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xenigo · 04-10-2005, 10:08 PM

I guess it's good progress to spend 4 months with someone to find out you're not going to be happy spending the rest of your life with them. I figure it's a lot better than having spent a couple years and coming to the same conclusion.

I've thought about our past, which was constant bickering about the lamest petty 12 year old bullshit I've ever heard... and imagine spending the rest of my life around that. I just can't comprehend that.

So I went to Starbucks, and laid down the news. It wasn't easy, and it took - oh, about 7 hours from start to finish, but I think it's worth it. It's worth having my sanity back and actually being able to focus on things that matter, like people that I can picture having a serious future with.

Spunky · 04-10-2005, 10:10 PM

4 months really isn't much to base a long term relationship on

sickbeatz · 04-10-2005, 10:11 PM

Post nude pics of her, thanx

xenigo · 04-10-2005, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by spunky

4 months really isn't much to base a long term relationship on

I think I made a fair analysis from what I've witnessed.

CDSmith · 04-10-2005, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by xenigo

I've thought about our past, which was constant bickering about the lamest petty 12 year old bullshit I've ever heard... and imagine spending the rest of my life around that. I just can't comprehend that.

Only 4 months and you and her were already embroiled in childish petty bickering? Yeah, I'd have to say you are much better off without someone that brings that out in you.

Been there, done that myself, more than a few times actually.

Alky · 04-10-2005, 10:15 PM

you were at starbucks for 7 hours??!?!

sickbeatz · 04-10-2005, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

Only 4 months and you and her were already embroiled in childish petty bickering? Yeah, I'd have to say you are much better off without someone that brings that out in you.

Been there, done that myself, more than a few times actually.

Me too, I've gotten with girls on my lower times -- when I wasn't doing good. There been points where I had to move in with bitches cuz I had no where else to go.. And that soon shit gaining too much tension, it happens.. it's kinda like being married from what I hear

jonpotz · 04-10-2005, 10:16 PM

i've been with this chick for 4 years...around the 3 1/2 year mark shit started getting crazy.

i love her but I think she stresses me out way too much.

i hear shit like, "sell your porn sites, thats disgusting!" or "I don't like to go to bars", blah blah blah...she came over on the boat from cuba and is conservative as hell.

your lucky u got out when you did...4 months is nothin.

sickbeatz · 04-10-2005, 10:17 PM

Anyways, Enough Of This Bullshitting.. Lets Get To The Real Point

Where Are The Nudes?

xenigo · 04-10-2005, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Alky

you were at starbucks for 7 hours??!?!

Not at Starbucks for 7 hours, no. But it began there, and then we walked around for a couple hours in which I did some venting in a loud tone that I rarely use, just to let her know that I mean business and I'm serious about what I'm saying. Then we went back to my house, where we continued to discuss the reasons behind my decision... she kept asking for explanations over and over, and over.

The short explanation is she's absolutely horrible with any kind of communication, which women are usually quite natural with. She'd internalize things and unleash, without much explanation as to why she's so upset. I'd ask her, and try to have her clarify, and she'd just go around in circles calling me an asshole for "bagering" her. Any girl I've been with in the past would be able to quickly and easily offer up an explanation for anything I want to know, but she was different in a way that I can't understand.

She admitted to me a couple months ago that she had been beaten pretty badly by her dad when she was growing up, and her parents are pretty heavy alcoholics. I know that women tend to develop relationship problems starting with this type of abuse... it was obvious how she had been affected.

So I advised her to seek counceling because I honestly don't believe she can have a functional, healthy relationship without driving the guy she's with insane.

Alky · 04-10-2005, 10:31 PM

did you atleast fuck her once more?

sickbeatz · 04-10-2005, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Alky

did you atleast fuck her once more?

If he didn't, he's an idiot.. Let's see pics!

Skillz Unlimited · 04-10-2005, 10:40 PM

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did you atleast fuck her once more?

xenigo · 04-10-2005, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Alky

did you atleast fuck her once more?

Yep, this morning when we were visiting my parents in Rocklin.

The Sultan Of Smut · 04-10-2005, 10:44 PM

4 months or 4 years, if you know it's for the best then you know. I just broke up with my gf 2 weeks ago and we had been living together for about 8 months. Never live with a chick if you're not married, it'll save a lot of problems. Anyway I hope everything works out for ya!

Alky · 04-10-2005, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by xenigo

Yep, this morning when we were visiting my parents in Rocklin.

good man

Skillz Unlimited · 04-10-2005, 10:51 PM

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Yep, this morning when we were visiting my parents in Rocklin.

Good job. Fucking her once more is on page 113 paragraph 2, line 3 of 'Pimpin 101: The Pocket Guide'

Kassidy · 04-10-2005, 11:40 PM

You're 20, aren't you?

xenigo · 04-11-2005, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Kassidy

You're 20, aren't you?

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brilsmurf · 04-11-2005, 12:14 AM

mm thread is useless without a (blurred) pic

wargames · 04-11-2005, 12:48 AM

Sad to hear that. Don't worry there are still plenty of amazing girls out there.

foxylady · 04-11-2005, 11:01 AM

don't you worry somebody is much more worth it than her

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