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sicone · 09-21-2004, 11:27 PM

get over it... move on with life and find someone else for me. No time to worry about what she is doin now

50 people getting over it

graphicsbytia · 09-21-2004, 11:28 PM

jewcash.. let me tell you my thoughts on this..

it's a fact that people get what they want

The way this girl treats you is what you want or you wouldn't be with her... period

You may just not realise it, but it's true.

In other relationships you've had .. have you experienced the same type of treatment from other girls?

The one you have to look at here is you, and what you do and how you act.

You can change nothing about her, she will stay the same no matter what you do.. but you on the other hand.. well you can do something about how you act and what you're willing to accept and not accept.

Don't let infactuation lead you around by the balls, use your head and think about what you're letting happen here

pornguy · 09-21-2004, 11:29 PM

It is amazing. My wife seems to find people all the time. all she has to do is walk outside...

Oh wait. I got you now. Kill them both and let god sort them out.

ArikaAmes · 09-21-2004, 11:32 PM

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Originally posted by SpikeHeel
see! think about it man! the guy knows that the girl has a boyfriend! what will be the reason why she sent your girlfriend flowers? come on! this sounds bad! if the're just really friends,he'll understand why they need to avoid each other!

Exactly!! If he cared for her as a "friend" he wouldn't put the both of you through this!

SpikeHeel · 09-21-2004, 11:34 PM

you don't have to tell your girlfrriend what to do! she's supposed to know that! if not,she's immature! im sorry but i have to say it man! come on! you're being insulted by her! if i were you,let them go! don't hook yoursellf to her too much!

ArikaAmes · 09-21-2004, 11:34 PM

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Originally posted by pornguy
It is amazing. My wife seems to find people all the time. all she has to do is walk outside...

Oh wait. I got you now. Kill them both and let god sort them out.

GBTia - I just wanted to say that was awesome and so true

SpikeHeel · 09-21-2004, 11:39 PM

jewcash

this sounds funny but.... is she your first lovE?

graphicsbytia · 09-21-2004, 11:51 PM

why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??

I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.

I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.

I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier

I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?

it only makes sense to me

ArikaAmes · 09-21-2004, 11:59 PM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??

I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.

I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.

I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier

I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?

it only makes sense to me

It totally makes sense what you wrote. Your a very smart woman. Reading what you wrote almost made me cry! JewCash you should listen to her, she's there man.

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 12:03 AM

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Originally posted by ArikaAmes
It totally makes sense what you wrote. Your a very smart woman. Reading what you wrote almost made me cry! JewCash you should listen to her, she's there man.

thanks Arika,

I can only hope I've learned something in the years I've been on this earth, looking into yourself for truths is about the hardest thing in the world to do.. but dang.. it's worth it in the end

ArikaAmes · 09-22-2004, 12:06 AM

I totally mean it

I know I are getting kind of deep here but that is okay

It is very worth it and very rewarding to know in the end when you do realize everything and are past everything that you made it through it. It's nice to not have to worry and/or hold on anymore.

SomeCreep · 09-22-2004, 12:06 AM

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Originally posted by SpikeHeel
what if your girlfriend/boyfriend finds someone else?

Find someone else.

SpikeHeel · 09-22-2004, 12:10 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
Its Ice Cold in here...come on already..i need some real advice on how to really get through to her without pissing her off...

move on jewcash! you deserve someone else! more better than her! you're too good!

SpikeHeel · 09-22-2004, 12:13 AM

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Originally posted by SomeCreep
Find someone else.

yeah right! there are a lot of other guys and girls out there!

SpikeHeel · 09-22-2004, 12:20 AM

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Originally posted by AaronM
A tadpole once told me....

"You never lose your girl, you only lose your turn."

this is somehow right! just go and find your turn again!

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 12:32 AM

Age old philosphy I found that works. If you think something is happening then something is prolly happening. She gets mad because you our worried that she still talks to the person she had sex with when your relationship was put on pause? If she was the girl of your dreams she would relate to your concerns and put them at ease instead of getting mad at you. Don't ever settle for less then you deserve which it sounds to me what is exactly happening.

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 12:37 AM

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Originally posted by irishfury
Age old philosphy I found that works. If you think something is happening then something is prolly happening. She gets mad because you our worried that she still talks to the person she had sex with when your relationship was put on pause? If she was the girl of your dreams she would relate to your concerns and put them at ease instead of getting mad at you. Don't ever settle for less then you deserve which it sounds to me what is exactly happening.

very true

looks like we lost jewcash.. hope he's not getting raked over the coals

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 12:38 AM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
very true

looks like we lost jewcash.. hope he's not getting raked over the coals

No Good

BrainDead · 09-22-2004, 12:41 AM

that's really sad especially if you really love the person. i guess it would take me sometime to accept the truth.

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:16 AM

Jewcash is still here...taking some advice and talking to her...we made some headway

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:17 AM

i just wish he would dissappear from here life compltely and find a girlfriend...

