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deleteduser · 10-08-2004, 07:09 AM

Hey GFY,

i need the opinion of women hating guys, so i ask here

two month ago i was dating a girl. she was great and she was the one always contacting me again after the dates. i was sure she wanted to start a relationship with me and as gay as it sounds, i wanted that too. then she told me that for her we were just friends, so i stoped dating her.

last thuesday she contacted me again and asked if i want to meet her again and talk things trough. i did and we had a great time, just like two month ago.

yet i don't know if i should date her anymore cause last time it was exactly the same situation and she just wanted to be my friend.. well, her friend who kisses and fucks her. yet she doesn't make a bitchy impression to me. she doesn't date other guys - at least that's what i heared (from her friends).

i can't just keep fucking her cause then i'll start getting feeling for her again.

so what shall i do???

drctfiesta · 10-08-2004, 07:11 AM

Get a Real Woman who will shut up and suck you when you need it, best of all she will not speak unless you tell her to do so; get a :

deleteduser · 10-08-2004, 07:12 AM

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Originally posted by drctfiesta
Get a Real Woman who will shut up and suck you when you need it, best of all she will not speak unless you tell her to do so; get a :

you got a point there

quantum-x · 10-08-2004, 07:13 AM

Sounds like you already know what you want.

Life aint all about the pussy.

deleteduser · 10-08-2004, 07:14 AM

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Originally posted by quantum-x
Sounds like you already know what you want.

Life aint all about the pussy.

i know what i want, but i don't know what to do.
i don't give a fuck about her friendship, i want her to be my girl

quantum-x · 10-08-2004, 07:21 AM

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Originally posted by CeKilleR
i know what i want, but i don't know what to do.
i don't give a fuck about her friendship, i want her to be my girl

try telling her that.. that you want her as your girl, nothing less

deleteduser · 10-08-2004, 07:23 AM

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Originally posted by quantum-x
try telling her that.. that you want her as your girl, nothing less

you mean like: uhm, hi it's me.. i .. i just wanted to let you know.. uhm,... i.. erm.. i love you sooo much *cry a river*

damn i'm no fag. she should understand it herself, but she doesn't. so give me some good old "fuck that bitch" replies please

Odie · 10-08-2004, 07:46 AM

obviously she doesn't take you that seriously and doesn't want a relationship. She may be in a stage right now where she doesn't want one so she's just comfortable with a casual relationship. I've found that this doesn't work. Someone always starts to get attached.

I think you should move on and find someone who has the same intentions and wants the same outcome. Not someone who just wants to be your fuck buddy.

Cyndalie · 10-08-2004, 07:49 AM

I can't believe you guys dont know a booty call when one smacks you in the face. Just bone her, be an asshole, and she'll fall in love with you.

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:06 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
obviously she doesn't take you that seriously and doesn't want a relationship. She may be in a stage right now where she doesn't want one so she's just comfortable with a casual relationship. I've found that this doesn't work. Someone always starts to get attached.

I think you should move on and find someone who has the same intentions and wants the same outcome. Not someone who just wants to be your fuck buddy.

you're probably right, thanks for this reply

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:08 AM

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Originally posted by Cyndalie
I can't believe you guys dont know a booty call when one smacks you in the face. Just bone her, be an asshole, and she'll fall in love with you.

Manowar · 10-09-2004, 02:16 AM

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Originally posted by Cyndalie
I can't believe you guys dont know a booty call when one smacks you in the face. Just bone her, be an asshole, and she'll fall in love with you.

natkejs · 10-09-2004, 02:17 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
obviously she doesn't take you that seriously and doesn't want a relationship. She may be in a stage right now where she doesn't want one so she's just comfortable with a casual relationship. I've found that this doesn't work. Someone always starts to get attached.

I think you should move on and find someone who has the same intentions and wants the same outcome. Not someone who just wants to be your fuck buddy.

Exactly!!

Sure you're a loving guy and that's why she keeps calling ya...

I'm in the same situation and the way I see it, the love is better spent somewhere else!

Good luck

CyberTraffic · 10-09-2004, 02:18 AM

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Originally posted by Cyndalie
I can't believe you guys dont know a booty call when one smacks you in the face. Just bone her, be an asshole, and she'll fall in love with you.

