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SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 01:12 AM

Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings

Well, before tonight I havn't seen my girl in over a week. We had plans to go out Saturday during the day and when I called her I didn't get an answer. Turns out she went out without me. I've been looking forward to this day all week and she said she "forgot". The forgetting part doesn't seem like a big deal, but it hurts. I guess the fact that she wasn't looking forward to it as much as I was.

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.

anyways there's my rant.

Holly · 06-20-2004, 01:17 AM

I'll tell you this much... if you start another one, you damn sure better keep it updated, since we've had to watch people bump that other one for 2 freakin weeks, begging for news, like a bunch of soap opera addicted housewives.

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 01:21 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
I'll tell you this much... if you start another one, you damn sure better keep it updated, since we've had to watch people bump that other one for 2 freakin weeks, begging for news, like a bunch of soap opera addicted housewives.

I have a feeling I shouldn't have started this thread now. I'm dead tired and probably missed something. lol.

AaronM · 06-20-2004, 01:24 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.

I used to have a girl like that.

Her restraining order expires in about 3 months.

Holly · 06-20-2004, 01:26 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I have a feeling I shouldn't have started this thread now. I'm dead tired and probably missed something. lol.

No, it's my fault. I thought you were that guy that had the girlfriend that left him to fuck some other dude. I can't remember the story but it's that long ass thread that everyone keeps bumping, begging him to update it.

You can start a new one. Just keep it updated if you get them hooked.

fucking_remco · 06-20-2004, 01:27 AM

The love of your life and she "just" forgets about u?? No chit, time to seek for another "love of your life"

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 01:28 AM

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Originally posted by Holly

No, it's my fault. I thought you were that guy that had the girlfriend that left him to fuck some other dude. I can't remember the story but it's that long ass thread that everyone keeps bumping, begging him to update it.

You can start a new one. Just keep it updated if you get them hooked.

I'm the hopeless romantic guy that does everything and anything for my girl and always ends up heartbroken in the end

AaronM · 06-20-2004, 01:28 AM

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Originally posted by fucking_remco
The love of your life and she "just" forgets about u?? No chit, time to seek for another "love of your life"

What he said.

Elli · 06-20-2004, 01:29 AM

Sometimes people with looser schedules don't understand how important it is to keep appointments. My best friend has 1 day off a week, but her bf has three days off. So she gets PISSED when he forgets Sunday is "their day," but it does happen. If it's a chronic thing, I'd say she's not making enough time for you. If it's a one time thing, hey, mistakes happen.

Holly · 06-20-2004, 01:30 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I'm the hopeless romantic guy that does everything and anything for my girl and always ends up heartbroken in the end

Sounds like you need a new girl, then. ;-}

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by fucking_remco
The love of your life and she "just" forgets about u?? No chit, time to seek for another "love of your life"

People tell me this. Usually they're other girls and I figure they have bias opinions because they want to crush the competition, lol. I guess other people don't see her like i do.

Manowar · 06-20-2004, 01:33 AM

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Originally posted by AaronM
I used to have a girl like that.

Her restraining order expires in about 3 months.

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 01:35 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
Sometimes people with looser schedules don't understand how important it is to keep appointments. My best friend has 1 day off a week, but her bf has three days off. So she gets PISSED when he forgets Sunday is "their day," but it does happen. If it's a chronic thing, I'd say she's not making enough time for you. If it's a one time thing, hey, mistakes happen.

Well one reason being she had a hair salon appointment that she forgot about when we made plans, lol... but it would have been common courtesy to at least give me a call to tell me that instead of having my mind occupied with thoughts wondering where the hell she is. It's happened before with little things like not calling when she says she will etc. which I don't usually make a huge deal out of.

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 01:41 AM

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Originally posted by Holly
Sounds like you need a new girl, then. ;-}

I don't want another girl. I'm soooo picky when it comes to dating someone. It's been 2 years since my last relationship. It's not like I can't get a date or anything, in fact over the years I have rejected COUNTLESS girls. I've gained a lot of popularity from when I used to perform stand up comedy, hehe. I put a lot of effort into this relationship and I really want it to work out.

06-20-2004, 03:38 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I don't want another girl. I'm soooo picky when it comes to dating someone. It's been 2 years since my last relationship. It's not like I can't get a date or anything, in fact over the years I have rejected COUNTLESS girls. I've gained a lot of popularity from when I used to perform stand up comedy, hehe. I put a lot of effort into this relationship and I really want it to work out.

