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The Stickman · 07-29-2005, 07:49 AM

...someone you just met (that you really like) your interest goes out as fast as the orgasm she gave you???

Does this happen to anybody else? Please explain to me why?

Digibucks · 07-29-2005, 07:58 AM

well maybe because HUMAN has no satisfaction...once they get what they want...they ask for more

SouthernGirl · 07-29-2005, 07:59 AM

you are under 22?

Fletch XXX · 07-29-2005, 08:00 AM

becase you are mistaking lust for "liking someone."

llporter · 07-29-2005, 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Stickman

...someone you just met (that you really like) your interest goes out as fast as the orgasm she gave you???

Does this happen to anybody else? Please explain to me why?

No. It makes you sound like a bit of a ....

I think that even Sandra Bullock agrees. You are a ...

The Stickman · 07-29-2005, 08:07 AM

Nice Intelligent Responses...lol

This was a serious question... but obviously the wrong audience today

PS: 31yrs old little southern girl..lol

sickkittens · 07-29-2005, 08:10 AM

It's about the thrill of the hunt. After you have it, there's no more "game".

llporter · 07-29-2005, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by llporter

No. It makes you sound like a bit of a ....

I think that even Sandra Bullock agrees. You are a ...

Damn - I hate those fucking red Xs

E Guru · 07-29-2005, 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Stickman

...someone you just met (that you really like) your interest goes out as fast as the orgasm she gave you???

Does this happen to anybody else? Please explain to me why?

Happens to me also. Hooked up with a girl on wensday and now I won't answer the phone when she calls, I don't even want to talk to her.

Barefootsies · 07-29-2005, 08:44 AM

I agree with sickkittens. The thrill of the hunt's gone.

I've felt that way for many years. I'm 32, and I've had maybe a handful of women I've truely loved. The rest all lose that 'spark' after I've slept with them, or played with them 2-3 times. Personally, imho, the problem's they give it up too easily. Those I've truely loved, I had to wait, put in the time, anwhere from 6 months, or more to get the 'goodies'. So I knew them as a person, and we were friends before lovers. So I respected them more, and there was that emotional connection that kept me coming back.

When a woman gives it up in a first or second meeting, and there is little foundation built beyond the physical, I lose interest in the game, or the hunt. Toe sucked, woman fucked, end of mission. Plus how well do you really know them? I mean, when you meet someone, and they make the foundation sex, foreplay, whatever and you hardly know them, there is nothing else there. I've met plenty, and they were cool chicks to hang out with, and all. Most of my ex's have no ill feelings towards me, but I too get disappointed as I feel no emotional commitment to them after the dead's been done.

The world's changed so much in the past decade or so. I remember in my younger years, you had to work for it more. You had to make those 'romance tapes', the flowers, and who her more, as well as wait awhile before you closed the deal. Today, atleast for me, women are more like the stereotyped male persona where they want sex almost as fast as a male. Hey, I guess they have needs too.

I guess the old cliche hold's true,.. "Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free".

Paco, of Large Cash. · 07-29-2005, 08:49 AM

As with many, people always want that which they cannot have (lust), but once acquired (or once it has succumbed), the ?interest? has subsided.

DutchTeenCash · 07-29-2005, 08:51 AM

then she wasnt the right one imho

Anthony · 07-29-2005, 08:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Stickman

...someone you just met (that you really like) your interest goes out as fast as the orgasm she gave you???

Does this happen to anybody else? Please explain to me why?

She?

Don't you mean HE?

Doctor Dre · 07-29-2005, 09:18 AM

You know what ... at the point that I know I can have her... I'l often just ditch her there ... unless she's really good looking.

The Stickman · 07-29-2005, 09:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I agree with sickkittens. The thrill of the hunt's gone.

I've felt that way for many years. I'm 32, and I've had maybe a handful of women I've truely loved. The rest all lose that 'spark' after I've slept with them, or played with them 2-3 times. Personally, imho, the problem's they give it up too easily. Those I've truely loved, I had to wait, put in the time, anwhere from 6 months, or more to get the 'goodies'. So I knew them as a person, and we were friends before lovers. So I respected them more, and there was that emotional connection that kept me coming back.

