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Kard63 · 08-09-2004, 04:29 AM

leave her

TheMob · 08-09-2004, 04:31 AM

just tell her oyu need a break

cayne · 08-09-2004, 05:12 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
1.) shes not getting it from anywhere else

2.) shes just not horny.

How long would you stick around.

Some girls are simply not horny, and don't need sex at all. Nothing for me...

Firehorse · 08-09-2004, 02:22 PM

Sit down and talk to her!

ChumpChange · 08-09-2004, 02:25 PM

dude she';s fucking someone else

Raf1 · 08-09-2004, 02:28 PM

The first thought I had was that she's fucking someone else. The second is she's bored with you. It's hard to say. It would be best if you talked to her about this...

Sexzity · 08-09-2004, 02:31 PM

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Originally posted by cayne
Some girls are simply not horny, and don't need sex at all. Nothing for me...

It could be that the birth-control pills that she takes are cousing it.
Ask you gf to talk with her doctor about it.

MrDollar · 08-09-2004, 02:32 PM

i think you got the wrong place to ask, but if i where you and em deeply inlove, well i just have to make some nice move..

freeadultcontent · 08-09-2004, 02:53 PM

1. Maybe medication, many from the pill, mild anti-depresants, and even herbal stuff kills libedo.
2. You have let the fire dwindle to a small spark. You are in your 3 year area and if you do not make her feel special, do romantic jesters, or have slowed down on the initial spontanaity or mushy stuff. She very well is just not in that mood much anymore.
3. It is damn hot, find out if she just is not a summer/heat person.
4. She could be feeling non sexy, or undesirable (see 2)
5. Find out if anything is bothering her or whatever.
6. After that long, she may see this as not serious if she is still just the GF. She may have been hoping for marriage, engagement etc.
7. Possibly you are not filling her needs, rarely is this sexual though and is ussually emotional.
8. Talk with her, you are in a long term relationship.
9. Do not go talking about your love life to strangers, never know who is watching.
10. Take little to no addvice from GFY.

NoCarrier · 08-09-2004, 02:57 PM

Your couple is experiencing severe communication issues if your only hope is getting an advice on GFY about your problem.

Tell her how you feel about the situation. There is no other way.

Eric · 08-09-2004, 03:08 PM

have you tried playing a little hard to get? Yeah so what you have been together for a few years. Pull away a little bit. Go out with the boys a little more. Try going down on her in the middle of the afternoon for a little lunch snack and then walk away and leave and go somewhere. Sometimes women can feel like they are just getting groped all the time. Not saying you are all over her. But if you are always trying to get it it will just make her push you away more. Try fliping the situation on her and make her want it.

pxxx · 08-09-2004, 03:31 PM

Dude ,if i was u i would go out hunting for some hot ass girls.

Syl · 08-09-2004, 04:18 PM

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Originally posted by Pleasurepays
she does not like you. what is so hard to understand about that?

As harsh as this sounds it may be true. I know my ex complained that I never had sex w/ him. We were together for 6 yrs and you know why I never had sex with him? I didn't like him that's why. He ended up cheating on me. Oh well. Better luck to you.

MiSsBeHeaDReSs · 08-09-2004, 04:26 PM

When was the last time you told her she was beautiful and you loved her?
That might be the problem.

SirSmokeALot · 08-09-2004, 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by MuleScrote
Birth control change? When my wife went on the shot, her snatch shut tight as a clam and she didn't want anything to do with me...she also had bad mood swings and would snap at everyone. Took us almost a year to figure out the obvious and things have been much better since.

Now you know too much and you must die.

Samething with an ex of mine. She not only lost her sex drive she started to gain wieght. She got the sex drive back but took her forever to lose the wieght. They siad it was common.

MuleScrote · 08-09-2004, 07:16 PM

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Originally posted by Mikey_219Inc
tight as a clam

whats up Scrote!?

yea you and your wife seemed tuckered from humpin when i met ya in orlando ... of course that was just my assumption. Was nice to meet ya both regardless.

anyhow (to the other guy) one way or another, the chick doesnt want it - you gotta find out why without annoying her. does she react differently to touching, hugging, kissing, or only fucking?

dont kid yourself women are slobs just like us - i would guess 75% or more of the time she's not fulfilled in one way or the other and getting it elsewhere - but this may not be the case for you - does she (really) come when you have sex? are you sure?

if you get a girl off - unless she has something like scrote said (medication) or is pissed at you for some reason, shes gonna fuck you. shes gonna NEED to get off.

