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Old 09-22-2004, 01:32 AM  
phogirl69
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Originally posted by graphicsbytia
why do people waste so much time living a miserable life??

I'll tell you why.. because they think they have plenty of time to become sure of themselves and get what they want out of life.

I'm no different.. it took me a long time to get where I am and into a situation where I am in control of what happens to me.

I just wish it hadn't taken so long.. I wasted a lot of my life dicking around when I could have been happy, or happier

I think if younger people were more aware of their mortality, they might live their lives differently... you don't have to be old to have your life taken away .. and you only get one chance at life.. so why not be as happy as you can be?

it only makes sense to me
This has nothing to do with age, but with having bad self-esteem... Some people feel like there is no way they can get anyone else and they would much rather be in a miserable relationship, than be alone all by themselves and even compromise their own values and beliefs. Even though they can physically find someone else, in their mind they think that they actually can't and it really holds them down. I am not talking about Jewcash but more about what I have experienced, and I'm 26 btw... Sometimes people can feel so insecure and have such low self-worth that they will put up with anything, because it's better than being alone... But then again I crave drama... but I'm not really like this anymore... this was me around a year ago...
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