Dump her.

hova · 06-20-2004, 03:46 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I don't want another girl. I'm soooo picky when it comes to dating someone. It's been 2 years since my last relationship. It's not like I can't get a date or anything, in fact over the years I have rejected COUNTLESS girls. I've gained a lot of popularity from when I used to perform stand up comedy, hehe. I put a lot of effort into this relationship and I really want it to work out.

If she doesnt give you back what you give her.......you are in a relationship thats bad for you. If she forgets you, and you would drop everything to spend 5 minutes with her, there has to be something wrong.

TiGrrPrr · 06-20-2004, 03:53 AM

Forgotten on a Saturday, I hear ya

Make next weekend for yourself look like this

JOP · 06-20-2004, 03:59 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings

Well, before tonight I havn't seen my girl in over a week. We had plans to go out Saturday during the day and when I called her I didn't get an answer. Turns out she went out without me. I've been looking forward to this day all week and she said she "forgot". The forgetting part doesn't seem like a big deal, but it hurts. I guess the fact that she wasn't looking forward to it as much as I was.

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.

anyways there's my rant.

How old are you?

lazzlo · 06-20-2004, 04:00 AM

Make a big date with her, something she really wants to do. 5000 doller shopping spree at zaks followed by some romance or whatever she digs, then go out with the boys that night instead, and if she is a hottie and you have her, then you should have no prob getting another, dime a dozen man. then say oops.

Major (Tom) · 06-20-2004, 04:55 AM

forgot = another guy..
move on
ds

slapass · 06-20-2004, 05:06 AM

It is simple. Tell her to call you, when she wants to see you. Unless she is out of work and a total idiot. She did not forget it was Saturday, and she had not seen you for a week.

Time to start shopping for a new love.

strobi · 06-20-2004, 05:41 AM

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Originally posted by DukeSkywalker
forgot = another guy..
move on
ds

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 12:17 PM

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Originally posted by JOP
How old are you?

18. And your dialer rocks!

Spunky · 06-20-2004, 12:19 PM

She didn't forget...she just didn't want to be with you...dump her and move on

kmanrox · 06-20-2004, 12:48 PM

grow the fuck up and be a man...

MiSsBeHeaDReSs · 06-20-2004, 01:00 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
I'm the hopeless romantic guy that does everything and anything for my girl and always ends up heartbroken in the end

Kmanrox is right, mushy, wishy washy, lovey dovey bullshit would get you nowhere with me...its probably why she's ignoring you. Try not calling her for a while and see what happens. She'll be on your nuts in a heartbeat.

BradM · 06-20-2004, 01:05 PM

She doesn't give a shit about you. Get over it.

ThunderBalls · 06-20-2004, 02:00 PM

Give the guy a break. I suspect a lot of you are in this industry because you couldnt get a woman to fuck you let alone love you.

187 · 06-20-2004, 02:06 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings

there's your first mistake

Kimmykim · 06-20-2004, 02:11 PM

Sounds to me like either your girl has no concept of common courtesy and respect, or she's not as much your girl as you think she is.

If it's the first of the two, you can either accept it or get rid of her because she won't change.

If it's the second, I'd be wary of how much emotion you invest in the relationship and I'd give her a dose of space to see if she comes "chasing" after you...

Jill_J · 06-20-2004, 03:34 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings

Well, before tonight I havn't seen my girl in over a week. We had plans to go out Saturday during the day and when I called her I didn't get an answer. Turns out she went out without me. I've been looking forward to this day all week and she said she "forgot". The forgetting part doesn't seem like a big deal, but it hurts. I guess the fact that she wasn't looking forward to it as much as I was.

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.

anyways there's my rant.

I know that the truth hurt but I`m going to say the thruth - if she says that she "forgot" about the date that`s mean that she doesn`t love you... Enloved woman will never forget about the date.

tranza · 06-20-2004, 04:04 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings

Well, before tonight I havn't seen my girl in over a week. We had plans to go out Saturday during the day and when I called her I didn't get an answer. Turns out she went out without me. I've been looking forward to this day all week and she said she "forgot". The forgetting part doesn't seem like a big deal, but it hurts. I guess the fact that she wasn't looking forward to it as much as I was.

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.

anyways there's my rant.

I feel your pain....

BradM · 06-20-2004, 04:07 PM

Just a reminder that I hate uncaring bitches that treat you like shit and hang you by a thread and constantly flake out - forget about dates and then don't talk to you for 6 months until they need a ride up the island because they have no other way to get drugs.