A lot of girls dont show it on the outside, but they want to be manhandled, thrown down, hair pulled, banged into oblivion. Are you giving her what she really wants?

but you cant just start trying new shit - you gotta have communication (hey baby i feel like pulling your pants down around your knees, putting your face in that pillow and eating your ass till your pussy is so wet then im gonna pound you like veal until you chew holes through the pillow) ...

you and her gotta talk buddy - thats what i'd do. when she's ready. if she's not ready to talk about it and you get sick of it - new gf time.

What up Mikey!!

I would have stayed up later last night if I would have known you were gonna show up.

We were back to our daily humping selves by the time we went to Orlando, we've just never been all huggy-kissy and all that shit. She doesn't need my affection in public to show others that she is loved...like some ladies do.

Ar3s · 08-09-2004, 07:22 PM

be nice with her...
do something nice to her...
start kiss her.. when your alone etc.. then i hope you will get some

thediablo · 08-09-2004, 07:24 PM

u should asked this shit u posted to her instead of all these ppl...

u are feeling unsecure, just ask her wtf!

thats all, comunication is the shit!

mailman · 08-09-2004, 07:24 PM

is it possible its not you and its her?

mabey she is not comfortable with herself?

mabey she thinks shes fat, it could many things.

either way if shes just a girl and sex matters a lot to you find a new one.. but if she is someone you love or at least right now you think you love .. try working it out.. just get the question out there talk to her.. im sure she will tell you whats up!

Oberon · 08-09-2004, 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
I wasn't asking to break down my realtionship, because obviously you dont know me or her, and have no fucking clue what the fuck you are talking about. So I was asking what would you do.

Women who aren't happy aren't horny.

Women who aren't into you anymore don't want it with you, usually.

Women who have chemical mbalances for one reason or another don't want it, period.

But if you don't FUCKING ASK, you'll be miserable and never know which it is. Get the info, figure out a response, deal with it.

Simple simple.

bringer · 08-09-2004, 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
stopped putting out. I'm 24, and I've been with her for 3 years, and I get it about once a month if I'm lucky. Shes 21. What would you do?

maybe she's getting her fill someplace else
dump her and get a real doll

psyko514 · 08-09-2004, 08:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
stopped putting out. I'm 24, and I've been with her for 3 years, and I get it about once a month if I'm lucky. Shes 21. What would you do?

it's a phase. deal with it for a few weeks and she'll want you more than ever.

n3in · 08-09-2004, 08:52 PM

i think you should talk to her about it and see whats up

tyler86ed · 08-09-2004, 08:55 PM

I've talked to her many times about this. She feels real bad about the whole situation.

I tell her how hot she is every day and how much I lov her. She is on BC and some anti depressants but she was on all that shit when we started dating.

I'm going to try the reverse shit..just wait for her.. But I have a bad feeling I'll be not getting any for a few months.lol

bringer · 08-09-2004, 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
I've talked to her many times about this. She feels real bad about the whole situation.

I tell her how hot she is every day and how much I lov her. She is on BC and some anti depressants but she was on all that shit when we started dating.

I'm going to try the reverse shit..just wait for her.. But I have a bad feeling I'll be not getting any for a few months.lol

she gain weight recently?

tyler86ed · 08-09-2004, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bringer
she gain weight recently?

Nothing serious.. maybe up and down 5-10lbs..but shes still hot as ever.

n3in · 08-09-2004, 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
Nothing serious.. maybe up and down 5-10lbs..but shes still hot as ever.

post pics

tyler86ed · 08-09-2004, 09:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by n3in
post pics

yeah, i don't think so.

bringer · 08-09-2004, 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
Nothing serious.. maybe up and down 5-10lbs..but shes still hot as ever.

5-10 is alot for some women
that with the meds shes on is probably making her confidence go down the toilet

cool1 · 08-09-2004, 09:17 PM

Marry her and all will be well

Vitasoy · 08-09-2004, 09:29 PM

Since shes hot as hell keep her on the side and hit the clubs

jonesy · 08-09-2004, 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
stopped putting out. I'm 24, and I've been with her for 3 years, and I get it about once a month if I'm lucky. Shes 21. What would you do?

this is an old scenerio as the day is long and the odds are 90% that

shes fucking someone else

find a new girl

phogirl69 · 08-09-2004, 10:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
I'm going to try the reverse shit..just wait for her.. But I have a bad feeling I'll be not getting any for a few months.lol

Wow you're a nice guy, or maybe I've been dating the wrong ones... But with my ex, if I did't put out he would have told me "what kind of a girlfriend are you? If I don't get it from you I'll go somewhere else..." and he would have told it straight to my face... And not to be conceited but I'm pretty hot as well, so that's not a problem there... And that's if I just don't feel like messing around on ONE occasion, let alone for months... After a few weeks I'm pretty sure he would have gone to a hooker or fucked someone else by now...

