How seriously do you take domestic violence against men? - GoFuckYourself.com

Sarah_Jayne · 11-04-2005, 02:54 AM

We have a high profile case here in the UK today where the most famous newspaper editor in the country was arrested for attacking her husband who is a very well known soap actor.

Now, I know for personal experience that domestic violence against men it real...my husband's ex-wife had put him in the hospital with broken ribs and threw a knife at him while he was holding their daughter...our bedroom door still has the knife mark in it. When he called the police they laughed at him. OKay, that was 15 plus years ago but still. Had he raised his hand to protect himself he would have been in jail.

So...if you hear of a man being the victim of domestic violence at the hands of a woman how do you react?

2HousePlague · 11-04-2005, 03:07 AM

People should not hit each other, unless both agree to it.

2hp

BoyAlley · 11-04-2005, 03:11 AM

Wow.

Even I could defend myself against a woman, and I'm a nelly fag!

Calling the cops is for trannies.

kmanrox · 11-04-2005, 03:12 AM

i called the cops on a gf who was going nuts on me, instead of beating her down and getting myself arrested, i called the pigs..... it may have backfired if she kept her composure and tried to say it was ME doing the abuse (they would always side with the woman if she were believable), but luckily she was DRUNK off her tits and was telling the police to fuck off and that her dad (prominent businessman) would have them fired, etc... They came to the door, explained they were going to hog tie her, and asked if i wanted to press charges. i said no, but i dont want her around here... they took her to her parents house at 3am lol

anyhow, that was my experience with domestic violence

kmanrox · 11-04-2005, 03:13 AM

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Originally Posted by BoyAlley

Wow.

Even I could defend myself against a woman, and I'm a nelly fag!

Calling the cops is for trannies.

i guess my post bolsters your statement huh? hehe

Michael O · 11-04-2005, 03:13 AM

I think its a bigger problem than most think.
Many men are to embarressed to report it or is afraid to hit back cause they know they will get the blame if the police shows up.

budz · 11-04-2005, 03:15 AM

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ronaldo · 11-04-2005, 03:15 AM

I'd react the same way as if it was a woman abused by a man. With disgust. I certainly don't think like a lot of other men think, that he must be weak. That's just bullshit.

In fact, if anything, that thinking can lead to physically abused men. How many times has it been posted on GFY...do NOT strike a woman under ANY circumstances? While I certainly don't advocate beating or hitting women, if a women came running at me with a knife, I'd do what I could to take her down...with the same respect she was showing me...NONE. I wouldn't see a woman running at me. I'd see a deadly weapon running my way. My life is worth more to me than worrying about doing the politically correct thing and not hitting a woman in SELF DEFENSE.

Abuse isn't a gender biased thing, except perhaps to the media. Just like there's bad people of every race, there's bad people of every gender. Many of whom USE their race or gender to their advantage...usually ONLY when necessary. For example, defending themself in court like in the case you've mentioned above.

Adultnet · 11-04-2005, 05:00 AM

I guess men can find some better ways to solve this problem other then calling the cops...

jimthefiend · 11-04-2005, 05:03 AM

If you can't kick your womans ass you don't deserve to have her.

lmao

CDSmith · 11-04-2005, 06:34 AM

It's often overlooked, ignored, and minimized. In many cases the mental abuse is what does the most damage, but I would say over 90% of the focus in society is on violence/abuse against women, not men.

cool1 · 11-04-2005, 07:45 AM

I have been there
My ex wife was/is a very abusive person , both mentally and phsyically.
She was always throwing things hitting me and the kids
screamming at the top of her lungs swearing, insulting ETC.
Finally after a couple of years of this shit, I said fuck being politically correct I dropped the bitch and then had her arrested.
the good thing is the people next door to me were friends and they always heard what went on in our home and they backed me on what was going on, enough to help me get her the fuck out and with the help of a bunch of great people in this biz I was able to get over the divorce and losing the house etc, with the help of StuartD I was able to get custody of my daughter.
So all is good now but for awhile there I thought I was stuck in hell forever.

Phoenix · 11-04-2005, 07:52 AM

some woman will even try to trick you into hitting them....dont fall for it...they will attack you and actually say the words "go on hit me" this is bait and sign that the woman you are with is crazy as a loon.

Violence against women makes me sick

tranza · 11-04-2005, 07:57 AM

women are dangerous

Herb Kornfield · 11-04-2005, 08:10 AM

Its very serious and in fact a lot of men suffer from it.....

My Ex was verbally abusive and when I said that its over, I am leaving she pulled the big ass chopping knife and came after me.... Luckily I moved and she sent the blade into the wall behind my shoulder.....

That night I left our house, called the police, she sat for a few hours and the next day our house was listed for sale......

