At What Age do Women Find Men 'None-Threatening'? - GoFuckYourself.com

Head · 06-04-2004, 07:45 AM

I'm 37 in a couple of days so if i Start talking to a 18 year girl on the street: will she think i'm trying to 'pick her up'?
Or do i need to be 50 or 60 so this doesn't enter into the girls mind. I like to think i would have a chance at any girl no matter the age. I f i was unattached of course.
Thoughts?

crockett · 06-04-2004, 07:51 AM

if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.

Head · 06-04-2004, 07:52 AM

I just think women always think we guys are always trying to pick them up.

ifny · 06-04-2004, 08:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.

that was great, LOL

Head · 06-04-2004, 08:11 AM

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Originally posted by crockett
if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.

It would be nice if someone with half a brain could reply to this thread.
Firstly: don't call me ugly you troll. You don't know me from a hole in the ground.
Second: Learn grammer ie: 'you're' instead of 'your' and 'an' instead of 'a' before a vowel.

sherie · 06-04-2004, 08:17 AM

With me, since birth lol Unless, you're some crackhead confronting me then I may get a tad bit worried.

Phoenix · 06-04-2004, 08:18 AM

im 30 and have no trouble dating 19 yr old girls

it is all in the approach, and possibly what you look like

emmanuelle · 06-04-2004, 08:20 AM

I dont think they ever stop being threatening, only in different ways. I'm not sure if the changes are due to the men's needs changing as they age, or my perception of them as I age.

crockett · 06-04-2004, 08:22 AM

who said you were ugly? and I'm a troll huh? funny, I came very close to buying Adult Traffic sale when Pete listed it on GFY about 8 months ago for sale, when it was un-launched.

I talked to him about ATS and Adult Monger at the time as well, but he decided to keep them. But who cares I'll Troll away...

Tip...

Women don't like bad attitudes

xxxbruce · 06-04-2004, 08:23 AM

go for it if they dont wona no go for a nother

emmanuelle · 06-04-2004, 08:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Head
It would be nice if someone with half a brain could reply to this thread.
Firstly: don't call me ugly you troll. You don't know me from a hole in the ground.
Second: Learn grammer ie: 'you're' instead of 'your' and 'an' instead of 'a' before a vowel.

Head- I dont think he was calling you ugly at all, he said 'if you are ugly, then...'

Personally I found you rather cute

crockett · 06-04-2004, 08:25 AM

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Originally posted by Head
I f i was unattached of course.
Thoughts?

oh yea and sense you're so up on grammar it's

If I were unattached of course.

Phoenix · 06-04-2004, 08:57 AM

haha i love this thread

m00d · 06-04-2004, 08:58 AM

there is no age

Kamilla36D · 06-04-2004, 08:59 AM

Just had sum 50+ yo trying to pick me up at a puter store the other day

So men as non-threatning doesn't exist lol

Head · 06-04-2004, 09:14 AM

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Originally posted by crockett
if you are ugly, you

That looks like a shot to me. No biggy.
Anyway gfy hasn't had a good pissing match in a couple o days.
It's good to piss every now and again.

Head · 06-04-2004, 09:17 AM

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Originally posted by emmanuelle
Head- I dont think he was calling you ugly at all, he said 'if you are ugly, then...'

Personally I found you rather cute

Thanx Emmanuelle!

Head · 06-04-2004, 09:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
who said you were ugly? and I'm a troll huh? funny, I came very close to buying Adult Traffic sale when Pete listed it on GFY about 8 months ago for sale, when it was un-launched.

I talked to him about ATS and Adult Monger at the time as well, but he decided to keep them. But who cares I'll Troll away...

Tip...

Women don't like bad attitudes

Yup i own half of ATS now

crockett · 06-04-2004, 10:36 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Head
That looks like a shot to me. No biggy.
Anyway gfy hasn't had a good pissing match in a couple o days.
It's good to piss every now and again.

na man, wasn't taking a shot at you just making a funny.. I try to stay away from pissing matches on these boards, not good for future business.

