Women : Would you rather be brilliant or beautiful?

[SouthernGirl]

you cant be both. you either get a 150 IQ and look like a gnome, or you have a 100 IQ but the looks of Mrs. Universe...

[LittleSassy]

guess a 100 IQ isnt that bad......lol...

[Doc911]

whats wrong with 100 iq and some big tits and a tight ass?

[chadglni]

Isn't this how it works anyway?

[Sarah_Jayne]

I would rather a balance but I would take brains.

[SilverTab]

100 is pretty average....if she can have an average intelligence and the look of Ms Universe...huh why not??

on the other hand...gnomes are funny

[K R I S T E N]

id rather have the iq of 150+ bc than i would be smart enough to make "gnome" appearance look gorgeous and therefore be brilliant AND hot

[Elli]

100 IQ is nothing to sneeze at

Tough call. I think I'd rather be smart. But that's a tough choice...

[Maureenoz]

I already chose brains.

If I'm rich, I can choose rather than hope to be chosen.

[CynthiaB]

I'd rather be beautiful because then you don't need brains

Cyn

[Maureenoz]

I'd worry that I was always dancing at the end of some guy's string. I suppose since I wasn't born beautiful, being smart has been rather important.

Maybe if I was gorgeous I'd think differently, but probably not. I prefer doing my own thing and being in control.

[Holly]

Originally Posted by CynthiaB

I'd rather be beautiful because then you don't need brains

Cyn

Amen. Fuck all that intelligence stuff. All I need are good looks and a platinum card.

[KGucci]

I will take the 100 IQ and the looks of Miss Universe please!!!

[Oracle Porn]

looks like I chose the 2nd option in my past life ;)

[Jakke PNG]

I want to be gorgeous.

[Tala]

Sorry, I'm already both.

[The Sultan Of Smut]

If I was a woman I would definitely want the higher IQ since surgery can help your looks if you want but nothing can help if you're an idiot.

[HpicAnn]

both would be good brilliant and beautiful

[TheJimmy]

Originally Posted by The Sultan Of Smut

If I was a woman I would definitely want the higher IQ since surgery can help your looks if you want but nothing can help if you're an idiot.

uh oooo, someone took the smart pill this morning and figured out the riddle...





I'm with ya on that one Sultan, plastic surgery, make overs, etc... There are not many reality shows on now to make dumb people sMrT

;)

[Missy]

I would take brains over beauty. In this industry, good looks and a nice set of tits will get you much farther as a female, but in the "real" world intelligence will take you much farther without having to always rely on somebody else for your well-being.

If I were a near-genius but hideous to look at, I would like to think that I could earn enough money to hire a damn good plastic surgeon. Even if all the money in the world could not make me beautiful, I'm sure it could make a huge improvement.

Besides that... looks fade quickly. Then where does an ex-beauty queen find herself? Probably brooding in a dark corner somewhere wishing she had chosen brains.

[DamageX]

I love all the chicks opting for brains. Think of it this way, you probably already hate a lot of stuff about your body/looks, what if you were butt-ugly and had enough brian power to comprehend this? Do what's best for you, choose ignorance. They say it's bliss.

[mrbling]

only holly and a few other girls are actually facing realities.

Girls who are smart are the most MISERABLE in life, just check your local college with the dork girls.
They think too much, they love too much, they get nothing in return.


Girls need affection and love, they don't need POWER like men(requires intellegence)

Girls with all the money or intellegence but no looks are very miserable in life.


examples: old women with leftover bank accounts,
dork girls,
shemales,
any below average looking girl.

Have you seen any of them smile? I never have :D



We guys DESPISE ugly looking smart girls as well.

[Sarah_Jayne]

I swear I have never heard an actual adult use the word 'dork' before.

Any man that 'despises' a smart and/or ugly woman has his own issues.

[phogirl69]

I would rather be beautiful and average in intelligence, I don't know about beautiful and dumb. I would definitely not want to be brilliant but ugly.

Luckily I am both beautiful and smart, not brilliant, but probably above "average smart".

Yea, I admit I am rather vain, I would never want to be ugly! Looks are important, but so are brains as well.

In today's competitive world you should ideally have BOTH, looks and brains in order to excel!

Someone who is average in intelligence but very good looking is probably more likely to get ahead in life than someone who is super smart but ugly. Sad but true.

[Sarah_Jayne]

Originally Posted by mrbling

Girls need affection and love, they don't need POWER like men(requires intellegence)

Oh, and how did I miss this line? A true classic.

[Elli]

Originally Posted by mrbling

only holly and a few other girls are actually facing realities.

Girls who are smart are the most MISERABLE in life, just check your local college with the dork girls.
They think too much, they love too much, they get nothing in return.


Girls need affection and love, they don't need POWER like men(requires intellegence)

Girls with all the money or intellegence but no looks are very miserable in life.


examples: old women with leftover bank accounts,
dork girls,
shemales,
any below average looking girl.

Have you seen any of them smile? I never have :D



We guys DESPISE ugly looking smart girls as well.

Wow, well that was uplifting.

I'm so glad to be a member of the weaker sex. I don't have all those drives for power and ambition brought on by unnecccessary intelligence. I'm so glad men love me and want to take care of me all my life because I am beautiful and fragile.

I think I need to go pop out a few children now.

[phogirl69]

Also I read that there was a psychology test done where in jobs interviews or similar sittings people who were more conventionally ATTRACTIVE or very good looking were more likely judged as being "more intelligent" than their uglier peers even if that were not the case!

People who were uglier, were tended to be PERCEIVED as not being as intelligent as the good looking people, even if they ARE more intelligent.

So the truth is that by just being good looking and not very smart, you can still get ahead in life and are likely to be PERCEIVED as intelligent, even if you are not. So if you are good looking and somewhat intelligent (of average or slightly higher than average intelligence) you are already ahead of someone who is brilliant but ugly.

So I am glad I am not ugly because ugly people have more to prove even if they are smarter. I know I get away with a lot with more things because I am good looking. But I am thirsty for money and pwwer though.... so it's easier for me to achieve those things because I am not ugly. Being attractive can be a good tool in life if you have other skills, i don't care if my opinions are not politically correct, but that is what i think.

[latinasojourn]

all things considered a woman should prefer beauty over brains.

the male will seek the more beautiful woman to mate with, same is true in most of the animal kingdom.

so the pretty girl has a greater pool of mating partners, faster social mobility, and generally a more secure future.

not politically correct, but true.

[phogirl69]

Originally Posted by latinasojourn

all things considered a woman should prefer beauty over brains.

the male will seek the more beautiful woman to mate with, same is true in most of the animal kingdom.

so the pretty girl has a greater pool of mating partners, faster social mobility, and generally a more secure future.

not politically correct, but true.

You are retarded. A women who is good looking and smart can achieve "Social mobility" on her own without needing to marry "up". Fuck that, as if "marriage" is the only way up for women. Are you stuck in the 50's or something?

Look at the miss universe contestants for example; not only are they beautiful but some are very accomplished; attending law schools, graduated from top engineering schools. There are other opportunities for women to move up these days besides marriage.

[latinasojourn]

Originally Posted by Missy

Then where does an ex-beauty queen find herself? Probably brooding in a dark corner somewhere wishing she had chosen brains.

no, statistically she will marry well, and have a secure future.

lots of plain, oprah watching, smart, "empowered" women sitting home alone and waiting for the phone to ring.

[Elli]

A smart woman won't sit around waiting for long. She'll do her own thing and not sit around watching Oprah all day.

And I wouldn't call your future "secure" if you have to depend on your husband sharing his bank account with you.

[phogirl69]

Originally Posted by latinasojourn

no, statistically she will marry well, and have a secure future.

lots of plain, oprah watching, smart, "empowered" women sitting home alone and waiting for the phone to ring.