Bingo.

Just enjoy the pussy. Whatever happens will happen.

natkejs · 10-09-2004, 02:19 AM

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Originally posted by Cyndalie
I can't believe you guys dont know a booty call when one smacks you in the face. Just bone her, be an asshole, and she'll fall in love with you.

That's 100% true.... some guys gets sick of doing that tho, it's rare, but it happends ;)

PersianKitty · 10-09-2004, 02:19 AM

Sounds like you're at a time in your life where you're thinking about settling down and this is someone you could be serious with. You can't do that unless the other party wants the same thing. Instead of wondering 'why she doesn't get it', tell her exactly what you want right now. Sit her down, explain that you enjoy her friendship, but what you're missing right now someone for a real relationship. Tell her that you want that relationship to be with her. Don't put her on the spot... but give her some time to let the idea sink in. Tell her to think about it and give you her thoughts about it. If she only wants friendship, then be prepared to look elsewhere.

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:23 AM

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Originally posted by natkejs
I'm in the same situation and the way I see it, the love is better spent somewhere else!

so what will you do...? never see her again?

KRL · 10-09-2004, 02:26 AM

Dude you think you got problems with women?

Imagine living in Afghanistan and dealing with these weird fucking chicks.

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:29 AM

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Originally posted by PersianKitty
Sounds like you're at a time in your life where you're thinking about settling down and this is someone you could be serious with. You can't do that unless the other party wants the same thing. Instead of wondering 'why she doesn't get it', tell her exactly what you want right now. Sit her down, explain that you enjoy her friendship, but what you're missing right now someone for a real relationship. Tell her that you want that relationship to be with her. Don't put her on the spot... but give her some time to let the idea sink in. Tell her to think about it and give you her thoughts about it. If she only wants friendship, then be prepared to look elsewhere.

i don't know if she's worth to take that road, 'cause it won't be easy for me to say something like that and she obviously doesn't want a relationship with me.

i thought about making her jealous too - you think that's an option? i'd feel more comfortable with that

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:30 AM

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Originally posted by KRL
Dude you think you got problems with women?

Imagine living in Afghanistan and dealing with these weird fucking chicks.

those girls get beaten to death if they just look at another man next to their husbands.

way to go

natkejs · 10-09-2004, 02:31 AM

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Originally posted by CeKilleR
so what will you do...? never see her again?

Well you know the deal, it's kinda hard to take that decision..... I mean you know what's best for you, obviously, but at the same time........ life is short, why not let yourself enjoy it.

I got an advantage, I'm heading off to spend a few months in Thailand, so I'll likely (not certain) see her once more before I go and then I'll be the one leaving her behind... play or be played ;)

Doesn't have to be such a big deal... if you're having a good time with her, I guess that's what counts. Just be prepared for the consequenses, a lot of people simply ain't ready to handle a loving relationship. They want it, naturally, love feels great.. but they can't hold on to it.

I'd say it's about maturity, some would argue that it's a matter of attitude but then again those 2 go hand in hand.

As long as you know what you're up against you have an advantage

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:39 AM

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Originally posted by natkejs
Well you know the deal, it's kinda hard to take that decision..... I mean you know what's best for you, obviously, but at the same time........ life is short, why not let yourself enjoy it.

I got an advantage, I'm heading off to spend a few months in Thailand, so I'll likely (not certain) see her once more before I go and then I'll be the one leaving her behind... play or be played ;)

Doesn't have to be such a big deal... if you're having a good time with her, I guess that's what counts. Just be prepared for the consequenses, a lot of people simply ain't ready to handle a loving relationship. They want it, naturally, love feels great.. but they can't hold on to it.

I'd say it's about maturity, some would argue that it's a matter of attitude but then again those 2 go hand in hand.

As long as you know what you're up against you have an advantage

i can't just never see her again, that doesn't feel right. yet i know if i date her again, i will get feelings for her. as you said, time is short - but considering how i will feel after she will ruin everything again, i don't know if it's worth it.

i mean, i do exactly the same to girls. i date 'em and date 'em and i know they start getting feelings for me but i don't care. one day i brake things up and they are hurt. now i'm on the other side and it really seems to be a fucked up attitude

i think the way to go is trying to hurt her as much as i can before braking things up with her. something like:

"yeah okay, it was fun with you, but i have a real girlfriend now that means something to me so we can't see each other anymore, bye "

LOL how about that?

jade_dragon · 10-09-2004, 02:47 AM

The girl is using you, she wants all the perks of a relationship with none of the responsibility and work. If it is going to effect you emotionally, stand up for yourself and tell her that she either commits to you or no more dick for her. You are backing up the idea that a man can be controlled through sex and that we are mindless pawns.