BTW I bought traffic a few times from Pete through ATS at that time he could send around 4-5k a day. Can you guys do 10k a day yet?

sinkiss · 06-04-2004, 10:42 AM

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Originally posted by emmanuelle
I dont think they ever stop being threatening, only in different ways. I'm not sure if the changes are due to the men's needs changing as they age, or my perception of them as I age.

nicely put, i agree

bdld · 06-04-2004, 10:42 AM

about 6 months after theyre dead.

Doctor Dre · 06-04-2004, 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.

rofl so fucking true ... :P

Trixie · 06-04-2004, 10:52 AM

I forget what the exact stats are, but women have thoughts/concerns about securing their personal safety with the same frequency that men have thoughts about sex. What women find threatening is the constant possibility that they could be raped, murdered, stalked, etc. and the truth is, if a woman ISN'T at least a little worried about that when a stranger approaches her, she has her fucking head up her ass. About half of the rapes in the US never even lead to an ARREST, let alone locking the guy up. I don't think there's an age where men ever come across as nonthreatening - it's totally a matter of context. Frankly, if a guy approaches a girl 25 years younger than him, it would immediately worry me that he's got poor judgement and is totally out of touch with reality. Sad, but true.

Head · 06-04-2004, 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
na man, wasn't taking a shot at you just making a funny.. I try to stay away from pissing matches on these boards, not good for future business.

BTW I bought traffic a few times from Pete through ATS at that time he could send around 4-5k a day. Can you guys do 10k a day yet?

Ya I realize that now. Ya we can 10k easy.

susanna · 06-04-2004, 02:25 PM

when you are old enough to spell

non

Women will always think of you as threatening. Our first 2 second glance at anyone is to assess danger. If you have a demeaner that seems to put women off check if you make agressive moves. Determine if you stand too close or say agressive things to get their attention. If you are a non-threatening person they would feel that eminating from you in the first few minutes.

If your post was really to ask "if you would have a chance at any girl no matter what age you are" that is a different story. If you are an old geeser (over 40 if a gal is in her 20's) you have no chance. If you are clean and cute and over 40 and look like you might have money, you will find girls after your money who will adore you.

So the answer is, NO you dont have a chance at any girl. What ever "chance" means.

susanna · 06-04-2004, 02:28 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie
I forget what the exact stats are, but women have thoughts/concerns about securing their personal safety with the same frequency that men have thoughts about sex. What women find threatening is the constant possibility that they could be raped, murdered, stalked, etc. and the truth is, if a woman ISN'T at least a little worried about that when a stranger approaches her, she has her fucking head up her ass. About half of the rapes in the US never even lead to an ARREST, let alone locking the guy up. I don't think there's an age where men ever come across as nonthreatening - it's totally a matter of context. Frankly, if a guy approaches a girl 25 years younger than him, it would immediately worry me that he's got poor judgement and is totally out of touch with reality. Sad, but true.

Too funny....the reason women think of their safety every two minutes is because men think of their cock every two minutes.

Elli · 06-04-2004, 02:34 PM

Trixie, you think too much for GFY. You and I should go start a board somewhere together and invite KCat and some other smart people.

As for the question, I don't think it's an age thing. It's more of an attitude or "feeling" the guy gives off. Like Trixie said, it's a mixture of body language, mannerisms, type of humour, eye contact, and things like that.

For instance, if a woman is sitting on an otherwise empty bus stop bench, she will most likely sit on an end, not in the middle. A guy coming up SHOULD sit on the other end, but if he's pushy, he'll sit in the middle, next to her. That's just creepy and very threatening. So it's things like that.

Arousal Design · 06-04-2004, 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.

this made me laugh out loud and brought me minutes and minutes of enjoyment. thank you.

emmanuelle · 06-04-2004, 02:55 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
Trixie, you think too much for GFY. You and I should go start a board somewhere together and invite KCat and some other smart people.

I dont mean to hijack the thread, but Ellie- I recently came across your sister's site- wow- she's a hottie!