That makes alot of sense...thanks! I guess thats aon a subconscience level...

Babagirls · 07-29-2005, 09:57 AM

i did that for years (and im a female), so it works both ways.

i feel a "connection" with someone, start falling for them, fuck them, lose all interest the next day while they're calling me off the hook lol

if the sex was awesome, i'd call them back but that was a rare case ;)

Ycaza · 07-29-2005, 09:59 AM

i do not agree its about the wait, when its a little right the interest doesn't go on the first time, but after a while you know it, when its all wrong and you just sense it, the interest goes right away. What it does, the orgasm, is clarify how you feel. Its just sad sometimes, but your body and your senses know when it can work for more than a week. If we are truthful with ourselves, we always know.

Its what we choose to do with that knowledge that defines our lives. Eddie Murphy put it well once in the movie raw when he said, when you been waitin to eat foh 6 months and you eat a cracker, you go "GOT DAYUM DATS DUH BEST CRACKUH I EVAH ATE" AND THE NEXT TIME YOU THINK WAIT MAYBE THATS JUST A CRACKUH..

Time won't make it right, but at least you get to know someone and when you are young, like in your 20's, you don't know any better, but at least you are resillient. If you work in this biz sex is all around you,l have as much fun as you can and be safe.

OK now i am my dad officially.

Chichio · 07-29-2005, 11:08 AM

I think it is possible for a girl to give it up early and retain my interest. But there has to be something more to her than good sex. If we bond apart from that usually it's a good thing that they like sex.

Hollywood Horwitz · 07-29-2005, 11:09 AM

i say this a situational thing, sometimes waiting works the other way around. you wait and wait,then build it up in yr head,so when you finally hit it,its anti-climatic.. so it just depends..

The Stickman · 07-29-2005, 11:43 AM

SO.....

...it happens to guys and girls.

Maybe it has to do with the number of people you have slept with too?

Too many people = losing interest fast
1 or 2 people = maybe not losing interest fast

Anthony · 07-29-2005, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Stickman

SO.....

...it happens to guys and girls.

Maybe it has to do with the number of people you have slept with too?

Too many people = losing interest fast
1 or 2 people = maybe not losing interest fast

Listen Sticky. Fuck that bitch, seriously.

Get her out of your system.

This is not the Sticky that I know and love.

The Stickman · 07-29-2005, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Anthony

Listen Sticky. Fuck that bitch, seriously.

Get her out of your system.

This is not the Sticky that I know and love.

I DID!!!

2 in 1 week... I'm having a good week!

Denis_SC · 07-29-2005, 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Stickman

...someone you just met (that you really like) your interest goes out as fast as the orgasm she gave you???

Does this happen to anybody else? Please explain to me why?

Happens to me allmost every time ... LOL
After I get what I want the girl is not interesting for me any more ...
Still looking for a true love .

Donny · 07-29-2005, 11:53 AM

Honestly, I think sleeping with someone too soon is the cause.

If you were to wait awhile for the tension to build with that same person things would be different. You'd have the beginnings of a friendship going. That way, if the sex wasn't all you thought it would be, you still have the friendship (which will result in better sex down the road). Even if sex with the stranger is great, that's still all you have. No friendship to fall back on afterwards.

Gettin' busy makes you vulnerable, in a way, to that other person. That's okay with friends but not with strangers.

Just my humble opinion....

Barefootsies · 07-29-2005, 12:42 PM

Let me clarify,..

I do not think just waiting equals my interest. It's the fact I know them, and know we are compatable, and more on the serious level of a foundation to build on. Those serious 'loves' I mentioned previously were more that I was just friends with them, and then as time went on, a romance came from it. I was not just sitting around making myself 'handy' waiting for them to give it up.

I knew them on the personal level, and in time, it grew to something more.

