How do you politely tell someone they are kicked out of a group of friends? - GoFuckYourself.com

The Bootyologist · 02-08-2005, 07:50 PM

this person keeps calling and stopping by. how do you do it without being a total ass?

The Heron · 02-08-2005, 07:52 PM

Tell em until they get rich they are just too useless to keep around.

crockett · 02-08-2005, 07:53 PM

Just tell tell him you voted his ass off the island..now get the hell off

Doctor Dre · 02-08-2005, 07:53 PM

If the guy can't understand himself ... there is a problem ...

When you aren't wanted, it's easy to see ...

If you tell him in a polite way he might come back as well ...

Doctor Dre · 02-08-2005, 07:54 PM

Sometimes it's just better to say the words as they are . AS cruel as it may sound

UniversalPass Pete · 02-08-2005, 07:55 PM

Tell him to go fuck himslef!.....Very nicely!

TheGoldenChild · 02-08-2005, 07:55 PM

Y'all gots to get steppin'.

The Bootyologist · 02-08-2005, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Doctor Dre

Sometimes it's just better to say the words as they are . AS cruel as it may sound

god this sucks

it's like id almost rather have someone i hate runi every weekend of my life than tell him we dont like him

sickkittens · 02-08-2005, 07:56 PM

Tell them to buy food and beer for you guys.

Bex · 02-08-2005, 07:56 PM

I've always liked ... yo FUCK OFF!

NickPapageorgio · 02-08-2005, 07:56 PM

There is no polite way. If he hasn't picked up on subtle/moderate hints, then he just isn't going to get it at all. Kick his ass and take his wallet then pee on him ... problem solved.

tungsten · 02-08-2005, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Doctor Dre

If the guy can't understand himself ... there is a problem ...

When you aren't wanted, it's easy to see ...

If you tell him in a polite way he might come back as well ...

good point.. there must be something wrong with the person

The Bootyologist · 02-08-2005, 07:59 PM

god this sucks

Jace · 02-08-2005, 07:59 PM

i tell people that we made a new rule for our house that says you HAVE to call before you stop by....and after about 10 times of trying to stop by and having to call, they eventually get the idea

if they keep showing up, make like there is some huge drama shit going on and slam the door after you tell him he was supposed to call

i have done this a few times, it works perfectly

Jace · 02-08-2005, 08:00 PM

only one time the call thing didn't work, and it was with a dude that became a meth head....he kept trying to stop by and borrow money....i had to chase him away with a bat....

i hate fucking crack heads

vivency-AdamQ · 02-08-2005, 08:03 PM

Did you hint at all yet?

Herb Kornfield · 02-08-2005, 08:07 PM

Just tell him the deal straight up to his face.

Always remember, the people that you throw away now become the loan officers later when your applying for a mortgage ten years down the road.

GiantGnome · 02-08-2005, 08:09 PM

ever hear of loyalty?

The Bootyologist · 02-08-2005, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by GiantGnome

ever hear of loyalty?

we hate him

woj · 02-08-2005, 08:23 PM

why is he so hated?

escorpio · 02-08-2005, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by NickPapageorgio

Kick his ass and take his wallet then pee on him ... problem solved.

I pay hookers big money for that kind of treatment.

The Bootyologist · 02-08-2005, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by woj

why is he so hated?

he is a liar. he cheats at cards. he used to date one of our other friends current fiance and keeps bringing it up. etc.

beemk · 02-08-2005, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by JaceXXX

i tell people that we made a new rule for our house that says you HAVE to call before you stop by

i have that rule anyway with my good friends, i hate when people stop by without calling.

Spunky · 02-08-2005, 08:35 PM

Just be honest and straight forward..perhaps the group should all tell him how they all feel

escorpio · 02-08-2005, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by The Bootyologist

he cheats at cards

NickP was right..
Kick his ass and take his wallet then pee on him

Kimmykim · 02-08-2005, 08:37 PM

You're just going to have to tell them straight out, there's no getting around it. But if you're all sure you want them out, then I guess you can figure out how to do it with class, which would be my first suggestion.

