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1. Maybe medication, many from the pill, mild anti-depresants, and even herbal stuff kills libedo.
2. You have let the fire dwindle to a small spark. You are in your 3 year area and if you do not make her feel special, do romantic jesters, or have slowed down on the initial spontanaity or mushy stuff. She very well is just not in that mood much anymore.
3. It is damn hot, find out if she just is not a summer/heat person.
4. She could be feeling non sexy, or undesirable (see 2)
5. Find out if anything is bothering her or whatever.
6. After that long, she may see this as not serious if she is still just the GF. She may have been hoping for marriage, engagement etc.
7. Possibly you are not filling her needs, rarely is this sexual though and is ussually emotional.
8. Talk with her, you are in a long term relationship.
9. Do not go talking about your love life to strangers, never know who is watching.
10. Take little to no addvice from GFY.
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