How Much Can You Truly Love a Person If You're Willing To Share Them Sexually? - GoFuckYourself.com

Entropy · 12-27-2004, 03:28 PM

Thoughts? Opinions?

Manowar · 12-27-2004, 03:29 PM

ask your right hand ;)

dig420 · 12-27-2004, 03:30 PM

what if you like to watch?

Tala · 12-27-2004, 03:30 PM

Everyone has different beliefs and ideals. Just because yours isn't the same as someone else's doesn't make it right or wrong, just different.

GatorB · 12-27-2004, 03:32 PM

I don't get guys that get of on other guys fucking their wifes/girlfriends. If you want to fuck around why be with someone then?

WarChild · 12-27-2004, 03:32 PM

To each their own. I'm not in to sharing and I doubt I ever will be. Others obviously are in to it and who am I to judge what's best for them?

wdsguy · 12-27-2004, 03:34 PM

Each person's definition of love is different.

fl_prn_str · 12-27-2004, 03:34 PM

It depends on if you know the diffecence between love vs. sex....most "talent" in the biz are aware of it otherwise it would be hard to find suitable talent for adult productions. It also helps if you have your own personal definition of the terms.

Entropy · 12-27-2004, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Manowar

ask your right hand ;)

Don't wanna go there. It is SO jealous of my left.

Entropy · 12-27-2004, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by fl_prn_str

It depends on if you know the diffecence between love vs. sex....most "talent" in the biz are aware of it otherwise it would be hard to find suitable talent for adult productions. It also helps if you have your own personal definition of the terms.

I don't think most "talent" in this biz are even aware of how to tie their shoes.

DaddysGirl · 12-27-2004, 03:36 PM

To each their own, but Im not sharing with anyone..... unless its with Carmen Electra!

Michaelious · 12-27-2004, 03:37 PM

I couldn't possibly share, i'm greedy! lol

Wiggles · 12-27-2004, 03:38 PM

I am old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I love my wife and would never do anything with another girl.

The Other Sweetie · 12-27-2004, 03:38 PM

Personally, it's not my cup of tea. I could/would never share the love of my life with another woman, but different stroke for different folks. I know some who share and I neither condemn nor condone it. It's their lives, their consequences, and it's not for me to say how anyone should live it whether I agree with it or not. Some opinions are better left unsaid.

iFliPcEss · 12-27-2004, 03:39 PM

there is no freaken way i am going to share my boo, i am selfish LOL

tranza · 12-27-2004, 03:41 PM

Answer: You don't love him/her if you're willing to share.

Entropy · 12-27-2004, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by tranza

Answer: You don't love him/her if you're willing to share.

I agree.

DaddysGirl · 12-27-2004, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by tranza

Answer: You don't love him/her if you're willing to share.

I agree.

Donny · 12-27-2004, 03:52 PM

I love my fiance very much, but I've shared her on 3 occasions in the almost 4 years we've been together.

Some of us enjoy such things. Others don't. I know many that do. The majority do not. But those that I personally know who do share from time to time definitely love their wife/girlfriend/fiance/whatever.

Don't judge. I can't believe how many judgemental bigots there are in this industry. Did you all vote for GWB too?

MaDalton · 12-27-2004, 03:52 PM

i would never share my girl with another man - but i accept that she has sex with other women from time to time.

fl_prn_str · 12-27-2004, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Entropy

I don't think most "talent" in this biz are even aware of how to tie their shoes.

Hey I never said any of them are "smart", rocket scientists or will anytime soon be nominated for the nobel peace prize...they just understand some simple terms. Love vs. Sex.

Entropy · 12-27-2004, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by fl_prn_str

Hey I never said any of them are "smart", rocket scientists or will anytime soon be nominated for the nobel peace prize...they just understand some simple terms. Love vs. Sex.

I gotcha.

LadyMischief · 12-27-2004, 04:14 PM

That all depends on your relationship and what kind of person you are. Some can share and make it a part of their relationship without jealousy. Some could never ever dream of it. Nobody has a right to tell someone else how to think or feel in this regard, only respect their decisions as their own to make.

Tala · 12-27-2004, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by tranza

Answer: You don't love him/her if you're willing to share.

Bullshit.

I love my husband, but I've shared him. Please refrain from making such statements. I don't like to be included in something I don't believe.

chase · 12-27-2004, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Tala

Bullshit.

I love my husband, but I've shared him. Please refrain from making such statements. I don't like to be included in something I don't believe.

Exactly.

eroswebmaster · 12-27-2004, 04:44 PM

Man on the old loveline tv show Dr. Drew would discuss this at great length.
He stated that there were issues with people who shared their lovers, things like sexual abuse would be brought upt etc.

He also stated that it would inevitably destroy relationships.

Now how true is this? I don't know..but he always brought up some interesting points when the question was brought up..and it was brought up often.

ytcracker · 12-27-2004, 04:46 PM

i dunno i think its human nature to be promiscuous

monogamy is good for the emotional side of things - its always good to have that one person you love. to some people sex is just sex you cant really deny how some people feel about this. they can separate the sex from the love. i dont think theres anything wrong with them.

Illicit · 12-27-2004, 04:47 PM

I couldnt share my bitch, but I think it is only fare for the women of the world, that I share myself with as many as possible.

eroswebmaster · 12-27-2004, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ytcracker

i dunno i think its human nature to be promiscuous

monogamy is good for the emotional side of things - its always good to have that one person you love. to some people sex is just sex you cant really deny how some people feel about this. they can separate the sex from the love. i dont think theres anything wrong with them.

Big difference in wanting to go out and fuck others than wanting your loved ones to go out and do it too...or even actively promoting it.

I could care less what consenting adults do...my post about Dr.Drew was just to add a bit to the topic it does not necessarily reflect my own personal beliefs.
However I personally could never share someone I loved.

pornguy · 12-27-2004, 04:50 PM

This is a good topic, and I think will be a nice long thread.

And I think that it just comes down to the person.

Wizzo · 12-27-2004, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Entropy

I don't think most "talent" in this biz are even aware of how to tie their shoes.

HAHAHAHAHAHA... that may be the funniest thing ever posted on GFY...

SykkBoy · 12-27-2004, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by eroswebmaster

Big difference in wanting to go out and fuck others than wanting your loved ones to go out and do it too...or even actively promoting it.

I could care less what consenting adults do...my post about Dr.Drew was just to add a bit to the topic it does not necessarily reflect my own personal beliefs.
However I personally could never share someone I loved.

does this mean you're not going to share me with Zoe afterall?

quiet · 12-27-2004, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by WarChild

To each their own. I'm not in to sharing and I doubt I ever will be. Others obviously are in to it and who am I to judge what's best for them?

ditto...

candiapple · 12-27-2004, 05:09 PM

I think it's cool I love taking pics of my fiancee when he's doing a shoot with another women. It excites me! :love-smil

REßEL · 12-27-2004, 05:19 PM

You could turn that around and say how much can you truly love someone if that love means you demand they are to never enjoy sex with anyone else.

Sex is a physical pleasure. Love makes it an even better pleasure. But that doesn't mean it can't be enjoyed without love involved.

Eating is a physical pleasure.. do we demand people we love never eat with anyone else?

Engaging in sports is a phyiscal pleasure.. do we demand the people we love do not play sport with anyone else?

Why then do we think "loving them" gives us the right to demand that they never engage in sexual activity with anyone else?

I give my fidelity because it's how I "personally" feel. My love gives me fidelity because it's how he "personally" feels. But I do not demand it as a condition of my love. And should he ever want to engage in sexual activity outside of our relationship, yes I will share.

Sex has absolutely NOTHING to do with love, love just enhances sex when both are present together.

I would have thought the men especially would already know that.

ronaldo · 12-27-2004, 05:20 PM

Why deprive the one that you love something they WANT to experience. That's love?

I don't have the stats in front of me, but I'm pretty sure infidelity is the biggest cause of divorce.

Would it be better that they miss a chance at something (someone) they want to experience and possibly resent you for that (causing damage to your relationship), and risk them cheating on you without you knowing it?

Insecurity could be another issue. Afraid you don't measure up or your better half will make noises you've never heard.

Sorry, but it's only sex. If they're going home with you at the end of the day and fall asleep in YOUR arms, then you're the person they choose to be with. That's love.

Sex is important, but there's more to love and relationships than sex (I'll never tell my wife that though).

P.S. It always cracks me up though to hear men talk about having a threesome with their girl and ANOTHER girl. That's usually cool. So, what's the difference if it's another guy. Maybe guys are as selfish as women believe we are.

P.P.S. Now, if your better half wants to bring someone different home every time you want to have sex, you probably have a problem.

Tuga · 12-27-2004, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by ajpiii

I couldnt share my bitch, but I think it is only fare for the women of the world, that I share myself with as many as possible.

