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AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE · 12-28-2004, 05:38 PM

450 bigots

Head · 12-28-2004, 06:12 PM

It's good that she's back on the pink horse.

cayne · 12-28-2004, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by pornstar2pac

sig placement

sorry, I'm a few days late

2nd.
But really crazy thread...read it until the post of sarah...

Kalifornia · 12-28-2004, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Let me guess, you would be upset if your g/f had sex too soon after you died. What a fucking dolt. You are dead, what's the matter? You going to get jealous after you are fucking dead?

you better believe I will get jealous even if im dead. 2 fuckin weeks what is that, thats just too soon.

mardigras · 12-28-2004, 07:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thomas Jefferson

And yes my first post after registering was in this thread. Is that against some secret GFY rule I missed before clicking on this thread?

No but your first post was addressed to baddog and said:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thomas Jefferson

I don't remember you telling people to mind their own business when she posted her husband died and then when all of the donation threads came out.

It goes both ways you know.

To any rationally thinking person this post was made by someone very into the goings on at GFY. If what you say about what happened to your previous nick is true, then you show poor will toward the forum first by not revealing your previous nick so that not only could it help the admins fix a problem but would also avoid giving the impression you are trolling from a new nick and second by making your debut post under this nick a negative one toward two people you supposedly have never interracted with.

Your choice how you build your board persona but if you plan on doing business from the board and assuming this really isn't a 2nd nick it will be

Oh, and have I said lately,
Go Sarah!

mardigras · 12-28-2004, 07:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kalifornia

you better believe I will get jealous even if im dead. 2 fuckin weeks what is that, thats just too soon.

When you're dead you'll probably be concerned about whether you're frying or not.

And even if you could see from the other side after all of the enlightenment one supposedly receives would it matter to you then as it does thinking about it now? When I'm dead people can fuck on top of my coffin for all I'd care. My life ends, not theirs.

baddog · 12-28-2004, 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chemicaleyes

Where did I say the thread started several day ago, learn to read!

"Join Date: 12-27-2004 - thread started same day - next."

says 12/26 for me, he just never made a post until this thread . . . however, yeah, I would like to know what your pre-03 name was

baddog · 12-28-2004, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chemicaleyes

Where did I say the thread started several day ago, learn to read!

"Join Date: 12-27-2004 - thread started same day - next."

it is probably saying the 27th for you because you are in Europe

baddog · 12-28-2004, 08:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kalifornia

you better believe I will get jealous even if im dead. 2 fuckin weeks what is that, thats just too soon.

So what would you do, come back and haunt her? You are fucking dead, how can a dead person be jealous?

Thomas Jefferson · 12-28-2004, 09:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mardigras

No but your first post was addressed to baddog and said:

To any rationally thinking person this post was made by someone very into the goings on at GFY. If what you say about what happened to your previous nick is true, then you show poor will toward the forum first by not revealing your previous nick so that not only could it help the admins fix a problem but would also avoid giving the impression you are trolling from a new nick and second by making your debut post under this nick a negative one toward two people you supposedly have never interracted with.

Your choice how you build your board persona but if you plan on doing business from the board and assuming this really isn't a 2nd nick it will be

Oh, and have I said lately,
Go Sarah!

Point taken, I can see how you could determine I was posting under a false nick to start trouble.

However, what I originally said to Baddog had no ill intentions, simply pointing out that it goes both ways. He was the one posting taking up collections for Sarah, nothing wrong with that, quite admirable actually. But then he was asking for people to stick their nose in other people's business, then he turns around and says to keep your nose out of people's business.

That is wrong, it goes both ways and that is all I was pointing out. I never insulted him or attacked him in any way, of course Baddogs reaction was an obvious reflex negative reaction, which does not surprise me coming from him so I took it with a grain of salt.

As far as my board persona, what is wrong with the truth? I have asked in several posts to please come out and tell me exactly what I said that was so offensive to anybody. Anyone who cares to take a deep breath, calm down and let their Prozac kick in before they go back and reread my previous post can see I did not attack anybody, nor speak negatively of anybody here (until of course troll patrol came in a began attacking me first, for whatever reason he never was able to articulate).

