How seriously do you take domestic violence against men?
 

We have a high profile case here in the UK today where the most famous newspaper editor in the country was arrested for attacking her husband who is a very well known soap actor.

Now, I know for personal experience that domestic violence against men it real...my husband's ex-wife had put him in the hospital with broken ribs and threw a knife at him while he was holding their daughter...our bedroom door still has the knife mark in it. When he called the police they laughed at him. OKay, that was 15 plus years ago but still. Had he raised his hand to protect himself he would have been in jail.

So...if you hear of a man being the victim of domestic violence at the hands of a woman how do you react?

People should not hit each other, unless both agree to it.


2hp

Wow.

Even I could defend myself against a woman, and I'm a nelly fag!

Calling the cops is for trannies.

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i called the cops on a gf who was going nuts on me, instead of beating her down and getting myself arrested, i called the pigs..... it may have backfired if she kept her composure and tried to say it was ME doing the abuse (they would always side with the woman if she were believable), but luckily she was DRUNK off her tits and was telling the police to fuck off and that her dad (prominent businessman) would have them fired, etc... They came to the door, explained they were going to hog tie her, and asked if i wanted to press charges. i said no, but i dont want her around here... they took her to her parents house at 3am lol

anyhow, that was my experience with domestic violence

i guess my post bolsters your statement huh? hehe

I think its a bigger problem than most think.
Many men are to embarressed to report it or is afraid to hit back cause they know they will get the blame if the police shows up.

I'd react the same way as if it was a woman abused by a man. With disgust. I certainly don't think like a lot of other men think, that he must be weak. That's just bullshit.

In fact, if anything, that thinking can lead to physically abused men. How many times has it been posted on GFY...do NOT strike a woman under ANY circumstances? While I certainly don't advocate beating or hitting women, if a women came running at me with a knife, I'd do what I could to take her down...with the same respect she was showing me...NONE. I wouldn't see a woman running at me. I'd see a deadly weapon running my way. My life is worth more to me than worrying about doing the politically correct thing and not hitting a woman in SELF DEFENSE.

Abuse isn't a gender biased thing, except perhaps to the media. Just like there's bad people of every race, there's bad people of every gender. Many of whom USE their race or gender to their advantage...usually ONLY when necessary. For example, defending themself in court like in the case you've mentioned above.

I guess men can find some better ways to solve this problem other then calling the cops... :)

If you can't kick your womans ass you don't deserve to have her.


lmao

It's often overlooked, ignored, and minimized. In many cases the mental abuse is what does the most damage, but I would say over 90% of the focus in society is on violence/abuse against women, not men.

I have been there
My ex wife was/is a very abusive person , both mentally and phsyically.
She was always throwing things hitting me and the kids
screamming at the top of her lungs swearing, insulting ETC.
Finally after a couple of years of this shit, I said fuck being politically correct I dropped the bitch and then had her arrested.
the good thing is the people next door to me were friends and they always heard what went on in our home and they backed me on what was going on, enough to help me get her the fuck out and with the help of a bunch of great people in this biz I was able to get over the divorce and losing the house etc, with the help of StuartD I was able to get custody of my daughter.
So all is good now but for awhile there I thought I was stuck in hell forever.

some woman will even try to trick you into hitting them....dont fall for it...they will attack you and actually say the words "go on hit me" this is bait and sign that the woman you are with is crazy as a loon.

Violence against women makes me sick

women are dangerous

Its very serious and in fact a lot of men suffer from it.....

My Ex was verbally abusive and when I said that its over, I am leaving she pulled the big ass chopping knife and came after me.... Luckily I moved and she sent the blade into the wall behind my shoulder.....

That night I left our house, called the police, she sat for a few hours and the next day our house was listed for sale......

I could have snapped her neck with my bare hands, but, I wouldnt give her that satisfaction of getting me jammed up with the man

http://www.sane.org.uk/public_html/N...ss-Kemp_sm.jpg


BOSH

I think society in general has very little concern for that, probably about as much as man on man rape in prison or elsewhere. Men are supposed to handle their bizzznass wherever they are, anything less is their fault.

i usually put they're head in a plastic bag until they stop breathing. take them out to the sierra mountains and drop them in a secluded place which no one has been to in all its existance. then have a friend as an aliby.

all joking aside.. its a fucked up deal. ive woken up to my ex gf stradling me with a knife clinched in her hand looking like a bitch straight out of hell. got the knife from her and carried her screaming and biting all the way out to the street. good thing i left that crazy broad when i did. she got all depressed started doing speed, had a kid, and now lives off her new bf's parents. moral of the story is crazy bitches are the root of all evil.

Once during a confrontation my gf punched me right in the jaw - no warning or nothing. At that moment I had to make a decision - beat her into a pulp or walk away.

I walked away for good and never looked back. Her loss.

i guess the solution would be not to hang around fat tomboy crackheads; however it is true that women can stir up lots of shit just by calling the cops. if that happens, smack the shit out of her and flee the scene. if its your wife, then youve got no one to blame but you

Anymore than if a woman is beaten by her husband it is her fault?

why do we have to compare? we're different, accept it. a man that is being mistreated by his woman and sticking with her is...VERY SPECIAL in my opinion. there must be exceptions to the rule I guess. I for one wouldn't be afraid to hit a woman and fracture her skull in half after she hit me. i think most women take for granted that they cannot get hit by a guy and often proceed to push their luck. Then i'd be in deep shit though.

i would just leave the chick....i personally wouldn't call the police on anyone and definetly not on the chick that's beating my ass...haha

yes women abuse their men...but men are stronger than women by nature so this is why it's overlooked...and not just physical but mental abuse

I think in most cases it's laughable ... there are exceptions ... but the guys are fucking whip

exactly ... the guys have more serious problems then getting beat up once in a while ...

But I agree on the "Can't call the cops part"... they'd laugh at you so hard

fuck it you just pay some HUUUUUUUUUUUGE butcher bitch to beat the living shit out of her. like kiki osborne heh Dre?

him? Seriously? LOL that's hilarious to me - I remember watching him in Eastenders - the 'bruiser' guy Grant Mitchell - heck, I remember one storyline where he was hitting his gf/wife on the show - irony :1orglaugh LOL

Sorry - I know domestic abuse isn't funny in any way but it just tickles my funny bone given the character this guy played on that soap :2 cents:

I hate Eastenders with a passion.

Actually amuses me how the two 'hard-men' got the shit beat out them by chicks... :1orglaugh

True though it is a character and in real life he is a true liberal leftie.

:1orglaugh that cracks me up.