Question for the ladies here.. (NO PICS)
 

ok ladies, here is a question im sure has been asked here before, and since the search feature doesnt work, I'm going to ask it again....

Why is it when a guy is with a girl, that there seem to be loads of other chicks that want to get with the guy. But when the guy is single, it seems like noone is interested?

In case you are wondering, I was with my high school sweetheart, from 11th grade up until a year ago. During the time we were together, there were loads of hot chicks that I knew, that wanted to be with me. Now that I'm single, It seems like I'm ignored like I got the plague or something..:helpme

Avoids the whole screening process.

Watch the Seinfeld when George pretends he has a dead fiancee.

it just frustrates the hell out of me..

I'll be honest, I never wanted to break up with the ex. but when I found out the 3 year old daughter that I thought I had, was someone elses, that blew the lid off things. Not only had my girlfriend cheated of me, she got pregnant and this was my pride and joy..

I still get phone calls, telling me I need to take care of my kid and my kid wants to see me yada yada...

Just tell her to go to hell.

heres your answer:

EVERYone (male and female) wants what they cant get. Whenever ANYone is in a relationship, both males and females find it "more attractive" (for what reason(s))

ever hear "The Grass is Greener on the other side" ?? Well.......this is where it stems from.

(although, its almost usually not true.)

:glugglug

hey bro, i can feel ya, i am in a similar position as you, however man, its not the kids fault.. i know you technically arent the father, however your all the kid knows.. you are the childs fatehr according to the baby. i know it doesnt answer your question but i say stick with the kid.. this is talking from experience:thumbsup

don't blow off a child you loved as yours for 3 years because you THINK its not yours... Have any real tests been done as of yet?
The child did nothing wrong and shouldnt be tossed away like garbage.

Maybe you viewed the other girls "wanting you" when you were not single because that is what you wanted to think..lol. Sorry, but most normal females don't become uninterested in a guy just because he has broken up from his g/f. My guess is those girls were your g/f's friends and flrited harmlessly..now you arent their friends b/f anymore and have no interest in hanging with you..who knows. I wouldnt read so much into it and just be yourself and enjoy life.

I think that what she did was wrong, and I don't think you should be finacially supporting this child. Even though it's not the child's fault...you really have no obligation with her.

I have no respect for women who frame men with other people's children...:(

Oh Yea, her parents paid for the DNA test! She (the ex) tells me that the test is wrong, when it was 99.997 percent or something to that affect, that she isnt my kid...

sorry to heat it. It sux. I hope everything is gonna be fine soon.
Lust wanna say " Gud luck" and yeahm TAKE IT EASY!

I try to put extra fertalizer on this side, so that it is not always greener on the other side.


:2 cents:


serious statment. Figure it out, and you will be ahead of the game.

So just find a girl (any girl) who will date you. Even if she is not the hottest it will still show other women that someone wants you. Then you just work your way up from there to a girl you really want.

they just love the challenge of competing with others.

So roll with the ugly girls to get the hot girls attention? SCORE!

wow thats a fucked up situation... why did you even ask her to do the test ? you thought she cheated on you ?