Originally Posted by Barefootsies

I agree with sickkittens. The thrill of the hunt's gone.

I've felt that way for many years. I'm 32, and I've had maybe a handful of women I've truely loved. The rest all lose that 'spark' after I've slept with them, or played with them 2-3 times. Personally, imho, the problem's they give it up too easily. Those I've truely loved, I had to wait, put in the time, anwhere from 6 months, or more to get the 'goodies'. So I knew them as a person, and we were friends before lovers. So I respected them more, and there was that emotional connection that kept me coming back.