Sex on the third date??? - GoFuckYourself.com

Odie · 10-01-2004, 08:53 AM

ok, we all know about sex on the first date and how everyone feels about them.

So, is sex on the 3rd date ok?? If not, when is it appropriate??

Just wondering. My g/f has a date tonight and she REALLY likes the boy..

discuss...

ronaldo · 10-01-2004, 08:55 AM

If he's anything like I was when I was single, than tonight BETTER be the night.

3 dates with nothing=3 strikes and YOU'RE OUT!

Juicy D. Links · 10-01-2004, 08:56 AM

sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

Juicy D. Links · 10-01-2004, 08:57 AM

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Originally posted by ronaldo

3 dates with nothing=3 strikes and YOU'RE OUT!

true true

zentz · 10-01-2004, 09:02 AM

sex on the third date is great

Odie · 10-01-2004, 09:02 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

I was expecting an answer like that!! That's soooo "JUICY"!!! lol..

but seriously, if you have gone on 3 dates and the guy hasn't initiated any sex yet, is he realllllly interested??

StarkReality · 10-01-2004, 09:03 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
ok, we all know about sex on the first date and how everyone feels about them.

So, is sex on the 3rd date ok?? If not, when is it appropriate??

Just wondering. My g/f has a date tonight and she REALLY likes the boy..

discuss...

If she REALLY likes him and wants more than just sex, she'll better NOT fuck him on third date. Believe me, he'll easily wait a week or two if he REALLY likes her, too...so what about some old fashioned kissing on third date ?! If you can get everything too early, if you can get it too easy, you tend to put her in the "slut" category, have fun and make sure to be at home before breakfast

Odie · 10-01-2004, 09:06 AM

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Originally posted by StarkReality
If she REALLY likes him and wants more than just sex, she'll better NOT fuck him on third date. Believe me, he'll easily wait a week or two if he REALLY likes her, too...so what about some old fashioned kissing on third date ?! If you can get everything too early, if you can get it too easy, you tend to put her in the "slut" category, have fun and make sure to be at home before breakfast

yup, that's what I told her...make him wait..if he's nice and likes her then he can wait some more..

sherie · 10-01-2004, 09:07 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
I was expecting an answer like that!! That's soooo "JUICY"!!! lol..

but seriously, if you have gone on 3 dates and the guy hasn't initiated any sex yet, is he realllllly interested??

Of course he's interested if he's going out with her again. He quite possibly be a "gentlemen". With that being said, if she really likes him likes him then she should not initiate it. If she just wants to bang him here and there then sure, have at it!

fr33s3x · 10-01-2004, 09:07 AM

TheLegacy · 10-01-2004, 09:07 AM

maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??

people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.

there is something about a woman or guy who knows how to control themselves - give it up to fast, and there will always be some doubt in the future of faithfulness if self control hasnt been shown. Both in relationship would trust the other more down the road if they showed strength from the beginning.

My fiancee knows I got to conventions, but also knows that I have enough self control not to fuck anyone while away. Same with her, I know that when shes absolutely horny and alone, shes not going anywhere...

Odie · 10-01-2004, 09:10 AM

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Originally posted by sherie
Of course he's interested if he's going out with her again. He quite possibly be a "gentlemen". With that being said, if she really likes him likes him then she should not initiate it. If she just wants to bang him here and there then sure, have at it!

oh yeah, this guy's good..I told her to chill and let it take it's course..she's just not sure if she should go all the way if he tries. She doesn't want to seem "easy" or turn it into a "booty call"

SmutGiant · 10-01-2004, 09:12 AM

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Originally posted by StarkReality
Believe me, he'll easily wait a week or two if he REALLY likes her

Yep. I waited six months

sherie · 10-01-2004, 09:13 AM

LOL @ your friend. This is not high school. If he hasn't tried by now, I am pretty sure he's not gonna go straight for the bang. However, who knows. She shouldn't be bangin' anyone if she needs advise like this LOL c'mawn. Make out, fool around or whatever...are we going by bases here? I say maybe first to mid second is ok then cut him off at the pass LOL

ronaldo · 10-01-2004, 09:14 AM

Just wondering...does your friend really LIKE the guy as a possible life partner?