God I hate some bitches.

digi · 06-20-2004, 04:12 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.
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Here is your mistake. Since you do anything for her like a lil puppy she thinks she can treat you any way she likes and get away with it. Loving her is fine, but dont rearrange your life just to suit her.. a needy person is a very unattractive.

SuckOnThis · 06-20-2004, 04:40 PM

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Originally posted by BradM
Just a reminder that I hate uncaring bitches that treat you like shit and hang you by a thread and constantly flake out - forget about dates and then don't talk to you for 6 months until they need a ride up the island because they have no other way to get drugs.

God I hate some bitches.

Yea no shit. Thats when you take them to an expensive restaurant and when you're done eating tell her you're going to the bathroom and leave her there, without paying of course.

Nysus · 06-20-2004, 04:44 PM

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Originally posted by hova
If she doesnt give you back what you give her.......you are in a relationship thats bad for you. If she forgets you, and you would drop everything to spend 5 minutes with her, there has to be something wrong.

Best wishes bud.

Cheers,
Matt

DWB · 06-20-2004, 05:36 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.
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Bro,
That statement is part of the problem. You have to give a lot man, but you also have to know when to take away and leave them guessing. It keeps them alert and on their toes. If you let them know they have you by the balls, they may walk on you, and you will take it.

The other problem is that she "forgot" about you. If those were her words, walk away now, as painful as it may be... just cut her loose and move on. There are 5 million girls on this planet who will NOT forget about you.

Best of luck playing life's funny little game.

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SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 10:46 PM

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Originally posted by 69pornlinks
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05-29-2004 03:19 AM

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we're not your fucking therapist, but here's a GEM...she don't love you. she's just use to you and i bet my bottom dollare she's fucking on the side, you're too boring and weak for her...cut your losses before you reallly get hurt

Is this not GFY? Where us webmasters come to let loose at the end of a hard days work and just clear our heads. It's actually quite surprising the advice you can get from GFY. Very theraputic for me, lol.

These threads are usually started late at night when I'm all lonely and there's no one to talk to (started this thread at 4:00 am or so last night). Usually just a braindump when I'm up thinking all night. Nothing more. It sometimes helps to get an outside view or perspective on things.

Anyways I agree with a lot of you on the man up thing. I'm making myself sick with all the mushy crap I've come down to pulling. I know the tricks etc. of making them want you, keeping them on their toes etc. I was hoping I wouldn't have to use them in this relationship because I genuinley care about her. I just popped 2 extra strength sleeping pills a little while ago so I don't know if any of this is making sense, lol.

In reply to the don't call her for a while make her call you... I've done that and got bitched out for ignoring her, lol.. actually this very topic was another thread haha. Bitches when I call too much, bitches when I don't call enough. I'm about to get knocked out by these pills so I'm going to bed now.

Good night GFY.

MiSsBeHeaDReSs · 06-20-2004, 10:49 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Is this not GFY? Where us webmasters come to let loose at the end of a hard days work and just clear our heads. It's actually quite surprising the advice you can get from GFY. Very theraputic for me, lol.

These threads are usually started late at night when I'm all lonely and there's no one to talk to (started this thread at 4:00 am or so last night). Usually just a braindump when I'm up thinking all night. Nothing more. It sometimes helps to get an outside view or perspective on things.

Anyways I agree with a lot of you on the man up thing. I'm making myself sick with all the mushy crap I've come down to pulling. I know the tricks etc. of making them want you, keeping them on their toes etc. I was hoping I wouldn't have to use them in this relationship because I genuinley care about her. I just popped 2 extra strength sleeping pills a little while ago so I don't know if any of this is making sense, lol.

In reply to the don't call her for a while make her call you... I've done that and got bitched out for ignoring her, lol.. actually this very topic was another thread haha. Bitches when I call too much, bitches when I don't call enough. I'm about to get knocked out by these pills so I'm going to bed now.

Good night GFY.

Dont love the bitchy girls !

Night night.

HS-Trixxxia · 06-20-2004, 11:05 PM

Mmm....You're either smothering her and she needs some space or she knows she has you by the balls & is taking advantage of it. She wants space, give it to her (don't call her & wait until she bitches you out for not calling her - then say that you needed some time to think things over) The next date you plan & she's looking forward to, call her last minute and tell her you can't make it and make it a quick call with no explanations. She'll be up your ass in no time.

Those are survival of the fittest tactics - I'd seriously analyse what type of girl this is if she bullshits for her mother, she 'forgets' to call, forgets dates......I think she needs to be forgotten & I wouldn't trust her mom for info either.