BrainDead · 09-22-2004, 01:22 AM

go straight to the point.. there's no way you can avoid the fight because for sure she will tell you fuckin' reasons why he have to get in touch with that guy. and will make you believe that she's not doin' anything wrong.. dont be that harsh though coz still, she's a girl.

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:23 AM

SpikeHeel
What are these words under my name?

jewcash

this sounds funny but.... is she your first lovE?

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in someways yes...i was married once before and yes i have had girlfriends i have loved, but i am really in love with this one

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:24 AM

i am never harsh with her...i actually try really hard to express how i feel without being a dick

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 01:26 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
Jewcash is still here...taking some advice and talking to her...we made some headway

That's all you can do but don't sell yourself short. You must love yourself before you can love anyone else.

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:26 AM

irish your soo right...i wish she would just ease my concerns totally

Vitasoy · 09-22-2004, 01:29 AM

Move on, theres more fishies in the sea. But first you need to get back at them

polish_aristocrat · 09-22-2004, 01:30 AM

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Originally posted by FilthyRob
Get a new one tomorrow.

Nah, it sucks ass when it happens. I would be depressed.

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:30 AM

i thought of that...but why? why get back at them...i really do wish he would find a nice girlfriend and get the fuck out of her life

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
irish your soo right...i wish she would just ease my concerns totally

I've been right where you our right now before. I spent three years with my last girl. There would be concerns and when confronted I was berated. That's not what I dedicated three years of my life for. I held her in highest regards I expect at least respect. We moved seprate ways and now she despises me for moving on. Though I am happy and would do it again. It has to be 100% both ways otherwise it will never work....If she doesn't ease your concerns I would move on that's just me though.

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:31 AM

hey spikeheel whats your ICQ?

actually hit me up i want to ask you something

312347772

phogirl69 · 09-22-2004, 01:32 AM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??

I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.

I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.

I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier

I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?

it only makes sense to me

This has nothing to do with age, but with having bad self-esteem... Some people feel like there is no way they can get anyone else and they would much rather be in a miserable relationship, than be alone all by themselves and even compromise their own values and beliefs. Even though they can physically find someone else, in their mind they think that they actually can't and it really holds them down. I am not talking about Jewcash but more about what I have experienced, and I'm 26 btw... Sometimes people can feel so insecure and have such low self-worth that they will put up with anything, because it's better than being alone... But then again I crave drama... but I'm not really like this anymore... this was me around a year ago...

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:32 AM

she does do little things to ease my mind like saying she would never fuck him again

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 01:33 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
i thought of that...but why? why get back at them...i really do wish he would find a nice girlfriend and get the fuck out of her life

how is that going to change anything??

hang in there jewcash, and stand up for yourself

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 01:33 AM

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Originally posted by phogirl69
This has nothing to do with age, but with having bad self-esteem... Some people feel like there is no way they can get anyone else and they would much rather be in a miserable relationship, than be alone all by themselves and even compromise their own values and beliefs. Even though they can physically find someone else, in their mind they think that they actually can't and it really holds them down. I am not talking about Jewcash but more about what I have experienced, and I'm 26 btw... Sometimes people can feel so insecure and have such low self-worth that they will put up with anything, because it's better than being alone... But then again I crave drama... but I'm not really like this anymore... this was me around a year ago...

all so true

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:33 AM

phogirl69 Oh i do have a breaking point...i just havent reached it yet

Ironhorse · 09-22-2004, 01:34 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
what if in your heart this girl is the one for you...and all she wants is for me to stop asking questions about the guy and not stress about her having guy friends...and everything will be fine...and we wont fight about it..What if this girl is really the girl of your dreams

Dude, wake up, take a hint and move on..

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 01:34 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
she does do little things to ease my mind like saying she would never fuck him again

But do you believe this 100%? It doesn't sound like it to me....

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 01:36 AM

you want so desparately to believe something you know in your heart of hearts isn't true

be honest with yourself

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:41 AM

the one thing i can say is...she is a stubborn girl...she will never do anything she doesnt want to do...if i say it bothers me and i want reassurance..she wont do it she has to want to do it

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:42 AM

but, i think her heart is in it...she just plays the hard ass role if you know what i mean

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 01:43 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
the one thing i can say is...she is a stubborn girl...she will never do anything she doesnt want to do...if i say it bothers me and i want reassurance..she wont do it she has to want to do it

yeah.. too bad you're not more like her huh?

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 01:59 AM

god if i was like her we would kill each other

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 02:13 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
god if i was like her we would kill each other

so tell us.. what has she had to say about this thread?

