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woj · 10-28-2005, 01:43 AM

100........

Shoehorn! · 10-28-2005, 01:43 AM

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It only gets easier with time man, hang in there.

Hello woj.

Shoehorn! · 10-28-2005, 01:43 AM

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100........

I need to find a fist shaking smilie.

Shoehorn! · 10-28-2005, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Shoehorn!

I need to find a fist shaking smilie.

Hotlinked from same Bangladesh board.

Dagwolf · 10-28-2005, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

Well, best of luck to you both then.

edit - I might add she was always my Godess as well. Along with my Princess and Queen. She was my everything, ny every reason for living.

Let's not have any more of THAT! Your spine is melting. You'll find another reason to live; in the meantime you'd better find someone to stand up for you because it doesn't sound like you're standing up for yourself.

I don't know Arika's side of the story, I'm just as dazzled by her smile as anyone else here and I've never even met her in person. If I were in your shoes I'm sure I'd be just as much of a pussy, but at the moment I'm not; so listen to the people who CARE about you.

DON'T listen to your heart. It's lying to you, and you know it.

baddog · 10-28-2005, 01:54 AM

wow, too bad . . . . all around

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 01:55 AM

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Let's not have any more of THAT! Your spine is melting. You'll find another reason to live; in the meantime you'd better find someone to stand up for you because it doesn't sound like you're standing up for yourself.

I don't know Arika's side of the story, I'm just as dazzled by her smile as anyone else here and I've never even met her in person. If I were in your shoes I'm sure I'd be just as much of a pussy, but at the moment I'm not; so listen to the people who CARE about you.

DON'T listen to your heart. It's lying to you, and you know it.

That confused me...lol

Yes, I can be spineless when it comes to her. And yes I will always stand up for her. But at the end of the day, that's all personal stuff, and this thread is aimed at the business side of things.

When people tell me not to listen to my heart I pretty much lose it, because my heart tells me things I shouldn't listen to right now considering what's going on.

baddog · 10-28-2005, 02:02 AM

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No one will ever know the loss I feel right now, no one.

Sorry Bill, but we have all either been there or will be there. You are not alone. Sometimes you need to just say fuck it and move on.

It hurts, cuz it's supposed to hurt. We deal.

Dagwolf · 10-28-2005, 02:06 AM

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I understand. Know one has any idea how much I love and respect her (well, the person I knew as her), even right now. I would do anything to see her walk back thorugh the door. I love her and care for her more than anything in the World, and I know that sounds so cliche, but even people I work with and talk to everyday have to listen to how much I love and miss her. No one will ever know the loss I feel right now, no one.

Yes. Yes, I do. I've been you and I was so hurt that I wandered through the next twelve years with no sense of direction and no care for myself.
You just lost half of yourself, and you're never going to be the same again. You have to rebuild yourself into a whole person, and being in a position of responsibility you have to do it a lot faster than I did.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Sorry Bill, but we have all either been there or will be there. You are not alone. Sometimes you need to just say fuck it and move on.

It hurts, cuz it's supposed to hurt. We deal.

The OMFG Kid · 10-28-2005, 02:07 AM

Booz is the solution

baddog · 10-28-2005, 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

Been there. No one said you had to like it.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Dagwolf

Yes. Yes, I do. I've been you and I was so hurt that I wandered through the next twelve years with no sense of direction and no care for myself.
You just lost half of yourself, and you're never going to be the same again. You have to rebuild yourself into a whole person, and being in a position of responsibility you have to do it a lot faster than I did.

Thank you for the kind words. I can and will rebuild that part of my life. In the meantime, since this will obviously be my exit stage from this company we have been involved in (she and I), I wanted to get out my side of everything and make sure people were taken care of.

baddog · 10-28-2005, 02:10 AM

Yeah . . . and I hate pulling links . . . now I need to find a new solo girl to promote.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by The OMFG Kid

Booz is the solution

Good idea, but the store cannot sell until 6:00a.m., story of my life...lol

Oh and anyone who thinks I have lost it or am drunk or whatever right now, I have talked to more than 40 people on ICQ tonight and had a very rational and professional conversations with them all. Most were affiliates extending support and asking for numbers, some were friends and business associates. But all of them were taken care of and handled and will confirm that I am good to go.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Yeah . . . and I hate pulling links . . . now I need to find a new solo girl to promote.