Stickman has a point as well about the number you sleep with. I have been around the block, or if you like, been to the puppet show, and seen the strings. So I can honestly say I've had a very good sample of what's out there.

In the past 5-8 years however, I have seen some of them women become every bit as aggresive as the stereotyped male. It could be because of my age being in my 30's versus some college/high school punk, who knows. But I can say that if the sex is served, or even offered w/i a few dates, I start to lose interest.

As mentioned before, as soon as the hunt's over... toes sucked, chickie fucked, game over.

nojob · 07-29-2005, 12:46 PM

That happens to me also , but I still keep them around. It is nice to have options. I never have to wait longer then the first night with anyone ( unless I meet them online) , then it is the 2nd night.

Anthony · 07-29-2005, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by The Stickman

I DID!!!

2 in 1 week... I'm having a good week!

Oh now you gotta brag about it.

Goddamn it, what about your boy? These women don't have equally loose friends?

Anthony · 07-29-2005, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips

Honestly, I think sleeping with someone too soon is the cause.

If you were to wait awhile for the tension to build with that same person things would be different. You'd have the beginnings of a friendship going. That way, if the sex wasn't all you thought it would be, you still have the friendship (which will result in better sex down the road). Even if sex with the stranger is great, that's still all you have. No friendship to fall back on afterwards.

Gettin' busy makes you vulnerable, in a way, to that other person. That's okay with friends but not with strangers.

Just my humble opinion....

Truer words have not been spoken.

The Stickman · 07-29-2005, 01:50 PM

WOW!

Great Responses Everyone!!!

It's nice to know I am not the only one out there that loses his/her interest at point of orgasm

Good Luck!!!

07-29-2005, 07:49 AM	#1
The Stickman Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Between the the first and last Hurricane... Posts: 263	Why is it that after you sleep with.... ...someone you just met (that you really like) your interest goes out as fast as the orgasm she gave you??? Does this happen to anybody else? Please explain to me why? __________________ We don't live in a world of reality, we live in a world of perceptions.

07-29-2005, 07:58 AM	#2
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The Stickman Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Between the the first and last Hurricane... Posts: 263	Nice Intelligent Responses...lol This was a serious question... but obviously the wrong audience today PS: 31yrs old little southern girl..lol __________________ We don't live in a world of reality, we live in a world of perceptions.

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07-29-2005, 08:44 AM	#10
Barefootsies Choice is an Illusion Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Land of Obama Posts: 42,635	I agree with sickkittens. The thrill of the hunt's gone. I've felt that way for many years. I'm 32, and I've had maybe a handful of women I've truely loved. The rest all lose that 'spark' after I've slept with them, or played with them 2-3 times. Personally, imho, the problem's they give it up too easily. Those I've truely loved, I had to wait, put in the time, anwhere from 6 months, or more to get the 'goodies'. So I knew them as a person, and we were friends before lovers. So I respected them more, and there was that emotional connection that kept me coming back. When a woman gives it up in a first or second meeting, and there is little foundation built beyond the physical, I lose interest in the game, or the hunt. Toe sucked, woman fucked, end of mission. Plus how well do you really know them? I mean, when you meet someone, and they make the foundation sex, foreplay, whatever and you hardly know them, there is nothing else there. I've met plenty, and they were cool chicks to hang out with, and all. Most of my ex's have no ill feelings towards me, but I too get disappointed as I feel no emotional commitment to them after the dead's been done. The world's changed so much in the past decade or so. I remember in my younger years, you had to work for it more. You had to make those 'romance tapes', the flowers, and who her more, as well as wait awhile before you closed the deal. Today, atleast for me, women are more like the stereotyped male persona where they want sex almost as fast as a male. Hey, I guess they have needs too. I guess the old cliche hold's true,.. "Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free". __________________ Should You Email Your Members? Link1 \| Link2 \| Link3 Enough Said. "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

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Paco, of Large Cash. Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: --> . <-- Posts: 2,267	As with many, people always want that which they cannot have (lust), but once acquired (or once it has succumbed), the ?interest? has subsided.