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 02:24 AM

she hasnt said anything...i didnt show her the thread

irishfury · 09-22-2004, 02:27 AM

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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
so tell us.. what has she had to say about this thread?

hehehe Imagine if she knew that she was being discussed about on a board called Go Fuck Yourself

graphicsbytia · 09-22-2004, 02:28 AM

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Originally posted by jewcash
she hasnt said anything...i didnt show her the thread

maybe you should

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 02:50 AM

if i showed her the thread she would have a fucking cow

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 02:51 AM

or maybe she would realize that i am not the only one that shares these views...it is hard to be in a situation like this...it feels good to air it out though...actually it felt really good

jewcash · 09-22-2004, 02:53 AM

Has anyone read this article yet?

sorry to change the subject but i really want to know what everyone thinks about this article

09-21-2004, 11:27 PM	#51
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09-21-2004, 11:29 PM	#53
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09-21-2004, 11:34 PM	#55
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09-21-2004, 11:39 PM	#57
SpikeHeel Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Venus Posts: 1,531	jewcash this sounds funny but.... is she your first lovE? __________________ 100% exclusive fetish content - 60% recurring CCBill program No pop-ups – No traffic leaks – No cross sells – Hosted galleries – Promo content - Free Hosting - ICQ: 228585136

09-22-2004, 12:32 AM	#66
irishfury Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: In the hearts of cowards Posts: 2,611	Age old philosphy I found that works. If you think something is happening then something is prolly happening. She gets mad because you our worried that she still talks to the person she had sex with when your relationship was put on pause? If she was the girl of your dreams she would relate to your concerns and put them at ease instead of getting mad at you. Don't ever settle for less then you deserve which it sounds to me what is exactly happening. __________________ Trust no one there all snakes

09-21-2004, 11:28 PM	#52
graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	jewcash.. let me tell you my thoughts on this.. it's a fact that people get what they want The way this girl treats you is what you want or you wouldn't be with her... period You may just not realise it, but it's true. In other relationships you've had .. have you experienced the same type of treatment from other girls? The one you have to look at here is you, and what you do and how you act. You can change nothing about her, she will stay the same no matter what you do.. but you on the other hand.. well you can do something about how you act and what you're willing to accept and not accept. Don't let infactuation lead you around by the balls, use your head and think about what you're letting happen here

09-21-2004, 11:51 PM	#58
graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	why do people waste so much time living a miserable life?? I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life. I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me. I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be? it only makes sense to me

09-22-2004, 12:06 AM	#61
ArikaAmes Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 3,081	I totally mean it I know I are getting kind of deep here but that is okay It is very worth it and very rewarding to know in the end when you do realize everything and are past everything that you made it through it. It's nice to not have to worry and/or hold on anymore.

09-22-2004, 12:41 AM	#69
BrainDead So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,536	that's really sad especially if you really love the person. i guess it would take me sometime to accept the truth.

09-22-2004, 01:16 AM	#70
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	Jewcash is still here...taking some advice and talking to her...we made some headway

09-22-2004, 01:17 AM	#71
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	i just wish he would dissappear from here life compltely and find a girlfriend...

09-22-2004, 01:22 AM	#72
BrainDead So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,536	go straight to the point.. there's no way you can avoid the fight because for sure she will tell you fuckin' reasons why he have to get in touch with that guy. and will make you believe that she's not doin' anything wrong.. dont be that harsh though coz still, she's a girl.

09-22-2004, 01:23 AM	#73
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	SpikeHeel What are these words under my name? jewcash this sounds funny but.... is she your first lovE? --------------------------------------------------------------------------- in someways yes...i was married once before and yes i have had girlfriends i have loved, but i am really in love with this one

09-22-2004, 01:24 AM	#74
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	i am never harsh with her...i actually try really hard to express how i feel without being a dick

09-22-2004, 01:26 AM	#76
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	irish your soo right...i wish she would just ease my concerns totally

09-22-2004, 01:29 AM	#77
Vitasoy GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 58,202	Move on, theres more fishies in the sea. But first you need to get back at them __________________ [email protected]

09-22-2004, 01:30 AM	#79
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	i thought of that...but why? why get back at them...i really do wish he would find a nice girlfriend and get the fuck out of her life

09-22-2004, 01:31 AM	#81
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	hey spikeheel whats your ICQ? actually hit me up i want to ask you something 312347772

09-22-2004, 01:32 AM	#83
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	she does do little things to ease my mind like saying she would never fuck him again

09-22-2004, 01:33 AM	#86
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	phogirl69 Oh i do have a breaking point...i just havent reached it yet

09-22-2004, 01:36 AM	#89
graphicsbytia Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 2,618	you want so desparately to believe something you know in your heart of hearts isn't true be honest with yourself

09-22-2004, 01:41 AM	#90
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	the one thing i can say is...she is a stubborn girl...she will never do anything she doesnt want to do...if i say it bothers me and i want reassurance..she wont do it she has to want to do it

09-22-2004, 01:42 AM	#91
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	but, i think her heart is in it...she just plays the hard ass role if you know what i mean

09-22-2004, 01:59 AM	#93
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	god if i was like her we would kill each other

09-22-2004, 02:24 AM	#95
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	she hasnt said anything...i didnt show her the thread

09-22-2004, 02:50 AM	#98
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	if i showed her the thread she would have a fucking cow

09-22-2004, 02:51 AM	#99
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	or maybe she would realize that i am not the only one that shares these views...it is hard to be in a situation like this...it feels good to air it out though...actually it felt really good

09-22-2004, 02:53 AM	#100
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	Has anyone read this article yet? sorry to change the subject but i really want to know what everyone thinks about this article