stopped calling because he knows i will beat his face in, little fag. I AM LOCO ESSAY. dont let these losers walk all over you, you are the man, you are invincible!

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