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Jimmie · 10-17-2004, 04:01 AM

ok ladies, here is a question im sure has been asked here before, and since the search feature doesnt work, I'm going to ask it again....

Why is it when a guy is with a girl, that there seem to be loads of other chicks that want to get with the guy. But when the guy is single, it seems like noone is interested?

In case you are wondering, I was with my high school sweetheart, from 11th grade up until a year ago. During the time we were together, there were loads of hot chicks that I knew, that wanted to be with me. Now that I'm single, It seems like I'm ignored like I got the plague or something..

Nate-MM2 · 10-17-2004, 04:03 AM

Avoids the whole screening process.

Watch the Seinfeld when George pretends he has a dead fiancee.

Jimmie · 10-17-2004, 04:12 AM

it just frustrates the hell out of me..

I'll be honest, I never wanted to break up with the ex. but when I found out the 3 year old daughter that I thought I had, was someone elses, that blew the lid off things. Not only had my girlfriend cheated of me, she got pregnant and this was my pride and joy..

I still get phone calls, telling me I need to take care of my kid and my kid wants to see me yada yada...

sh33p · 10-17-2004, 04:14 AM

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Originally posted by Jimmie
it just frustrates the hell out of me..

I'll be honest, I never wanted to break up with the ex. but when I found out the 3 year old daughter that I thought I had, was someone elses, that blew the lid off things. Not only had my girlfriend cheated of me, she got pregnant and this was my pride and joy..

I still get phone calls, telling me I need to take care of my kid and my kid wants to see me yada yada...

Just tell her to go to hell.

Babagirls · 10-17-2004, 04:25 AM

heres your answer:

EVERYone (male and female) wants what they cant get. Whenever ANYone is in a relationship, both males and females find it "more attractive" (for what reason(s))

ever hear "The Grass is Greener on the other side" ?? Well.......this is where it stems from.

(although, its almost usually not true.)

littlewookie · 10-17-2004, 07:52 AM

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Originally posted by Jimmie
it just frustrates the hell out of me..

I'll be honest, I never wanted to break up with the ex. but when I found out the 3 year old daughter that I thought I had, was someone elses, that blew the lid off things. Not only had my girlfriend cheated of me, she got pregnant and this was my pride and joy..

I still get phone calls, telling me I need to take care of my kid and my kid wants to see me yada yada...

hey bro, i can feel ya, i am in a similar position as you, however man, its not the kids fault.. i know you technically arent the father, however your all the kid knows.. you are the childs fatehr according to the baby. i know it doesnt answer your question but i say stick with the kid.. this is talking from experience

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 10-17-2004, 08:01 AM

don't blow off a child you loved as yours for 3 years because you THINK its not yours... Have any real tests been done as of yet?
The child did nothing wrong and shouldnt be tossed away like garbage.

Maybe you viewed the other girls "wanting you" when you were not single because that is what you wanted to think..lol. Sorry, but most normal females don't become uninterested in a guy just because he has broken up from his g/f. My guess is those girls were your g/f's friends and flrited harmlessly..now you arent their friends b/f anymore and have no interest in hanging with you..who knows. I wouldnt read so much into it and just be yourself and enjoy life.

Nanda · 10-17-2004, 10:13 AM

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Originally posted by Jimmie
it just frustrates the hell out of me..

I'll be honest, I never wanted to break up with the ex. but when I found out the 3 year old daughter that I thought I had, was someone elses, that blew the lid off things. Not only had my girlfriend cheated of me, she got pregnant and this was my pride and joy..

I still get phone calls, telling me I need to take care of my kid and my kid wants to see me yada yada...

I think that what she did was wrong, and I don't think you should be finacially supporting this child. Even though it's not the child's fault...you really have no obligation with her.

I have no respect for women who frame men with other people's children...

Jimmie · 10-17-2004, 12:41 PM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
don't blow off a child you loved as yours for 3 years because you THINK its not yours... Have any real tests been done as of yet?
The child did nothing wrong and shouldnt be tossed away like garbage.

