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RicardoB · 05-22-2004, 03:28 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
just look at the threads here today. Did most of you not have sex ed classes in school?

Do I need to play Dr. Ruth and answer your questions or something?

Nah just post nudies we wil let our imagination do the rest

cayne · 05-22-2004, 03:31 PM

#51 answers.

winter · 05-22-2004, 03:31 PM

I got an AB in human sexuality 160 at UW-Madison

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 03:39 PM

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Originally posted by OzMan
Ok I just thought of a question if Dr Ruth is still in.

Compare and contrast the UK and the USA in regards to their attitudes toward sex, both on an individual level as well as the whole culture..... in 87 words or less

interesting question.

Well, I suppose I will take the whole culture thing first but no doubt it will blend with personal.

The UK and the US are flip sides of the same coin in many ways.

The US - in general - talk a lot but don't do much. This is something that has been backed up by recent surveys on the frequency of sexual relations. The US has a puritan core that not all that many people ever get that far away from. Sex is everywhere in theory but when it comes down to actually dealing with it suddenly people start to become a bit prudish. Of course, this is a general statment. However, look at the whole nipple at the superbowl thing. There is no problem with having people dance around in almost no clothing singing about sex and that is okay for family viewing but an actual nipple slips out and suddenly because it is real it is wrong.

The UK is the opposite way around. It is very reserved on the surface but if you poke around enough you start to see a very naughty underbelly to society. This is a very sexual culture but the idea is that you aren't suppose to let people see it. It is also a culture that has little in common with the actual rules in place for porn. On TV you can just about show anything these days (though, not as much as you can on mainland Europe..holy cow) but yet when it comes to video porn rules - while improving - are very puritanical but just about everyone knows that everyone has seen hardcore porn and very few people care. The 'news'papers here have naked women in them everyday and people don't make that much of a big deal about it. I think what I have noticed is that people here are able to seperate the naughty from the smutty and react accordingly.

However, when something is considered bad - ie pedophillia - the country suddenly develops a mob mentality that can be difficult to control.

Now, how this actually translates in my personal experience to the bedroom:

It is a bit unfair because I have been with more British guys than Americans (and I have been with a Kiwi too) but I have found that the British guys I have been with are not afraid to let themselves go in the bedroom and ask for the kinkier things. They will almost have a twinkle in their eye as they ask because they know it is 'naughty' or 'rude' and that is part of the thrill. Things like anal sex, with the guys I have been with, have been much less of a big deal.

I am sure it is partially the type of guys I go for anyway but there has been less of an air of machoness in the act and more of an attempt to make the woman the center of attention.

Now, it you like the ultra macho type - and a lot of gals do - then maybe that isn't a bonus

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 03:41 PM

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
Yes, can you tell me how to stay fit and trim like you?

and that has what to do with this topic? I am a BBW and I don't hide it. I have no shortage of offers as far as partners go.

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 03:43 PM

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Originally posted by cyberxxx
This forum is not about making sex. It's about making the MONEY. Do you feel the difference?

indeed but if you don't even understand what you are selling (especially in the fetish sector) then certainly that is a negative.

~Ray · 05-22-2004, 03:45 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
and that has what to do with this topic? I am a BBW and I don't hide it. I have no shortage of offers as far as partners go.

How are we supposed to take a sex ed teacher seriously when she looks like a big fluffy couch?

Jill_J · 05-22-2004, 03:55 PM

why do you think so?
I`d better say: you know too much.....

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 03:57 PM

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
How are we supposed to take a sex ed teacher seriously when she looks like a big fluffy couch?

some people like the big fluffy couch look..trust me and it has nothing to do with someone's knowledge of sexual practices. You think Dr. Ruth herself looks like the typical sex goddess ? ;)

OzMan · 05-22-2004, 03:58 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
interesting question.

Well, I suppose I will take the whole culture thing first but no doubt it will blend with personal.

The UK and the US are flip sides of the same coin in many ways.