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Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	i did that for years (and im a female), so it works both ways. i feel a "connection" with someone, start falling for them, fuck them, lose all interest the next day while they're calling me off the hook lol if the sex was awesome, i'd call them back but that was a rare case ;) __________________ Need a Text Writer? Blogs\|Reviews\|Descriptions\|Paysites\|TGP's\|Stories ICQ: 397892500

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Ycaza Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: the 805 Posts: 4,290	i do not agree its about the wait, when its a little right the interest doesn't go on the first time, but after a while you know it, when its all wrong and you just sense it, the interest goes right away. What it does, the orgasm, is clarify how you feel. Its just sad sometimes, but your body and your senses know when it can work for more than a week. If we are truthful with ourselves, we always know. Its what we choose to do with that knowledge that defines our lives. Eddie Murphy put it well once in the movie raw when he said, when you been waitin to eat foh 6 months and you eat a cracker, you go "GOT DAYUM DATS DUH BEST CRACKUH I EVAH ATE" AND THE NEXT TIME YOU THINK WAIT MAYBE THATS JUST A CRACKUH.. Time won't make it right, but at least you get to know someone and when you are young, like in your 20's, you don't know any better, but at least you are resillient. If you work in this biz sex is all around you,l have as much fun as you can and be safe. OK now i am my dad officially. __________________ Caz Thrush Head Honcho [email protected] http://thrushtech.com ICQ: 304883574 do people still icq?

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The Stickman Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Between the the first and last Hurricane... Posts: 263	SO..... ...it happens to guys and girls. Maybe it has to do with the number of people you have slept with too? Too many people = losing interest fast 1 or 2 people = maybe not losing interest fast __________________ We don't live in a world of reality, we live in a world of perceptions.

07-29-2005, 11:53 AM	#24
Donny As you wish... Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 13,754	Honestly, I think sleeping with someone too soon is the cause. If you were to wait awhile for the tension to build with that same person things would be different. You'd have the beginnings of a friendship going. That way, if the sex wasn't all you thought it would be, you still have the friendship (which will result in better sex down the road). Even if sex with the stranger is great, that's still all you have. No friendship to fall back on afterwards. Gettin' busy makes you vulnerable, in a way, to that other person. That's okay with friends but not with strangers. Just my humble opinion....

07-29-2005, 12:42 PM	#25
Barefootsies Choice is an Illusion Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Land of Obama Posts: 42,635	Let me clarify,.. I do not think just waiting equals my interest. It's the fact I know them, and know we are compatable, and more on the serious level of a foundation to build on. Those serious 'loves' I mentioned previously were more that I was just friends with them, and then as time went on, a romance came from it. I was not just sitting around making myself 'handy' waiting for them to give it up. I knew them on the personal level, and in time, it grew to something more. Stickman has a point as well about the number you sleep with. I have been around the block, or if you like, been to the puppet show, and seen the strings. So I can honestly say I've had a very good sample of what's out there. In the past 5-8 years however, I have seen some of them women become every bit as aggresive as the stereotyped male. It could be because of my age being in my 30's versus some college/high school punk, who knows. But I can say that if the sex is served, or even offered w/i a few dates, I start to lose interest. As mentioned before, as soon as the hunt's over... toes sucked, chickie fucked, game over. __________________ Should You Email Your Members? Link1 \| Link2 \| Link3 Enough Said. "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

07-29-2005, 12:46 PM	#26
nojob The Original NoJob Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Jerzzey Posts: 3,682	That happens to me also , but I still keep them around. It is nice to have options. I never have to wait longer then the first night with anyone ( unless I meet them online) , then it is the 2nd night.

07-29-2005, 01:50 PM	#29
The Stickman Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Between the the first and last Hurricane... Posts: 263	WOW! Great Responses Everyone!!! It's nice to know I am not the only one out there that loses his/her interest at point of orgasm Good Luck!!! __________________ We don't live in a world of reality, we live in a world of perceptions.