TurboAngel · 02-08-2005, 08:38 PM

Loan him a few $$ if you know he can't pay you back, I have gotten rid of a few people realy cheap like that or you could just come out and tell him you don't want to hang with him anymore.

escorpio · 02-08-2005, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by spunky

Just be honest and straight forward..perhaps the group should all tell him how they all feel

Kind of gay.

Spunky · 02-08-2005, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by escorpio

Kind of gay.

Yea pissing on him is the answer

escorpio · 02-08-2005, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by spunky

Yea pissing on him is the answer

No, the correct answer is to just keep being a dick and eventually he'll get the message. Some people are a little thick and take longer than others.

And if that doesn't work, then piss on him.

pxxx · 02-08-2005, 08:50 PM

Depending on his mental status, as in not crazy or suicidal, just tell him that you would prefer for him not to be around you guys anymore.

Breaking a friendship is harder than breaking up with gf/bf. In Boy/girlfriend, the boy and girl comes and go, but the "friend" is always there. That is how i see it, so i do not make friends with anyone that i would later on push away. 2cents

Rorschach · 02-08-2005, 08:59 PM

better stab the motherfucker in his eye

MCP_Cristina · 02-08-2005, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by The Bootyologist

this person keeps calling and stopping by. how do you do it without being a total ass?

In a highly disciplined form of Japanese poetry called Haiku: My heart is filled with pain; When I see you, I vomit. Die away from me.

Babagirls · 02-08-2005, 10:23 PM

tell him "Step off, im doin the hump"

sonofsam · 02-08-2005, 10:23 PM

listen to the smart people in the thread man.. the mature ones...

you are blind if you think there is another way dude..

you MUST pee on him.

02-08-2005, 07:50 PM	#1
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NickPapageorgio Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: NC Posts: 8,323	There is no polite way. If he hasn't picked up on subtle/moderate hints, then he just isn't going to get it at all. Kick his ass and take his wallet then pee on him ... problem solved. __________________

02-08-2005, 07:59 PM	#13
The Bootyologist So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: m00dville Posts: 2,912	god this sucks

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Jace FBOP Class Of 2013 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: bumfuck, ky Posts: 35,562	i tell people that we made a new rule for our house that says you HAVE to call before you stop by....and after about 10 times of trying to stop by and having to call, they eventually get the idea if they keep showing up, make like there is some huge drama shit going on and slam the door after you tell him he was supposed to call i have done this a few times, it works perfectly

02-08-2005, 08:00 PM	#15
Jace FBOP Class Of 2013 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: bumfuck, ky Posts: 35,562	only one time the call thing didn't work, and it was with a dude that became a meth head....he kept trying to stop by and borrow money....i had to chase him away with a bat.... i hate fucking crack heads

02-08-2005, 08:03 PM	#16
vivency-AdamQ Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 462	Did you hint at all yet?

02-08-2005, 08:07 PM	#17
Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Just tell him the deal straight up to his face. Always remember, the people that you throw away now become the loan officers later when your applying for a mortgage ten years down the road.

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02-08-2005, 08:37 PM	#26
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	You're just going to have to tell them straight out, there's no getting around it. But if you're all sure you want them out, then I guess you can figure out how to do it with class, which would be my first suggestion.

02-08-2005, 08:38 PM	#27
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Loan him a few $$ if you know he can't pay you back, I have gotten rid of a few people realy cheap like that or you could just come out and tell him you don't want to hang with him anymore.

02-08-2005, 08:50 PM	#31
pxxx First African GFY Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,114	Depending on his mental status, as in not crazy or suicidal, just tell him that you would prefer for him not to be around you guys anymore. Breaking a friendship is harder than breaking up with gf/bf. In Boy/girlfriend, the boy and girl comes and go, but the "friend" is always there. That is how i see it, so i do not make friends with anyone that i would later on push away. 2cents

02-08-2005, 08:59 PM	#32
Rorschach So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 5,579	better stab the motherfucker in his eye

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