I am respectfully asking that you do not do that BD. I do not want the business to suffer more than it already has. I just want things made right so we can all move on.

The OMFG Kid · 10-28-2005, 02:16 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

Thank you for the kind words. I can and will rebuild that part of my life. In the meantime, since this will obviously be my exit stage from this company we have been involved in (she and I), I wanted to get out my side of everything and make sure people were taken care of.

Don't do it, I was fucking kidding!

sicone · 10-28-2005, 02:26 AM

newbreed and arika... you both know i love you guys and nothing but respect for you both.

Truly a sad day in my life to read this, and i refuse to choose sides.. please understand.

nor will I comment about this on the board or any other after this post

baddog · 10-28-2005, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

I am respectfully asking that you do not do that BD. I do not want the business to suffer more than it already has. I just want things made right so we can all move on.

You think it is going to survive? Seriously?

I would love to hear that it will, but from what I have read so far, I have my doubts. I think Arika should state her intertions.

New boyfriends are notorius for causing the departure of some hot model.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by sicone

newbreed and arika... you both know i love you guys and nothing but respect for you both.

Truly a sad day in my life to read this, and i refuse to choose sides.. please understand.

nor will I comment about this on the board or any other after this post

Much re% my Brotha. It's all good, just got to get through it all. We both love you as well, always will!

xlogger · 10-28-2005, 02:32 AM

holy shit! Sorry to hear that dude.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

You think it is going to survive? Seriously?

I would love to hear that it will, but from what I have read so far, I have my doubts. I think Arika should state her intertions.

New boyfriends are notorius for causing the departure of some hot model.

I want it to survive for her, as lame as I sound saying that, I really do. My only hangup is she makes things right, and agree to my terms, which she has not as of yet even bothered to listen to. And don't get me wrong, they in NO way benefit me. I am willing to deal with her, always have been. But her shitbag boyfriend has been banging bullshit into her head for weeks if not months, and since I respected her wish of "I need to do my own thing and live life and be alone", etc., I have not called or hit her up or whatever to fight for her, which I have played over and over in my head as the stupidest thing I have ever done when it comes to her She is free to do whatever she wants so long as she makes things right.

Vegas · 10-28-2005, 02:43 AM

Damn dude, hate to see it happen but wish you two the best!

quiet · 10-28-2005, 02:43 AM

so she cheated on you while you were still together, without your initial knowledge? if so, that is so fucking hardcore cold - i feel for you, but seriously i don't know how you can be so chilled out. that is the sort of shit that kills me. i need to upload an mp3...

jscott · 10-28-2005, 02:46 AM

sorry to hear about the situation (both newbreed & arika)

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by quiet

so she cheated on you while you were still together, without your initial knowledge? if so, that is so fucking hardcore cold - i feel for you, but seriously i don't know how you can be so chilled out. that is the sort of shit that kills me. i need to upload an mp3...

Yes. On one occasion she lied to me and her family, even told us other family members were coming into town to make her story more believeable, and told us she was helping her friends move into OU, when in reality she was flying to see her new man.

tical · 10-28-2005, 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by quiet

so she cheated on you while you were still together, without your initial knowledge? if so, that is so fucking hardcore cold - i feel for you, but seriously i don't know how you can be so chilled out. that is the sort of shit that kills me. i need to upload an mp3...

i know, pretty shitty deal for such a nice guy. i'm sure there are 2 sides to every story but i havent dealt very much w/ arika and have nothing against her but i believe bill...

theres a lot more not being said here thats just fucked

in any case, i'm glad bill managed to stay on his feet and not let it eat him up, and its unbelievable (given what is not being said) that he STILL wants to make things right

anyway, he knows he can hit me up on icq or my cell anytime he wants to shoot the shit

grumpy · 10-28-2005, 02:52 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

You want to know why you have not been paid? Because Arika has chosen to not lift a finger in the last few weeks to do anything for or on her site. Truth be told we are getting a divorce. I am fine with that, that is a very private matter that I will not discuss here.

