A generational difference over defining sex - GoFuckYourself.com

UnseenWorld · 01-29-2002, 12:04 PM

I was talking with one of my models and made fun of Bill Clinton's idea that a blow job isn't really sex. It turns out she agreed. For her, sex is coitus only.

My arguments to her were:

1) If a blow job isn't sex, then if I force a woman to blow me, it's not rape.

2) If a blow job or anal sex aren't sex, then how come you can get "sexually-transmitted diseases" with them?

3) If oral sex and anal sex aren't sex, then how come they are called "oral sex" and "anal sex"?

She argued:

1) If mere penetration of the vagina (as in finger fucking) is sex, then she has sex when she has a pelvic exam or inserts a tampon.

2) If all these non-coital things are sex, too, then a girl can't have any fun and still think of herself as virginal.

Personally, I think narrowing "sex" down to coitus alone simply in order to allow a range of fun activities which don't make babies does violence to the language and is totally the wrong approach. I think most psychologists would want to widen the definition of sex to include kissing and caressing as sexual behaviors, not narrow it down to just a penis in a vagina.

After all, if sex is just a penis in a vagina, then gays don't have sex at all!

mule · 01-29-2002, 12:17 PM

I think this model of yours is trying to justify something to her conscience, or to have her cake and eat it

I totally agree with you

BK681 · 01-29-2002, 02:15 PM

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Originally posted by UnseenWorld
I was talking with one of my models and made fun of Bill Clinton's idea that a blow job isn't really sex. It turns out she agreed. For her, sex is coitus only.

My arguments to her were:

1) If a blow job isn't sex, then if I force a woman to blow me, it's not rape.

2) If a blow job or anal sex aren't sex, then how come you can get "sexually-transmitted diseases" with them?

3) If oral sex and anal sex aren't sex, then how come they are called "oral sex" and "anal sex"?

She argued:

1) If mere penetration of the vagina (as in finger fucking) is sex, then she has sex when she has a pelvic exam or inserts a tampon.

2) If all these non-coital things are sex, too, then a girl can't have any fun and still think of herself as virginal.

Personally, I think narrowing "sex" down to coitus alone simply in order to allow a range of fun activities which don't make babies does violence to the language and is totally the wrong approach. I think most psychologists would want to widen the definition of sex to include kissing and caressing as sexual behaviors, not narrow it down to just a penis in a vagina.

After all, if sex is just a penis in a vagina, then gays don't have sex at all!

Dude's.... Fellow Smut Peddlers of America... Lend Me Your Ear!

If she wants to think of sex in such simplistic terms, well then all the better for us!
This makes our jobs in life so much easier:
1. As a content producer, you don't have to pay an outrageous price to get the girl to get freaky in front of the camera... "Sex" is the big payoff...no "sex" means you pay her less and still get all the freaky shots you need for a much cheaper price.
2. As a man... why not let her think giving a blow job isn't "sex"...then you can, "not have sex" with her all the time and it shouldn't be a problem, right? LOL

Just my opinion... I say go with the flow and take advantage of the situation...

BK681

boneprone · 01-29-2002, 02:59 PM

dude, dont you see the clue??

She's hinting and willing to give you a blow job.

Open your eyes.

Next time you see her, whip it out, and she'll do what she thinks is natural!

She's a cock craver dude! Don't try changing genetics!

For her its natural!

BK681 · 01-29-2002, 04:26 PM

AMEN!

FATPad · 01-29-2002, 04:36 PM

Is she hot? I'll not have sex with her.

boneprone · 01-29-2002, 04:37 PM

i fucked her

titmowse · 01-29-2002, 05:12 PM

I wouldn't call it a generational difference. After all, you bring up old Bill and his ridiculous ass-covering claim that oral sex isn't sex.

The Romans used to believe it was offensive for the new husband to initially take his bride vaginally, so he would take her anally. Only after an established period of time would they do the baby-making in-and-out. Why do I bring that up? I dunno, just cause.

01-29-2002, 12:04 PM	#1
UnseenWorld Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Portland, OR, USA Posts: 5,279	A generational difference over defining sex I was talking with one of my models and made fun of Bill Clinton's idea that a blow job isn't really sex. It turns out she agreed. For her, sex is coitus only. My arguments to her were: 1) If a blow job isn't sex, then if I force a woman to blow me, it's not rape. 2) If a blow job or anal sex aren't sex, then how come you can get "sexually-transmitted diseases" with them? 3) If oral sex and anal sex aren't sex, then how come they are called "oral sex" and "anal sex"? She argued: 1) If mere penetration of the vagina (as in finger fucking) is sex, then she has sex when she has a pelvic exam or inserts a tampon. 2) If all these non-coital things are sex, too, then a girl can't have any fun and still think of herself as virginal. Personally, I think narrowing "sex" down to coitus alone simply in order to allow a range of fun activities which don't make babies does violence to the language and is totally the wrong approach. I think most psychologists would want to widen the definition of sex to include kissing and caressing as sexual behaviors, not narrow it down to just a penis in a vagina. After all, if sex is just a penis in a vagina, then gays don't have sex at all! __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60. Last edited by UnseenWorld; 01-29-2002 at 12:19 PM..

01-29-2002, 05:12 PM	#8
titmowse Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: TEXAS Posts: 5,320	I wouldn't call it a generational difference. After all, you bring up old Bill and his ridiculous ass-covering claim that oral sex isn't sex. The Romans used to believe it was offensive for the new husband to initially take his bride vaginally, so he would take her anally. Only after an established period of time would they do the baby-making in-and-out. Why do I bring that up? I dunno, just cause. __________________ I still love everybody

01-29-2002, 12:17 PM	#2
mule Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: hamsterdam Posts: 6,085	I think this model of yours is trying to justify something to her conscience, or to have her cake and eat it I totally agree with you

01-29-2002, 02:59 PM	#4
boneprone Hall Of Fame Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Portland Oregon USA Posts: 34,415	dude, dont you see the clue?? She's hinting and willing to give you a blow job. Open your eyes. Next time you see her, whip it out, and she'll do what she thinks is natural! She's a cock craver dude! Don't try changing genetics! For her its natural!

01-29-2002, 04:26 PM	#5
BK681 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: SomeWhereFarAway Posts: 36	AMEN!

01-29-2002, 04:36 PM	#6
FATPad Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 6,693	Is she hot? I'll not have sex with her.

01-29-2002, 04:37 PM	#7
boneprone Hall Of Fame Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Portland Oregon USA Posts: 34,415	i fucked her