Or is he hot as hell, and she really LIKES the idea of hopping into the sack, but is worried about what he'll think and that she might get a reputation?

macho · 10-01-2004, 09:19 AM

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Originally posted by TheLegacy
maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??

people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.

Absolutly agree!
The purpose of the date is not only sexual relationships, but also communication. There are so many interesting and exciting things to do together!!!

warlock5 · 10-01-2004, 09:21 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

3rd hour of first meeting them is better

Tuga · 10-01-2004, 09:21 AM

Sex is cool on any date.

Odie · 10-01-2004, 09:22 AM

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Originally posted by sherie
LOL @ your friend. This is not high school. If he hasn't tried by now, I am pretty sure he's not gonna go straight for the bang. However, who knows. She shouldn't be bangin' anyone if she needs advise like this LOL c'mawn. Make out, fool around or whatever...are we going by bases here? I say maybe first to mid second is ok then cut him off at the pass LOL

haha..I know..pretty pathetic huh?? I thought it was funny too..but u know girls..and girl talk..lmao!!

I guess she's at a stage where she's kinda shy and a lil anxious and she's also in search of the "man".

ronaldo · 10-01-2004, 09:29 AM

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Originally posted by macho
Absolutly agree!
The purpose of the date is not only sexual relationships, but also communication. There are so many interesting and exciting things to do together!!!

Okay, I'm gonna come off as an asshat for this, but sorry ladies, it's the truth (In most cases anyways).

While was macho says is certainly true, a woman can't seriously believe that the guy just likes "Hangin'" with her.

He may REALLY like her personality and everything she has to offer, but ultimately he's thinking about sex.

It's built into our genes, don't hate us for it. Just like you like to talk endlessly and cuddle after sex. We don't hate you for what's genetically built in. We may not like it, but we deal with it.

AFTER the sex part, then most assuredly, yes you can enjoy each other for who they TRULY are.

BEFORE the sex part, all the guy's thinking about is HOW to get her to have sex. Alot of ladies are like this as well.

Get the sexual tension out of the way, and THEN find out who each other really is.

sherie · 10-01-2004, 09:33 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
haha..I know..pretty pathetic huh?? I thought it was funny too..but u know girls..and girl talk..lmao!!

I guess she's at a stage where she's kinda shy and a lil anxious and she's also in search of the "man".

Then tell her not to worry about it. Just go and do what they do have fun and take it from there. No need to stress about something that hasn't happened. Conscenting adults do what they want. If she does and he's a goof about it then fine, he'd be a goof later on anyway, better now than later she finds out. Sex should come natrually, just take it easy and go with the flow

Babagirls · 10-01-2004, 09:34 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

yep!

why waste time & money on more dates?? cut all the flirty bullshit and just get down to business already.

VirtuMike · 10-01-2004, 09:35 AM

It's the rule of threes.

You wait three days after the first date to call the girl.

You wait three dates before you bang the girl.

If the girl doesn't put out on the third date, she's breaking the rules.

Odie · 10-01-2004, 09:37 AM

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Originally posted by ronaldo
Okay, I'm gonna come off as an asshat for this, but sorry ladies, it's the truth (In most cases anyways).

While was macho says is certainly true, a woman can't seriously believe that the guy just likes "Hangin'" with her.

He may REALLY like her personality and everything she has to offer, but ultimately he's thinking about sex.

It's built into our genes, don't hate us for it. Just like you like to talk endlessly and cuddle after sex. We don't hate you for what's genetically built in. We may not like it, but we deal with it.

AFTER the sex part, then most assuredly, yes you can enjoy each other for who they TRULY are.

BEFORE the sex part, all the guy's thinking about is HOW to get her to have sex. Alot of ladies are like this as well.

Get the sexual tension out of the way, and THEN find out who each other really is.

soo true...so true..lol..I appreciate the honesty!!

