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Originally posted by UnseenWorld
I was talking with one of my models and made fun of Bill Clinton's idea that a blow job isn't really sex. It turns out she agreed. For her, sex is coitus only.
My arguments to her were:
1) If a blow job isn't sex, then if I force a woman to blow me, it's not rape.
2) If a blow job or anal sex aren't sex, then how come you can get "sexually-transmitted diseases" with them?
3) If oral sex and anal sex aren't sex, then how come they are called "oral sex" and "anal sex"?
She argued:
1) If mere penetration of the vagina (as in finger fucking) is sex, then she has sex when she has a pelvic exam or inserts a tampon.
2) If all these non-coital things are sex, too, then a girl can't have any fun and still think of herself as virginal.
Personally, I think narrowing "sex" down to coitus alone simply in order to allow a range of fun activities which don't make babies does violence to the language and is totally the wrong approach. I think most psychologists would want to widen the definition of sex to include kissing and caressing as sexual behaviors, not narrow it down to just a penis in a vagina.
After all, if sex is just a penis in a vagina, then gays don't have sex at all!
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Dude's.... Fellow Smut Peddlers of America... Lend Me Your Ear!
If she wants to think of sex in such simplistic terms, well then all the better for us!
This makes our jobs in life so much easier:
1. As a content producer, you don't have to pay an outrageous price to get the girl to get freaky in front of the camera... "Sex" is the big payoff...no "sex" means you pay her less and still get all the freaky shots you need for a much cheaper price.
2. As a man... why not let her think giving a blow job isn't "sex"...then you can, "not have sex" with her all the time and it shouldn't be a problem, right? LOL
Just my opinion... I say go with the flow and take advantage of the situation...
BK681