This is not true, most "modern" men want to marry women who are their equals whom they can relate too. Most doctors that I know married women who were doctors as well!! They usually meet mates/dates in univeristy and in the workplace who are their equals or peers. I don't know many wealthy men who went to graduate school who married someone with a GED no matter how good looking they are!

[latinasojourn]

Originally Posted by phogirl69

You are retarded. A women who is good looking and smart can achieve "Social mobility" on her own without needing to marry "up". Fuck that, as if "marriage" is the only way up for women. Are you stuck in the 50's or something?

Look at the miss universe contestants for example; not only are they beautiful but some are very accomplished; attending law schools, graduated from top engineering schools. There are other opportunities for women to move up these days besides marriage.

true.

i was just commenting on the original poster's query re: "should a woman choose beauty OR brains," not commenting on a scenario where she has both.

if she has both her options are MUCH different as you suggest.

and not stuck in the 50's. what i said has been true for the last few million years.

[cherrylula]

But some people are ugly on the inside, and that makes them not very smart.

[latinasojourn]

Originally Posted by phogirl69

This is not true, most "modern" men want to marry women who are their equals whom they can relate too. Most doctors that I know married women who were doctors as well!! They usually meet mates/dates in univeristy and in the workplace who are their equals or peers. I don't know many wealthy men who went to graduate school who married someone with a GED no matter how good looking they are!

true again.

but the alpha male will rarely choose the homely female to mate with.

that's my point, and my only point. no biggie.

[Sarah_Jayne]

Originally Posted by Elli

I think I need to go pop out a few children now.

They better be boys or you haven't done your duty.

[Sarah_Jayne]

Originally Posted by phogirl69

Also I read that there was a psychology test done where in jobs interviews or similar sittings people who were more conventionally ATTRACTIVE or very good looking were more likely judged as being "more intelligent" than their uglier peers even if that were not the case!

People who were uglier, were tended to be PERCEIVED as not being as intelligent as the good looking people, even if they ARE more intelligent.

So the truth is that by just being good looking and not very smart, you can still get ahead in life and are likely to be PERCEIVED as intelligent, even if you are not. So if you are good looking and somewhat intelligent (of average or slightly higher than average intelligence) you are already ahead of someone who is brilliant but ugly.

So I am glad I am not ugly because ugly people have more to prove even if they are smarter. I know I get away with a lot with more things because I am good looking. But I am thirsty for money and pwwer though.... so it's easier for me to achieve those things because I am not ugly. Being attractive can be a good tool in life if you have other skills, i don't care if my opinions are not politically correct, but that is what i think.

whislt I don't disagree totally with you, I do have a question for you. What would happen if - god forbid - you are in a fire tonight and you are burned and plastic surgery won't return you to your current level or beauty..how do you cope then if you have built such an importance on your beauty. Same thing goes for women that think it will proivde them with a better mate...would they be there if you lost your beauty ..which one day most of us will.

[Sarah_Jayne]

Originally Posted by latinasojourn

true again.

but the alpha male will rarely choose the homely female to mate with.

that's my point, and my only point. no biggie.

am I the only woman who is generally not attracted to 'alpha male' types?

[phogirl69]

Originally Posted by sarah_webinc

whislt I don't disagree totally with you, I do have a question for you. What would happen if - god forbid - you are in a fire tonight and you are burned and plastic surgery won't return you to your current level or beauty..how do you cope then if you have built such an importance on your beauty. Same thing goes for women that think it will proivde them with a better mate...would they be there if you lost your beauty ..which one day most of us will.

Well, that's not really my opinion that beauty is important, that's society's opinion, in general society places a lot of importance on looks as according to the study I posted about above. I am not saying if that is right or wrong, but unfortunately that's the way that it is so if you happen to have looks you might as well accept that sometimes you might have a slight advantage, no matter how unfair that may seem.

Well, if someone were to have a disfiguring accident, all they could do is just learn to live with it, just as anybody else would have to. What else could you do? Hopefully that person would have other skills they can depend on, but if you have booth looks and smarts it would be rather stupid not to take advantage of all of your assets.