I could have snapped her neck with my bare hands, but, I wouldnt give her that satisfaction of getting me jammed up with the man

Manowar · 11-04-2005, 09:26 AM

BOSH

lchaim · 11-04-2005, 09:40 AM

I think society in general has very little concern for that, probably about as much as man on man rape in prison or elsewhere. Men are supposed to handle their bizzznass wherever they are, anything less is their fault.

dynastoned · 11-04-2005, 09:54 AM

i usually put they're head in a plastic bag until they stop breathing. take them out to the sierra mountains and drop them in a secluded place which no one has been to in all its existance. then have a friend as an aliby.

all joking aside.. its a fucked up deal. ive woken up to my ex gf stradling me with a knife clinched in her hand looking like a bitch straight out of hell. got the knife from her and carried her screaming and biting all the way out to the street. good thing i left that crazy broad when i did. she got all depressed started doing speed, had a kid, and now lives off her new bf's parents. moral of the story is crazy bitches are the root of all evil.

Rochard · 11-04-2005, 10:00 AM

Once during a confrontation my gf punched me right in the jaw - no warning or nothing. At that moment I had to make a decision - beat her into a pulp or walk away.

I walked away for good and never looked back. Her loss.

J-$ · 11-04-2005, 01:04 PM

i guess the solution would be not to hang around fat tomboy crackheads; however it is true that women can stir up lots of shit just by calling the cops. if that happens, smack the shit out of her and flee the scene. if its your wife, then youve got no one to blame but you

Sarah_Jayne · 11-04-2005, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by J-$

i guess the solution would be not to hang around fat tomboy crackheads; however it is true that women can stir up lots of shit just by calling the cops. if that happens, smack the shit out of her and flee the scene. if its your wife, then youve got no one to blame but you

Anymore than if a woman is beaten by her husband it is her fault?

J-$ · 11-04-2005, 02:26 PM

why do we have to compare? we're different, accept it. a man that is being mistreated by his woman and sticking with her is...VERY SPECIAL in my opinion. there must be exceptions to the rule I guess. I for one wouldn't be afraid to hit a woman and fracture her skull in half after she hit me. i think most women take for granted that they cannot get hit by a guy and often proceed to push their luck. Then i'd be in deep shit though.

69pornlinks · 11-04-2005, 02:31 PM

i would just leave the chick....i personally wouldn't call the police on anyone and definetly not on the chick that's beating my ass...haha

yes women abuse their men...but men are stronger than women by nature so this is why it's overlooked...and not just physical but mental abuse

Doctor Dre · 11-04-2005, 02:39 PM

I think in most cases it's laughable ... there are exceptions ... but the guys are fucking whip

Doctor Dre · 11-04-2005, 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by J-$

why do we have to compare? we're different, accept it. a man that is being mistreated by his woman and sticking with her is...VERY SPECIAL in my opinion. there must be exceptions to the rule I guess. I for one wouldn't be afraid to hit a woman and fracture her skull in half after she hit me. i think most women take for granted that they cannot get hit by a guy and often proceed to push their luck. Then i'd be in deep shit though.

exactly ... the guys have more serious problems then getting beat up once in a while ...

But I agree on the "Can't call the cops part"... they'd laugh at you so hard

J-$ · 11-04-2005, 02:46 PM

fuck it you just pay some HUUUUUUUUUUUGE butcher bitch to beat the living shit out of her. like kiki osborne heh Dre?

RuthB · 11-04-2005, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Manowar

BOSH

him? Seriously? LOL that's hilarious to me - I remember watching him in Eastenders - the 'bruiser' guy Grant Mitchell - heck, I remember one storyline where he was hitting his gf/wife on the show - irony

LOL

Sorry - I know domestic abuse isn't funny in any way but it just tickles my funny bone given the character this guy played on that soap

Scott McD · 11-04-2005, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Manowar

BOSH

I hate Eastenders with a passion.

Actually amuses me how the two 'hard-men' got the shit beat out them by chicks...

Sarah_Jayne · 11-04-2005, 03:24 PM

True though it is a character and in real life he is a true liberal leftie.

chaze · 11-04-2005, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by jimthefiend

If you can't kick your womans ass you don't deserve to have her.

lmao

that cracks me up.

11-04-2005, 02:54 AM	#1
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	How seriously do you take domestic violence against men? We have a high profile case here in the UK today where the most famous newspaper editor in the country was arrested for attacking her husband who is a very well known soap actor. Now, I know for personal experience that domestic violence against men it real...my husband's ex-wife had put him in the hospital with broken ribs and threw a knife at him while he was holding their daughter...our bedroom door still has the knife mark in it. When he called the police they laughed at him. OKay, that was 15 plus years ago but still. Had he raised his hand to protect himself he would have been in jail. So...if you hear of a man being the victim of domestic violence at the hands of a woman how do you react?

11-04-2005, 03:07 AM	#2
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kmanrox aka K-Man Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: The Gutter Posts: 29,292	i called the cops on a gf who was going nuts on me, instead of beating her down and getting myself arrested, i called the pigs..... it may have backfired if she kept her composure and tried to say it was ME doing the abuse (they would always side with the woman if she were believable), but luckily she was DRUNK off her tits and was telling the police to fuck off and that her dad (prominent businessman) would have them fired, etc... They came to the door, explained they were going to hog tie her, and asked if i wanted to press charges. i said no, but i dont want her around here... they took her to her parents house at 3am lol anyhow, that was my experience with domestic violence __________________ Crypto HODLr Crypto mining Angel investor

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Michael O More Cowbell Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Nakhom Nowhere Posts: 10,607	I think its a bigger problem than most think. Many men are to embarressed to report it or is afraid to hit back cause they know they will get the blame if the police shows up. __________________ Truth Teller

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11-04-2005, 03:11 AM	#3
BoyAlley So Fucking Gay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 19,714	Wow. Even I could defend myself against a woman, and I'm a nelly fag! Calling the cops is for trannies.