What I have a problem with is everything that has been neglected on her part to get those of you who have supported us in the past year and a half the answers, respect, and payments you have earned. I know how much money has come in, and I know what is now in the company checking account. I know other than basic bills being paid, the rest of the money is almost gone.

For days I busted my ass to get your site back up. Since then it's been close to non-stop helping your affiliates and members work through tech problems and fix things as they are found. All the while you have done nothing. Time and time again you have told me you were going to do something to help and then you disappear for days at a time. It's time to face up and do the right thing.

Arika, it's time to pay the Piper and settle your debts and get these people paid. Stop wasting money on your new life and trips to New York to see your new beau, and pay these people.

I am telling you now you have one week from today. I don't care how you do it. You chose to spend almost all the money these people helped you make on your new life, now it's time to settle all of this up. Business debt and the people we owe MUST come first, before you go out and continue to have fun. I am not going to continue to be in a position covering up what's going on, this is not fair to anyone, and certainly not to me considering what I have done for you in the past and even here lately.

I have the payment info saved and backed up here locally. I know what you all are owed. If you are owed money and do not recieve it in a timely manner please contact me directly and I will do whatever it takes to make sure you get paid.

Thank you all for your patience, we will get this sorted as as best we can. In the meantime, should any of you have questions or issues getting paid, please contact me directly by e-mail at billATnewbreedmediaDOTcom or ICQ - 346940591.

Bill

your pimpin days are over. Accept it like a man and find a job!

GoNe · 10-28-2005, 02:54 AM

I just read through the entire thread and I'll tell it wasnt really a fun thread to read.

Newbreed I wish you the best of luck and try to think positive and yeah small advice from me. "Move on there is so many more out there. Just see it as a goodtime in your life."

Even though we dont know eachother I would like you to hit me up for a talk if you would like that. Talking about shit like this is a good way to get closure.

btw sorry for my bad spelling just woke up. :/

Jakke PNG · 10-28-2005, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

Yes. On one occasion she lied to me and her family, even told us other family members were coming into town to make her story more believeable, and told us she was helping her friends move into OU, when in reality she was flying to see her new man.

Damn, that's cold and unacceptable.

xlogger · 10-28-2005, 02:59 AM

Just curious.

Does her new b/f work in this industry?

quiet · 10-28-2005, 03:01 AM

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Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

Damn, that's cold and unacceptable.

beyond cold, and definitely unacceptable. fucking disgusting really.

xlogger · 10-28-2005, 03:02 AM

Man, i am never getting married...thats for sure!!

baddog · 10-28-2005, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

Just curious.

Does her new b/f work in this industry?

Good question, will be answered soon one way or the other.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

Just curious.

Does her new b/f work in this industry?

Yes, and I considered him a freind.

I have gotten way to personal in this thread, and it's time I stopped. I only originally intended to deal with the business side of everything, but in the same respect I am done hiding and minimizing what's going on. From now on no more personal questions will be answered.

xlogger · 10-28-2005, 03:13 AM

WOW! I knew it because you said she flew out of state to see him. Maybe they meet at a webmaster convention?

baddog · 10-28-2005, 03:16 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

Yes, and I considered him a freind.

Not Juicy!?!?!?!

quiet · 10-28-2005, 03:18 AM

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Not Juicy!?!?!?!

or izz? or... escortbiz? (just kidding eb).