Just my .02Canadian cents

Shoehorn! · 06-20-2004, 11:09 PM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings

Well, before tonight I havn't seen my girl in over a week. We had plans to go out Saturday during the day and when I called her I didn't get an answer. Turns out she went out without me. I've been looking forward to this day all week and she said she "forgot". The forgetting part doesn't seem like a big deal, but it hurts. I guess the fact that she wasn't looking forward to it as much as I was.

This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her.

anyways there's my rant.

Nothing has made me more happy or more fucking miserable than women.

SmutGiant · 06-20-2004, 11:13 PM

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Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom
Nothing has made me more happy or more fucking miserable than women.

Amen.

06-20-2004, 11:21 PM

bro, you and me, we're the same

I am also very emotional and think too much when it comes to girls

lately, I have a handful of girls I keep going back and forth to just so I can be with the girls and not have so much thought go through my head and such

what happened between you and her could be just a 1-time accident, or the beginning of something bad

if I were you, I wouldn't take it too seriously at all, but be on the lookout to the way she acts with you, does it seem like she cares about you? loves you? wants to be with you?

and then you will see the truth

06-20-2004, 01:12 AM	#1
SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	I'm due for another girlfriend post... Am I making too big a deal out of this?... Warning: This thread contains real emotional feelings Well, before tonight I havn't seen my girl in over a week. We had plans to go out Saturday during the day and when I called her I didn't get an answer. Turns out she went out without me. I've been looking forward to this day all week and she said she "forgot". The forgetting part doesn't seem like a big deal, but it hurts. I guess the fact that she wasn't looking forward to it as much as I was. This girl is the love of my life. I do everything I can for her and would drop anything in a heartbeat to spend 5 min with her. anyways there's my rant.

06-20-2004, 01:17 AM	#2
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06-20-2004, 01:27 AM	#6
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06-20-2004, 05:06 AM	#21
slapass Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Earth Posts: 14,622	It is simple. Tell her to call you, when she wants to see you. Unless she is out of work and a total idiot. She did not forget it was Saturday, and she had not seen you for a week. Time to start shopping for a new love.

06-20-2004, 12:19 PM	#24
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06-20-2004, 01:05 PM	#27
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06-20-2004, 02:00 PM	#28
ThunderBalls So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Mesosphere Posts: 2,926	Give the guy a break. I suspect a lot of you are in this industry because you couldnt get a woman to fuck you let alone love you.

06-20-2004, 02:11 PM	#30
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	Sounds to me like either your girl has no concept of common courtesy and respect, or she's not as much your girl as you think she is. If it's the first of the two, you can either accept it or get rid of her because she won't change. If it's the second, I'd be wary of how much emotion you invest in the relationship and I'd give her a dose of space to see if she comes "chasing" after you...

06-20-2004, 04:07 PM	#33
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	Just a reminder that I hate uncaring bitches that treat you like shit and hang you by a thread and constantly flake out - forget about dates and then don't talk to you for 6 months until they need a ride up the island because they have no other way to get drugs. God I hate some bitches.

06-20-2004, 11:05 PM	#41
HS-Trixxxia Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Canada Posts: 2,946	Mmm....You're either smothering her and she needs some space or she knows she has you by the balls & is taking advantage of it. She wants space, give it to her (don't call her & wait until she bitches you out for not calling her - then say that you needed some time to think things over) The next date you plan & she's looking forward to, call her last minute and tell her you can't make it and make it a quick call with no explanations. She'll be up your ass in no time. Those are survival of the fittest tactics - I'd seriously analyse what type of girl this is if she bullshits for her mother, she 'forgets' to call, forgets dates......I think she needs to be forgotten & I wouldn't trust her mom for info either. Just my .02Canadian cents __________________ ~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~♥~~ Patrizia COO - ♥ MassiveDollars Email: patrizia at MassiveDollars dot com ICQ: 465.826.441 Yahoo: trixxxia_me MSN: trixxxia at hotmail dot com

06-20-2004, 11:21 PM	#44
buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	bro, you and me, we're the same I am also very emotional and think too much when it comes to girls lately, I have a handful of girls I keep going back and forth to just so I can be with the girls and not have so much thought go through my head and such what happened between you and her could be just a 1-time accident, or the beginning of something bad if I were you, I wouldn't take it too seriously at all, but be on the lookout to the way she acts with you, does it seem like she cares about you? loves you? wants to be with you? and then you will see the truth