Nobody has answered because they cannot find anything, I have done nothing but simply state two sides of the issue and how both could be easily accepted, and again I have said nothing but nice things in regards to Sarah and dealing with her loss. Seems to me more people are looking for reasons to attack anyone who dares open their mouths to say anything without in fact reading what they have said first.

And quite frankly I would never do business from this board. I can handle my business personally, and I thought this was a webmaster community for all to hang out and enjoy, not everyone here is interested in creating a fake board persona for the sake of doing business.

But today was a nice reminder of why I never posted much in the first place, trying to add some common sense or neutrality to any discussion that takes place on any message board is a bit like beating your head against a brick wall.

Mr Pheer · 12-29-2004, 01:08 AM

* bump *

Theo · 12-29-2004, 01:14 AM

the smilies are fucked up, someone fix them

baddog · 12-29-2004, 01:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thomas Jefferson

of course Baddogs reaction was an obvious reflex negative reaction. . . .

yeah, I was the only one that took it that way

potter · 12-29-2004, 01:58 AM

WOW.

So I read the thread up untill Sarah's post. Yes, it is wrong that she needed to explain herself in such a way. Though I think the original idea of the thread was a good one, which did bring out alot of good points and opinions on the subject.

(Is sex ok to use as a healing factor after the love of your life dies) - A VERY GOOD SUBJECT.

Although it might have been posted in a bad manor, it was still a reasonable and decent post untill things turning completely wrong. It really depends on how you look at it. Are you a pesimist or an optimist? <- That really makes this thread good or bad, it's your own decision to decide if this is a good or wrong thread, and only you can decide.

Anyway, I thought this needed to be posted again because it is hilarious. And it's one of the best things to come from this thread,

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ

Frm a brief summary:

According to Girls of GFY: It is OK to have sex shortly after the death of a loved one.

According to Guys of GFY: Its dispicable to think a girl having sex shortly after is abhorrent and disrespectful.

Guys I think it is safe to say this really shows the differences of guys and girls. So guys do not think you are special or worth mourning after once your gone, your girl will be on the cock as soon as the dirt is thrown on your casket if your lucky!

Shaddam IV · 07-25-2005, 12:58 PM

what a cunt.

Roald · 07-25-2005, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaddam IV

what a cunt.

stupid fuck!

Sarah_Jayne · 07-25-2005, 01:23 PM

You know what? When this was first posted it hurt me so bad that it set my 'recovery' back in a major way. Even more so that pretty much no one on the thread bothered to actually read my response and what actually happened.

Now, some seven months on I really could care less what some sad excuse for a troll - ie shaddam - thinks about me or my relationship. Why? Well, firstly because I know exactly how much I loved my husband and how much he loved me. I know for a fact what he would have thought about me having contact with another human being on a day when I needed someone to keep me from essentially killing myself.

I don't drink much, I don't smoke and I don't do drugs. So, on that night - my Birthday when I had spent the day opening gifts from my dead husband - I 'tripped up' in a way and fell into the caring arms of a friend who Marc not only knew about but approved of when he was alive. I didn't have intercourse..I didn't even do anything to him but that isn't the point. The point is that there are a total of two people in this thread that knew anything about how Marc would have felt about this - myself and Benzo - and I know for damn sure he would have understood.

Now, Shaddam or anyone else here - please tell me to my face that I don't love my husband? You have any idea what the process of moving on with your life after WATCHING your soul mate die in front of you is like? I suspect not.

Well, we are now eight months past his death and let me tell you a little bit about my existance. For some reason about three months ago I started getting nearly nightly nightmares that almost always were my brain reliving him dying. I suspect that after I started to get over the emotional shock my brain started to deal with the trauma of what I actually saw. In these dreams/nightmares I keep remembering little details of the moment his eyes rolled back in his head. Stupid things like the colour of the shoes of the first nurse to run in, etc. Like my brain is releasing little bits of the memory night after night.