Mr. Marks · 06-04-2004, 09:25 PM

men take on a threatening pose because its patterned in our genes. the more threatening, the better, to be able to protect the family and the offsprings.

ever notice that an old, male dog constantly piss everywhere? matter of fact is, hes marking his territory coz hes gettin old.

we do that, too. subconsciously and figuratively or otherwise.

so no, unless were carrying three children who are hanging on to us, women will always find us threatening.

in so many ways, women are, too. even worst than men, coz they are more subtle than we could ever hope to be.

emmanuelle · 06-04-2004, 10:17 PM

I find men threatening in a different way lately. As I value my independence more & more, men in my dating pool are at an age where they're often looking to settle down. I find them needy and smothering, thus threatening the lifestyle that I enjoy very much.
Funny how as men age, they want commitment; while at the same time that women start to value their space and independence.

the Shemp · 06-04-2004, 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kamilla36D
Just had sum 50+ yo trying to pick me up at a puter store the other day
So men as non-threatning doesn't exist lol

sorry Kamilla, i thought you recognized me....

pimplink · 06-04-2004, 10:38 PM

I think women almost always find men threatening...it's not always true that if you look like Brat Pitt they won't think you're threatening anymore. I mean, sometimes it works the other way around, like they would think you are threatening because you are hot..kinda make them feel that you are using your good looks to take advantage of them.

Now if you are ugly, they would think you are assuming and be threatened and annoyed.

Don't you just feel that with women, it's almost always a no-win situation?

06-04-2004, 07:45 AM	#1
Head Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Starship Enterprise Posts: 8,278	At What Age do Women Find Men 'None-Threatening'? I'm 37 in a couple of days so if i Start talking to a 18 year girl on the street: will she think i'm trying to 'pick her up'? Or do i need to be 50 or 60 so this doesn't enter into the girls mind. I like to think i would have a chance at any girl no matter the age. I f i was unattached of course. Thoughts? __________________

06-04-2004, 07:51 AM	#2
crockett in a van by the river Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 76,818	if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for. __________________ In November, you can vote for America's next president or its first dictator.

06-04-2004, 07:52 AM	#3
Head Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Starship Enterprise Posts: 8,278	I just think women always think we guys are always trying to pick them up. __________________ Last edited by Head; 06-04-2004 at 07:54 AM..

06-04-2004, 08:17 AM	#6
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06-04-2004, 08:18 AM	#7
Phoenix BACON BACON BACON Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Poems everybody, the laddie fancies himself a poet Posts: 35,469	im 30 and have no trouble dating 19 yr old girls it is all in the approach, and possibly what you look like __________________ Skype Phoenixskype1 Telegram PhoenixBrad https://quantads.io

06-04-2004, 08:20 AM	#8
emmanuelle Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Oh Canada! Posts: 3,662	I dont think they ever stop being threatening, only in different ways. I'm not sure if the changes are due to the men's needs changing as they age, or my perception of them as I age.

06-04-2004, 08:22 AM	#9
crockett in a van by the river Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 76,818	who said you were ugly? and I'm a troll huh? funny, I came very close to buying Adult Traffic sale when Pete listed it on GFY about 8 months ago for sale, when it was un-launched. I talked to him about ATS and Adult Monger at the time as well, but he decided to keep them. But who cares I'll Troll away... Tip... Women don't like bad attitudes __________________ In November, you can vote for America's next president or its first dictator. Last edited by crockett; 06-04-2004 at 08:25 AM..

06-04-2004, 08:23 AM	#10
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06-04-2004, 08:57 AM	#13
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06-04-2004, 08:58 AM	#14
m00d So Fucking Banned Join Date: May 2002 Location: Parts Unknown Posts: 3,129	there is no age

06-04-2004, 08:59 AM	#15
Kamilla36D Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: YourSearchNow.com - Search Me! ;-) Posts: 605	Just had sum 50+ yo trying to pick me up at a puter store the other day So men as non-threatning doesn't exist lol __________________ YourSearchNow.com Advertise 1c/click - 60% affiliate program - unique exit link program ClickForWebmasters.com Amateur niche toplists, PicPost and Resource

06-04-2004, 10:42 AM	#21
bdld $100,000 Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 11,452	about 6 months after theyre dead.

