If your partner became disabled or disfigured - GoFuckYourself.com

Drake · 11-21-2004, 10:31 PM

Would you stay with them?

Say your partner in marriage became several burned and skin all melted so they don't look like they do now, or if they became quadrepligic (sp?), club footed, or lost a limb.

Would the marriage end sooner or later as a result?

Spunky · 11-21-2004, 10:32 PM

I would like to think if that happened to me ...yes...but in reality would you want them to ?

Magg · 11-21-2004, 10:33 PM

probably yes,

xclusive · 11-21-2004, 10:34 PM

Yes my wife does anything I need so I wouldn't abandon her...

Veterans Day · 11-21-2004, 10:39 PM

I have to say I would be there for her. Thats such a shitty thought though, but I would hang tough.

Spunky · 11-21-2004, 10:40 PM

If they lost a limb..that's not a problem..but to be burned beyond regognition,I have a hard time with that..I mean sex would become an issue and you would eventually stray

junction · 11-21-2004, 10:40 PM

I have been with my wife for almost 12 years. We are about to have our first child. I don't care what happened, I would not leave her side.

WebTitan · 11-21-2004, 10:44 PM

I would be by her side until the end.

Tam · 11-21-2004, 10:48 PM

Nope, I'd never leave him over anything like that. It would be hard watching him struggle, but I'd stand right there with him and go thru it with him. I've been with him for 21 years and we've had some pretty rough times, so I don't see leaving him for any reason.

Besides, I am about fucked myself, my heart is not right and my back is about totally fucked, and he has been right there for me, making sure I take care of myself and all that.

Paraskass · 11-21-2004, 10:50 PM

I would be there for her.

Would I want her to stay with me?
Probably not. I would most likely be so depressed I would drive her away.

Spunky · 11-21-2004, 10:55 PM

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Originally posted by Paraskass
I would be there for her.

Would I want her to stay with me?
Probably not. I would most likely be so depressed I would drive her away.

Same here..I would want her to be happy

Bob Saget · 11-21-2004, 11:00 PM

I have to.

detoxed · 11-21-2004, 11:03 PM

To marry someone I'd be willing to die for them... so as long as they were hot when we got married, anything that happens after that wouldnt bother me.

Wiggles · 11-21-2004, 11:04 PM

yeah i'd definately stay, i'd want them to do the same, only fair, and if you truly love them, why not?

Drake · 11-22-2004, 12:08 AM

That's nice to know. I guess it's a whole other ball game if it becomes a reality. I only posted this after hearing, anecodally mind you, that women tend to say with men in this situation, but that men are more likely to leave when the woman experiences something tragic like this.

detoxed · 11-22-2004, 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by Mike33
That's nice to know. I guess it's a whole other ball game if it becomes a reality. I only posted this after hearing, anecodally mind you, that women tend to say with men in this situation, but that men are more likely to leave when the woman experiences something tragic like this.

Well men cant get much uglier... Woman are a thing of beauty.

WickedVenus · 11-22-2004, 12:15 AM

I would totaly stay with my spouse! I love him. Love sees no errors!

Furious_Female · 11-22-2004, 12:29 AM

I'd never leave someone or feel differently about someone because of what they do or do not look like. If you only love someone for what they look like, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with. There's nothing more beautiful to me than a person's mind.

emthree · 11-22-2004, 12:33 AM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female
I'd never leave someone or feel differently about someone because of what they do or do not look like. If you only love someone for what they look like, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with. There's nothing more beautiful to me than a person's mind.

ugly nerdy boyfriend, huh?

jk that's great to hear, so many people say those same words ... yet so little really mean them

Furious_Female · 11-22-2004, 12:54 AM

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Originally posted by emthree
ugly nerdy boyfriend, huh?
jk that's great to hear, so many people say those same words ... yet so little really mean them

lol I don't have a boyfriend... but I really am one of the few people on Earth who don't care about what people look like. Besides, nerds and geeks are uber sexxy, didn't ya know?

smeagal · 11-22-2004, 07:23 AM

if u are happy with the person and in love none of that should matter

Libertine · 11-22-2004, 07:36 AM

Happened to my mother... in a car accident, her partner suffered severe brain damage, and because of that he's now mentally very heavily handicapped (e.g. he's hardly able to leave the house alone, needs constant care and is unable to take care of himself, etc.). She's still with him.