Then there is what I am going to call the 'memory burn'. It is sort of like an image burned into a monitor that has been left on to long. You know how sometimes people day dream or just sit and want to think about nothing for a bit? I can't do that anymore. As soon as my brain clears of the immediate things the memory of his eyes rolling back comes right in and sits there and I can't shake it.

Then, there are the phone calls I get from friends that he hadn't talked to in a while that didn't know he died and I have to tell them. Then there was his daugther announcing she is getting married last month and him not able to be there. Then there are the bill companies that STILL are giving me a hard time on changing bills into my name and call looking for him. And simply, then there was 7/7 when I just wanted to be held by my husband.

So, Shaddam, I face a lot more every day than some bully, ill-informed, troll. So, troll on. I know how much I loved him and still do love him and I know exactly how much you matter in my life. Easy contest.

ArikaAmes · 07-25-2005, 01:37 PM

Way to go Sarah, I am proud of you!!!

Apache_A · 07-25-2005, 01:44 PM

I was just about to come into this thread and call who ever bumped it all kinds of unthinkably rude names.... but I guess Sarah can look after her self, WTG Sarah.

bangman · 07-25-2005, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaddam IV

...

You immature, inconsiderate fuck.
You should be banned from this board.
You have a lot of growing up to do.

mardigras · 07-25-2005, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Apache_A

I was just about to come into this thread and call who ever bumped it all kinds of unthinkably rude names.... but I guess Sarah can look after her self, WTG Sarah.

Yep, Sarah can take some names and kick some asses

chase · 07-25-2005, 02:14 PM

Congrats, Shaddam IV...
you're the very first to make my ignore list, after a year here on the playground I haven't found one person horrible enough to ignore until now.

Sarah is one of the truest people I know, and I would trust her with anything I have.....for you to come in here trying to reopen wounds she's been healing for a full year is just disgusting.

You only WISH you could find someone to love your sick, twisted, pathetic ass like she loved and cared for Marc.

Sarah, rock on sister. Much love from across the pond.

baddog · 07-25-2005, 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chase

Congrats, Shaddam IV...
you're the very first to make my ignore list

He has been on my ignore list for quite some time. Feel free to contact me if you would like to know who else to add to make your GFY experience more enjoyable.

Martin · 07-25-2005, 02:26 PM

Holy shit long thread..

Anyway I don't see what the difference is.. Whats the dif between 3 months a year 2 years? When it really comes down to it..

Gunni · 07-25-2005, 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chase

Congrats, Shaddam IV...
you're the very first to make my ignore list, after a year here on the playground I haven't found one person horrible enough to ignore until now.

Sarah is one of the truest people I know, and I would trust her with anything I have.....for you to come in here trying to reopen wounds she's been healing for a full year is just disgusting.

You only WISH you could find someone to love your sick, twisted, pathetic ass like she loved and cared for Marc.

Sarah, rock on sister. Much love from across the pond.

yeah, first one on my list as well, amazing with all the morons hanging around the place, but I guess he tops them all...

Peaches · 07-25-2005, 02:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shaddam IV

..........

Idiot.

Hollywood Horwitz · 07-25-2005, 03:04 PM

i have nothing to say about this thread,i just wanted to particpate in the longest thread on gfy..

Peaches · 07-25-2005, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Hollywood Horwitz

i have nothing to say about this thread,i just wanted to particpate in the longest thread on gfy..

This one isn't even close

ssp · 07-25-2005, 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sarah_webinc

You know what? When this was first posted it hurt me so bad that it set my 'recovery' back in a major way. Even more so that pretty much no one on the thread bothered to actually read my response and what actually happened.

Now, some seven months on I really could care less what some sad excuse for a troll - ie shaddam - thinks about me or my relationship. Why? Well, firstly because I know exactly how much I loved my husband and how much he loved me. I know for a fact what he would have thought about me having contact with another human being on a day when I needed someone to keep me from essentially killing myself.