06-04-2004, 10:52 AM	#23
Trixie Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: near Seattle, WA Posts: 1,850	I forget what the exact stats are, but women have thoughts/concerns about securing their personal safety with the same frequency that men have thoughts about sex. What women find threatening is the constant possibility that they could be raped, murdered, stalked, etc. and the truth is, if a woman ISN'T at least a little worried about that when a stranger approaches her, she has her fucking head up her ass. About half of the rapes in the US never even lead to an ARREST, let alone locking the guy up. I don't think there's an age where men ever come across as nonthreatening - it's totally a matter of context. Frankly, if a guy approaches a girl 25 years younger than him, it would immediately worry me that he's got poor judgement and is totally out of touch with reality. Sad, but true. __________________ WebWhoreBucks: Girls, a guy and a tranny -- unique indie porn!

06-04-2004, 02:25 PM	#25
susanna Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 81	when you are old enough to spell non Women will always think of you as threatening. Our first 2 second glance at anyone is to assess danger. If you have a demeaner that seems to put women off check if you make agressive moves. Determine if you stand too close or say agressive things to get their attention. If you are a non-threatening person they would feel that eminating from you in the first few minutes. If your post was really to ask "if you would have a chance at any girl no matter what age you are" that is a different story. If you are an old geeser (over 40 if a gal is in her 20's) you have no chance. If you are clean and cute and over 40 and look like you might have money, you will find girls after your money who will adore you. So the answer is, NO you dont have a chance at any girl. What ever "chance" means. __________________ Susanna

06-04-2004, 02:34 PM	#27
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	Trixie, you think too much for GFY. You and I should go start a board somewhere together and invite KCat and some other smart people. As for the question, I don't think it's an age thing. It's more of an attitude or "feeling" the guy gives off. Like Trixie said, it's a mixture of body language, mannerisms, type of humour, eye contact, and things like that. For instance, if a woman is sitting on an otherwise empty bus stop bench, she will most likely sit on an end, not in the middle. A guy coming up SHOULD sit on the other end, but if he's pushy, he'll sit in the middle, next to her. That's just creepy and very threatening. So it's things like that. __________________ email: [email protected]

06-04-2004, 09:25 PM	#30
Mr. Marks Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Wherever I want Posts: 7,517	men take on a threatening pose because its patterned in our genes. the more threatening, the better, to be able to protect the family and the offsprings. ever notice that an old, male dog constantly piss everywhere? matter of fact is, hes marking his territory coz hes gettin old. we do that, too. subconsciously and figuratively or otherwise. so no, unless were carrying three children who are hanging on to us, women will always find us threatening. in so many ways, women are, too. even worst than men, coz they are more subtle than we could ever hope to be.

06-04-2004, 10:17 PM	#31
emmanuelle Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Oh Canada! Posts: 3,662	I find men threatening in a different way lately. As I value my independence more & more, men in my dating pool are at an age where they're often looking to settle down. I find them needy and smothering, thus threatening the lifestyle that I enjoy very much. Funny how as men age, they want commitment; while at the same time that women start to value their space and independence.

06-04-2004, 10:38 PM	#33
pimplink Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Closer than you think Posts: 9,535	I think women almost always find men threatening...it's not always true that if you look like Brat Pitt they won't think you're threatening anymore. I mean, sometimes it works the other way around, like they would think you are threatening because you are hot..kinda make them feel that you are using your good looks to take advantage of them. Now if you are ugly, they would think you are assuming and be threatened and annoyed. Don't you just feel that with women, it's almost always a no-win situation? __________________ Need Mainstream Content and SEO? SEO * Website Copy * Blogs Blogging - PR Work - Forum Marketing - Social Marketing - Link building - Articles 100% Guaranteed Content!