The US - in general - talk a lot but don't do much. This is something that has been backed up by recent surveys on the frequency of sexual relations. The US has a puritan core that not all that many people ever get that far away from. Sex is everywhere in theory but when it comes down to actually dealing with it suddenly people start to become a bit prudish. Of course, this is a general statment. However, look at the whole nipple at the superbowl thing. There is no problem with having people dance around in almost no clothing singing about sex and that is okay for family viewing but an actual nipple slips out and suddenly because it is real it is wrong.

The UK is the opposite way around. It is very reserved on the surface but if you poke around enough you start to see a very naughty underbelly to society. This is a very sexual culture but the idea is that you aren't suppose to let people see it. It is also a culture that has little in common with the actual rules in place for porn. On TV you can just about show anything these days (though, not as much as you can on mainland Europe..holy cow) but yet when it comes to video porn rules - while improving - are very puritanical but just about everyone knows that everyone has seen hardcore porn and very few people care. The 'news'papers here have naked women in them everyday and people don't make that much of a big deal about it. I think what I have noticed is that people here are able to seperate the naughty from the smutty and react accordingly.

However, when something is considered bad - ie pedophillia - the country suddenly develops a mob mentality that can be difficult to control.

Now, how this actually translates in my personal experience to the bedroom:

It is a bit unfair because I have been with more British guys than Americans (and I have been with a Kiwi too) but I have found that the British guys I have been with are not afraid to let themselves go in the bedroom and ask for the kinkier things. They will almost have a twinkle in their eye as they ask because they know it is 'naughty' or 'rude' and that is part of the thrill. Things like anal sex, with the guys I have been with, have been much less of a big deal.

I am sure it is partially the type of guys I go for anyway but there has been less of an air of machoness in the act and more of an attempt to make the woman the center of attention.

Now, it you like the ultra macho type - and a lot of gals do - then maybe that isn't a bonus

Well said. I hadn't thought of that flip side analogy but it is true for the most part.

I love watching the "Banned in America" commercials which usually come from Europe or Australia and occasionally Japan.

Thank you.

~Ray · 05-22-2004, 04:01 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
some people like the big fluffy couch look..trust me and it has nothing to do with someone's knowledge of sexual practices. You think Dr. Ruth herself looks like the typical sex goddess ? ;)

Well, you're not 150 years old like she is... maybe she was a hottie back in the late 1800's

just a punk · 05-22-2004, 04:02 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
indeed but if you don't even understand what you are selling (especially in the fetish sector) then certainly that is a negative.

i'm not selling anything... i'm just making the money (see sig)

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
Well, you're not 150 years old like she is... maybe she was a hottie back in the late 1800's

lol perhaps... hottie is subjective. I have my fans and frankly could care less about other opnions. I have reasons for my size and if I spent my life caring what people that have no insight to those reasons think then frankly I would spend all my time as a basket case and not out having the healthy sex life that I do

smokingdawn · 05-22-2004, 04:10 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
just look at the threads here today. Did most of you not have sex ed classes in school?

Do I need to play Dr. Ruth and answer your questions or something?

LOL..so true

Elli · 05-22-2004, 04:18 PM

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Originally posted by cyberxxx
This forum is not about making sex. It's about making the MONEY. Do you feel the difference?

That's putting the cart before the horse, isn't it?

Step one: collect underpants

Step three: profit!

So, you collected the pictures, built your site, etc, but if you don't know how to present it in a way that turns surfers on and makes them want to see more, then you will not make the money. And to do this, a knowledge of the sexual drive would be very helpful, I would think.

Elli · 05-22-2004, 04:19 PM

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
How are we supposed to take a sex ed teacher seriously when she looks like a big fluffy couch?

Since when does a teacher's appearance have any bearing on his or her knowledge?

~Ray · 05-22-2004, 04:21 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
Since when does a teacher's appearance have any bearing on his or her knowledge?

I personally think that a hot sex ed teacher has had more opportunites to have sex than an ugly one. The more experience, the better the teacher..... there are just some things a book can't teach you.

learning a good approach is half the battle to having sex.

I'm not biased. I'm just a stupid realist.

merlin77 · 05-22-2004, 04:21 PM

oh yeah...teach away!

boyw_utr · 05-22-2004, 04:23 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
just look at the threads here today. Did most of you not have sex ed classes in school?