I don't drink much, I don't smoke and I don't do drugs. So, on that night - my Birthday when I had spent the day opening gifts from my dead husband - I 'tripped up' in a way and fell into the caring arms of a friend who Marc not only knew about but approved of when he was alive. I didn't have intercourse..I didn't even do anything to him but that isn't the point. The point is that there are a total of two people in this thread that knew anything about how Marc would have felt about this - myself and Benzo - and I know for damn sure he would have understood.

Now, Shaddam or anyone else here - please tell me to my face that I don't love my husband? You have any idea what the process of moving on with your life after WATCHING your soul mate die in front of you is like? I suspect not.

Well, we are now eight months past his death and let me tell you a little bit about my existance. For some reason about three months ago I started getting nearly nightly nightmares that almost always were my brain reliving him dying. I suspect that after I started to get over the emotional shock my brain started to deal with the trauma of what I actually saw. In these dreams/nightmares I keep remembering little details of the moment his eyes rolled back in his head. Stupid things like the colour of the shoes of the first nurse to run in, etc. Like my brain is releasing little bits of the memory night after night.

Then there is what I am going to call the 'memory burn'. It is sort of like an image burned into a monitor that has been left on to long. You know how sometimes people day dream or just sit and want to think about nothing for a bit? I can't do that anymore. As soon as my brain clears of the immediate things the memory of his eyes rolling back comes right in and sits there and I can't shake it.

Then, there are the phone calls I get from friends that he hadn't talked to in a while that didn't know he died and I have to tell them. Then there was his daugther announcing she is getting married last month and him not able to be there. Then there are the bill companies that STILL are giving me a hard time on changing bills into my name and call looking for him. And simply, then there was 7/7 when I just wanted to be held by my husband.

So, Shaddam, I face a lot more every day than some bully, ill-informed, troll. So, troll on. I know how much I loved him and still do love him and I know exactly how much you matter in my life. Easy contest.

I can't even imagine what you must have gone thru in the past months and still do. I have trumendous respect for that. I'd love to shake your hand and say hi if there is a UK webmaster meeting this year somewhere.

TurboAngel · 07-25-2005, 03:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mardigras

Yep, Sarah can take some names and kick some asses

Yep, you go Sarah!

nofx · 07-25-2005, 03:44 PM

i love ya sarah ;]

dont let some dumb fuck get you down

ST!

Citizen Cain · 11-14-2005, 06:55 AM

am i late for sig spot?

Screaming · 11-14-2005, 06:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Citizen Cain

am i late for sig spot?

Yes, I belive so.

Jakke PNG · 11-14-2005, 07:15 AM

Why the bump?

grumpy · 11-14-2005, 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Citizen Cain

am i late for sig spot?

what the fuck is wrong with you. Idiot.

gangbangjoe · 11-14-2005, 08:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

Why the bump?

everyone is keen on drama

Brujah · 11-14-2005, 08:05 AM

This thread is sick.

WebairGerard · 11-14-2005, 09:17 AM

I don't think she owes anyone here an explanation and it's none of our business.

Kassidy · 11-14-2005, 10:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Citizen Cain

am i late for sig spot?

You are a royal moron with way too much time on his hands. Get a job.

baddog · 11-14-2005, 10:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TeenGodFather

Why the bump?

Because he is a troll

Platinumpimp · 11-14-2005, 10:58 AM

Exactly

It's kyle aka kak_azn and other trolling names. Mc Donalds is always hiring bro.

mrthumbs · 11-14-2005, 11:05 AM

Someone should close this thread..

Citizen Cain · 11-14-2005, 11:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Platinumpimp

Exactly

It's kyle aka kak_azn and other trolling names. Mc Donalds is always hiring bro.

i'm not a troll... and i'm sure i make much more money in this biz than your broke ass...

The Ghost · 11-14-2005, 11:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Platinumpimp

Exactly

It's kyle aka kak_azn and other trolling names. Mc Donalds is always hiring bro.

Citizen Cain is Kyle? Is this confirmed?

