Yep, exactly! I do consider many people who hang around my site to be friends... I've built up a nice little community over the years :) But it can be easy to get carried away on the business side. I want to be professional enough to be reliable, but not enough so that it in any way detracts from seeing me as "an interesting girl who just happens to get naked for fun".

looking down at my stubby fingers with no nails...no claws here sister.

I was just keeping the drama alive...sorry if you thought I was attacking you.. I wasnt..today is a new day and a good day.

I did think your questions did have a condescending ring to them though.

cheers folks :glugglug

*nods* I finally pay someone to help out with some of the administrative stuff, but I try to keep that hush-hush too. Members are always dying to know what things are like behind the scenes... how much I pay for hosting, how I set up new scripts, or what I'm working on.

There are lots of things you can do to keep that kind of feel... everything from having a subscription rate that ends in .00, to being spontaneous instead of scheduled, to having a lot of info about your life and interests.

No they were not condescending..you just appear riled up and took it that way. I assume you have been on the net a long time and you should have figured out by now the BIGGEST problem with communicating via the printed word is being able to get the tone of your voice etc. across without sound.

I actually got 2 answers to my question...KCat answered my question nicely....super soft and comfy...being comfortable during a show would sound like a big plus to wearing them to me. I am human, and frankly I couldn't figure out why someone would wear them...I got curious...I was not in attack mode....

Stubby fingers could rip out eyeballs just as well as nicely manicured ones can.

P.S. Thanks for answering my question KCat

Steph, I would agree with your reasoning in general, but I figured once wouldn't kill anyone.

Kcat I fully agree with, though I'm not a thong person in my natural state. :winkwink: The top is SO bloody comfy and supports in all the right ways, I'm going to get a lot of use out of it this summer!

Misty, my members have never heard of MissGFY. You want to know why I wore the outfit on cam?

Because I wanted to get some nice freeze frames to post HERE. For all the GFY folks to enjoy. That's it. That's all she wrote. It was just me being friendly.

So piss on you all.

one thing that can be said about me is I am not a nice and sugary sweet kinda gal..I am very rough around the edges.. I am me, I am not K-cat. (arent you lucky K..hehe).

I do understand what a problem it is to communicate across the net and have things you say taken out of context because of what others "think" your tone is. I have been verbally abused by assholes because they thought I said "hi how are you " in a mean way via chatroom..lol.

so I am going to be a "grown up" today (wont my teenagers love that one) and say I am sorry if I offended you. I really enjoy the females on this board ,with very few exceptions, and would hate to ruffle their feathers.

I will keep my true nastiness for the guys that want to bring it on

have a groovy day all :glugglug

ps. I hope Groove wins an prize this week for most page views or somthing..hehe.

Thank you for taking the time to answer me...I never thought of that reason either...so I appreciate the answer...not sure if I appreciate the "piss on you all" but I guess you can't have everything.

Lets hope they don't come up with a surprise "Miss Congeniality" award

Elli, hey, whatever works for you! I was just commenting on what I think is best for me, personally :)

That tank is supercomfy and I can completely understand wanting to get some nice shots to share here. Your sig pic makes me want to bury my face in your cleavage :1orglaugh

I can see the reasoning, but I don't think girls wearing GFY gear on cam is going to somehow be responsible for the downfall of the board. Plus it has been posted that people are encouraged to wear the gear for everyone to see.

I am sorry about that. I am just so tired of everyone jumping down my throat for wearing the outfit and trying to do something nice for people. It wasn't directed at you in particular at all, but I guess it had a bit of a splatter effect. I apologize.

Hallelujah sista! I love that you tell it like it is & will definitely have to buy you a beer next time I'm down your way.

I wouldn't say I'm a sugary sweet kinda gal either, but I've lurked on this board long enough to know I'd rather keep my head down than be in the center of the drama. I'm just a big ol' pussy. :winkwink:

Your screen shots were very cute, by the way... :winkwink:

:thumbsup heh


I mean how do you draw the line here. What if you wear you phat gfy hoodie to a fair or a rock concert.. or any public place for that matter. people will see it and people with check gfy out.. So really the only way to stop it its to either spot promoting gyi with tings like shirts and stuff
Or make it madatory to provide proof of your work in the adult industry when you signup to GFY before you can post:2 cents:

either way.. more fucktards posting merans more fucktards to laugh at:2 cents: