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Why deprive the one that you love something they WANT to experience. That's love?
I don't have the stats in front of me, but I'm pretty sure infidelity is the biggest cause of divorce.
Would it be better that they miss a chance at something (someone) they want to experience and possibly resent you for that (causing damage to your relationship), and risk them cheating on you without you knowing it?
Insecurity could be another issue. Afraid you don't measure up or your better half will make noises you've never heard.
Sorry, but it's only sex. If they're going home with you at the end of the day and fall asleep in YOUR arms, then you're the person they choose to be with. That's love.
Sex is important, but there's more to love and relationships than sex (I'll never tell my wife that though).
P.S. It always cracks me up though to hear men talk about having a threesome with their girl and ANOTHER girl. That's usually cool. So, what's the difference if it's another guy. Maybe guys are as selfish as women believe we are.
P.P.S. Now, if your better half wants to bring someone different home every time you want to have sex, you probably have a problem.
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