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12-28-2004, 06:12 PM	#452
Head Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Starship Enterprise Posts: 8,278	It's good that she's back on the pink horse. __________________

12-29-2004, 01:08 AM	#461
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07-25-2005, 01:44 PM	#469
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07-25-2005, 02:14 PM	#472
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	Congrats, Shaddam IV... you're the very first to make my ignore list, after a year here on the playground I haven't found one person horrible enough to ignore until now. Sarah is one of the truest people I know, and I would trust her with anything I have.....for you to come in here trying to reopen wounds she's been healing for a full year is just disgusting. You only WISH you could find someone to love your sick, twisted, pathetic ass like she loved and cared for Marc. Sarah, rock on sister. Much love from across the pond. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

12-29-2004, 01:14 AM	#462
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	the smilies are fucked up, someone fix them

07-25-2005, 12:58 PM	#465
Shaddam IV So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 810	what a cunt.

07-25-2005, 01:23 PM	#467
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	You know what? When this was first posted it hurt me so bad that it set my 'recovery' back in a major way. Even more so that pretty much no one on the thread bothered to actually read my response and what actually happened. Now, some seven months on I really could care less what some sad excuse for a troll - ie shaddam - thinks about me or my relationship. Why? Well, firstly because I know exactly how much I loved my husband and how much he loved me. I know for a fact what he would have thought about me having contact with another human being on a day when I needed someone to keep me from essentially killing myself. I don't drink much, I don't smoke and I don't do drugs. So, on that night - my Birthday when I had spent the day opening gifts from my dead husband - I 'tripped up' in a way and fell into the caring arms of a friend who Marc not only knew about but approved of when he was alive. I didn't have intercourse..I didn't even do anything to him but that isn't the point. The point is that there are a total of two people in this thread that knew anything about how Marc would have felt about this - myself and Benzo - and I know for damn sure he would have understood. Now, Shaddam or anyone else here - please tell me to my face that I don't love my husband? You have any idea what the process of moving on with your life after WATCHING your soul mate die in front of you is like? I suspect not. Well, we are now eight months past his death and let me tell you a little bit about my existance. For some reason about three months ago I started getting nearly nightly nightmares that almost always were my brain reliving him dying. I suspect that after I started to get over the emotional shock my brain started to deal with the trauma of what I actually saw. In these dreams/nightmares I keep remembering little details of the moment his eyes rolled back in his head. Stupid things like the colour of the shoes of the first nurse to run in, etc. Like my brain is releasing little bits of the memory night after night. Then there is what I am going to call the 'memory burn'. It is sort of like an image burned into a monitor that has been left on to long. You know how sometimes people day dream or just sit and want to think about nothing for a bit? I can't do that anymore. As soon as my brain clears of the immediate things the memory of his eyes rolling back comes right in and sits there and I can't shake it. Then, there are the phone calls I get from friends that he hadn't talked to in a while that didn't know he died and I have to tell them. Then there was his daugther announcing she is getting married last month and him not able to be there. Then there are the bill companies that STILL are giving me a hard time on changing bills into my name and call looking for him. And simply, then there was 7/7 when I just wanted to be held by my husband. So, Shaddam, I face a lot more every day than some bully, ill-informed, troll. So, troll on. I know how much I loved him and still do love him and I know exactly how much you matter in my life. Easy contest.

07-25-2005, 01:37 PM	#468
ArikaAmes Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 3,081	Way to go Sarah, I am proud of you!!!

07-25-2005, 02:26 PM	#474
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07-25-2005, 03:04 PM	#477
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07-25-2005, 03:44 PM	#481
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11-14-2005, 06:55 AM	#482
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11-14-2005, 07:15 AM	#484
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11-14-2005, 09:17 AM	#488
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11-14-2005, 10:58 AM	#491
Platinumpimp Logos and such. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Kingdom of the Netherlands Posts: 10,214	Exactly It's kyle aka kak_azn and other trolling names. Mc Donalds is always hiring bro. __________________ I design logo's.

11-14-2005, 11:05 AM	#492
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