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You could turn that around and say how much can you truly love someone if that love means you demand they are to never enjoy sex with anyone else.
Sex is a physical pleasure. Love makes it an even better pleasure. But that doesn't mean it can't be enjoyed without love involved.
Eating is a physical pleasure.. do we demand people we love never eat with anyone else?
Engaging in sports is a phyiscal pleasure.. do we demand the people we love do not play sport with anyone else?
Why then do we think "loving them" gives us the right to demand that they never engage in sexual activity with anyone else?
I give my fidelity because it's how I "personally" feel. My love gives me fidelity because it's how he "personally" feels. But I do not demand it as a condition of my love. And should he ever want to engage in sexual activity outside of our relationship, yes I will share.
Sex has absolutely NOTHING to do with love, love just enhances sex when both are present together.
I would have thought the men especially would already know that.
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