Shaze · 10-28-2005, 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by newbreed

sorry to hear what's been going on even though i personally don't know both of you.......

the best advice i can give you is to try and move on as quick as possible....the more you dwell on how much you love her and how good it was the longer it will take to get over it......i've had a few rough breakups and have always found it easier to move on.....but everyone's different...

hope for the best....

Platinumpimp · 10-28-2005, 03:31 AM

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Well, best of luck to you both then.

edit - I might add she was always my Godess as well. Along with my Princess and Queen. She was my everything, ny every reason for living.

Behold the power of the pussy. She put up a pretty good act on you.

Because if she feeling would be mutual she would not be leaving you for another guy. Having this said, I do not know the private reason why the 2 of you are getting divorced.

If Arika's spending money on trips to NY instead of paying up to her debt, thats seriously fucked up.

Good luck to you newbreed.

Just Mike · 10-28-2005, 03:34 AM

Truly sorry to hear that....You are a good guy and I have no doubt Karma will favor you in the end.

xclusive · 10-28-2005, 03:51 AM

So sorry to hear that you are going through this and I have lost a lot of respect for Arika and gained a shitload for you. I don't see how you could handle things better. Much respect and wish you all the best.

blazin · 10-28-2005, 04:03 AM

It's not easy to loose someone you love but for fucksakes stop being a punk and trying to make things right for her..... she certainly hasn't done the same for you.

Less love and more hate....

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by xclusive

So sorry to hear that you are going through this and I have lost a lot of respect for Arika and gained a shitload for you. I don't see how you could handle things better. Much respect and wish you all the best.

Thank you xclusive. This thread was never meant for me to gain any kind of praise or anything else, only to get the word out and hope she does the right thing right now.

There are two or three sides to every story, we all know that, and I welcome her to explain her side here if she wishes. I have not asked anyone to pass jusdgement on her, deep down she is a good person with a big heart, I just want the right things to be done here.

newbreed · 10-28-2005, 04:14 AM

To those of you hitting me up with the rumors of who she is with and what they are doing, i already know. Please, I have heard it from a few people tonight and I really don't want to keep having to hear it over and over again. I have known what's going on in detail for almost 2 months. I hope they are have a wonderful happy life. I just want her to make things right for those people here that have been affected over the last few weeks.

broke · 10-28-2005, 04:16 AM

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Originally Posted by blazin

It's not easy to loose someone you love but for fucksakes stop being a punk and trying to make things right for her.....

His name is as much a part of the program as hers...

I don't see him as trying to make things right for her. He's trying to make things right by THEIR affiliates. So this whole thing doesn't bite him in the ass professionally down the road.

He's in a tough spot as I read the thread... half responsible for payments due to affliates with no access to company funds (which are now being "managed" poorly). I don't envy his position.

Best of luck newbreed.

GoNe · 10-28-2005, 04:16 AM

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Originally Posted by xclusive

So sorry to hear that you are going through this and I have lost a lot of respect for Arika and gained a shitload for you. I don't see how you could handle things better. Much respect and wish you all the best.

Same here. I'll watch this thread closly and see how it developes. I just hope it will turn around for the better for you newbreed.

xlogger · 10-28-2005, 04:22 AM

I wounder who this guys is she is seeing.......

You already stated that he lives in new york.

hmmmmmmmmm

KyleHoppes · 10-28-2005, 04:33 AM

Nice guys finish last. Sorry nb I am sure you will come back from all this!

Machete_ · 10-28-2005, 04:43 AM

newbreed - I just change my mind about you completely

Before this you always came off as a moron in my eyes - but your actions and the responsibility you are showing your affiliates now - putting their need before your own in this issue - wow !! - Class-A job!!