Oh Yea, her parents paid for the DNA test! She (the ex) tells me that the test is wrong, when it was 99.997 percent or something to that affect, that she isnt my kid...

Tricksy · 10-17-2004, 02:00 PM

sorry to heat it. It sux. I hope everything is gonna be fine soon.
Lust wanna say " Gud luck" and yeahm TAKE IT EASY!

pornguy · 10-17-2004, 02:05 PM

I try to put extra fertalizer on this side, so that it is not always greener on the other side.

serious statment. Figure it out, and you will be ahead of the game.

Gynecologist · 10-17-2004, 02:09 PM

So just find a girl (any girl) who will date you. Even if she is not the hottest it will still show other women that someone wants you. Then you just work your way up from there to a girl you really want.

reynold · 10-17-2004, 09:11 PM

they just love the challenge of competing with others.

PenisFace · 10-17-2004, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by Gynecologist
So just find a girl (any girl) who will date you. Even if she is not the hottest it will still show other women that someone wants you. Then you just work your way up from there to a girl you really want.

So roll with the ugly girls to get the hot girls attention? SCORE!

qwe · 10-17-2004, 09:38 PM

wow thats a fucked up situation... why did you even ask her to do the test ? you thought she cheated on you ?

10-17-2004, 04:01 AM	#1
Jimmie Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Ft Worth TX! Posts: 872	Question for the ladies here.. (NO PICS) ok ladies, here is a question im sure has been asked here before, and since the search feature doesnt work, I'm going to ask it again.... Why is it when a guy is with a girl, that there seem to be loads of other chicks that want to get with the guy. But when the guy is single, it seems like noone is interested? In case you are wondering, I was with my high school sweetheart, from 11th grade up until a year ago. During the time we were together, there were loads of hot chicks that I knew, that wanted to be with me. Now that I'm single, It seems like I'm ignored like I got the plague or something..

10-17-2004, 04:25 AM	#5
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10-17-2004, 02:00 PM	#10
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10-17-2004, 02:05 PM	#11
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10-17-2004, 04:03 AM	#2
Nate-MM2 So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Vancouver, CANADA Posts: 263	Avoids the whole screening process. Watch the Seinfeld when George pretends he has a dead fiancee.

10-17-2004, 04:12 AM	#3
Jimmie Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Ft Worth TX! Posts: 872	it just frustrates the hell out of me.. I'll be honest, I never wanted to break up with the ex. but when I found out the 3 year old daughter that I thought I had, was someone elses, that blew the lid off things. Not only had my girlfriend cheated of me, she got pregnant and this was my pride and joy.. I still get phone calls, telling me I need to take care of my kid and my kid wants to see me yada yada...

10-17-2004, 08:01 AM	#7
C_U_Next_Tuesday WW4L Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: over the river and through the woods Posts: 10,581	don't blow off a child you loved as yours for 3 years because you THINK its not yours... Have any real tests been done as of yet? The child did nothing wrong and shouldnt be tossed away like garbage. Maybe you viewed the other girls "wanting you" when you were not single because that is what you wanted to think..lol. Sorry, but most normal females don't become uninterested in a guy just because he has broken up from his g/f. My guess is those girls were your g/f's friends and flrited harmlessly..now you arent their friends b/f anymore and have no interest in hanging with you..who knows. I wouldnt read so much into it and just be yourself and enjoy life.

10-17-2004, 02:09 PM	#12
Gynecologist Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 2,184	So just find a girl (any girl) who will date you. Even if she is not the hottest it will still show other women that someone wants you. Then you just work your way up from there to a girl you really want.

10-17-2004, 09:11 PM	#13
reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	they just love the challenge of competing with others.

10-17-2004, 09:38 PM	#15
qwe Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 2,109	wow thats a fucked up situation... why did you even ask her to do the test ? you thought she cheated on you ?