Seeing their situation, though, I don't know if I could do it. Perhaps if I really, really loved the girl.

kowntafit · 11-22-2004, 07:44 AM

I have heard people ask this before and I like not to think about it.

foxylady · 11-22-2004, 07:47 AM

nope, you vow each other thru sickness and health till death do us part

Jer · 11-22-2004, 07:51 AM

What a sad thing to think about, but of course I'd stay with my wife.

11-21-2004, 10:31 PM	#1
Drake Hello world! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 12,508	If your partner became disabled or disfigured Would you stay with them? Say your partner in marriage became several burned and skin all melted so they don't look like they do now, or if they became quadrepligic (sp?), club footed, or lost a limb. Would the marriage end sooner or later as a result?

11-21-2004, 10:32 PM	#2
Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,943	I would like to think if that happened to me ...yes...but in reality would you want them to ? __________________ *YOUR INFORMATION HERE*

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11-21-2004, 10:39 PM	#5
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11-21-2004, 10:40 PM	#6
Spunky I need a beer Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: ♠ Toiletville ♠ Posts: 133,943	If they lost a limb..that's not a problem..but to be burned beyond regognition,I have a hard time with that..I mean sex would become an issue and you would eventually stray __________________ *YOUR INFORMATION HERE*

11-21-2004, 10:33 PM	#3
Magg Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: ICQ: 132497047 Posts: 4,467	probably yes,

11-21-2004, 10:40 PM	#7
junction Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Midwest Posts: 2,411	I have been with my wife for almost 12 years. We are about to have our first child. I don't care what happened, I would not leave her side.

11-21-2004, 10:44 PM	#8
WebTitan Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Western NY Posts: 5,114	I would be by her side until the end.

11-21-2004, 10:48 PM	#9
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Nope, I'd never leave him over anything like that. It would be hard watching him struggle, but I'd stand right there with him and go thru it with him. I've been with him for 21 years and we've had some pretty rough times, so I don't see leaving him for any reason. Besides, I am about fucked myself, my heart is not right and my back is about totally fucked, and he has been right there for me, making sure I take care of myself and all that.

11-21-2004, 10:50 PM	#10
Paraskass Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: QC Posts: 5,829	I would be there for her. Would I want her to stay with me? Probably not. I would most likely be so depressed I would drive her away. __________________

11-21-2004, 11:00 PM	#12
Bob Saget So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 312	I have to.

11-21-2004, 11:03 PM	#13
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	To marry someone I'd be willing to die for them... so as long as they were hot when we got married, anything that happens after that wouldnt bother me.

11-21-2004, 11:04 PM	#14
Wiggles Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 14,423	yeah i'd definately stay, i'd want them to do the same, only fair, and if you truly love them, why not? __________________ no sig

11-22-2004, 12:08 AM	#15
Drake Hello world! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 12,508	That's nice to know. I guess it's a whole other ball game if it becomes a reality. I only posted this after hearing, anecodally mind you, that women tend to say with men in this situation, but that men are more likely to leave when the woman experiences something tragic like this.

11-22-2004, 12:15 AM	#17
WickedVenus Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: ICQ: 309691342 ---- Yahoo Messenger: wickedvenus_acv Posts: 3,877	I would totaly stay with my spouse! I love him. Love sees no errors! __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60. Let me repeat... A 120 x 60 button and no more that 3 lines of DEFAULT SIZE AND COLOR text.

11-22-2004, 12:29 AM	#18
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	I'd never leave someone or feel differently about someone because of what they do or do not look like. If you only love someone for what they look like, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with. There's nothing more beautiful to me than a person's mind. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

11-22-2004, 07:23 AM	#21
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11-22-2004, 07:36 AM	#22
Libertine sex dwarf Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 17,860	Happened to my mother... in a car accident, her partner suffered severe brain damage, and because of that he's now mentally very heavily handicapped (e.g. he's hardly able to leave the house alone, needs constant care and is unable to take care of himself, etc.). She's still with him. Seeing their situation, though, I don't know if I could do it. Perhaps if I really, really loved the girl. __________________ /(bb\|[^b]{2})/

11-22-2004, 07:44 AM	#23
kowntafit Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 4,667	I have heard people ask this before and I like not to think about it. __________________ This is where my next million is coming from!

11-22-2004, 07:47 AM	#24
foxylady Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 1,829	nope, you vow each other thru sickness and health till death do us part __________________

11-22-2004, 07:51 AM	#25
Jer God is Brazilian Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Brazil Posts: 10,601	What a sad thing to think about, but of course I'd stay with my wife.