[The Sultan Of Smut]

Originally Posted by phogirl69

Also I read that there was a psychology test done where in jobs interviews or similar sittings people who were more conventionally ATTRACTIVE or very good looking were more likely judged as being "more intelligent" than their uglier peers even if that were not the case!

People who were uglier, were tended to be PERCEIVED as not being as intelligent as the good looking people, even if they ARE more intelligent.

So the truth is that by just being good looking and not very smart, you can still get ahead in life and are likely to be PERCEIVED as intelligent, even if you are not. So if you are good looking and somewhat intelligent (of average or slightly higher than average intelligence) you are already ahead of someone who is brilliant but ugly.

So I am glad I am not ugly because ugly people have more to prove even if they are smarter. I know I get away with a lot with more things because I am good looking. But I am thirsty for money and pwwer though.... so it's easier for me to achieve those things because I am not ugly. Being attractive can be a good tool in life if you have other skills, i don't care if my opinions are not politically correct, but that is what i think.

I've read a few studies like that and in North America an 'average looking' male with a university education can statistically expect to make the same annual income as a 'good looking' male with only a high school eduation. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume the same logic can be applied to women as well.

Actually, before I got my last job I was only one out of 250 people (all computer science graduates except me) that applied for it. I have no degree and the only acedemic credentials I had was that I quit university after 4 years and was a Microsoft Certified Professional (*snicker*). Instead of taking the full MCSE I only took one of the exams knowing that some retard in an HR department wouldn't know the difference and then hope to get to the live interview. Once I was put up against all the guys that have to be hidden in the wiring closet so your clients don't see them the job was mine.

Edit: spelling

[VeriSexy]

I rather be hot looking and be a movie star

[Jman]

Is 150 IQ brilliant for real ???

If so.. NOICE!

[tristan_D]

Originally Posted by Doc911

whats wrong with 100 iq and some big tits and a tight ass?

you will rarely find one girl who has both.

[Audrey]

I,d prefer to be brilliant. Beauty fades away quickly

[Carol@Pixipay]

Originally Posted by mrbling

only holly and a few other girls are actually facing realities.

Girls who are smart are the most MISERABLE in life, just check your local college with the dork girls.
They think too much, they love too much, they get nothing in return.


Girls need affection and love, they don't need POWER like men(requires intellegence)

Girls with all the money or intellegence but no looks are very miserable in life.


examples: old women with leftover bank accounts,
dork girls,
shemales,
any below average looking girl.

Have you seen any of them smile? I never have :D



We guys DESPISE ugly looking smart girls as well.

1. Smart women are miserable. One of the stupidest things I've read on this board.

2. They think too much, they love too much, they get nothing in return. Let's pretend for a second that you correct, why would this fall on the women and not the people whom are "not" giving back?

3. Girls need affection and love, they don't need POWER like men(requires intelligence). Should this lead us to believe that men (needy creatures that they are) don't need affection and love? I wont touch the women don't need power comment; one can only take so much idiocy per sentence.

4. Girls with all the money or intelligence but no looks are very miserable in life. I am betting you don't know even one well off intelligent woman.

5. examples: old women with leftover bank accounts, --- and family I'd bet
dork girls, --- translates into self sufficient and busy I'd bet
shemales, --- doesn't count Einstein we aren't talking about transgender anything
any below average looking girl. --- and who is determining this "average"

6. Have you seen any of them smile? I never have :D Maybe they have no desire to smile at You....

7. We guys DESPISE ugly looking smart girls as well. If you really believe this.....

And for the question, I'd prefer to be smarter. Idiocy (as Mr Bling has demonstrated so effectively) has no "cure"

One last thing - when you preach about intelligence you should try to spell it correctly - loses a bit of it's "punch" when you can't even spell the word.

[SouthernGirl]

Originally Posted by CarolW

1. Smart women are miserable. One of the stupidest things I've read on this board.

2. They think too much, they love too much, they get nothing in return. Let's pretend for a second that you correct, why would this fall on the women and not the people whom are "not" giving back?