Vitasoy · 10-01-2004, 09:38 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

lol the juicy way!

Sex on the first date, anal sex the next day, 3rd date... Anything goes!

macho · 10-01-2004, 09:38 AM

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Originally posted by ronaldo
Okay, I'm gonna come off as an asshat for this, but sorry ladies, it's the truth (In most cases anyways).

While was macho says is certainly true, a woman can't seriously believe that the guy just likes "Hangin'" with her.

He may REALLY like her personality and everything she has to offer, but ultimately he's thinking about sex.

It's built into our genes, don't hate us for it. Just like you like to talk endlessly and cuddle after sex. We don't hate you for what's genetically built in. We may not like it, but we deal with it.

AFTER the sex part, then most assuredly, yes you can enjoy each other for who they TRULY are.

BEFORE the sex part, all the guy's thinking about is HOW to get her to have sex. Alot of ladies are like this as well.

Get the sexual tension out of the way, and THEN find out who each other really is.

Men all time think about sex, but putting the priority aim of the date is sex is in my opinion bad idea. It should be more romantic!

Odie · 10-01-2004, 09:39 AM

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Originally posted by sherie
Then tell her not to worry about it. Just go and do what they do have fun and take it from there. No need to stress about something that hasn't happened. Conscenting adults do what they want. If she does and he's a goof about it then fine, he'd be a goof later on anyway, better now than later she finds out. Sex should come natrually, just take it easy and go with the flow

those were my words exactly. If he's sincere then all will be well. If he's just there for the sex then she'll find out very quickly.

longbrick · 10-01-2004, 09:40 AM

sex is fine on any date, it don't make a difference whether its first or las t date

JFK · 10-01-2004, 09:40 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
I was expecting an answer like that!! That's soooo "JUICY"!!! lol..

but seriously, if you have gone on 3 dates and the guy hasn't initiated any sex yet, is he realllllly interested??

if he didnt he's G A Y

MaDalton · 10-01-2004, 09:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ronaldo
Okay, I'm gonna come off as an asshat for this, but sorry ladies, it's the truth (In most cases anyways).

While was macho says is certainly true, a woman can't seriously believe that the guy just likes "Hangin'" with her.

He may REALLY like her personality and everything she has to offer, but ultimately he's thinking about sex.

It's built into our genes, don't hate us for it. Just like you like to talk endlessly and cuddle after sex. We don't hate you for what's genetically built in. We may not like it, but we deal with it.

AFTER the sex part, then most assuredly, yes you can enjoy each other for who they TRULY are.

BEFORE the sex part, all the guy's thinking about is HOW to get her to have sex. Alot of ladies are like this as well.

Get the sexual tension out of the way, and THEN find out who each other really is.

exactly

Greg B · 10-01-2004, 10:00 AM

Yo! You better get the booty on the FIRST date like the little ol' bootymaster me!

Why bs around?

You know what's up, she knows what's up from the DOOR, boy-o!

Third date on a maximum. By that time youse should know what's up about all that!

See, I slap my lips o' lusciousness on a female and I am in command! Comes from all them years of 'Fonz' training!

I ought to put out a book on the subject. One kiss, all ass!

benoitlc666 · 10-01-2004, 10:00 AM

What about being present in the moment, every moment. When I foccus on the future, or the past for that matter, I loose control of what's going on right now.
My advice to your friend is to be herself, and let this guy be free from pressure. If he has the want as well, and he's inspired to be himself, then the 2 wants will combine in many forms ;)
Make sense?

Odie · 10-01-2004, 10:03 AM

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Originally posted by benoitlc666
What about being present in the moment, every moment. When I foccus on the future, or the past for that matter, I loose control of what's going on right now.
My advice to your friend is to be herself, and let this guy be free from pressure. If he has the want as well, and he's inspired to be himself, then the 2 wants will combine in many forms ;)
Make sense?

sooo well said!!

btw, where's my traffic??lol

jacked · 10-01-2004, 10:03 AM

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Originally posted by TheLegacy
maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??

people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.

there is something about a woman or guy who knows how to control themselves - give it up to fast, and there will always be some doubt in the future of faithfulness if self control hasnt been shown. Both in relationship would trust the other more down the road if they showed strength from the beginning.