SHOCKING to know there are actually nice guys out there...

Nader · 08-09-2004, 10:20 PM

It will only get worse! Good Luck

stev0 · 08-09-2004, 10:21 PM

She has a low sex drive... it's very common. So what? It doesnt mean she's out getting it somewhere else...

If it's a problem, there's medication she could get. It's like viagra, but for girls.

tyler86ed · 08-09-2004, 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by phogirl69
Wow you're a nice guy, or maybe I've been dating the wrong ones... But with my ex, if I did't put out he would have told me "what kind of a girlfriend are you? If I don't get it from you I'll go somewhere else..." and he would have told it straight to my face... And not to be conceited but I'm pretty hot as well, so that's not a problem there... And that's if I just don't feel like messing around on ONE occasion, let alone for months... After a few weeks I'm pretty sure he would have gone to a hooker or fucked someone else by now...

SHOCKING to know there are actually nice guys out there...

Heh, thats what love does...If it was any other girl I'd be gone.

contentjunky · 08-10-2004, 12:02 AM

Kick her to the curb man. Cut your losses before you get stuck in a situation you cant fix anymore. Bail the fuck out. Your too young to be in a relationship anyways. Fuck everything that moves and get that out of your system. The best sex you will ever get is in the first 3 months of the so called relationship. Then it just slowly dies out and gets burst of energy here and there. Do you really want to be stuck with somebody thats not into you for the rest of your FUCKING LIFE? Dont get stuck man.

Satisfaction · 08-10-2004, 12:28 AM

yeh thats tough man, i feel for ya.. stev0 knows the score..

fr8 · 08-10-2004, 12:32 AM

That would suck. Buy her a diamond ring. She will drop and give you head.

Rochard · 08-10-2004, 01:15 AM

I would kick her to curb.

QUICKLY.

Mishi · 08-10-2004, 02:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by tyler86ed
I've talked to her many times about this. She feels real bad about the whole situation.

I tell her how hot she is every day and how much I lov her. She is on BC and some anti depressants but she was on all that shit when we started dating.

I'm going to try the reverse shit..just wait for her.. But I have a bad feeling I'll be not getting any for a few months.lol

Boardersweeties and Oberon have both made some good points. I'm sure some other folks have as well, but I was getting tired of wading through the bullshit.

First off, ignore the idiots who tell you she's cheating. Women don't lost interest after they cheat, they cheat after they lose interest. And if you are still communicating with her (as it sounds like you are) that's probably not an issue.

Anti-depressants can wreak havoc on your sex life. If possible, both of you go to her doctor together and discuss the possibility that's the problem.

If she's had a weight gain or loss - no matter how minor it may seem to you, and no matter what you say to her - it may leave her feeling unnatractive. You're a gem to love her no matter what her weight; it doesn't change how she feels about herself.

She may just be tired or simply in a funk. It happens. It may pass on its own, or it may take work on the part of both of you. In that case it depends on what you both are willing to put into it.

But don't for one second assume that she isn't into you, or that she's doing someone else. That's just stupid. It's when she wants to do you every five seconds that you need to wonder if she's getting some on the side.

Just kidding.

Mostly.

tina2 · 08-10-2004, 02:35 AM

maybe shes having a bad time...

dodger21 · 08-10-2004, 08:25 AM

She's cheating. Her heart is with someone else. She can't muster up her conscience to be with someone else, but has to at least do something with you so you don't catch on.

blazin · 08-10-2004, 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by dodger21
She's cheating. Her heart is with someone else. She can't muster up her conscience to be with someone else, but has to at least do something with you so you don't catch on.

Most likely explanation.

Sorry

Tera · 08-10-2004, 09:03 AM

Do you beg for it all the time, that is the most unattractive thing a man can do. Act like it's no big deal, go on about your life, and soon enough she'll be wondering the same thing you are, and go after you. Don't be so easy.

If that doesn't work, she hates you.

pxxx · 08-10-2004, 09:17 AM

Or you can sit her down and talk to her about it.

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