3. Girls need affection and love, they don't need POWER like men(requires intelligence). Should this lead us to believe that men (needy creatures that they are) don't need affection and love? I wont touch the women don't need power comment; one can only take so much idiocy per sentence.

4. Girls with all the money or intelligence but no looks are very miserable in life. I am betting you don't know even one well off intelligent woman.

5. examples: old women with leftover bank accounts, --- and family I'd bet
dork girls, --- translates into self sufficient and busy I'd bet
shemales, --- doesn't count Einstein we aren't talking about transgender anything
any below average looking girl. --- and who is determining this "average"

6. Have you seen any of them smile? I never have :D Maybe they have no desire to smile at You....

7. We guys DESPISE ugly looking smart girls as well. If you really believe this.....

And for the question, I'd prefer to be smarter. Idiocy (as Mr Bling has demonstrated so effectively) has no "cure"

One last thing - when you preach about intelligence you should try to spell it correctly - loses a bit of it's "punch" when you can't even spell the word.

[Missy]

After reading over this thread again, one thing in particular sticks out. It's mostly the girls who would choose brains, while the guys are the ones thinking that we should choose beauty instead. The people who think that a beautiful girl is most likely to end up with an "alpha mate" in a happy marriage are naive at best. Those same men who would choose to marry a woman simply because she is beautiful are the same men who will drop her when she hits 40 so they can find a 25 year old who looks better.
Sure, the 40 year old woman will end up with half of the guy's money and possessions, but without the brains to know what to do with them, those will be gone in no time flat, and she will be forced to remarry as quickly as possible... only this time she doesn't have her looks to fall back on.

A dumb beautiful woman may get farther ahead more quickly, but in the end I believe that intelligence will carry a woman much farther.

As somebody who has more intelligence than beauty, I can definitely say that I would love to be more beautiful. But would I trade in my intelligence for beauty? Never.

[Elli]

Good point, Missy.

Also note that the females posting in this thread tend to be the ones who chose intelligence because they're already pretty smart. ie: webmasters, sales people, entrepeneurs and business women. The women who would choose beauty over brains aren't as likely to be surfing a webmaster board.

[Laurie]

Originally Posted by Missy

After reading over this thread again, one thing in particular sticks out. It's mostly the girls who would choose brains, while the guys are the ones thinking that we should choose beauty instead. The people who think that a beautiful girl is most likely to end up with an "alpha mate" in a happy marriage are naive at best. Those same men who would choose to marry a woman simply because she is beautiful are the same men who will drop her when she hits 40 so they can find a 25 year old who looks better.
Sure, the 40 year old woman will end up with half of the guy's money and possessions, but without the brains to know what to do with them, those will be gone in no time flat, and she will be forced to remarry as quickly as possible... only this time she doesn't have her looks to fall back on.

A dumb beautiful woman may get farther ahead more quickly, but in the end I believe that intelligence will carry a woman much farther.

As somebody who has more intelligence than beauty, I can definitely say that I would love to be more beautiful. But would I trade in my intelligence for beauty? Never.

well said Missy.

[Buddy]

Originally Posted by Missy

After reading over this thread again, one thing in particular sticks out. It's mostly the girls who would choose brains, while the guys are the ones thinking that we should choose beauty instead. The people who think that a beautiful girl is most likely to end up with an "alpha mate" in a happy marriage are naive at best. Those same men who would choose to marry a woman simply because she is beautiful are the same men who will drop her when she hits 40 so they can find a 25 year old who looks better.
Sure, the 40 year old woman will end up with half of the guy's money and possessions, but without the brains to know what to do with them, those will be gone in no time flat, and she will be forced to remarry as quickly as possible... only this time she doesn't have her looks to fall back on.

A dumb beautiful woman may get farther ahead more quickly, but in the end I believe that intelligence will carry a woman much farther.

As somebody who has more intelligence than beauty, I can definitely say that I would love to be more beautiful. But would I trade in my intelligence for beauty? Never.

I only got like six words into that then I fell asleep, could you post some boobie pics or something???