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ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	I'd react the same way as if it was a woman abused by a man. With disgust. I certainly don't think like a lot of other men think, that he must be weak. That's just bullshit. In fact, if anything, that thinking can lead to physically abused men. How many times has it been posted on GFY...do NOT strike a woman under ANY circumstances? While I certainly don't advocate beating or hitting women, if a women came running at me with a knife, I'd do what I could to take her down...with the same respect she was showing me...NONE. I wouldn't see a woman running at me. I'd see a deadly weapon running my way. My life is worth more to me than worrying about doing the politically correct thing and not hitting a woman in SELF DEFENSE. Abuse isn't a gender biased thing, except perhaps to the media. Just like there's bad people of every race, there's bad people of every gender. Many of whom USE their race or gender to their advantage...usually ONLY when necessary. For example, defending themself in court like in the case you've mentioned above.

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Adultnet Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 8,713	I guess men can find some better ways to solve this problem other then calling the cops... __________________ TrafficCashGold Paying Webmasters Since 1996! Awesome Conversions! Fast Weekly Payments! Over 125 Tours!

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cool1 sex is good Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Carman, MB Canada Posts: 24,939	I have been there My ex wife was/is a very abusive person , both mentally and phsyically. She was always throwing things hitting me and the kids screamming at the top of her lungs swearing, insulting ETC. Finally after a couple of years of this shit, I said fuck being politically correct I dropped the bitch and then had her arrested. the good thing is the people next door to me were friends and they always heard what went on in our home and they backed me on what was going on, enough to help me get her the fuck out and with the help of a bunch of great people in this biz I was able to get over the divorce and losing the house etc, with the help of StuartD I was able to get custody of my daughter. So all is good now but for awhile there I thought I was stuck in hell forever. __________________

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11-04-2005, 08:10 AM	#15
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Its very serious and in fact a lot of men suffer from it..... My Ex was verbally abusive and when I said that its over, I am leaving she pulled the big ass chopping knife and came after me.... Luckily I moved and she sent the blade into the wall behind my shoulder..... That night I left our house, called the police, she sat for a few hours and the next day our house was listed for sale...... I could have snapped her neck with my bare hands, but, I wouldnt give her that satisfaction of getting me jammed up with the man

11-04-2005, 09:26 AM	#16
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11-04-2005, 09:40 AM	#17
lchaim Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: West Coast Posts: 626	I think society in general has very little concern for that, probably about as much as man on man rape in prison or elsewhere. Men are supposed to handle their bizzznass wherever they are, anything less is their fault. __________________ L'Chaim: interj. Pronunciation Key (la khi yem) - Literally "To Life." Used as a toast.

11-04-2005, 09:54 AM	#18
dynastoned mmm yeah! Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: roseville, ca Posts: 5,061	i usually put they're head in a plastic bag until they stop breathing. take them out to the sierra mountains and drop them in a secluded place which no one has been to in all its existance. then have a friend as an aliby. all joking aside.. its a fucked up deal. ive woken up to my ex gf stradling me with a knife clinched in her hand looking like a bitch straight out of hell. got the knife from her and carried her screaming and biting all the way out to the street. good thing i left that crazy broad when i did. she got all depressed started doing speed, had a kid, and now lives off her new bf's parents. moral of the story is crazy bitches are the root of all evil.

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11-04-2005, 01:04 PM	#20
J-$ Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 2,090	i guess the solution would be not to hang around fat tomboy crackheads; however it is true that women can stir up lots of shit just by calling the cops. if that happens, smack the shit out of her and flee the scene. if its your wife, then youve got no one to blame but you __________________

11-04-2005, 02:26 PM	#22
J-$ Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 2,090	why do we have to compare? we're different, accept it. a man that is being mistreated by his woman and sticking with her is...VERY SPECIAL in my opinion. there must be exceptions to the rule I guess. I for one wouldn't be afraid to hit a woman and fracture her skull in half after she hit me. i think most women take for granted that they cannot get hit by a guy and often proceed to push their luck. Then i'd be in deep shit though. __________________

11-04-2005, 02:31 PM	#23
69pornlinks Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Heranus Posts: 5,560	i would just leave the chick....i personally wouldn't call the police on anyone and definetly not on the chick that's beating my ass...haha yes women abuse their men...but men are stronger than women by nature so this is why it's overlooked...and not just physical but mental abuse __________________ It IS what it IS

11-04-2005, 02:46 PM	#26
J-$ Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 2,090	fuck it you just pay some HUUUUUUUUUUUGE butcher bitch to beat the living shit out of her. like kiki osborne heh Dre? __________________

11-04-2005, 03:24 PM	#29
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	True though it is a character and in real life he is a true liberal leftie.