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maybe Im old fashion.. but the purpose of dating is what>>??
people place way too much priority on sex, let it come naturally instead of putting a number on it... if it happens on the first or third - even 6th fine.. but it will happen when the two are ready for it.
there is something about a woman or guy who knows how to control themselves - give it up to fast, and there will always be some doubt in the future of faithfulness if self control hasnt been shown. Both in relationship would trust the other more down the road if they showed strength from the beginning.
My fiancee knows I got to conventions, but also knows that I have enough self control not to fuck anyone while away. Same with her, I know that when shes absolutely horny and alone, shes not going anywhere...
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