There is nothing "gay" about wanting a commitement and wanting what you want. Stand up for yourself and if she is not giving you what you want, stop abusing yourself and go find it in someone else. The moment you realize there are a lot more women out there than men and make yourself into someone who really deserves anything you want in a relationship because of how good of a person you are then you will be better off.

Or you can continue to be her toy, back up in her mind that you are weak and so are all men, untill she finds someone she wants to be with and she leaves you there with your heart on your sleeve, all because you like the abuse because you get fucked whenever she wants to play with you and get off.

Read your last post, games are childish, control your life, mean what you say and say what you mean, this is being a man not having a dick, some nuts and fucking everything that moves.

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 02:56 AM

thanks for the good post.

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Originally posted by jade_dragon
Or you can continue to be her toy, back up in her mind that you are weak and so are all men, untill she finds someone she wants to be with and she leaves you there with your heart on your sleeve, all because you like the abuse because you get fucked whenever she wants to play with you and get off.

i didn't think about that. not wanting a relationship with me doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to have a relationship at all. that's an important point, thanks!

the only way to handle it seems to just forget her and move on.. won't be easy but it's possible. i handled the end of a 2 year relationship, so i will handle that too.

natkejs · 10-09-2004, 03:11 AM

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Originally posted by CeKilleR
i think the way to go is trying to hurt her as much as i can before braking things up with her. something like:

"yeah okay, it was fun with you, but i have a real girlfriend now that means something to me so we can't see each other anymore, bye "

LOL how about that?

haha... amusing but karma is a bitch.

whatever you do be cool to her, after all it's pretty obvious what she's up to so you can't really blame her if you get yourself hurt.

don't think she has to be punished cause she has an attitude that doesn't go over well with yours... just play with it or let her go, be the bigger man bla bla bla ;)

deleteduser · 10-09-2004, 03:16 AM

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Originally posted by natkejs
haha... amusing but karma is a bitch.

whatever you do be cool to her, after all it's pretty obvious what she's up to so you can't really blame her if you get yourself hurt.

don't think she has to be punished cause she has an attitude that doesn't go over well with yours... just play with it or let her go, be the bigger man bla bla bla ;)

okay, i will let her go, be gentile when i see her and all the stuff. it's the only way to go... damn, won't be easy tough...

RobD · 10-09-2004, 06:18 AM

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Originally posted by CeKilleR
okay, i will let her go, be gentile when i see her and all the stuff. it's the only way to go... damn, won't be easy tough...

make sure you bang her one last time and post some pics

just kidding

10-08-2004, 07:09 AM	#1
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jade_dragon Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: NEW ORLEANS/Baton Rouge BABY! Posts: 1,737	The girl is using you, she wants all the perks of a relationship with none of the responsibility and work. If it is going to effect you emotionally, stand up for yourself and tell her that she either commits to you or no more dick for her. You are backing up the idea that a man can be controlled through sex and that we are mindless pawns. There is nothing "gay" about wanting a commitement and wanting what you want. Stand up for yourself and if she is not giving you what you want, stop abusing yourself and go find it in someone else. The moment you realize there are a lot more women out there than men and make yourself into someone who really deserves anything you want in a relationship because of how good of a person you are then you will be better off. Or you can continue to be her toy, back up in her mind that you are weak and so are all men, untill she finds someone she wants to be with and she leaves you there with your heart on your sleeve, all because you like the abuse because you get fucked whenever she wants to play with you and get off. Read your last post, games are childish, control your life, mean what you say and say what you mean, this is being a man not having a dick, some nuts and fucking everything that moves. __________________ even ADULTS need TOYS icq: 3 6 3 2 6 6 6 7 \| aim: conglomorateman open for business, affiliates and friendships Last edited by jade_dragon; 10-09-2004 at 02:49 AM..