Sorry for your problems

unless Arika Ames get included in a other big program, I would not recommend any affiliates to promote here - Showing such a lack of respect for the people making her rich is beyond stupid

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The OMFG Kid Registered User Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 36	Booz is the solution __________________ LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

10-28-2005, 02:26 AM	#118
sicone Retired Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Sac Posts: 18,453	newbreed and arika... you both know i love you guys and nothing but respect for you both. Truly a sad day in my life to read this, and i refuse to choose sides.. please understand. nor will I comment about this on the board or any other after this post __________________

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xlogger Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: NY Posts: 9,507	holy shit! Sorry to hear that dude. __________________ ---------- XLOGGER [REFLECTED] [OH]

10-28-2005, 02:43 AM	#123
Vegas Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: NC USA Posts: 99	Damn dude, hate to see it happen but wish you two the best! __________________

10-28-2005, 01:54 AM	#106
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	wow, too bad . . . . all around

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baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	Yeah . . . and I hate pulling links . . . now I need to find a new solo girl to promote.

10-28-2005, 02:43 AM	#124
quiet we'll miss you our friend. RIP Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Fernie, BC Posts: 25,115	so she cheated on you while you were still together, without your initial knowledge? if so, that is so fucking hardcore cold - i feel for you, but seriously i don't know how you can be so chilled out. that is the sort of shit that kills me. i need to upload an mp3... __________________ we'll miss you our friend. RIP

10-28-2005, 02:46 AM	#125
jscott So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Taipei Posts: 25,198	sorry to hear about the situation (both newbreed & arika)

10-28-2005, 02:54 AM	#129
GoNe Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: unknown Posts: 2,892	I just read through the entire thread and I'll tell it wasnt really a fun thread to read. Newbreed I wish you the best of luck and try to think positive and yeah small advice from me. "Move on there is so many more out there. Just see it as a goodtime in your life." Even though we dont know eachother I would like you to hit me up for a talk if you would like that. Talking about shit like this is a good way to get closure. btw sorry for my bad spelling just woke up. :/ __________________ buying domains 1 year or more in age. Adult related only. Email me at webmaster @ crazyvids.com

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10-28-2005, 03:34 AM	#141
Just Mike Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: In a land FAR FAR away Posts: 3,726	Truly sorry to hear that....You are a good guy and I have no doubt Karma will favor you in the end. __________________ EMAIL: [email protected] / ICQ: 56205262 AWEMPIRE

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xclusive Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Buffalo, NY Posts: 35,218	So sorry to hear that you are going through this and I have lost a lot of respect for Arika and gained a shitload for you. I don't see how you could handle things better. Much respect and wish you all the best. __________________ I support MediumPimpin.com / Shemp's Outlawtgp.com /

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blazin Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 2,781	It's not easy to loose someone you love but for fucksakes stop being a punk and trying to make things right for her..... she certainly hasn't done the same for you. Less love and more hate.... __________________ I don't endorse a god damn thing......

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newbreed Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: ThatOneProgram.com Posts: 9,898	To those of you hitting me up with the rumors of who she is with and what they are doing, i already know. Please, I have heard it from a few people tonight and I really don't want to keep having to hear it over and over again. I have known what's going on in detail for almost 2 months. I hope they are have a wonderful happy life. I just want her to make things right for those people here that have been affected over the last few weeks. __________________ Want to promote SUCCUBUS? Click HERE!!!! \| Want to buy SUCCUBUS? Click HERE!!!! Yeah, yeah, you know, That One Program! \| Want to trade links with StompBunny.com? Loryn ‎(3:16 PM): I love it, just as long as we keep the bedroom door closed from all ears then we can have throw down hard core sex that makes us money haha fuck it we can have sex on money never did that before

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10-28-2005, 04:33 AM	#149
KyleHoppes So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 354	Nice guys finish last. Sorry nb I am sure you will come back from all this!

10-28-2005, 04:43 AM	#150
Machete_ WINNING! Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 14,579	newbreed - I just change my mind about you completely Before this you always came off as a moron in my eyes - but your actions and the responsibility you are showing your affiliates now - putting their need before your own in this issue - wow !! - Class-A job!! Sorry for your problems unless Arika Ames get included in a other big program, I would not recommend any affiliates to promote here - Showing such a lack of respect for the people making her rich is beyond stupid