Originally Posted by DonovanPhillips

Honestly, I think sleeping with someone too soon is the cause.

If you were to wait awhile for the tension to build with that same person things would be different. You'd have the beginnings of a friendship going. That way, if the sex wasn't all you thought it would be, you still have the friendship (which will result in better sex down the road). Even if sex with the stranger is great, that's still all you have. No friendship to fall back on afterwards.

Gettin' busy makes you vulnerable, in a way, to that other person. That's okay with friends but not with strangers.

Just my humble opinion....