What he said.

12-27-2004, 03:28 PM	#1
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WarChild Let slip the dogs of war. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Bermuda Posts: 17,263	To each their own. I'm not in to sharing and I doubt I ever will be. Others obviously are in to it and who am I to judge what's best for them? __________________ .

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Michaelious Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Scotland Posts: 6,720	I couldn't possibly share, i'm greedy! lol __________________

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GatorB The Demon & 12clicks Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: SallyRand is a FAGGOT Posts: 18,208	I don't get guys that get of on other guys fucking their wifes/girlfriends. If you want to fuck around why be with someone then?

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wdsguy Ryde or Die Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: California-Shanghai Posts: 19,568	Each person's definition of love is different.

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fl_prn_str Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Tampa, FL Posts: 5,736	It depends on if you know the diffecence between love vs. sex....most "talent" in the biz are aware of it otherwise it would be hard to find suitable talent for adult productions. It also helps if you have your own personal definition of the terms.

12-27-2004, 03:38 PM	#13
Wiggles Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 14,423	I am old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I love my wife and would never do anything with another girl. __________________ no sig

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The Other Sweetie Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: East Coast Posts: 453	Personally, it's not my cup of tea. I could/would never share the love of my life with another woman, but different stroke for different folks. I know some who share and I neither condemn nor condone it. It's their lives, their consequences, and it's not for me to say how anyone should live it whether I agree with it or not. Some opinions are better left unsaid.

12-27-2004, 03:39 PM	#15
iFliPcEss Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 3,087	there is no freaken way i am going to share my boo, i am selfish LOL

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12-27-2004, 03:52 PM	#19
Donny As you wish... Industry Role: Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 13,754	I love my fiance very much, but I've shared her on 3 occasions in the almost 4 years we've been together. Some of us enjoy such things. Others don't. I know many that do. The majority do not. But those that I personally know who do share from time to time definitely love their wife/girlfriend/fiance/whatever. Don't judge. I can't believe how many judgemental bigots there are in this industry. Did you all vote for GWB too?

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ytcracker stc is the greatest Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: rip sean murray Posts: 12,403	i dunno i think its human nature to be promiscuous monogamy is good for the emotional side of things - its always good to have that one person you love. to some people sex is just sex you cant really deny how some people feel about this. they can separate the sex from the love. i dont think theres anything wrong with them. __________________ www.ytcracker.com \| www.digitalgangster.com i love you

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12-27-2004, 05:09 PM	#34
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12-27-2004, 05:19 PM	#35
REßEL Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Europe Posts: 155	You could turn that around and say how much can you truly love someone if that love means you demand they are to never enjoy sex with anyone else. Sex is a physical pleasure. Love makes it an even better pleasure. But that doesn't mean it can't be enjoyed without love involved. Eating is a physical pleasure.. do we demand people we love never eat with anyone else? Engaging in sports is a phyiscal pleasure.. do we demand the people we love do not play sport with anyone else? Why then do we think "loving them" gives us the right to demand that they never engage in sexual activity with anyone else? I give my fidelity because it's how I "personally" feel. My love gives me fidelity because it's how he "personally" feels. But I do not demand it as a condition of my love. And should he ever want to engage in sexual activity outside of our relationship, yes I will share. Sex has absolutely NOTHING to do with love, love just enhances sex when both are present together. I would have thought the men especially would already know that. __________________ I work smarter not harder with the following awesome tools! Gallery Submitter \| Blogs Organizer \| Gallery Scraper \| Site Organizer \| Links Organizer

12-27-2004, 05:20 PM	#36
ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	Why deprive the one that you love something they WANT to experience. That's love? I don't have the stats in front of me, but I'm pretty sure infidelity is the biggest cause of divorce. Would it be better that they miss a chance at something (someone) they want to experience and possibly resent you for that (causing damage to your relationship), and risk them cheating on you without you knowing it? Insecurity could be another issue. Afraid you don't measure up or your better half will make noises you've never heard. Sorry, but it's only sex. If they're going home with you at the end of the day and fall asleep in YOUR arms, then you're the person they choose to be with. That's love. Sex is important, but there's more to love and relationships than sex (I'll never tell my wife that though). P.S. It always cracks me up though to hear men talk about having a threesome with their girl and ANOTHER girl. That's usually cool. So, what's the difference if it's another guy. Maybe guys are as selfish as women believe we are. P.P.S. Now, if your better half wants to bring someone different home every time you want to have sex, you probably have a problem.