My fiancee knows I got to conventions, but also knows that I have enough self control not to fuck anyone while away. Same with her, I know that when shes absolutely horny and alone, shes not going anywhere...

dam bro you hit the nail on the head right there i couldn't have said it better

Odie · 10-01-2004, 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by TheLegacy
maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??

people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.

there is something about a woman or guy who knows how to control themselves - give it up to fast, and there will always be some doubt in the future of faithfulness if self control hasnt been shown. Both in relationship would trust the other more down the road if they showed strength from the beginning.

My fiancee knows I got to conventions, but also knows that I have enough self control not to fuck anyone while away. Same with her, I know that when shes absolutely horny and alone, shes not going anywhere...

this is where I sit w/ my b/f as well. I'm glad that there are moe than one of you like that out there!!!

WiredGuy · 10-01-2004, 10:16 AM

There isn't any set rules on when sex should happen nor should there be. If she wants it and he wants it, go for it. Otherwise, wait until the timing is right.

WG

wvuatl · 10-01-2004, 10:20 AM

fuck yes

Odie · 10-01-2004, 10:20 AM

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Originally posted by wvuatl
fuck yes

short but straight to the point huh??

DarkJedi · 10-01-2004, 10:31 AM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
sex within the 3rd hour of first date.

enjoy your herpes.

Odie · 10-01-2004, 10:36 AM

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Originally posted by DarkJedi
enjoy your herpes.

rofl!! he wraps it don't he??lol

Kel · 10-01-2004, 10:37 AM

They are both adults. As long as they both consent to it - I'm not sure what the big deal is. Nobody else's business.

Case closed.

FlyingIguana · 10-01-2004, 10:41 AM

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Originally posted by sherie
LOL @ your friend. This is not high school. If he hasn't tried by now, I am pretty sure he's not gonna go straight for the bang. However, who knows. She shouldn't be bangin' anyone if she needs advise like this LOL c'mawn. Make out, fool around or whatever...are we going by bases here? I say maybe first to mid second is ok then cut him off at the pass LOL

i like to hit home runs on the first pitch

Odie · 10-01-2004, 10:46 AM

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Originally posted by FlyingIguana
i like to hit home runs on the first pitch

what if he tries to steal a couple bases??

wdsguy · 10-01-2004, 10:48 AM

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Originally posted by TheLegacy
maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??

people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.

there is something about a woman or guy who knows how to control themselves - give it up to fast, and there will always be some doubt in the future of faithfulness if self control hasnt been shown. Both in relationship would trust the other more down the road if they showed strength from the beginning.

My fiancee knows I got to conventions, but also knows that I have enough self control not to fuck anyone while away. Same with her, I know that when shes absolutely horny and alone, shes not going anywhere...

well said

wvuatl · 10-01-2004, 10:51 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
short but straight to the point huh??

lol

you can marry a girl you bang on the 3rd date...

Steve · 10-01-2004, 10:52 AM

3rd date = anal

Odie · 10-01-2004, 10:53 AM

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Originally posted by wvuatl
lol

you can marry a girl you bang on the 3rd date...

Is that what you did?? hehe

iFliPcEss · 10-01-2004, 10:57 AM

i think its much better if you gonna know the guy/gurl real well before getting into a deeper relationship,

fris · 10-01-2004, 10:58 AM

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Originally posted by Odie
ok, we all know about sex on the first date and how everyone feels about them.

So, is sex on the 3rd date ok?? If not, when is it appropriate??

Just wondering. My g/f has a date tonight and she REALLY likes the boy..

discuss...

3rd date? wtf

too long to wait.

Odie · 10-01-2004, 11:00 AM

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Originally posted by iFliPcEss
i think its much better if you gonna know the guy/gurl real well before getting into a deeper relationship,

haha...no pun intended??? lol...

but yes I agree with you.

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