Do I need to play Dr. Ruth and answer your questions or something?

Do I need to play the guy who changed your mind about the majority of the guys here.....?!

I don't like talking about sex I'm more a action figure guy....
So come on over and I'll show you that sex's is something
you need to understand with your body and your soul

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
I personally think that a hot sex ed teacher has had more opportunites to have sex than an ugly one. The more experience, the better the teacher..... there are just some things a book can't teach you.

I'm not biased. I'm just a stupid realist.

hon, please trust me on the fact that I have had and continue to have pleanty of sex. I may not be 'hot' to you but trust me to others I am. I am a bisexual, smut merchant, bbw model (of the past..not these days) in an open marriage...trust me, I have sex in just about any combination you could think of that involves consenting adults.

Now, why so hostile and who are you again?

just a punk · 05-22-2004, 04:32 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
That's putting the cart before the horse, isn't it?

Step one: collect underpants

Step three: profit!

So, you collected the pictures, built your site, etc, but if you don't know how to present it in a way that turns surfers on and makes them want to see more, then you will not make the money. And to do this, a knowledge of the sexual drive would be very helpful, I would think.

Sorry Miss, but you are wrong... You don't have know thow anything about sex to sell the sites. The only thing you have to know is "how to get more quality targeting traffic". I have a few Shemale sites, but I never fucked a tranny. I have a couple of Gay traffic but I do like WOMEN and has never got sex with a man. I have a couple of Pissing sites, but I'm not a pee lover. I have lots of Granny/Mature sistes, but I'm not a gerantophile (hope it's spelled right

) and so on... However all my sites sell very well even on small and shitty traffic. The only thing I want to do better is the TRAFFIC GENERATION.

~Ray · 05-22-2004, 04:35 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
hon, please trust me on the fact that I have had and continue to have pleanty of sex. I may not be 'hot' to you but trust me to others I am. I am a bisexual, smut merchant, bbw model (of the past..not these days) in an open marriage...trust me, I have sex in just about any combination you could think of that involves consenting adults.

Now, why so hostile and who are you again?

actually, I meant a sex teacher in general. I've been quite careful as not to attack you personally.

Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cyberxxx
Sorry Miss, but you are wrong... You don't have know thow anything about sex to sell the sites. The only thing you have to know is "how to get more quality targeting traffic". I have a few Shemale sites, but I never fucked a tranny. I have a couple of Gay traffic but I do like WOMEN and has never got sex with a man. I have a couple of Pissing sites, but I'm not a pee lover. I have lots of Granny/Mature sistes, but I'm not a gerantophile (hope it's spelled right ) and so on... However all my sites sell very well even on small and shitty traffic. The only thing I want to do better is the TRAFFIC GENERATION.

ah but if you ran a fetish site, for example, it would be a lot easier than playing a numbers game because you would actually know what the surfer was looking yo buy. Plus, it isn't just about the inital sell but about the rebill.

OzMan · 05-22-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
actually, I meant a sex teacher in general. I've been quite careful as not to attack you personally.

I would hate to see you when you are being careless then if you call the following not personal.

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Yes, can you tell me how to stay fit and trim like you?

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How are we supposed to take a sex ed teacher seriously when she looks like a big fluffy couch?
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Sarah_Jayne · 05-22-2004, 05:18 PM

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Originally posted by OzMan
I would hate to see you when you are being careless then if you call the following not personal.

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Yes, can you tell me how to stay fit and trim like you?

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
How are we supposed to take a sex ed teacher seriously when she looks like a big fluffy couch?
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*shrug* anything he said to me just flows off my back...have to wonder why someone would be so defensive but *shrug*

Pornwolf · 05-22-2004, 05:20 PM

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Originally posted by KRL
So True! Please teach us everything we need to know Sarah!

~Ray · 05-22-2004, 05:37 PM

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Originally posted by OzMan
I would hate to see you when you are being careless then if you call the following not personal.

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex

Yes, can you tell me how to stay fit and trim like you?

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Originally posted by AdvertisingSex
How are we supposed to take a sex ed teacher seriously when she looks like a big fluffy couch?
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