what will you do if.....?
 

what if your girlfriend/boyfriend finds someone else?

Move the fuck on. Life sucks...Deal with it.

Get a new one tomorrow.

Nah, it sucks ass when it happens. I would be depressed.

A tadpole once told me....

"You never lose your girl, you only lose your turn."

same thing with me. i think i'll be needing a lot of time to move on! :sadcrying

I'd kill them both









J/K, I would be sad, pissed, depressed and all that. Everything bad is followed by something good :)

nah! can you kill the one you love? just let them go and be happy for them eventhough it really hurts!

No I totally agree. I was totallllllly j/k. I would be hurt so bad, but I definitely wouldn't take my anger and everything else out on someone else. I'm not really like that....promise :winkwink:

How about this one, my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 years...during that 4 years we broke up for 6 weeks one time and 2 weeks another time...she fucked this guy she has been friends with for 2 of the years we have been going out....we get back together and she still wants to be friends with him..."JUST FRIENDS" she says...it bothers the fuck out of me...How do i handle it?

Be honest

This is seriously just me, but if I was your girlfriend, I wouldn't want to be friends with that guy cause I know it would hurt you. I know she says they are "just friends", but I still think it is wrong, even from a girl's point of view.:2 cents:

I would be like oh well and move on to better things :D

she wont

i'll not let her see the guy again! they did it once,so i think they can do it again and again! ayt? if your girlfriend really loves you,she'll find a way to avoid the guy!

Ok you got it right there...she does love me...and she has been talking to him on the phone...like i would say 2 maybe 3 times a week...She says she is gonna hang out with him...They are just friends..and she will never fuck him again...She is a hard girl and doesnt like to give reassurance...I know she loves me in her heart...but can sometimes be HARD ON ME...If you know what i mean...But the funny thing is she has not seen the guy in like 4 months...mysteriously there plans always get cancelled...What do you think of that?

I'm a girl...but, I know that feeling!!! Fuck em and leave em for awhile...but, that gets old and doesn't help the hurt feelings!!! Closure.....if you can have it!!!

fatal attraction

what would you do if you were reversed in my situation

Is she just trying to make you worry and/or piss you off. Girls who play games are bad news:(

she says over and over , She wants a guy who is secure and confident, which i am all those things...i just stress out about certain situations

I will get over it and move on eventually

:thumbsup Very true!!!!!!

Don't blame you at all, I'm the same way. I hate it, but I am

what if in your heart this girl is the one for you...and all she wants is for me to stop asking questions about the guy and not stress about her having guy friends...and everything will be fine...and we wont fight about it..What if this girl is really the girl of your dreams

I got nothing.

Hate to sound cheesy, but do what your heart says, man that does sound very cliche

i know..it is probably the toughest situation i have ever been on in my life...i know probably 99.9 percent of the time i have nothing to worry about...i dont want this girl to run from me...and i am just lost...and she wont show me the way

well,you really have to stop your girl to see the guy! don't even let her talk to him over the phone coz you dunno what they are talking about! im not being selfish here,but i think that is just the right thing! have you ask her the reason why she wanna see the guy?except for the fact that they are just friends?duh!

I know...but when i ask her she gets mad...she wants me to be secure...i am but not...its hard to explain...i trust her but i dont...i love her , and want to always believe that her heart is right here at home with me...Oh did i leave out the fact that we live together...

Kick to the curb and start looking for my next great conquest.

I'm married, but I always have a backup plan. Just in case.

Move on already :321GFY

i got your point there! you really love the girl that's why you can't blame yourself for what you're feeling right now! just do what you think is right! she's a very lucky girl!:)

what if you dont want to kick to the curb...be serious...i know its easy to say when its not happening to you but what would you reallly do

she is luckier than you can ever imagine...did i leave out she doesnt even have to work...

I'd wish them both the best and be thankful I didn't end up with him

I was thinking that too. She really is a lucky girl. Many guys would have kicked her to the curb already. But maybe that is what she needs. I just think that what she is doing to you (and she knows what she is doing to you) is just wrong. I would hate to be in your position. I sort of have, but I haven't been that deep in love at the time.

:thumbsup Sounds cold....but, that's the way it is!!!! People deal with things in different ways. Find your way to deal with it!! It might take along time.....but, when you don't have a choice, that's the way it fucking is!!!!

I actually tried to have a conversation with him once around valentines day this year...we were leaving to go away and he had sent flowers to her for valentines day..granted she probably hadnt told him that her and i had gotten back together..but he was a complete ass, she needs to be firm and not let him pursue her...

go clubbing ;)

Its Ice Cold in here...come on already..i need some real advice on how to really get through to her without pissing her off...

that already happened to me before! what i did? i let them go eventhough it's really painful! it's really hard to trust again after that kind of situation!

Not to change the subject by the way has anyone read this article about Online Pharmacies?

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she's fucking him.

I know it is the hardest thing in the world...Sometimes i really feel like i hate her for fucking this guy.....But I love her...more than anything...I know i might sound a little pathetic...but...its hard

BigFrog
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Originally posted by jewcash
I know...but when i ask her she gets mad...
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she's fucking him.



How she has not seen him in 4 months...and thats a fact..i know this...so now what...he is a drive by fuck? but everytime i know she is supposed to see him...I feel like they could fuck...its a shitty feeling

Ouch!!!!! That's a bit much!!!!
Yes....she needs to tell him the way it is! And you shouldn't have a problem telling her to do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she doesn't like it, too the fuck bad, stand up for yourself! You deserve better

jewcash.. would you mind if I asked you how old you are?

I'm asking you this because you strike me as a fairly young person

lol
dude, you guys live together and are in a relationship with each other. she wants to have a relationship with the last person she fucked and wants you to be ok with it and gets angry when you have a problem with it. she's fucking him. and if not at the moment, that's what she's going to do.
sorry

open your eyes and move on.

yeah! i definitely agree with you! what the hell she thinks? that the guy isn't affected for what she's doing? duh!

i like your insights. and i agree coz yes, it's really hard to deal with that kind of situation.. thanks

see! think about it man! the guy knows that the girl has a boyfriend! what will be the reason why she sent your girlfriend flowers? come on! this sounds bad! if the're just really friends,he'll understand why they need to avoid each other!

How do i tell her in a way that we wont fight? be honest spell it out...and by the way i am over 30